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Personally we’re not interested in fuck buddy couples. I know it sounds odd, as it’s difficult to prove anything on here but we feel that a buddy couple wouldn’t have true empathy with a long term committed couple. Plus, we’ve been duped in the past with fake ‘long term’ couples, easy to spot because they’re impossible to pin down for a meet of any sorts due to free time being even more limited as both of them need to be free at the same time. Also, we like to group chat on kik, which is also painful when the couple are not together at that time. All in all, fuck buddy couples are just not for us sadly.
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For us we like to know the other couple are as invested in their relationship as we are in ours and they can understand the respect we have for each other not a dislike of each other and only doing this to fuck other people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't understand the title. Now I do. Learned something. Awesome.
I've never been in a swinging relationship, though I'd dearly love to know if I am made of the stuff that'd make a relationship like that work.
I don't think I would want to meet a faux-couple, if I were swinging with my romantic partner. As things stand, a huge part of the draw towards meeting couples is that I enjoy observing the dynamic. I've been married, have children and share a lot of the same issues and problems outside of Fab.
As a singleton I'll happily meet a faux-couple, their dynamic is just as interesting in a different way. Though I'd feel less confident and assured that no dramas will result from it.
The difference being, they aren't in the same boat. In that situation I feel as though I'd want mutual attraction all round where it matters. Equality in what is being risked and how it makes you feel about your relationship together. All four people should hopefully feel an instant shared empathy for the situation you may be about to put yourselves in.
Like ritual humiliation. It's a bonding experience |
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Never cared whether they were real , long term , married or any of that . Swinging is just a hobby for us , so the dynamic of the relationship status of those who we were playing with never even occurred to us .
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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Not interested. Could be fake, could be repercussions from partners if playing away, probably logistics problems with them having to organise their diaries, and lastly just no pint as there are lots of regular couples around and we aren’t even getting to the ones on our hotlist we haven’t met yet! |
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"So what are people thoughts about the above " when I was on as a couple we found that fb couples often knew each other just as well. We started off as one but became a real couple.
The only issue comes when it's cheats etc. If they were together and both single then it wouldn't be an issue .. on fact as a single lady I think I'd find it better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all fuck buddies don't have respect for one another and don't enjoy each others company. We spend plenty of time alone.as tag teaming we are a very good team sexually alone and together we just are not in a relationship stage of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuine couples only. I have plenty of single friends I could buddy up with for more sums! You can't get the same experience as you do with a genuine loving couple. It's very flattering to be invited into their world. |
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Yeah we only meet genuine couples too. As everyone has said, the connection between them isn't the same.
One of the great things about joining a couple is seeing their connection with each other and feeding from the energy they have together. Buddies don't have that and it's very easy to spot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all fuck buddies don't have respect for one another and don't enjoy each others company. We spend plenty of time alone.as tag teaming we are a very good team sexually alone and together we just are not in a relationship stage of life "
Yes, that's true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both myself and (slimtease) are FWB
We used to be a couple and had a cpls profile for a while on here, but sadly things didn't work out for us so we parted ways
I still enjoy having him by my side and everyone always compliment us on our chemistry and confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would make a difference between fuck buddies and FWBs. I'd assume that FWBs have some sort of connection/friendship, maybe some history together, while fuck buddies not interested in each other in any way unless they're horny... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both myself and (slimtease) are FWB
We used to be a couple and had a cpls profile for a while on here, but sadly things didn't work out for us so we parted ways
I still enjoy having him by my side and everyone always compliment us on our chemistry and confidence "
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