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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We always get nervous when send face photos, the odd occassion we get no reply and then deleted... this place can give you a complex!
We are not ugly at all.. just funny that you get some horny chat and the a photo gets sent a then tumble..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I’ve experienced this a few times.
I’d rather just a message saying your not for me/us. That’s fine we all appreciate people have personal preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always get nervous when send face photos, the odd occassion we get no reply and then deleted... this place can give you a complex!
We are not ugly at all.. just funny that you get some horny chat and the a photo gets sent a then tumble..... "
Yes. Very frustrating. Not that they don't find me attractive, which is fine, just there is an actual convo going on and then instead of saying no thanks they just stop responding.
I will say a few have actually bothered to say "sorry but not attracted" and I thank them for it. |
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over a year ago
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Think it's better to get the face photos out of the way from the beginning.
There's nothing worse than getting all worked up and horny to find there's a mutual attraction missing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think it's better to get the face photos out of the way from the beginning.
There's nothing worse than getting all worked up and horny to find there's a mutual attraction missing. "
That is fair! |
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over a year ago
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"I'm afraid that's life. We live near you and also used to live in Medway. There can also be a fear of being recognised... "
Well if we get a couple smiling at us and we have no idea, we go ah maybe fab! |
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over a year ago
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Sometimes pictures just don't do people justice, we haven't been sure on some people and met them in person during a party and it's a totally different experience- their personality and the real life attraction was there.
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over a year ago
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For us it’s just that we can do without the possible hassle that could be caused professionally and personally. It works for us when we expressly tell people that we won’t send face pics - and neither do we expect face pics from them. We simply say let’s meet up for a social and if we don’t all fancy each other we don’t HAVE to have sex. Socials are fun anyway. As it happens we have always ended up playing with people we’ve met from the site - even though we never exchanged face pics before hand. |
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"For us it’s just that we can do without the possible hassle that could be caused professionally and personally. It works for us when we expressly tell people that we won’t send face pics - and neither do we expect face pics from them. We simply say let’s meet up for a social and if we don’t all fancy each other we don’t HAVE to have sex. Socials are fun anyway. As it happens we have always ended up playing with people we’ve met from the site - even though we never exchanged face pics before hand. "
Actually - there was one couple we didn’t play with - but that had nothing to do with not having face pics |
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