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"They've become rarer & rarer, at least in my neck of the woods.
Has anyone else noticed this?I agree I have always gone straight to the main course x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They've become rarer & rarer, at least in my neck of the woods.
Has anyone else noticed this?"
I’m dead lucky 99.8% of my Fab Friebdships have started as a social. I think it’s important! Can’t just be giving address willy-nilly to all and sundry x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Organised socials tend to take place in swingers clubs a lot of the time.
No need to find a venue happy to host a bunch of folk that may well indulge in more adult conversation and who may dress a little more risque.
We helped organise one once at a non 'dress down' club. Yes - more than socialising may have occurred for some, but plenty just enjoyed a night of chat and banter.
So you may find them more common in larger cities than smaller towns.
Organising them isn't easy either. You still have to run a guest list and take responsibility for who's coming - else you run the risk of being held accountable should anything go tits up.
A good social is a great event though and worth travelling for.
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"They've become rarer & rarer, at least in my neck of the woods.
Has anyone else noticed this?I agree I have always gone straight to the main course x
Dinner is available here "
 I am always hungry x |
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"They've become rarer & rarer, at least in my neck of the woods.
Has anyone else noticed this?I agree I have always gone straight to the main course x
Dinner is available here I am always hungry x "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They've become rarer & rarer, at least in my neck of the woods.
Has anyone else noticed this?
Are you talking about mass event type socials or just one to one type of meets. "
Just meeting a fellow fabber for a coffee during the day or a drink in the evening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to love a social, used to have one or two a week when I was out & about with work.
I miss them.
That’s Cornwall for you!!! "
haha, whatcha saying?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They've become rarer & rarer, at least in my neck of the woods.
Has anyone else noticed this?I agree I have always gone straight to the main course x
Dinner is available here I am always hungry x
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I've offered endless amounts of socials to meet for a cuppa and chat in a public place for safety reasons ..but to no avail.makes me wonder how anyone gets to know someone to see if they click without a social |
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I tried to arrange a couple of socials the other week when I was childfree for a couple of days and failed to actually meet anybody! All the guys I liked either wanted a guarantee that there would be a shag after the drink, or at the last minute rainchecked on the pub and wanted to come to mine "with a bottle" instead 
Organised group socials and clubs really it is for me! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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We did one which led to an awful meet, pretty much ended the pre social meet for us, in-depth chat is enough. The organised, social, non play events around the country we're more than happy to attend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have never had a man say no to a social drink in a public place. I am sure many hoped something may happen after the drink, but nobody so far has ever been pushy or acted inappropriately.
Have had many vanish after agreeing to a time and date, but never a no show on the day. |
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