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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only for the extremes, but like to go with the flow rather than have a plan! X"
I've been invited to have 3sums but always afraid one or the other would get jealous. |
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By *2troubleCouple
over a year ago
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"Only for the extremes, but like to go with the flow rather than have a plan! X
I've been invited to have 3sums but always afraid one or the other would get jealous. "
They shouldn't do unless you are only meeting to have fun with one of them. If you're all involved it's lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Only for the extremes, but like to go with the flow rather than have a plan! X
I've been invited to have 3sums but always afraid one or the other would get jealous.
They shouldn't do unless you are only meeting to have fun with one of them. If you're all involved it's lovely x"
I was chatting to a couple that wanted me to meet them. Sometimes he would be online and other times her. I got the feeling that she was less into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When entering into a 3sum do you have rules about what does and doesn't happen during the 3sum?"
Personally I'd like to think I don't need any. I can read body language. I do always ask if there is anything they don't like, so I know to avoid doing it.
When someone starts a long list of exactly what they do and don't want to hapen and in what order. I get bored and move on.
I prefer to learn these things as we go together.. the not knowing is part of the excitement for me. |
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By *2troubleCouple
over a year ago
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"Only for the extremes, but like to go with the flow rather than have a plan! X
I've been invited to have 3sums but always afraid one or the other would get jealous.
They shouldn't do unless you are only meeting to have fun with one of them. If you're all involved it's lovely x
I was chatting to a couple that wanted me to meet them. Sometimes he would be online and other times her. I got the feeling that she was less into it. "
That is a bit of a warning sign, but it's hard to read people's personalities from messages. But then every meeting is a risk and an adventure, and there's only one way to find out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Only for the extremes, but like to go with the flow rather than have a plan! X
I've been invited to have 3sums but always afraid one or the other would get jealous.
They shouldn't do unless you are only meeting to have fun with one of them. If you're all involved it's lovely x
I was chatting to a couple that wanted me to meet them. Sometimes he would be online and other times her. I got the feeling that she was less into it.
That is a bit of a warning sign, but it's hard to read people's personalities from messages. But then every meeting is a risk and an adventure, and there's only one way to find out"
This is so very true  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just go with the flow, if someone is doing something you don't like, just ask them not too  generally swinging is actually quite a good laugh, don't stress and enjoy yourself xx |
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"When entering into a 3sum do you have rules about what does and doesn't happen during the 3sum?"
Depends if your the 3rd person with couple just make sure it’s the women who are the priority as hubby may or may not realise his Mrs is still alive and actually in the room ????
Brings back horrible memories and experience had over time
Mate your Mrs is absolutely steeming and please no more drink for her !!
Ye mate she will be fine In abit so get stuck in and I will start with your Mrs the now ???? get out ... not wanting to put off folk but drink for the nerves .... so ... Have a great time ???? |
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"Only for the extremes, but like to go with the flow rather than have a plan! X
I've been invited to have 3sums but always afraid one or the other would get jealous.
They shouldn't do unless you are only meeting to have fun with one of them. If you're all involved it's lovely x
I was chatting to a couple that wanted me to meet them. Sometimes he would be online and other times her. I got the feeling that she was less into it. "
Whenever we've been looking for a girl to join us, we try to ensure that the girls meet alone for a social first of all to make sure there's a click between the two of them. They may even decide to meet for more on their own, to make sure they're fully compatible.
The reality is, so long as they like the look of the extra girl, most men are going to be in to an MFF 3sum almost regardless, so from our perspective it's more important that there is a connection between the girls first and in doing so should avoid any feelings of jealousy developing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why do people get the girls to meet first...When we meet it's more likely I don't like the guy. You need to all meet to check you all click. Usually it's the male female attraction that is less likely
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"I think it's wise to discuss hard limits and absolute no no's in advance so everyone is clear, then you go into it knowing what is acceptable and can then go with the flow. "
Spot on. Limits have to be set beforehand. Dos and donts discussed so everyone is reading off the same page and no awkward situations arise. |
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