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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, I work at a hospital and when I'm walking through the corridors or wards I often look around at staff sometimes patients and think I wonder if they swing or if they know I swing.
so my question to horny peeps out there is. Do you know someone at your work place who swings or do they know you swing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, I work at a hospital and when I'm walking through the corridors or wards I often look around at staff sometimes patients and think I wonder if they swing or if they know I swing.
so my question to horny peeps out there is. Do you know someone at your work place who swings or do they know you swing?
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Numerous at my work place, I know they do, not sure they know I do, bit of a give away that they do when you spot them on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, I work at a hospital and when I'm walking through the corridors or wards I often look around at staff sometimes patients and think I wonder if they swing or if they know I swing.
so my question to horny peeps out there is. Do you know someone at your work place who swings or do they know you swing?
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Nope, never would tell anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came out as a swinger shortly after my accident, in the online blog that I write. And my work colleagues, including my manager, have read it. I haven't been back to work yet as my knee is still not healed fully, but I'm quite sure I might get some questions. Or they may just forget about it by the time I get back to work... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think unless your in a profession apart from teaching etc I think you’ll be ok. I know a teacher that got sacked as he would bring embarrassment to the school if they found out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"that's actually a good idea! but what if they don't location on
Op even if they did swing would you want to with them? "
I'm actually not sure if i would swing with them, i think it would be good just getting to know them like casual friends maybe go out to a club or for drinks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I came out as a swinger shortly after my accident, in the online blog that I write. And my work colleagues, including my manager, have read it. I haven't been back to work yet as my knee is still not healed fully, but I'm quite sure I might get some questions. Or they may just forget about it by the time I get back to work... "
are you nervous about what they will think or say when you go back to work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came out as a swinger shortly after my accident, in the online blog that I write. And my work colleagues, including my manager, have read it. I haven't been back to work yet as my knee is still not healed fully, but I'm quite sure I might get some questions. Or they may just forget about it by the time I get back to work...
are you nervous about what they will think or say when you go back to work?"
No, I'm not. I'd rather they knew. I don't care what they are thinking about me, but I'm not doing anything illegal. |
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I work from a fairly large business estate and when I've looked online on my mobile there are frequently quite a few within a quarter to a half a mile. i wish they could get the mobile app down to say 20 feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think unless your in a profession apart from teaching etc I think you’ll be ok. I know a teacher that got sacked as he would bring embarrassment to the school if they found out. "
Get that man a lawyer. Sacked for something in their private life that does not impact on their ability to perform the role? ££££ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit late to the conversation but...Clyde works alongside someone who participates in the swinging scene, whilst we would never meet the person he enjoys having someone he can talk to about it.
I work within a team of females who express their disgust quite often about people who do not have monogamous relationships. Therefore by being open about it I would be the target of the bitching and nastiness that I witness daily.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, I work at a hospital and when I'm walking through the corridors or wards I often look around at staff sometimes patients and think I wonder if they swing or if they know I swing.
so my question to horny peeps out there is. Do you know someone at your work place who swings or do they know you swing?
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My boss, co workers and the entire building site knows I swing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, I work at a hospital and when I'm walking through the corridors or wards I often look around at staff sometimes patients and think I wonder if they swing or if they know I swing.
so my question to horny peeps out there is. Do you know someone at your work place who swings or do they know you swing?
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All my colleagues and both bosses know I swing. I own that shit, but am less confident about my sexuality or dressing, that's on lock down.
They're all very accepting about it, but they're quite open minded and honest about their own lives and we're all friends. It's a great place to work.
I never show pics or say names, not even with other swingers, I'm quite private about major details like that, I'd hate to be disrespected in the same way.
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Many, many years ago - in the late 1960's - I worked in an office in London in the gap period between leaving school and going to Uni. The manager of the section in which I worked was a swinger - he and his wife organised parties using contact magazines. It was common knowledge in the office - I was curious so I asked him about it - and so he invited me and my girlfriend to go So we went and had such a great time that we went a number of times - much to my surprise my girlfriend turned out to be a "greedy girl". It set me on the swinging lifestyle road for the rest of my life! |
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"I think unless your in a profession apart from teaching etc I think you’ll be ok. I know a teacher that got sacked as he would bring embarrassment to the school if they found out.
Get that man a lawyer. Sacked for something in their private life that does not impact on their ability to perform the role? ££££"
Then show that lawyer his contract which will probably have a clause in it about bringing the employees name into disrepute or a morality clause under which the employer would be protected.
Lots of things don't affect the way you do your job but form part of the terms and conditions of it. Acting outside of those runs the risk of you getting the sack. |
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A guy I managed once same up to me at work and commented how busy the club I was in the night before was. I didn't see him as I was 'busy' at the time.
Where I work now I know there are a lot of people on here but being professional means being discrete.
You don't shit where you eat and you don't fuck where you work. |
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I know exactly what you mean, I often do the same and find myself constantly asking if that person or that couple swing etc.... sometimes it makes my day go a lot faster lol and when I’m feeling cheeky enjoy putting on who’s near me just as a nice little tease lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know exactly what you mean, I often do the same and find myself constantly asking if that person or that couple swing etc.... sometimes it makes my day go a lot faster lol and when I’m feeling cheeky enjoy putting on who’s near me just as a nice little tease lol xx"
its true it does make the day go faster and I'm going try putting on who's near me on Monday lol see who's about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Many, many years ago - in the late 1960's - I worked in an office in London in the gap period between leaving school and going to Uni. The manager of the section in which I worked was a swinger - he and his wife organised parties using contact magazines. It was common knowledge in the office - I was curious so I asked him about it - and so he invited me and my girlfriend to go So we went and had such a great time that we went a number of times - much to my surprise my girlfriend turned out to be a "greedy girl". It set me on the swinging lifestyle road for the rest of my life! "
Haha your girlfriend is funny. does anyone know you swing at work now? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im lucky i get to know everyone who swings as i work at cupids so being behind the bar but i do wonder if i see someone in the street"
I Know what you mean I Dj Xtasia so see everyone coming and going and when I go out I also wonder if they swingers |
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"Many, many years ago - in the late 1960's - I worked in an office in London in the gap period between leaving school and going to Uni. The manager of the section in which I worked was a swinger - he and his wife organised parties using contact magazines. It was common knowledge in the office - I was curious so I asked him about it - and so he invited me and my girlfriend to go So we went and had such a great time that we went a number of times - much to my surprise my girlfriend turned out to be a "greedy girl". It set me on the swinging lifestyle road for the rest of my life!
Haha your girlfriend is funny. does anyone know you swing at work now?"
I retired 12 years ago! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. Client of mine viewed my profile. I discovered this but then couple of days later I’m visiting the client.
He never used to acknowledge me until after discovering I’m clearly a filthy bastard lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is one guy who does have him blocked!
Many years ago on a previous site I got contacted by two people I work with who didn’t realise it was me and had trouble in chatting to them for a while due to the photos they sent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also work in a hospital and when attending a social I was suddenly faced with a female colleague and her husband. After the initial shock at first we then just chatted openly about it and i of course told her not to worry as it's a given that I would never mention anything and would continue to Ben professional at all times
It's just respect at the end of the day.
They often have a laugh via messages on here and there's absolutely no harm done |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There is one guy who does have him blocked!
Many years ago on a previous site I got contacted by two people I work with who didn’t realise it was me and had trouble in chatting to them for a while due to the photos they sent "
haha did you get flash backs of there pics as you where talking to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you look at ;who is near : it will only state within half a mile
no closer than that
you will never locate them
It's actually quarter of a mile." u can get down to walking distance and touching distance on other sites |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if you look at ;who is near : it will only state within half a mile
no closer than that
you will never locate them
It's actually quarter of a mile.u can get down to walking distance and touching distance on other sites"
Do you think that's to close being able to get down to walking distance maybe touching distance?
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"if you look at ;who is near : it will only state within half a mile
no closer than that
you will never locate them
It's actually quarter of a mile.u can get down to walking distance and touching distance on other sites"
No problem as far as I can see. |
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