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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was dating beautiful woman , and yesterday she invited me to her house ,, everything was going will until I go down her ,,, and it was smelly ,, I didn’t know what to do, and it put me off and couldn’t get hard,, I try to not Embarrass her,, she did take a nice bath before I got to her house,, now I’m trying to ignore her Bcs ever time I think about it I feel sick,, any advice plz

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

Man up and politely talk to her about it like an adult, and do it face to face. But be polite. She may well be more embarrassed than you are, or she may not have a clue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You definitely have to communicate with her, but god knows how you can do that in a delicate and diplomatic manner!

Maybe it was a one off? Worth trying again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You definitely have to communicate with her, but god knows how you can do that in a delicate and diplomatic manner!

Maybe it was a one off? Worth trying again?"

Exactly no idea how

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By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Something similar happened to me years ago - it turned out to be caused by precancerous cells on her cervix - should perhaps suggest she gets a smear test.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Something similar happened to me years ago - it turned out to be caused by precancerous cells on her cervix - should perhaps suggest she gets a smear test."

Thanks lot hun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Something similar happened to me years ago - it turned out to be caused by precancerous cells on her cervix - should perhaps suggest she gets a smear test."

Very good advice

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

I have to agree with telling her ... I know it's awkward for both but as you say she had a bath so it's not down to poor hygine I would want to know if there was a problem down there as it could be serious and needing docs advice x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

Hahaha this happened to me with the girl I lived with. (Mrs here) when we first started having sex I had to say that she needs to wash down below, she didn't like using soap down there and tried to tell me it's self cleaning ROFL i explained that maybe the inside but FFS clean the outside please. She did and future sexual encounters were fabulous

She needs to be politely told if you want to move forward with her!

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have to agree with telling her ... I know it's awkward for both but as you say she had a bath so it's not down to poor hygine I would want to know if there was a problem down there as it could be serious and needing docs advice x "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hahaha this happened to me with the girl I lived with. (Mrs here) when we first started having sex I had to say that she needs to wash down below, she didn't like using soap down there and tried to tell me it's self cleaning ROFL i explained that maybe the inside but FFS clean the outside please. She did and future sexual encounters were fabulous

She needs to be politely told if you want to move forward with her!

Good luck x"

Thanks hun xx

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By *eightonpa1Man over a year ago

Market Weighton

HEALTH CARER'S hat on.

As some ladies have said if she has wash bathed it then any smell could mean a nasty is hanging out best to give her a call & ask her out for a drink find a quiet place & in a nice way say I know you took a nice bath I could smell it as I got close but when I went to play down in your love area I don't what you to feel upset but do you know there was a smell & it has been bugging me that I should've told you in case it needs checking out. I know that if a guy washes down there & it starts smelling it means a visit to the GP's in case it's a nasty hanging out. No harm in getting check out. Better safe than sorry & it is too late. End with let me know I am here for you. that should make her feel you still want to know her.

I know the smell of some nasties can make you sick & when you dealt with a few you get to know even without getting that close I was sat on the bus once & a young mum got on & I smelt what I knew could be pre-cancer cells. We got off at the same stop & it turned out she was meeting up with her sister my friend who I was doing her wedding jewellery I'd known her sister years so I said to her sister I think K may have a problem in her lady area. My friend just looked at me & laughed say never off duty, are you? I gave my look I mean it my friend said you mean it don't you. I said yes I hope I am wrong she said I don't think so last week my dog wouldn't stop smelling her pussy & didn't think much to it but now you saying it & your work is in that area you should know. Her sister had gone to change the little one & was on her way my friend now in tears her sister puzzled at it. My friend said K sit down I need to tell you something & we hope we're wrong but don't think so. She went on to say about her dog & I was an HC on the mixed urine problem ward. K looked at me & said what is wrong & said K you have a smell that I know could be pre-cancer cells will you go to your GP & get checked out. She said it okay T Ken says it pre-cancer cells so if it is I think they're a good chance they can remove it. T looked at her & said you're to young my wedding your hair. I said one step at a time T. K need to go & get checked out first then any action need will to talked over with her & if she is unsure & doesn't feel she can ring her named nurse she can ring me & I'll ask her for her. Tear dried & colours type of gems picked & both said can we have a pink bow charm on the safety chain. I was now the one welling up as I said sure. K got checked & it was but very early onset & very little treatment was needed & I am pleased to say now 12yrs free. So always act on it you never know if it will stop it from becoming cancer cells

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Relationships are formed around communication, so you'll need your diplomatic skills honed well, so that you can attempt not to shame her, or push her away. An option for future may be to play in the shower together.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you know she has had a bath just before and the rest of her smell nice when you really do need to have a conversation with her. As others have pointed out it could be something of concern for her health, it could be something serious or it could be a urine infection as a lot of women have them without even knowing. Either way it's probably best she gets to a doctor. I appreciate it's not a particularly nice conversation to have but not to sound too dramatic it could be life saving.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could just be something like bacterial vaginosis nothing sexually transmitted.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could just be something like bacterial vaginosis nothing sexually transmitted....."

I was thinking that couldn't spell it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could just be something like bacterial vaginosis nothing sexually transmitted.....

I was thinking that couldn't spell it. Lol"

Very common thing lol just antibiotics sorted

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