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Women who crave very rough sex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I've come across a few verifications where its obvious the woman gets turned on by rough multiple guy use, often bareback (I don't mean GB's, I mean really hard use).
The profiles don't always reflect that is what they are after. So, I was wondering how many women in fact crave that and why they enjoy that kind of severe fucking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got to have the trust there. A bit of choking and spanking. Hair pulling. Flogging. Biting. Bruising.
Trouble is with the 50 shades of shit a lot of guys want to just ignore any boundaries so I don't say anything about it now. If they ask what I like it's just sex. |
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I think women tend to be a little discreet about what they like on their profiles. It can be treated as a bit of a menu by some guys.
For me, the things I ask for depend very much on the relationship with the individual. It can be very, very different depending on the person.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because one likes rough play that doesn’t mean one likes rough play with everyone and anyone...?
Therefore I certainly wouldn’t mention it on my profile.
If it happens organically within a date, with both parties being equally into the moment, great!
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"I can and do do rough play if that's what the woman wants. But if that's what she wants all the time then I'm out. Not into people with deep rooted psychological issues."
So does that follow for everyone who enjoys sex which is outside the norm?
Such as
Bondage
Domination
Swinging?
Very strange thing to say I think.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rough play has to go alongside well-established trust and responsibility. Therefore, it's unlikely to be found on public profiles, but saved for intimate knowledge much further down the line.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to have the trust there.(...)Trouble is with the 50 shades of shit a lot of guys want to just ignore any boundaries so I don't say anything about it now. If they ask what I like it's just sex. "
Exactly that! Some guys are all sweet and innocent, plain vanilla on the first meet, then suddenly they change their tune and start believing every woman likes rough sex! Which is not the case. I absolutely hate having my hair pulled or my face slapped, but do like a bit of spanking- only with someone I trust.
Also, I met a wannabe Dom who, even though we talked about all my boundaries, and he reassured me beforehand he would respect them, got hold of my cane as soon as he walked in, smacked me with it a couple of times, nearly made me cry, not with pain as much as with frustration. I kicked him out almost immediately, and don't meet any other Doms, no matter how well established.
Also, I agree with one of the comments above, that if you do put anything on your profile to suggest you're into rough sex, you'd be getting so many weird messages. Thanks, but no, thanks. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I can and do do rough play if that's what the woman wants. But if that's what she wants all the time then I'm out. Not into people with deep rooted psychological issues.
So does that follow for everyone who enjoys sex which is outside the norm?
Such as
Bondage
Domination
Swinging?
Very strange thing to say I think. "
This BDSM was considered a mental illness till not long ago. |
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I do like an assertive guy and been pulled in different positions while being fucked hard but NOT into hair pulling, whipping, bruising etc
However I like a mix of hard and rampant with soft and sensual |
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"I can and do do rough play if that's what the woman wants. But if that's what she wants all the time then I'm out. Not into people with deep rooted psychological issues.
So does that follow for everyone who enjoys sex which is outside the norm?
Such as
Bondage
Domination
Swinging?
Very strange thing to say I think. "
I specifically mentioned women who want rough sex ALL the time. So no, it doesn't include the other forms of sexual release you decided to add. Well, actually, one of them if practised as a way of life could be included too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a good hard fucking. The harder and sluttier the better. I lose myself in rough sex where I’m dominated and psssed around for more cock. xx"
* high five to that! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes like hard, animalistic sex on a even level where we are both rough with eachother. I am not submissive but enjoy some things associated with being so. I like a hand squeezing my throat, being spanked, my hair pulled. Not from men that think they are "dominant" or "alpha male" though   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have thought most don't advertise the fact due to attracting complete morons that don't get it..."
That's exactly it for me, when organising a meet, we go through on what we expect and want from the meet. That's when I bring up what I'm wanting.
I once stated I liked it rough on fetlife, and I got a guy asking to wrap him up in barb wire and poo on him... LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a good hard fucking. The harder and sluttier the better. I lose myself in rough sex where I’m dominated and psssed around for more cock. xx
* high five to that! X"
*high five-ing also*  |
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I had a fuck buddy few years ago who loved me fucking her hard, then she got with a guy, and she told me how good the sex was, and showed me her bruises on her tits and arse. Said shed never tried it till him but loves it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rough sex is ok with trust
I think most women like some aspect of roughness
Gripping hair light scratching,A
Hand to the throat is a powerful gesture that the person is yours might be just in that moment but you both know it,
Use of bindings blind folds etc demand absolute trust the vulnerability in the act is very real
Personally enjoy being a dom and taking roughness that bit further with pain, a meaningful lashing with a belt isn't for everyone but some get wet even orgasm from it, excites the fuck out of me doing it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Adore rough....but as so many have said, it’s a trust thing. Hubby introduced me to it and I can’t get enough. A man that takes control is a huge turn on. An even bigger turn on is a man that knows when enough is enough |
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"I can and do do rough play if that's what the woman wants. But if that's what she wants all the time then I'm out. Not into people with deep rooted psychological issues.
So does that follow for everyone who enjoys sex which is outside the norm?
Such as
Bondage
Domination
Swinging?
Very strange thing to say I think.
I specifically mentioned women who want rough sex ALL the time. So no, it doesn't include the other forms of sexual release you decided to add. Well, actually, one of them if practised as a way of life could be included too."
I fail to see how an interest, or enjoyment of a particular form of sex is a sign of deep rooted psychological issues. It may be the poor lady you refer too has personal issues which may or may not influence her taste but experience with one person is not sufficient to make you expert enough to diagnose everybody else who has secular tastes. If I suck on a ladies nipples every time I have sex do I have a chronic oedipus complex?
Your reasoning says yes which would mean every male on here has deep rooted psychological problems.
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"I can and do do rough play if that's what the woman wants. But if that's what she wants all the time then I'm out. Not into people with deep rooted psychological issues.
So does that follow for everyone who enjoys sex which is outside the norm?
Such as
Bondage
Domination
Swinging?
Very strange thing to say I think.
I specifically mentioned women who want rough sex ALL the time. So no, it doesn't include the other forms of sexual release you decided to add. Well, actually, one of them if practised as a way of life could be included too.
I fail to see how an interest, or enjoyment of a particular form of sex is a sign of deep rooted psychological issues. It may be the poor lady you refer too has personal issues which may or may not influence her taste but experience with one person is not sufficient to make you expert enough to diagnose everybody else who has secular tastes. If I suck on a ladies nipples every time I have sex do I have a chronic oedipus complex?
Your reasoning says yes which would mean every male on here has deep rooted psychological problems.
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My reasoning says anyone that can only reach sexual fulfilment by being treated badly has psychological issues. Please try to focus and understand I'm saying this applies to those who can ONLY find fulfilment this way. I'll say again, the operative word is 'ONLY'. |
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My reasoning says anyone that can only reach sexual fulfilment by being treated badly has psychological issues. Please try to focus and understand I'm saying this applies to those who can ONLY find fulfilment this way. I'll say again, the operative word is 'ONLY'."
But who says that just because you see it as "being treated badly" that to others it's being treated badly.
I know several what id call hard core sadists who have no trauma and it's just what they like...
One man's kink is another man's normal |
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My reasoning says anyone that can only reach sexual fulfilment by being treated badly has psychological issues. Please try to focus and understand I'm saying this applies to those who can ONLY find fulfilment this way. I'll say again, the operative word is 'ONLY'.
But who says that just because you see it as "being treated badly" that to others it's being treated badly.
I know several what id call hard core sadists who have no trauma and it's just what they like...
One man's kink is another man's normal "
That last sentence is very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rough is my favourite 
For me it doesn’t even need to be someone I’ve known for a long time, I just love being abused and degraded..what’s wrong with that?! |
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I can't really explain other than its just been a kink..
Ever since I was younger Ive always enjoyed the more submissive/dominant play. I like being over powered, spanked and rougher kind of sex. It's the aspect of being at someone's mercy and pleasing them too (other than the act) that gets me off.
Don't get me wrong, if I've had a very hard session and were resting I do like to cuddle and have a slower kind of sex afterwards as a bring me down and I wouldn't say no to slow morning wake up kinda sex.
I do not bareback though, you can enjoy rough sex without barebacking so I cant see a link there. |
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"Mrs loves it but most guys are afraid to give it, only the one in the 3 years been on here."
Yes alot are, but build on it. Like I wouldn't do half the stuff I'm interested in on a first meet. Trust needs to be built. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I've come across a few verifications where its obvious the woman gets turned on by rough multiple guy use, often bareback (I don't mean GB's, I mean really hard use).
The profiles don't always reflect that is what they are after. So, I was wondering how many women in fact crave that and why they enjoy that kind of severe fucking?"
I've only ever known two. And it's hard work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Certainly agree with a lot of the comments above. Trust is a big thing especially with the tougher aspect of things. However, finding someone that is able (and willing) to truly engage in rough kinky sex is more difficult.
Maybe difficult is the wrong word. It is more rare. But if you find the right person who you can also have a very good connection with, then all bets are off ...  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Rough is my favourite
For me it doesn’t even need to be someone I’ve known for a long time, I just love being abused and degraded..what’s wrong with that?! "
Nothing at all. Not all will understand, but if it’s for you it’s for you, and that’s all there is to it really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had ladies say they like rough and I don't mean hair pulling , I've ended up in a ladies place all very smart and she's got a,great job and new kitchen then I'm slapping her around spitting in her face ramming Mr Torpedo up every hole then using my belt to get the point across.
I thought I went to far but she messaged me later to say she loved it ... lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the posts, glad to see ladies can talk about it.
One or two were into what I was really talking about
- getting fucked by strangers without limits, so things like constant throat fucking, dv, dp. triple etc.
- Restraint or hair pulling/face slapping type things.
I know some of that is pretty exteme but I guess some of us get so horny at times that anything is on offer (or is that just me . . .).
I guess its the ultimate in giving up control and that's where the bareback comes into it - not even worrying about playing safe (or maybe its just the absolute love of cum) |
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"I love a good hard fucking. The harder and sluttier the better. I lose myself in rough sex where I’m dominated and psssed around for more cock. xx
* high five to that! X
*high five-ing also* "
Definitely the best way |
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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago
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You need to have trust in each other to do this and when u do and it's genuinely what you both desire it's the most amazing experience and fun
Not for all mind but then as someone else said one persons kink is another's norm and may scare yet another off
That's why open communication respect and understanding of each other limits and wants is key
Even with a long term partner whom I've experienced such fun with many times and know her well we still have a safe word I'd advise that to anyone who's not tried it or explored this before
Most difficult thing is opening the conversation about wantin it without coming across as a nutjob lol or attracting said morons
With right likeminded person though it is fun x |
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My wife enjoys it rough but also safe. She likes hair pulling, hands tied, a hand round the throat and very deep pounding, preferably by a vw/e male. I don’t think she gets off on pain as such, rather she gets lost in the moment and gets very greedy and slutty. It’s the best show on earth for me. |
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Yes
"I love a good hard fucking. The harder and sluttier the better. I lose myself in rough sex where I’m dominated and psssed around for more cock. xx
* high five to that! X
*high five-ing also* "
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