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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Browsing through the hot pictures or people close to my area I see that many people are offering professional services (=money for sex) or advertising to sell their pics.
The main reason I joined this site is to meet likeminded people and why not have some fun in person but I think that people offering this kind of services are ruining the experience of this site.
What are your thoughts on that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to report these individuals , it's changed a hell of a lot on here over the years it's getting worse to be honest , I get requests sometimes daily offering sex for money , the only way is to stop these people is to not entertain there shit! I've been on here for nearly 9 years and not paid for sex once ! It's a fun, free and fantastic site and let's keep it that way  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have to report these individuals , it's changed a hell of a lot on here over the years it's getting worse to be honest , I get requests sometimes daily offering sex for money , the only way is to stop these people is to not entertain there shit! I've been on here for nearly 9 years and not paid for sex once ! It's a fun, free and fantastic site and let's keep it that way "
Yes I agree with you. I have been here for less than a year so I can’t reallt say how it was before but all the experiences I had so far have been really positive (I even started going to clubs now) but when looking for new people it bothers me to check the profile, read through the description and at the very end finding out they want something in exchange. That’s b*****t! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to report these individuals , it's changed a hell of a lot on here over the years it's getting worse to be honest , I get requests sometimes daily offering sex for money , the only way is to stop these people is to not entertain there shit! I've been on here for nearly 9 years and not paid for sex once ! It's a fun, free and fantastic site and let's keep it that way
Yes I agree with you. I have been here for less than a year so I can’t reallt say how it was before but all the experiences I had so far have been really positive (I even started going to clubs now) but when looking for new people it bothers me to check the profile, read through the description and at the very end finding out they want something in exchange. That’s b*****t! "
I know buddy the majority of ladies on here are fabulous and genuine it's just a shame sometimes there are a few that spoil it for us Gents |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have they asked you to paid for their services?
If not, they have not broken any rules. Unless you think that that pictures have been stolen.
Should all the men get reported that offer money to meet them? There are more men offering to pay. If so, what action should be taken.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have they asked you to paid for their services?
If not, they have not broken any rules. Unless you think that that pictures have been stolen.
Should all the men get reported that offer money to meet them? There are more men offering to pay. If so, what action should be taken.
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You report them |
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"Have they asked you to paid for their services?
If not, they have not broken any rules. Unless you think that that pictures have been stolen.
Should all the men get reported that offer money to meet them? There are more men offering to pay. If so, what action should be taken.
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Er yes, they should. And do in my case.
The OP is quite clear that’s he’s referring to people who are touting for business and this is against the site rules. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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Not sure if they should be classed as professionals but ladies that say they would prefer to chat in kik and the first message they send back to you is offering to send you pictures or videos that you have to pay for via pay pal or some other way that involves giving your card details. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel left out... nobody has offered me money for sex 
Miss P
Name your price  but I won't go higher than a slice of Christmas cake
C"
That's a lot of dough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of men desperately offering money to women on here for sex...
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It’s not just women they offer money to.
I get several messages a week of blokes saying they want to pay my to be able to “suck me off”.
I do love my new car  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have they asked you to paid for their services?
If not, they have not broken any rules. Unless you think that that pictures have been stolen.
Should all the men get reported that offer money to meet them? There are more men offering to pay. If so, what action should be taken.
I love the ‘site rules’ police
Heard of morals?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel left out... nobody has offered me money for sex
Miss P
Name your price but I won't go higher than a slice of Christmas cake
C
That's a lot of dough "
*bu-dum tss* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have they asked you to paid for their services?
If not, they have not broken any rules. Unless you think that that pictures have been stolen.
Should all the men get reported that offer money to meet them? There are more men offering to pay. If so, what action should be taken.
You report them"
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"I feel left out... nobody has offered me money for sex
Miss P
Name your price but I won't go higher than a slice of Christmas cake
C"
I'll see your piece of cake... and raise you a shortbread biscuit |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I feel left out... nobody has offered me money for sex
Miss P
Name your price but I won't go higher than a slice of Christmas cake
C
I'll see your piece of cake... and raise you a shortbread biscuit "
Throw in some cheese and I'm game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Report them"
Nothing happens
It's no different than clubs to be honest.
Want to play got to pay
Easier to just find someone else.
I've had people ask to take my photo so I message my rates.
Oh they don't like that.
I wouldn't ask a plumber to fix my house for free just because they are on Here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel left out... nobody has offered me money for sex
Miss P
Name your price but I won't go higher than a slice of Christmas cake
C
I'll see your piece of cake... and raise you a shortbread biscuit
Throw in some cheese and I'm game. "
How about a mince pie and some ginger wine |
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I need a lift to xtasia.
Anybody with a van?
Who wants to come cut my grass?
Entry for singles males £50, mf couples 20, fems free.
There is nothing new under the sun. We all know who the above messages are targeted at. We all know the CARROT that is being dangled: s e X!
As much as it pains me to admit it, the market determines the price in this case. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure if they should be classed as professionals but ladies that say they would prefer to chat in kik and the first message they send back to you is offering to send you pictures or videos that you have to pay for via pay pal or some other way that involves giving your card details."
Exactly this is one of the cases I’m referring to! What I actually think: I wasted at least 15 minutes of my life (if not more).
I wasn’t aware of the problem that you ladies or couples are facing of men that are offering you money for sex and I’m sorry to hear that but yes, you should report them in this case.
The fact that you pay to enter a club is not the same thing: the club is a business and you are paying the attendance to the event and the costs of running the venue, not the sexual act itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With so many men on here that have no idea to speak to women and want to use them as a free prostitute for their pleasure - I'm sure that some of these women have thought they might as well get paid.
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"With so many men on here that have no idea to speak to women and want to use them as a free prostitute for their pleasure - I'm sure that some of these women have thought they might as well get paid.
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Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually op was talking about the same pictures being on here and and escorting site.
Op never mentioned them approaching him"
That was my interpretation.
People have written about escorts using the site for recreational purposes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been offered money very occasionally... and yes reported them! I'm not a prostitute "
This.
My body is simply not for sale.... even at the surprisingly high figures I’ve been offered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Browsing through the hot pictures or people close to my area I see that many people are offering professional services (=money for sex) or advertising to sell their pics.
The main reason I joined this site is to meet likeminded people and why not have some fun in person but I think that people offering this kind of services are ruining the experience of this site.
What are your thoughts on that? "
Many really? Odd that as I have hardly seen any in 8 years plus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With so many men on here that have no idea to speak to women and want to use them as a free prostitute for their pleasure - I'm sure that some of these women have thought they might as well get paid.
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I hate the term free prostitute.....
A prostitute’s body is her business.... so if she has sex for free... it’s called charity.... hopefully in the UK she can write this off for tax purposes...
So in the future can you please use the term charity sex... |
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I know several on here who are on escort sites. They enjoy sex! Remember sex on here is there choice! As an escort not so much. Its your body your choice and you deserve our respect. Fellows take that on board |
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The whole problem is the market imbalance. Far more men want casual sex with women than women want casual sex with men. Hence the less attractive* men who want casual sex won't get it unless they offer to pay
*attractive in either body or personality. |
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I even have it written on my profile asking not to offer me money but it still happens on a regular basis.
I also agree with a poster above about how some women feel they might as well. Some men on here try to arrange meets like they're ordering a service, not arranging a meet with a human being. I get "I want to arrange a meet with you for tomorrow at 2pm" as a first message!! Or "I will be staying in this hotel on this date if you can come by after 7pm." I'm not a bookable service! |
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I'm a professional - but not that sort of professional.
I'm not so sure about it really. If it is brazen and in the profiles then sure, that's against the site rules and should be reported. If it comes out during a conversation then you have a choice to pursue it or stop it there. As others have said, if it becomes a problem then they will probably just create a new profile. There are plenty of other things that frustrate or annoy people on this site (failure to turn up for meets, getting abusive if advances are turned down etc). I would say just let it go, don't get worked up about it as it will only be you that suffers in the end by getting too annoyed by it. Ultimately it boils down to the fact that we are all people and the thing about people is we are all different and all flawed - just in a unique way. Some people are ace and their flaws or character is something that appeals to us. And some people are utter shits. And we are all somewhere along that spectrum. Apart from me though, cos I is perfect. [Not] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve not seen any of these profiles. We must search different criteria. "
many dont put it on there profiles they wait until the small talk then say ££ or gifts/favors |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel left out... nobody has offered me money for sex
Miss P
Name your price but I won't go higher than a slice of Christmas cake
C
That's a lot of dough "
Tbe icing on the cake |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I feel left out... nobody has offered me money for sex
Miss P
Name your price but I won't go higher than a slice of Christmas cake
C
I'll see your piece of cake... and raise you a shortbread biscuit
Throw in some cheese and I'm game.
How about a mince pie and some ginger wine "
Make it brothers toffee apple cider and its a deal lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a professional - but not that sort of professional.
I'm not so sure about it really. If it is brazen and in the profiles then sure, that's against the site rules and should be reported. If it comes out during a conversation then you have a choice to pursue it or stop it there. As others have said, if it becomes a problem then they will probably just create a new profile. There are plenty of other things that frustrate or annoy people on this site (failure to turn up for meets, getting abusive if advances are turned down etc). I would say just let it go, don't get worked up about it as it will only be you that suffers in the end by getting too annoyed by it. Ultimately it boils down to the fact that we are all people and the thing about people is we are all different and all flawed - just in a unique way. Some people are ace and their flaws or character is something that appeals to us. And some people are utter shits. And we are all somewhere along that spectrum. Apart from me though, cos I is perfect. [Not] "
You’re right, sometimes the best thing is to move on and look for genuine people, as the ultimate goal should always be the pursuit of happiness or of what we like. |
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I'v no problem with people selling sex, I've been in the business myself, (even been paid). I had a partner who was a WG so no hang ups there. I have known WGs who swing, swingers who are WGs.
However I don't think it's right to use a site like this for that purpose. Every time I see a woman using words such as professional or generous on her profile I am suspicious.
However it is a good point made by others that clubs charge single males mor than single women or couples. That's just another way of charging for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With so many men on here that have no idea to speak to women and want to use them as a free prostitute for their pleasure - I'm sure that some of these women have thought they might as well get paid.
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True that too many men looking for free prostitutes here. ..women are tired of being used so they decided to charge |
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"I’ve never been asked for cash, but have been asked to bring fags or booze with me to meets."
If someone is hosting a GB it is quite reasonable for them to expect a bottle of wine, beers etc. They will have to clear and clean up after when everyone else has gone home happy.
I was recently at a small GB when one guy turned up without anything and asked the host for a beer. Personally I think I'd have told him to fuck off.
I would not dream of going to a party / BBQ without taking drinks, food etc. |
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"I know several on here who are on escort sites. They enjoy sex! Remember sex on here is there choice! As an escort not so much. Its your body your choice and you deserve our respect. Fellows take that on board "
I've had fab meets with at least three ladies whose business is pleasure. No money changed hands on those occasions, just fun. |
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