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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies just a quick question but do you mind younger men contacting you, or in hinsight do you feel that younger men actually just waste your time???
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I would think those ladies that have an age range that includes younger men would welcome the right kind of contact from them and will then decide whether they want to take things further or not.
Those that don't specify younger probably wouldn't in most cases  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I may have married a sexy older guy and don't mind older guys in couples...but when I am allowed to look for a single guy to be greedy with, I prefer them younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love older ladies and have had some very good meets and stuff with older women so there are definately women out there that do 
Although I am fairly bottom of the scale compared to the other ‘younger’ guys on this feed. Not everyone’s cup of tea but I have had some good fun with older women while I’ve been on and off this site. I love it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve messaged women in the past with age limits set to my age but have received messages that ‘men your age just waste time’!
So I just thought I’d open a discussion and see what others thought on the subject.
But it’s certainly a breath of fresh air to see many do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep my filters on 35+ for this reason.. no attraction for me. "
Well damn, missed out by a year  
And probably 50 more preferences 
But still that 1 year... Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends how young you mean. I dont mind younger, but too much yonger and I'd unlikely reply. I wouldnt see it as wasting my time though. They'd be wasting theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep my filters on 35+ for this reason.. no attraction for me.
Well damn, missed out by a year
And probably 50 more preferences
But still that 1 year... Haha"
Ha ha only recently upped it to reduce messages. I've plenty more things that put people off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep my filters on 35+ for this reason.. no attraction for me.
Well damn, missed out by a year
And probably 50 more preferences
But still that 1 year... Haha
Ha ha only recently upped it to reduce messages. I've plenty more things that put people off "
Oh I don't know about that, gorgeous body and a very interesting profile to read. Not off putting at all!
Remind me in a few months haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep my filters on 35+ for this reason.. no attraction for me.
Well damn, missed out by a year
And probably 50 more preferences
But still that 1 year... Haha
Ha ha only recently upped it to reduce messages. I've plenty more things that put people off
Oh I don't know about that, gorgeous body and a very interesting profile to read. Not off putting at all!
Remind me in a few months haha"
Ha ha god it's not that strict!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep my filters on 35+ for this reason.. no attraction for me.
Well damn, missed out by a year
And probably 50 more preferences
But still that 1 year... Haha
Ha ha only recently upped it to reduce messages. I've plenty more things that put people off
Oh I don't know about that, gorgeous body and a very interesting profile to read. Not off putting at all!
Remind me in a few months haha
Ha ha god it's not that strict!! "
I'm just teasing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always found if i want just sex, younger blokes are good, but for more of a connection and a more regular meet, around my age group is better. I'm at the age where a connection is more important. Obviously there are exceptions, but ive not found them yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind young guys contacting me.
Used to have a age limit, but met a stud 10 years younger and gave him and myself a chance He was brilliant. Never want to miss out on an opportunity again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it’s the connection and eye candy that counts and I’ve just started dating a guy quite a bit younger than me. Age is a state of mind, and it’s where you meet in the middle that counts x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, it’s the connection and eye candy that counts and I’ve just started dating a guy quite a bit younger than me. Age is a state of mind, and it’s where you meet in the middle that counts x"
eye candy aye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've actually been totally put off really young guys since being on here and keep raising my lower limit! Just prefer more of a connection and less selfishness now ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies just a quick question but do you mind younger men contacting you, or in hinsight do you feel that younger men actually just waste your time???
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Yes, all chat and then no show. |
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I’m happy to meet guys down to about 25. Below that I’ve yet to chat with anyone who came across as mature enough to meet and a couple of months ago I put my filters on based on that age.
I was switched on at that age, doing a responsible job and managing others - so no issues with people with similar outlooks on life. |
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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago
Not in f’kin London! |
"I have a hotel meet planned for Monday with someone half my age. So excited as he is handsome and i resisted after months of chat."
Resistance teaches them patience and positive persistence.
All the p’s 
Have a fab time fucking x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a hotel meet planned for Monday with someone half my age. So excited as he is handsome and i resisted after months of chat."
Well I would say he’s evenly as excited because you’re gorgeous |
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel "
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a hotel meet planned for Monday with someone half my age. So excited as he is handsome and i resisted after months of chat.
How did it go"
Ffs Bit nosey pal is she expected to tell you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think."
Yes but half of the hotel might have been too much money for him....
He might have been embarrassed to tell you ....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think.
Yes but half of the hotel might have been too much money for him....
He might have been embarrassed to tell you ....
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So she was expected to pay for the hotel just coz he was embarrassed to say he couldnt afford it?? Nah no way like the woman said all talk |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think.
Yes but half of the hotel might have been too much money for him....
He might have been embarrassed to tell you ....
So she was expected to pay for the hotel just coz he was embarrassed to say he couldnt afford it?? Nah no way like the woman said all talk"
Agree though, probably was just the guy who talks but can't walk...
what's the practical way of going halves on hotel booking? i've only met in hotel when hotel was booked for either my own or her own travel reasons with the meet just being a convenient bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve messaged women in the past with age limits set to my age but have received messages that ‘men your age just waste time’!
So I just thought I’d open a discussion and see what others thought on the subject.
But it’s certainly a breath of fresh air to see many do! "
Don't understand why the younger ones waste time - that could be any age group in my opinion. |
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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago
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Becky always prefers younger guys when meeting solo or for us as a threesome.
But they tend to be more unreliable.
Had a 20 yr old guy from Montpellier coming to see us a week or two ago. Exchanged pics, but flaked out an hour before.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It probably is based on some younger lads do waste peoples time, but when you have the few who genuinely want to meet but as we are classed as time wasters or the perception is that we will not show up. Makes it hard to find someone to meet. We might not be as experienced as some older people but if you don’t give us a try then how will we gain this valuable experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It probably is based on some younger lads do waste peoples time, but when you have the few who genuinely want to meet but as we are classed as time wasters or the perception is that we will not show up. Makes it hard to find someone to meet. We might not be as experienced as some older people but if you don’t give us a try then how will we gain this valuable experience"
The same way we did! By marrying someone we were not emotionally or sexually compatible with and having crap sex until we couldn't take it anymore! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It probably is based on some younger lads do waste peoples time, but when you have the few who genuinely want to meet but as we are classed as time wasters or the perception is that we will not show up. Makes it hard to find someone to meet. We might not be as experienced as some older people but if you don’t give us a try then how will we gain this valuable experience
The same way we did! By marrying someone we were not emotionally or sexually compatible with and having crap sex until we couldn't take it anymore! "
Oh fair enough, well you did the best thing for you which is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think.
Yes but half of the hotel might have been too much money for him....
He might have been embarrassed to tell you ....
So she was expected to pay for the hotel just coz he was embarrassed to say he couldnt afford it?? Nah no way like the woman said all talk"
You see this is the point I get lost with this whole cougar/cub nonsense.....
I’m 31 and if I date a 18-19 year old woman...
how much money do I expect a University freshman to have? None or very little
So if I choose to be with her , I know I will have to financially support every activity we do...
So why is it different for a 50 year old woman , dating a 25 year old man?
You want to show independence and freedom of choice by dating younger men... unless these younger men come from wealthy backgrounds .... they will not be able to support a older woman’s lifestyle......
You can’t have it both ways.....
Can you imagine a 50 year old man dating a 25 year old woman and asking her to chip in half of the household bills?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies just a quick question but do you mind younger men contacting you, or in hinsight do you feel that younger men actually just waste your time???
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So long as they're within.y filters happy to have younger men contact me |
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think.
Yes but half of the hotel might have been too much money for him....
He might have been embarrassed to tell you ....
So she was expected to pay for the hotel just coz he was embarrassed to say he couldnt afford it?? Nah no way like the woman said all talk
You see this is the point I get lost with this whole cougar/cub nonsense.....
I’m 31 and if I date a 18-19 year old woman...
how much money do I expect a University freshman to have? None or very little
So if I choose to be with her , I know I will have to financially support every activity we do...
So why is it different for a 50 year old woman , dating a 25 year old man?
You want to show independence and freedom of choice by dating younger men... unless these younger men come from wealthy backgrounds .... they will not be able to support a older woman’s lifestyle......
You can’t have it both ways.....
Can you imagine a 50 year old man dating a 25 year old woman and asking her to chip in half of the household bills?
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The guy in question was 27 and worked full time in a better paid job than mine. I checked with him before booking hotel and all was fine. I believe nobody on Fab should be out of pocket and all costs halved no matter what the age or sex.
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"It probably is based on some younger lads do waste peoples time, but when you have the few who genuinely want to meet but as we are classed as time wasters or the perception is that we will not show up. Makes it hard to find someone to meet. We might not be as experienced as some older people but if you don’t give us a try then how will we gain this valuable experience"
You're right of course, but we keep trying to arrange meets with young guys.
We haven't given up, but our experience is similar to others. The younger ones are less likely to show up....
Come on guys, where are you....??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with above. When looking for single guys I prefer younger...but have had loads of messing about and no shows. I understand there are exceptions to the rule and I'm sure there are some genuine ones....but like others we can only go on previous experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It probably is based on some younger lads do waste peoples time, but when you have the few who genuinely want to meet but as we are classed as time wasters or the perception is that we will not show up. Makes it hard to find someone to meet. We might not be as experienced as some older people but if you don’t give us a try then how will we gain this valuable experience
You're right of course, but we keep trying to arrange meets with young guys.
We haven't given up, but our experience is similar to others. The younger ones are less likely to show up....
Come on guys, where are you....??
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here but far away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think.
Yes but half of the hotel might have been too much money for him....
He might have been embarrassed to tell you ....
So she was expected to pay for the hotel just coz he was embarrassed to say he couldnt afford it?? Nah no way like the woman said all talk
You see this is the point I get lost with this whole cougar/cub nonsense.....
I’m 31 and if I date a 18-19 year old woman...
how much money do I expect a University freshman to have? None or very little
So if I choose to be with her , I know I will have to financially support every activity we do...
So why is it different for a 50 year old woman , dating a 25 year old man?
You want to show independence and freedom of choice by dating younger men... unless these younger men come from wealthy backgrounds .... they will not be able to support a older woman’s lifestyle......
You can’t have it both ways.....
Can you imagine a 50 year old man dating a 25 year old woman and asking her to chip in half of the household bills?
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Well I want to fuck younger men, not date them, nor any other men tbf. Plus I even if I did want to date, anybody, I don't need them to support my lifestyle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He got cold feet and cancelled. Just my luck lol.
No it wasn’t personal, he probably couldn’t afford the hotel
He was only paying 1/2 and he said it was fine when i booked it. Just another guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk i think.
Yes but half of the hotel might have been too much money for him....
He might have been embarrassed to tell you ....
So she was expected to pay for the hotel just coz he was embarrassed to say he couldnt afford it?? Nah no way like the woman said all talk
You see this is the point I get lost with this whole cougar/cub nonsense.....
I’m 31 and if I date a 18-19 year old woman...
how much money do I expect a University freshman to have? None or very little
So if I choose to be with her , I know I will have to financially support every activity we do...
So why is it different for a 50 year old woman , dating a 25 year old man?
You want to show independence and freedom of choice by dating younger men... unless these younger men come from wealthy backgrounds .... they will not be able to support a older woman’s lifestyle......
You can’t have it both ways.....
Can you imagine a 50 year old man dating a 25 year old woman and asking her to chip in half of the household bills?
Well I want to fuck younger men, not date them, nor any other men tbf. Plus I even if I did want to date, anybody, I don't need them to support my lifestyle "
You’re the exception not the rule |
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Age isn’t an issue for me but I’d feel like a younger man wouldn’t be able to satisfy me the way I like because I’d lack of experience. I can’t be bothered at my age to teach a bloke what I like lol. 30+ for me unless you’ve got proven skill |
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By *andJDubaiCouple
over a year ago
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"Ladies just a quick question but do you mind younger men contacting you, or in hinsight do you feel that younger men actually just waste your time???
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Young gents certainly work for us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My age limit (when it's shown lol) is actually higher on here than in life ... this is just due to the fact that I find men on here to be more immature (sorry but I am generalising before I get pounced upon!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know about this, I’m sorry to say that my age ranges are probably a bit prejudice but are based on experience. I like the idea of a younger guy but experience has taught me that the idea does not live up to the reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t know about this, I’m sorry to say that my age ranges are probably a bit prejudice but are based on experience. I like the idea of a younger guy but experience has taught me that the idea does not live up to the reality "
It's just the few spoiling it for the majority |
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