Sometimes you have to take the lead and confirm it isn't just a social meet the other people could just be being polite with you.
With a couple on a social meet I always let them take that much of the lead. I've even been going enough to offer them the chance to chat about things in private |
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Meeting for a social means just that to most people , so make it clear that a meet is only a social to begin with , and may well end up becoming a play meet if all parties agree .
We were swinging for over seven years before taking a break , and never had a social ! It was always agreed that we would have fun if we all clicked , which almost always happened . |
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