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What is the definition of exceptional single male?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male.... |
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
a single guy who actually is single ?
Maybe not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...
Most fall into the rather average bracket"
What’s the view like from Mardy Bum Towers ? |
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
It's a regular male who thinks putting the word "exceptional" on their profile will get them laid quicker and more often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s someone who engages your body and soul, also tall, dark and handsome and is magnetic in his personality and isn’t too bad at sheet tangling,,,  "
Ah well 1/6 ain't so bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on reading a lot of profiles on here, it neans you have to hit at least two of the following, though you really want four or more.
- Movie-star handsome
- Look like you spend four hours a day in the gym
- Cock like a rolling pin
- Black
- Bisexual
- Exactly the righr number, size and location of tattoos |
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"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs! "
It's depressing that this is exceptional. It should be bog standard (but I completely agree with you). |
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"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!
It's depressing that this is exceptional. It should be bog standard (but I completely agree with you). "
Isn’t that sort of ‘normal’ on here? Is it really that unusual? I’d have thought the majority would fit that fairly comfortably |
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"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!
It's depressing that this is exceptional. It should be bog standard (but I completely agree with you).
Isn’t that sort of ‘normal’ on here? Is it really that unusual? I’d have thought the majority would fit that fairly comfortably "
Lol no. My updates page is full of people offering or seeking drugs, my inbox full of demands that I meet right this second and do stuff I'm in no way up for with strangers if at all. The number of profiles which say "I know what soap is" is high, and I've met a guy who's verified as "smells amazing" among other things who uses bar soap and bog standard spray on deodorant (that's not a problem, but if that's amazing I shudder to think!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have to ask its not you well thats what I was told when I queried it.  "
Oh god, sounds like you had a harsh reply. Lol
So did u get a meet? Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it’s about having the whole package....
-Confident but not cocky.
- Handsome but not completely vein
- respectful and not pushy.
Large cock and good body is always a bonus.
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different."
It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...
Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?
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"I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different.
It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...
Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?
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Not everyone wants to be in a relationship? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different.
It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...
Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?
Not everyone wants to be in a relationship? "
I understand this...
I’m just trying to understand if someone is making demands for the exceptional single male, they should expect him to be attached in some way....
It would be like me asking for a hot supermodel and expecting her to be a virgin.....
I’ll like to add there are no right or wrong answers... this thread is just for everyone’s opinions.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs! "
All of those still cant get anyone to respond to messages lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been lucky enough to meet a few, but they are rare
What makes them stand out?
Reliable
Respectful
Can perform.... Repeatedly
Can hold conversation
Unselfish sexually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'd suggest one who prepares for a meet with a good shower and shave
one who wears smart trousers a shirt and polished shoes , not old jeans and trainers
one whos brushed his teeth cleaned and cut his nails , hands and feet and checked his ears lol
be on time polite and well mannered , buy a drink if in pub , ask the lady first , or take a bottle of her favourite wine .
Take condoms dont expect them to supply .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
One who looks half as good as he thinks he does and strings more than 10 words into multiple sentences in an opening message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's someone they think is exceptional.
I've seen women say they only meet exceptional men, then looked at who they have met and thought, meh."
That's very interesting point you make there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different.
It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...
Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?
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Because they like sex with multiple partners?
I don't believe in all that exceptional hoo ha any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different.
It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...
Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?
Because they like sex with multiple partners?
I don't believe in all that exceptional hoo ha any way. "
Yes I think your on to something.i need to pay attention to this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male....
It's a regular male who thinks putting the word "exceptional" on their profile will get them laid quicker and more often."
Haha! Accurate.  |
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Hmm... gym fit and toned body, attractive face, perfect balance between length n girth in his cock, personality is down to earth, they are funny with good banter. They are amazing in bed, with great stamina to go all night and they understand and get the lifestyle. So yeah, pretty much everything lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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one who wears smart trousers a shirt and polished shoes , not old jeans and trainers
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Because a good fitting pair of denim jeans, a well fitting t shirt and some spotlessly clean trainers looks so terrible compared to a cheap shirt, some chinos and a pair of loafers bought from Primark?
It goes without saying that anyone with a clue would go to some effort to be clean and presentable if they are attending a club or a meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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one who wears smart trousers a shirt and polished shoes , not old jeans and trainers
Because a good fitting pair of denim jeans, a well fitting t shirt and some spotlessly clean trainers looks so terrible compared to a cheap shirt, some chinos and a pair of loafers bought from Primark?
It goes without saying that anyone with a clue would go to some effort to be clean and presentable if they are attending a club or a meet. "
who mentioned cheap and primark...
ive seen plenty of lads turn up in tracky bottoms and trainers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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who mentioned cheap and primark...
ive seen plenty of lads turn up in tracky bottoms and trainers"
Only an idiot or a foolish child would think that tracksuit bottoms or a hooded sweatshirt is acceptable attire for trying to impress or going out to a club.
Trainers have come a long way from the days of scruffy plimsolls in a gym bag...they are top end fashion and perfect for smart casual dress. I know that any one pair of my vast amount of box fresh trainers are a lot smarter than that pair of brogues that you have been keeping in the back of your wardrobe for the last fifteen months.
Keep your polished shoes and slacks for your next visit to the golf club. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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who mentioned cheap and primark...
ive seen plenty of lads turn up in tracky bottoms and trainers
Only an idiot or a foolish child would think that tracksuit bottoms or a hooded sweatshirt is acceptable attire for trying to impress or going out to a club.
Trainers have come a long way from the days of scruffy plimsolls in a gym bag...they are top end fashion and perfect for smart casual dress. I know that any one pair of my vast amount of box fresh trainers are a lot smarter than that pair of brogues that you have been keeping in the back of your wardrobe for the last fifteen months.
Keep your polished shoes and slacks for your next visit to the golf club."
I get what you’re saying but what is your opinion of what a exceptional single male is? |
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
Think Mr Big from Sex and the City and you’re in there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
exceptional well that’s me bolloxed |
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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago
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"I have been lucky enough to meet a few, but they are rare
What makes them stand out?
Reliable
Respectful
Can perform.... Repeatedly
Can hold conversation
Unselfish sexually"
I'm here! Sorry thought you were describing me! lol my mistake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!
Wow I'm exceptional then!! "
Exactly. Exceptional means not of the norm; not typical and unusual.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!
Wow I'm exceptional then!!
Exactly. Exceptional means not of the norm; not typical and unusual.
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Ironically the exceptional that a lot of women state they looking for are probably not that exceptional. Exceptional in terms of good but not in terms of unusual.
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different.
It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...
Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?
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It’s not just couples or single females that say looking for exceptional, you can’t categorise like that, single guys put exceptional meets only on their profile but only they know what’s exceptional to them and some surprise me by what they consider to be exceptional but you just have to chance your arm or not bother, not worth stressing over that’s for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
Exceptional single male = We don't meet single males, However, if you are the type of guy who who walks into a nightclub and has 95% of the women drooling over you we will waiver our no single guys rule. |
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It's just a way of saying the ultimate fantasy guy.. one lady on here says she is very very picky.
The text went on forever 're wants.. she could have been miss world and I just could not be bothered to wade through it to find the guy she seeks must have symmetrical tattoos on both arms or something just as insane.
Women on her no matter how unattractive can fuck the best looking guys. It's a way of life on here ... just seek the lady and there are some who seek Mr nice and average |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's just a way of saying the ultimate fantasy guy.. one lady on here says she is very very picky.
The text went on forever 're wants.. she could have been miss world and I just could not be bothered to wade through it to find the guy she seeks must have symmetrical tattoos on both arms or something just as insane.
Women on her no matter how unattractive can fuck the best looking guys. It's a way of life on here ... just seek the lady and there are some who seek Mr nice and average"
Maybe because I’m in NYC and it’s no women here... but I love reading long profiles.....
The things people have asked for is mind boggling.... |
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Yep and sad.. but this is not a dating site and plenty of very good looking guys are willing upload on even the most plain lady. One meet and they are happy... What it does to the ladies confidence in the vanilla world is something to think on.
I wonder how many think the same guy would hit on them in a bar full of young beauties |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yep and sad.. but this is not a dating site and plenty of very good looking guys are willing upload on even the most plain lady. One meet and they are happy... What it does to the ladies confidence in the vanilla world is something to think on.
I wonder how many think the same guy would hit on them in a bar full of young beauties "
I respect your honesty but this comment will not turn out well for you....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep and sad.. but this is not a dating site and plenty of very good looking guys are willing upload on even the most plain lady. One meet and they are happy... What it does to the ladies confidence in the vanilla world is something to think on.
I wonder how many think the same guy would hit on them in a bar full of young beauties
I respect your honesty but this comment will not turn out well for you....
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I don't think it will help him much in this woman's world where we are in the candy store and ONLY the best sweets will do.
Can you tell I'm on low carb ... I'm using sweets as an example...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Going back to exceptional... To me it's someone who is attractive in my eyes, someone who is respectful of my relationship and speaks to trim to gain his consent before trying to lead me away to a room and doesn't try to get anything more than what's on offer, a play in the club at the time we are there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...
Most fall into the rather average bracket"
I guess that most would, what with that being the definition of average... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Going back to exceptional... To me it's someone who is attractive in my eyes, someone who is respectful of my relationship and speaks to trim to gain his consent before trying to lead me away to a room and doesn't try to get anything more than what's on offer, a play in the club at the time we are there.
Eski"
If that’s all it takes.... I might have a chance |
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From what I have seen and what other women/couples have told me:
* Gym fit (athletic build)
* Good looking (subjective of course)
* VWE
* Verified
* Confident (but not arrogant)
* Tall (6ft+)
* Dresses and smells good
* Good and unselfish performer when it comes down to business
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
You bigboy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet straight single males, through my choice in case people think I'm a poor victim to the Monkey's non-existent insecurities, so my definition of an exceptional single male is, one I would be prepared to make an exception to that rule for...hope that helps
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One that arranges to pick you up in his private jet flys you to Dubai for dinner flys you home and never once try’s it on lol lol
Mrs comments not mine lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....
Before I throw my hat into the ring....
I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male.... You bigboy"
No way , you must be talking about yourself and Mr. White |
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