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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Curious to hear from you guys, what is it that turns you on about this scenario?

Do you prefer to watch or hear about the encounter?

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Its not about "allowing" me to do anything.

I'm not my husband's property.

Swinging for us is about sharing and watching each other give and receive pleasure, as well as doing things you need more than 2 for.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife does whatever she wants with whoever she wants. She is the boss !

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Why ask, just let your wife do it and see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don’t have a wife hence why I’m intruiged

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Your choice of words suggests that you believe men take the lead in swinging. That isn't always true, frequently the decision for one or both partners to have sex with other people is a joint one and neither one is allowing the other to do anything.

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

More than happy to see it if she wants to

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d like to watch.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan over a year ago

Halifax

"My wife does whatever she wants with whoever she wants. She is the boss ! "

Exactly this and what Calnita put. Miss is her own woman and she doesnt need me to 'allow' her to do anything.

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By *ommyxyzMan over a year ago

Bedford

We are not swinging together but my wife is seeing another man which makes the “politics” of me swinging much easier, so I’m very cool with it. My current girlfriend and I from swinging are not shareing at present as we get to know each other really well. We will see how this changes in time.

I used to love swinging with a previous girlfriend and that was mostly watching her as the centre of the action for loads of guys. Our own sex afterwards was unbelievable.

Complicated stuff swinging can be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not at all. If a man doesn’t approve of his wife to sleep with another man then it’s cheating right? Obviuolsly he needs to allow it to happen.

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Swinging is something we do together, it's a shared experience which we have talked about and discussed at length. There was no "allowing" we agreed we wanted to try swinging, we agreed between us what our boundaries were both for ourselves and for each other. If either of us feels uncomfortable with a situation or scenario then we don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its not about "allowing" me to do anything.

I'm not my husband's property.

Swinging for us is about sharing and watching each other give and receive pleasure, as well as doing things you need more than 2 for.

Nita"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I make my own choices about who and when I fuck someone, my hubby has no say in that choice so his permission isn't required!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's a nice thing.

And I've been very lucky to be welcomed into a couples home and had the pleasure of sleeping with his wife.

One husband bought us tea and toast in the morning.

Some lovely people out there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curious to hear from you guys, what is it that turns you on about this scenario?

Do you prefer to watch or hear about the encounter? "

My husband doesn’t own me, so he didn’t ‘allow’ me. It’s something we discussed and agreed upon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not at all. If a man doesn’t approve of his wife to sleep with another man then it’s cheating right? Obviuolsly he needs to allow it to happen. "

‘Allow’

It’s something that is mutually agreed on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My mrs can meet who she wants when she wants. We share and have no secrets from each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My mrs can meet who she wants when she wants. We share and have no secrets from each other

Cool

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By *hezzie BikersCouple over a year ago

Chesterfield

"My mrs can meet who she wants when she wants. We share and have no secrets from each other

This for us ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us swinging is just foreplay, we enjoy it together. But the real event is when we are alone afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its not about "allowing" me to do anything.

I'm not my husband's property.

Swinging for us is about sharing and watching each other give and receive pleasure, as well as doing things you need more than 2 for.

Nita"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curious to hear from you guys, what is it that turns you on about this scenario?

Do you prefer to watch or hear about the encounter?

My husband doesn’t own me, so he didn’t ‘allow’ me. It’s something we discussed and agreed upon "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the word 'allow' has got a lot of people's backs up on this thread. Maybe the thread title should have read: Being comfortable enough with your wife fucking other people.

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By *adtaffladMan over a year ago

Rhyl

I do not own my wife she is a free person and has always had my blessings to do what she wants with who she wants it's also a turn on for me.

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By *ananas57Couple over a year ago

lake ariel

It was my hubby's idea for me to play with other men, so id be dumb not too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love to see her enjoying herself with other guys, its a win win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not at all. If a man doesn’t approve of his wife to sleep with another man then it’s cheating right? Obviuolsly he needs to allow it to happen. "

If the word allow comes into it, then why would they be on a swinging site??

I'm not sure you get how this works OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curious to hear from you guys, what is it that turns you on about this scenario?

Do you prefer to watch or hear about the encounter? "

I love to fuck hot wives!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As far as we are concerned everything is discussed and agreed upon, wife goes out and fucks without husbands knowledge is cheating.

Wife going out to fuck with husbands blessing and encouragement is a healthy happy couple.

Wife and husband going out to fuck different partners together is a fucking party

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By *orkizCouple over a year ago

Wakefield

I love to watch the Mrs with another guy find it a massive turn on my fantasy is for her to spend the night with another guy only if she wanted to and we both felt ok with it

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By *astycouplexxCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

My husband dosnt allow me he likes to "share me" as he would say, we share each other with others, he is always paranoid he can't fulfil me sexual apatite (even though I say its not true) and this way we both get to be fulfilled and no one gets hurt by cheater which a lot of other couples resort too

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By *lan157Man over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

It's Women who want to swing that it enables it to happen not the men making choices or deciding anything . Any man who thinks he is allowing or choosing or permitting the lifestyle for his partner is deluded in my opinion. If it was not driven by her desire then the man would be lining up with all the other married men on here playing without partner's knowledge.

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple over a year ago

Pontypridd

I enjoy knowing that Mrs Sexploit is having fun. It's as simple as that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its not about "allowing" me to do anything.

I'm not my husband's property.

Swinging for us is about sharing and watching each other give and receive pleasure, as well as doing things you need more than 2 for.

Nita"

This exactly, we have an open relationship and play freely.

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By *cutebum9Couple over a year ago

wallsend

I don't own my wife but very pleased she asked me if I minded trying swinging as she had a high sex drive and loved meeting other men. Makes us both happy as long as she's safe and has a smile on her face I'm happy. Makes our relationship stronger as no lies or jelousey

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By *uckold.cplCouple over a year ago

Dublin

My husband and I are both on the submissive side, so neither of us initiates well. We find that inviting a more assertive male into our bed, gets the motors running for all of us, and carries over for weeks after... Watching, waiting outside or playing together, all depends on situation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So your both having affairs.....swinging is done with mutual consent.

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By *ogNMuseCouple over a year ago

Surrey

Certainly wouldn’t want another man sleeping with my wife - she snores terribly and wouldn’t want to inflict that on anyone else!

But she can fuck whom ever she chooses, as can I

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So your both having affairs.....swinging is done with mutual consent. "

No affairs as both people are fully aware of what is going on.

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By *aleangelCouple over a year ago

To heaven and back

I've just spent the afternoon watching my wife fuck guys that she had chosen in our favourite club in Blackpool and I have to be honest there is nothing I enjoy more than watching her enjoy herself.

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