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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions "
If you thought all that then they probably wouldn't bother. |
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions "
No...thats just people on the internet in general. |
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions "
A single guy new to the forums might very well think that. If that's been your experience I'm sorry, it does happen and people really ought to know better. However it does well to examine one's own interaction in some cases.
A single woman new to the forums however will have a very different experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Humbly, the biggest problem we find is new people thinking his is a hook up site then getting arsey when you say no (for whatever reason) lots of people gets lots of messages ..many the same ...and when message number 50 pops up saying “hey, fancy a fuck” patience can snap...biggest advice we could give for a positive experience is read the profile |
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"Humbly, the biggest problem we find is new people thinking his is a hook up site then getting arsey when you say no (for whatever reason) lots of people gets lots of messages ..many the same ...and when message number 50 pops up saying “hey, fancy a fuck” patience can snap...biggest advice we could give for a positive experience is read the profile "
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Sis ypur other thread inspire you to start this one? The one that went slightly pear shaped...
In answer to your question when I joined I thought I might meet some cool people who were open minded about sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions "
I’ve not been on the scene as long as some but my first impression was spot on
There are rude people everywhere, including here. I met many genuinely lovely people and have continued to do so. I have made true friendships and had lots of fun.
Ive been accused of being rude when it wasn’t my intention (messages can be misinterpreted) and a handful of men have been particularly nasty but overall it’s fun to be here and I wish I’d found it earlier!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions
I’ve not been on the scene as long as some but my first impression was spot on
There are rude people everywhere, including here. I met many genuinely lovely people and have continued to do so. I have made true friendships and had lots of fun.
Ive been accused of being rude when it wasn’t my intention (messages can be misinterpreted) and a handful of men have been particularly nasty but overall it’s fun to be here and I wish I’d found it earlier!
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To quote a song
Do t you know that it’s different for girls |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions
I’ve not been on the scene as long as some but my first impression was spot on
There are rude people everywhere, including here. I met many genuinely lovely people and have continued to do so. I have made true friendships and had lots of fun.
Ive been accused of being rude when it wasn’t my intention (messages can be misinterpreted) and a handful of men have been particularly nasty but overall it’s fun to be here and I wish I’d found it earlier!
To quote a song
Do t you know that it’s different for girls "
I’ve been around long enough to know that ! I was just answering your OP
Do you mean that only men are ignored, disrespected or attacked in the forums?
I’d dispute that based on my time here. I’ve been ignored and disrespected ( I don’t post controversial comments on the forum as life is too short)
My point is that despite the fact that it’s different for ladies here, there are without doubt rude people and lovely people everywhere, make the most of the lovely, ignore the rude and have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions "
Are you saying that is how singers act? Or what happens on this forum? Because if it's the latter and please don't take this an attack I'm not sure what sort of welcome you, or anybody else actually expect? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions
Are you saying that is how singers act? Or what happens on this forum? Because if it's the latter and please don't take this an attack I'm not sure what sort of welcome you, or anybody else actually expect? "
Says a rebound forum bully
Expect respect
Mutually
You clearly smell something and dive in
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions
A single guy new to the forums might very well think that. If that's been your experience I'm sorry, it does happen and people really ought to know better. However it does well to examine one's own interaction in some cases.
A single woman new to the forums however will have a very different experience."
I totally disagree with this, it is often the assumption that single men get a hard time and single women are treated like royalty but actually that could not be further from the truth and a lot of cases. |
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions
A single guy new to the forums might very well think that. If that's been your experience I'm sorry, it does happen and people really ought to know better. However it does well to examine one's own interaction in some cases.
A single woman new to the forums however will have a very different experience.
I totally disagree with this, it is often the assumption that single men get a hard time and single women are treated like royalty but actually that could not be further from the truth and a lot of cases. "
The women get treated like Lady Di |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be interested to know what new people coming into swinging think about swingers
Be easy to assume swingers are the rudest collection of individuals ever
Ignored in the conversation
Attacked in forums
Generally a disrespect/ regard for Human emotions
A single guy new to the forums might very well think that. If that's been your experience I'm sorry, it does happen and people really ought to know better. However it does well to examine one's own interaction in some cases.
A single woman new to the forums however will have a very different experience.
I totally disagree with this, it is often the assumption that single men get a hard time and single women are treated like royalty but actually that could not be further from the truth and a lot of cases.
The women get treated like Lady Di "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Like anyone place you get good and Bad i dont get many replies but hey its not the end of the world been on here before and met some nice people.If people join thinking its rentabonk they will soon get bitter as its not all about sex its about meeting nice people and having a nice relaxed time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site is not an accurate or fair reflexion of the swinging community in any way shape or fashion.
Sadly and understandably people who are new and who stumble onto this site first may think it is, and really become disillusioned.
Luckily we were swinging a long time before joining this site, so weren’t disillusioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Humbly, the biggest problem we find is new people thinking his is a hook up site then getting arsey when you say no (for whatever reason) lots of people gets lots of messages ..many the same ...and when message number 50 pops up saying “hey, fancy a fuck” patience can snap...biggest advice we could give for a positive experience is read the profile "
I couldn’t agree more. My biggest annoyance is people think this is a free service site and not even read my profile x |
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