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hello a question for you all?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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does it matter to people if the male of the couple had a scar on his chest.I ask this because on the 20th of jan a go into leeds to have my aortic heart valve replaced it been like this since i was born i am now 43.
i would so hate to think we had to give up swinging lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does it matter to people if the male of the couple had a scar on his chest.I ask this because on the 20th of jan a go into leeds to have my aortic heart valve replaced it been like this since i was born i am now 43.
i would so hate to think we had to give up swinging lol "
Wouldn't bother us at all. In fact a scar can be sexy!
I've had a c-section and I don't even give my scar a second thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wouldnt bother me, kinda sexy actually, shows a bit of vunerability or some other psychological parp lol.
But i can see that some people who feel certain ways wont like it. but again its the same with everything in swinging.
Good luck with your operation let us all know when your out and well  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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One of my meets had an absolutely enormous scar across his chest and back. He'd had a collapsed lung when he was much younger and needed an emergency operation.
No problem with scars here. Hope all goes well. |
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My regular friend has a huge scar across his stomach due to bowel problems when he was younger and acne scars on his face. Doesn't bother me in the slightest and think id be incredibly shallow to let something like that affect my opinion of someone who before seeing the scar was someone id like to be intimate with...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think yourself lucky its only a scar and you don't have to walk round with my head on lol now that's scary ....... seriously best wishes for a speedy recovery
David |
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By *acciWoman
over a year ago
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I do hope not im waiting to have a heart bypass so will have a big scar too. Good luck with the Op hun,hope all goes well,spent lots of time in LGI Cardiac ward and they are amazin. Get well soon xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly Good luck with the operation and best wishes for a quick recovery.
Secondly a scar is not something that will put off ladies wanting to meet you. Be confident and sexy in yourself and no one will care about any scars.
So hurry up and get better and get back to swinging asap!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have some bad scars on one of my boobs... but the more I swing the less I care.
During my vanilla life I would make excuses and apologise for them.... now I don't give a dam (much) and if I am playing with anyone who has issues with it... well quite frankly they are the type of people I don't want to play with!
Good luck with the op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a scar across my stomach from an operation in my twenties. It was not until I started swinging that I realised that peeps don't really notice it.
I was quite self concious about it, but not anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I have a liking for scars, I find them sexy. I am not fussed either way for my own though, got 9 on my stomach due to keyhole surgery and adding a few more later on this year. Hopefully my last lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think people would be put off by that at all. I play with a chap with a large scar on his side - doesn't bother me in the slightest. I have a scar on my face that bothered me at first, but noone else seems to even notice or care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does it matter to people if the male of the couple had a scar on his chest.I ask this because on the 20th of jan a go into leeds to have my aortic heart valve replaced it been like this since i was born i am now 43.
i would so hate to think we had to give up swinging lol "
theres no answer to this really
of couse some will not want to meet other with scares but i doubt it will be many, most of us have scares, i have a couple on my face where ive had stitches, and a couple of op scares on my body plus my section scare, as far as im awear its never bothered anyone ive met, they have certainly never had a porblem getting hard when im naked so cant bother them to much lol
Wouldnt even give it a second thought if i was you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Mum got this op done in 2010, she has a brill scar. It looks like an extra cleavage lol
When I had to get my gall bladder taken out. It was nearly a big scar due to complications. I was considering getting a tattoo of a zip by it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about what people will think, I had to be rushed into hospital in the eighties for an emergency operation because an ulcer had burst letting my stomach acid pour into my intestinal cavity (bloody hurt like nothing else!!)
I still have an eight inch scar down my tummy, hey and over all those years since never had a negative coment and it's certainly not stopped me having lots of fun!!
Keep smiling and swinging and good luck!!
Ian |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The scar on your chest is going to be a sign of survival
Scars don't bother me at all and they certainly would'nt be any part of a reason I would'nt meet someone
Good luck with the surgery  |
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