we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x"
There's plenty out there.
As a couple it may be worth popping a few photos of the male half up if you're hoping to meet other couples. Otherwise the female half of anyone you're looking to meet won't know what's in store.
Just a thought. Good luck 
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"There's plenty out there.
As a couple it may be worth popping a few photos of the male half up if you're hoping to meet other couples. Otherwise the female half of anyone you're looking to meet won't know what's in store.
Just a thought. Good luck
A"
really good point, thank you!! best start taking some pictures x |
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We've been here 5 + years got to say still think soft swap is right for us.
Been together from age 16 feel that that part of sex is special and solely for us. Actually find people who can't understand that, it is their issue not ours.
Everyone has a choice just make sure you make choices that you can live with.
Do what you want only after all everyone here is here for themselves. |
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I wouldn't have thought it's the soft swap that is the main problem, lots of couples are soft swap.
However, I agree with an earlier post, the lack pictures of the male will be an issue for many. Cock pics don't count in my book.
The fact that there is quite a large age difference between you, will reduce the number of potential matches too.
Mr is well in our age preference range but Mrs is the same age as our children, which we would be uncomfortable with. I expect there are several others who would think the same...and there is nothing you can do about that unless you lie about your ages.
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We do soft swap. In some ways there's nothing hornier than watching, or fucking alongside, another couple who are fucking as they would normally do in their bed. |
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We're soft-play / exhibitionism more than swap. We've been visiting clubs for over 3 years and are perfectly happy with our level 
We don't really bother trying to attract others on fab anymore as it can get tricky to put across exactly what we're OK with. And then, the people we do chat with have said 'sure we'll start with soft and go from there'.
At clubs we usually just do our own thing and then see who decides to take a space next to us. Then all it takes is a quick 'we don't swap but you're welcome to do xyz to us' and away we go |
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"we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x"
We are a soft swap couple, and we would be interested. |
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Been together from age 16 feel that that part of sex is special and solely for us. Actually find people who can't understand that, it is their issue not ours.
Everyone has a choice just make sure you make choices that you can live with.
Do what you want only after all everyone here is here for themselves."
Exactly the same as us.  |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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We’re open to Full Swap but only if the attraction is there and it feels right. However, we mainly do Soft Play and from our experience, we’ made it equal to Full Play with enough imagination. |
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"we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x"
You’ll find most couples are probably more comfortable with talking to and meeting you than they would be others, as they’re probably like you. 
Best to go slowly when your all new to something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nothing wrong with soft swap if that’s what you have decided
You should have no trouble getting meets
That starts when you get older
Having said that people we have meet up in clubs don’t seem to have an age problem with us even the younger ones |
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