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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fabbers. Have been trying to figure this out but need some guidance please.
Have been on fabs for quite a while and have always just met with single males, however my curiosity has got the better of me and I would like to meet a m/f couple.
I'm just unsure of the best way to go about this. Obviously as this is very new to me how do I go around finding the right couple with whom I would feel comfortable enough with?
With the single males I've always met for a social first, is this acceptable in a couple meeting a single female situation?
I have posted a social meet up as that's all I could think of doing.
Any advice from you experienced couples swingers will be hugely appreciated
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We don't meet single women but we always meet socially first with no exception. I think anyone would respect your wishes and would say that if they don't you shouldn't meet them. As a single woman wanting to meet couples you will have no shortage or offers.
Personally I think all singles of whatever gender should meet socially with couples first. |
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Best to have a social with the couple. From there you can discuss what you are expecting from the meet and their expectations too. As a couple meeting a straight single fem is very different from meeting a bi fem. You will also get to see the couple dynamic and they can also work out whether you are for them as a couple or just a single fem who is really only after a man. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello, as you are straight are you planning to only play with the male?  "
This is where part of the curiosity comes in, never been with a woman so guess would have to be a bi-fem |
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"Hello, as you are straight are you planning to only play with the male?
This is where part of the curiosity comes in, never been with a woman so guess would have to be a bi-fem"
You'll definitely need a social to hash out boundaries and comfort level, then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.
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"As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.
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Yeah. Some couples seem to think that bi fems are disposable playthings. You deserve and should demand respect as an equal party (to anyone). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.
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Have to get myself one of those then lol.
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"As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.
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Nobody has... Yet. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Hello, as you are straight are you planning to only play with the male?
This is where part of the curiosity comes in, never been with a woman so guess would have to be a bi-fem"
Ok, so as others have said, definitely a social, as this is new to you, that way you can all see if you may be compatible in your expectations. Good luck and have fun |
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