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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have never done a cuckold scenario or until recently ever though about it. Lately the prospect has been growing on me immensely and I feel turned on by this prospect more than most.
I wonder what it is about this scenario that is so hot, maybe the taboo of being with another mans wife? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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only people in relationships can be cuckold ? unless you mean you want to be a bull / dom guy/other guy fucking the wife
a wanna be single guy who wants to be a cuck is no more than a submissive guy wanting a femdom |
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So many woman and couples on here claim to be cuck couples but then you read further in to their profile and realise they don't have the first idea what a cuckold relationship actually is. It's just used to make them sound more adventurous. |
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"What is cuckold?"
It's where a genuine couple introduce another 'superior' man to the relationship for the purpose of being a boyfriend for the wife aka hotwife, who will date and fuck the wife as though they are together, while the real life husband is forced to watch or wait elsewhere, often held in chastity, not being allowed to masturbate or have sex. Humiliation is usually a big part of it too. |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
Chesterfield |
"So many woman and couples on here claim to be cuck couples but then you read further in to their profile and realise they don't have the first idea what a cuckold relationship actually is. It's just used to make them sound more adventurous."
Very true but also many guys claim to be Bulls , we find the verifications a good way of knowing we aren't going to have our time wasted . |
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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago
London |
"What is cuckold?
It's where a genuine couple introduce another 'superior' man to the relationship for the purpose of being a boyfriend for the wife aka hotwife, who will date and fuck the wife as though they are together, while the real life husband is forced to watch or wait elsewhere, often held in chastity, not being allowed to masturbate or have sex. Humiliation is usually a big part of it too."
Correct, although a hotwife tends to be the wife of a not full on cuck. The husband of a hotwife is not as inferior to the bull and in many cases will fuck the wife alongside the bull |
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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago
London |
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Very true but also many guys claim to be Bulls , we find the verifications a good way of knowing we aren't going to have our time wasted ."
Very true! Unfortunately sometimes veris are misleading because they only hint at what actually happened. Finding REAL/TRUE/ACTUAL bulls who understand the cuckold dynamic is INCREDIBLY RARE. |
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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Even though I’m many cuckold relationships the Cuck is deemed inferior. The initial discussions about the relationship always need to involve all three parties. At the end of the day it’s all about mutual enjoyment and hence his input should always be valid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is cuckold?
It's where a genuine couple introduce another 'superior' man to the relationship for the purpose of being a boyfriend for the wife aka hotwife, who will date and fuck the wife as though they are together, while the real life husband is forced to watch or wait elsewhere, often held in chastity, not being allowed to masturbate or have sex. Humiliation is usually a big part of it too."
If I’d have a pound for each time guys messaged me, confusing voyeurism and cuckolding completely...!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is cuckold?
It's where a genuine couple introduce another 'superior' man to the relationship for the purpose of being a boyfriend for the wife aka hotwife, who will date and fuck the wife as though they are together, while the real life husband is forced to watch or wait elsewhere, often held in chastity, not being allowed to masturbate or have sex. Humiliation is usually a big part of it too."
very porn film like... all cuckold means is to seed another mans wife thats it anything else is just purely added on to how far you wish to go.. i know of very few coukold couples who have a full on relationship with another sexual partner with dates and more ..most cuckold couples just settle for the sexual side of things .. ans as someone else said finding someone who understands cuckold couples is extremely rare anyway. |
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We are a switch couple who on occasion play cuckold. We have a good friend who we knew in the real world first who plays cuckold with us completely taking control. However with us we have to have a special connection to make this work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s amazing how many guys do not understand what a cuckold relationship really is. To most single guys they just think it’s a chance to get a shag without fully understanding what a real cuckold couple are looking for.
It’s important to read a profile properly and understand what the couple in question are searching for. Many guys on here just don’t read the profile fully. The secret is to understand what the couple want and only contact if they the individual is looking to be part of the relationship with commitment. |
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"It’s amazing how many guys do not understand what a cuckold relationship really is. To most single guys they just think it’s a chance to get a shag without fully understanding what a real cuckold couple are looking for.
It’s important to read a profile properly and understand what the couple in question are searching for. Many guys on here just don’t read the profile fully. The secret is to understand what the couple want and only contact if they the individual is looking to be part of the relationship with commitment. "
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The original meaning of a cuckold , is quite different to today's meaning. If you went by the original meaning , every swinger is a cuckold ."
and thats very true all im saying is very few cuckold couples play to the porn film script most have there own idea ...we go much further than many cuckold couple and there are many who go much further again than we do ..its not a one cap fits all like some think it is ... the hardest thing about cuckolding is finding the guys who understand but saying that the cucold side of things for us is only a couple years in after 20+ years of swinging but we are used to it because 20 years of swinging has taught us how many people dont have a clue and thats just swinging so we knew cuckold would be harder to meet as its even less known about or understood |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
Chesterfield |
"The original meaning of a cuckold , is quite different to today's meaning. If you went by the original meaning , every swinger is a cuckold .
and thats very true all im saying is very few cuckold couples play to the porn film script most have there own idea ...we go much further than many cuckold couple and there are many who go much further again than we do ..its not a one cap fits all like some think it is ... the hardest thing about cuckolding is finding the guys who understand but saying that the cucold side of things for us is only a couple years in after 20+ years of swinging but we are used to it because 20 years of swinging has taught us how many people dont have a clue and thats just swinging so we knew cuckold would be harder to meet as its even less known about or understood"
Personally I blame the "porn film script" for the problem cuckold couples have finding suitable Guys. It seems so many watch cuckold porn , get turned on by the idea and then seek a couple . They then BULLshit their story saying their experienced etc . As many a cuckold couple has found and I'm sure many genuine Bulls have experienced the same problems " many talk the talk but few can actually walk the cuckold situation " |
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I have met a cuckold Cpl he could only get hard when she is been fucked. I met them loads of times but after about the 10 time he wanted to make holes in the condom for him to lick her after so I stopped seeing them he wanted to taste cum not her |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
Every swinging couple and every cuckold couple likes different elements of swinging and cuckolding.
For me, the best way to understand what it is both partners in the relationship likes and wants is to ask them. To chat to both partners and see if all 3 of us are suited and take it from there.
I would never contact a couple saying I was a "bull". |
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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago
London |
"It’s amazing how many guys do not understand what a cuckold relationship really is. To most single guys they just think it’s a chance to get a shag without fully understanding what a real cuckold couple are looking for. It’s important to read a profile properly and understand what the couple in question are searching for. Many guys on here just don’t read the profile fully. The secret is to understand what the couple want and only contact if they the individual is looking to be part of the relationship with commitment. "
Story of our life on here. You said it beautifully but, alongside the guys who don't read the profile, there are those who just don't get it, they don't have the knowledge or even the brain to understand the dynamic. In order to get some pussy, they would jump in a lake in winter if they read that that's what the couple requires. They become cuckold experts just like they would become anything else in order to fuck. Some of these guys have a natural talent and can be good and fun in the role, others are just plain hopeless. In both cases neither is a real, true, genuine "Bull for cucks"! |
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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago
London |
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Personally I blame the "porn film script" for the problem cuckold couples have finding suitable Guys. It seems so many watch cuckold porn , get turned on by the idea and then seek a couple . They then BULLshit their story saying their experienced etc . As many a cuckold couple has found and I'm sure many genuine Bulls have experienced the same problems " many talk the talk but few can actually walk the cuckold situation " "
You nailed it! |
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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago
London |
"I have met a cuckold Cpl he could only get hard when she is been fucked. I met them loads of times but after about the 10 time he wanted to make holes in the condom for him to lick her after so I stopped seeing them he wanted to taste cum not her"
With this message you betray the fact that you have no understanding whatsoever of what is a cuckold relationship. It is obviously not for you, which is fine but don't blame the cuck for wanting to do what many cucks do. |
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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago
London |
"Every swinging couple and every cuckold couple likes different elements of swinging and cuckolding.
For me, the best way to understand what it is both partners in the relationship likes and wants is to ask them. To chat to both partners and see if all 3 of us are suited and take it from there. I would never contact a couple saying I was a "bull". "
You are an intelligent man. That is the best (the only?) way forward for us.
If one approaches a cuckold couple one needs to know that very probably he will have to do more than just fuck the wife and go. He will be asked to be intellectually involved with both partners, sometimes also sexually. To be the Bull of a cuckold couple one needs to be more talkative, confident, cheeky, imaginative and upfront than the average guy. If one is the quiet one when having sex or even socially, then cucks are not for him.
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"I have met a cuckold Cpl he could only get hard when she is been fucked. I met them loads of times but after about the 10 time he wanted to make holes in the condom for him to lick her after so I stopped seeing them he wanted to taste cum not her
With this message you betray the fact that you have no understanding whatsoever of what is a cuckold relationship. It is obviously not for you, which is fine but don't blame the cuck for wanting to do what many cucks do."
I agree, I took it more as being offended it was done with knowledge; obviously for some couples the bare back aspect can be important, but it needs to be everyone's choice.
Personally it is something that interests me, but the are so many different flavors of what couples are looking for, it's hard to determine what is their individual tastes |
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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago
London |
"Every swinging couple and every cuckold couple likes different elements of swinging and cuckolding. "
Very true! Every cuckold couple is different and the Bull should talk to both before a meet to see if his brand of "Bullism" will work with that particular couple.
There are as many kind of cucks as there are couples.
In some cases the husband is a "contemplative cuckold". He will watch the bull fucking the wife, maybe taking pics or wanking and that's it.
Other cucks have a Domme/sub relationship with the wife and love being humiliated by her and (only as a consequence) by the Bull.
Other cucks love to be diminished by the Bull, becoming his servant. This type of cuck (I am one of those) gets off in feeling inferior to the other man. It's more about loosing a power game.
The 2 last cases can have more extreme consequences like caging, feminization, sissification, BDSM, etc.
There is more but this message would get too long
Personally we don't like cliches and love to find out what the Bull brings on the table. We like to follow him and discover the direction his personality and tastes will indicate. We like to create an experience that is unique to the 3 of us, something that no one else could do because it is shaped by us for ourselves.
In many cases I find myself training Bulls as we go along. It's fine. I don't mind it at all and sometimes the results are remarkable. Obviously the best thing ever is when you get the call of a REAL, experienced Bull for cuckold couples. It's the rarest thing in the world but when it happens is a wow!
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I have been cuckolded from the beginning of our relationship 14 years ago. I knew from the beginning she was seeing another guy. When she knew and realised how much I loved seeing her with other guys or being with them on her own we have made our own rules up over the years. We don't do the humiliation side, but she will bring another guy back introduce him to me then take him upstairs and shag the living daylights out of him. Or let me know when her regular married guy is in town and get me to fasten her suspenders as she gets ready to go meet him. She always expects me to be waiting rock hard for her on her return when I get to lick her spunky pussy clean. I don't fuck other women any more as it doesn't turn either of us on. I still check the hotpics every day though and love looking at gorgeous women as does Mary but we both prefer her with other cocks all the time. She calls me her husband and cuckold that's good enugh for me!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We thought we'd found perfect Dom bull but he then thought he had right to be dominant to my wife even after she said no!!!!! That was end of him.
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This is wrong on so many levels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have met a cuckold Cpl he could only get hard when she is been fucked. I met them loads of times but after about the 10 time he wanted to make holes in the condom for him to lick her after so I stopped seeing them he wanted to taste cum not her"
15 years ago I made the mistake of thinking it meant 1 thing only and almost put a couple of it for good, as my 1st relationship with a cuck couple was very hard core, he was fully chasted by her and made to serve the 2 of us, we dated, flirted, played and had sex as if he wasn't there, I even had my own key and would let myself in after calling her. He was never consulted. The 2nd couple were after a regular guy to have sex in front of the husband, let him see her getting excited as she got ready and watch as she enjoyed sex with another and that was all. I soon learnt there are different extremes for different couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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After speaking to someone in a cuckhold realationship it's not for me / us I couldn't do that to my hubs having him join in and having two men at once is what I want
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"So many woman and couples on here claim to be cuck couples but then you read further in to their profile and realise they don't have the first idea what a cuckold relationship actually is. It's just used to make them sound more adventurous.
Very true but also many guys claim to be Bulls , we find the verifications a good way of knowing we aren't going to have our time wasted ."
A dog who barks a lot doesnt bite as hard. Men “shouting” they’re Bulls are mostly a disappointment from my experience putting groups together.
I certainly have my way to figure them out |
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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago
north tyneside |
"After speaking to someone in a cuckhold realationship it's not for me / us I couldn't do that to my hubs having him join in and having two men at once is what I want
Mrscxxx "
Sounds like it could be fun ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After speaking to someone in a cuckhold realationship it's not for me / us I couldn't do that to my hubs having him join in and having two men at once is what I want
Mrscxxx
Sounds like it could be fun !"
Had our first on Friday night was so much fun for me would definitely do it agen |
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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago
gillingham |
"We have all ways been into cuckold lifestyle,even to the ultimate !!
Sissy cuck hubby is never allowed to fuck me and humiliation on him is very important to our cuck lifestyle"
Many people on here say single guys don't get it fully understand the cuckhold lifestyle choice my experience as a single guy playing the bull is many couples fail to communicate exactly what they desire be it to me or each other that effects the experience so reading your comments and looking at your profile it's refreshing to see a couple that understand and clearly know what they want and desire out of this sort of relationship x |
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