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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet this man who was so good looking a male model ,,,,,, he was so far up his own bum , lol made me see looks are no everything a small part i have to have a nice person . x |
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I'm fickle and am intially attracted by looks to an extent but not into pretty boys too much. I guess we have a look we go for.
Strange though as Donald Sutherland has a face like a bag of spanners but he has charisma which is also attractive. |
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Looks first
If i like the look of someone i will make the effort to get to know them, if we click personality wise i'll meet
If i dont find them attractive thats the end of it
Then again depends in what context that is, if someone i didnt fancy spoke to me in a club of course id chat, but if someone on here send me a pic and i didnt fancy them then i wouldnt reply |
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"I meet this man who was so good looking a male model ,,,,,, he was so far up his own bum , lol made me see looks are no everything a small part i have to have a nice person . x"
i think i met him 
met a guy in a pub for a drink and all he did was talk about himself, and not in a interesting way, about all the young girls he can pull in the clubs, about how much he can bench press at the gym, about how much he spent on clothes, about how popular he is and how everyone loves him etc really nice looking guy with a body to die for but the ultimate in male bimbo, so when he asked me if i wanted to go back to his hotel i politely said no thanks and he was genuinly shocked i remember amoung other thing he said.....what!! YOUR turning ME down |
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"I meet this man who was so good looking a male model ,,,,,, he was so far up his own bum , lol made me see looks are no everything a small part i have to have a nice person . x
i think i met him
met a guy in a pub for a drink and all he did was talk about himself, and not in a interesting way, about all the young girls he can pull in the clubs, about how much he can bench press at the gym, about how much he spent on clothes, about how popular he is and how everyone loves him etc really nice looking guy with a body to die for but the ultimate in male bimbo, so when he asked me if i wanted to go back to his hotel i politely said no thanks and he was genuinly shocked i remember amoung other thing he said.....what!! YOUR turning ME down "
man i meet was a fire man ,,,,,,and model 6ft2 hunk body to die for but he new it ........... had sex with me looking at him self in the mirror saying how lovely he was , lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"........... had sex with me looking at him self in the mirror saying how lovely he was , lol xx
So you did have sex with him even though you didn't like his personality?"
have to admit i thought....ahhh but you still shagged him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"........... had sex with me looking at him self in the mirror saying how lovely he was , lol xx
So you did have sex with him even though you didn't like his personality?"
I had sex but he was all the time saying how lovely he was and his fit body , lol never come acros one like this before x was weird ,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?"
shit, have you seen it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? "
i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxx |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? "
i knew you were looking official last time i saw you!!  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxx"
well thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxx"
i have a female swinging friend like that, she is so stunning looking, tall, slim, no stretch marks, no belly lol but shes so down to earth its unreal, i had visions of her being really vain when i met her but she really isnt, i dont think she thinks theres anything wrong with her but she deffo dont realise how many men trip over their tongues when they see her and she does not realise shes overly attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they?"
well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lol |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lol"
but would you shag someone that you didnt like the look of, or someone you thought was a munter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lolbut would you shag someone that you didnt like the look of, or someone you thought was a munter? "
would anyone?
i find it really hard to believe anyone would shag someone they classed as a 'munter' because they was a nice person
I bet a few have shagged really good looking people they have thought a bit dull tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lolbut would you shag someone that you didnt like the look of, or someone you thought was a munter? "
well i have to like the person ........ and now i am going to tell you all something best sex was with a man i never liked the look of him ...... he was so charming and lovely best of everything i had that night xx |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lolbut would you shag someone that you didnt like the look of, or someone you thought was a munter? well i have to like the person ........ and now i am going to tell you all something best sex was with a man i never liked the look of him ...... he was so charming and lovely best of everything i had that night xx "
good for you jo thats what swinging is about getting what you want and how you want it...me...i like my parcels wrapped in an attractive way xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lolbut would you shag someone that you didnt like the look of, or someone you thought was a munter? well i have to like the person ........ and now i am going to tell you all something best sex was with a man i never liked the look of him ...... he was so charming and lovely best of everything i had that night xx good for you jo thats what swinging is about getting what you want and how you want it...me...i like my parcels wrapped in an attractive way xx"
god i have attractive and models normal is fine x if a man gives me his all thats all i can ask for x |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lolbut would you shag someone that you didnt like the look of, or someone you thought was a munter? well i have to like the person ........ and now i am going to tell you all something best sex was with a man i never liked the look of him ...... he was so charming and lovely best of everything i had that night xx good for you jo thats what swinging is about getting what you want and how you want it...me...i like my parcels wrapped in an attractive way xx god i have attractive and models normal is fine x if a man gives me his all thats all i can ask for x"
your models may be someone elses munter its all subjective isnt it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in chams once and there was a cpl and my god, they thought they was gods gift. all they did was pose all night and i heard him moan that he hadnt had not one shag....well come on...that would have messed their hair up ffs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get the whole personality thing, do people carry clipboards in clubs nowadays doing a personality test before they shag...?
shit, have you seen it? i like them when thay dont know just how good looking and lovely thay are xxx i have one or two men friends like this xxxwell thats good jo, but to shag someone they have to be aesthetically pleasing dont they? well i just think i am lucky when i come across both like tonight , lol xx god he was sexy , lolbut would you shag someone that you didnt like the look of, or someone you thought was a munter? well i have to like the person ........ and now i am going to tell you all something best sex was with a man i never liked the look of him ...... he was so charming and lovely best of everything i had that night xx good for you jo thats what swinging is about getting what you want and how you want it...me...i like my parcels wrapped in an attractive way xx god i have attractive and models normal is fine x if a man gives me his all thats all i can ask for xyour models may be someone elses munter its all subjective isnt it? true good looking fit and a brain some may hate it yes xx or they may not judge them as good looking well thay run rings around me like tonight , lol i am left thinking my god .......... what feed back will i get .. good looking fit as fuck ....... just hope i live up to it xim sure you will get great feedback else why bother? but your fit as fuck maybe someone elses minging munter ....you keep mentioning fit as fuck, models etc.....so looks play a big part for you which is how it should be "
i have been at this over 10 years i know fit a fuck , lol x just make you feel after god i hope i was ok ....... and not a let down , lol can only do my best . |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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I met my fiance at a naturist club ... we were introduced by friends.
We spent several hours talking and getting to know each other over lunch and a few drinks and I admitted to him that if he had messaged me on here I would have probably knocked him back!
Am I still guilty of it ..... yes but less so lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here its looks 9/10, I'll happily chat to anyone but unless they really catch my interest then if i dont like the look of them its a no!
in the rest of life personality (although ive got to like the look of them too!) |
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"Absolutely have to have both. Not desperate. Why should we settle? Rather go without than compromise. "
Ain't gonna lie..will have both but looks first and then personality to back up the looks. But have to say personality is the deal breaker for me. I could never enjoy sex with someone who has no personality. Will feel cheated after... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On here its looks 9/10, I'll happily chat to anyone but unless they really catch my interest then if i dont like the look of them its a no!
in the rest of life personality (although ive got to like the look of them too!)"
see i feel like that, for someone your planning to spend your life with personality counts, from someone your friends with personality counts, for someone your just going to shag and probably never see again surely looks matter more? |
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"On here its looks 9/10, I'll happily chat to anyone but unless they really catch my interest then if i dont like the look of them its a no!
in the rest of life personality (although ive got to like the look of them too!)
see i feel like that, for someone your planning to spend your life with personality counts, from someone your friends with personality counts, for someone your just going to shag and probably never see again surely looks matter more? "
to me it depends on context, in a club, then yeah, looks, but on the forum and in chat there are plenty who have got my juices flowing from their personality, doesnt mean i want to marry them, just that ,to me an attractive person comes in many forms...
ffs i have a crush on granny and who knows what she looks like...would still do her though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On here its looks 9/10, I'll happily chat to anyone but unless they really catch my interest then if i dont like the look of them its a no!
in the rest of life personality (although ive got to like the look of them too!)
see i feel like that, for someone your planning to spend your life with personality counts, from someone your friends with personality counts, for someone your just going to shag and probably never see again surely looks matter more?
to me it depends on context, in a club, then yeah, looks, but on the forum and in chat there are plenty who have got my juices flowing from their personality, doesnt mean i want to marry them, just that ,to me an attractive person comes in many forms...
ffs i have a crush on granny and who knows what she looks like...would still do her though "
i agree with that too, it does depend on the meet, ive played in clubs may times and not even known the name of who i have shagged, had them come over and say hi another week and ive not even remembered them lol
obviously i show more interest in people on personal meets but i only have to like them enough to want to spend some times with them, its very rare i meet anyone on here who i would class as they type of guy id want to meet again anyway, guys i meet more than once are very few and far between |
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"On here its looks 9/10, I'll happily chat to anyone but unless they really catch my interest then if i dont like the look of them its a no!
in the rest of life personality (although ive got to like the look of them too!)
see i feel like that, for someone your planning to spend your life with personality counts, from someone your friends with personality counts, for someone your just going to shag and probably never see again surely looks matter more?
to me it depends on context, in a club, then yeah, looks, but on the forum and in chat there are plenty who have got my juices flowing from their personality, doesnt mean i want to marry them, just that ,to me an attractive person comes in many forms...
ffs i have a crush on granny and who knows what she looks like...would still do her though
i agree with that too, it does depend on the meet, ive played in clubs may times and not even known the name of who i have shagged, had them come over and say hi another week and ive not even remembered them lol
obviously i show more interest in people on personal meets but i only have to like them enough to want to spend some times with them, its very rare i meet anyone on here who i would class as they type of guy id want to meet again anyway, guys i meet more than once are very few and far between"
oh god i hate it when someone comes up to you in a club,clearly remember you and you dont have a clue who they are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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they say you don't look at the mantelpiece when you're stoking the fire
but you do look at the ornaments on top !
so yes looks are important
personality is a much added bonus that makes the difference between one meet or more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks first
If i like the look of someone i will make the effort to get to know them, if we click personality wise i'll meet
If i dont find them attractive thats the end of it
Then again depends in what context that is, if someone i didnt fancy spoke to me in a club of course id chat, but if someone on here send me a pic and i didnt fancy them then i wouldnt reply"
Couldn't agree more   |
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By *icboyMan
over a year ago
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"If the question was changed to 'Looks or Attitude', then we'd say 50/50. We rarely get to know a playmate well enough to know their personality. "
Attitude and personality are one and the same... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the question was changed to 'Looks or Attitude', then we'd say 50/50. We rarely get to know a playmate well enough to know their personality.
Attitude and personality are one and the same..."
Think you need to check the definitions of both.
Personality and character are the same
Attitude is completely different.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"looks may get someones foot in the door so to speak.... but it is very much personality for me that will get them thru it.....
I know that I am odd in that respect....."
Your not odd at all Fabio, in my life (bearing in mind I'm 48) I can not think of any girl I have not gone out with/married etc that I didn't already know!
Oh that sounds bad but is probably true, hey I must have one hell of a personality!!!
Oh and it;s Ian typing bye the way!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess i am fussy... Looks are important as you have to be attracted to them... but there needs to be a chemistry and connection... so both please... anyone with both... here i am x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet this man who was so good looking a male model ,,,,,, he was so far up his own bum , lol made me see looks are no everything a small part i have to have a nice person . x
i think i met him
met a guy in a pub for a drink and all he did was talk about himself, and not in a interesting way, about all the young girls he can pull in the clubs, about how much he can bench press at the gym, about how much he spent on clothes, about how popular he is and how everyone loves him etc really nice looking guy with a body to die for but the ultimate in male bimbo, so when he asked me if i wanted to go back to his hotel i politely said no thanks and he was genuinly shocked i remember amoung other thing he said.....what!! YOUR turning ME down "
ohhh, that must of been like licking cream off a pert buttock, go on confess it, you enjoyed cutting those balls off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"looks may get someones foot in the door so to speak.... but it is very much personality for me that will get them thru it.....
I know that I am odd in that respect....."
Not odd at all, if I meet someone and there an absolute arse then there's no way im going to want to sleep with them, its just my criteria for what's a good personality is a bit different on here than if it was a "romantic" interest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmmmm, so how about a 3sum with one of each, you can fuck the good looking one while having a cosey ole chin wag getting to know the others great personality?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes!"
Looks help with initial attraction, but the mind is the best part for two people to enjoy a sexual charge!
Mind you will not even think of fun with any one toothed, bo riden thing!
In essence, looks help, plain looking is fine, wall flower/girl next door please! But most of all clean, respectful and human! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet this man who was so good looking a male model ,,,,,, he was so far up his own bum , lol made me see looks are no everything a small part i have to have a nice person . x
i think i met him
met a guy in a pub for a drink and all he did was talk about himself, and not in a interesting way, about all the young girls he can pull in the clubs, about how much he can bench press at the gym, about how much he spent on clothes, about how popular he is and how everyone loves him etc really nice looking guy with a body to die for but the ultimate in male bimbo, so when he asked me if i wanted to go back to his hotel i politely said no thanks and he was genuinly shocked i remember amoung other thing he said.....what!! YOUR turning ME down ohhh, that must of been like licking cream off a pert buttock, go on confess it, you enjoyed cutting those balls off!"
nooooo he was gorgeous i would have loved to had shagged him but i just kept sitting there thinking.....god i bet your a crap shag, i had images of him being one of them guys who thought he was so gorgeous the women would do all the work lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely have to have both. Not desperate. Why should we settle? Rather go without than compromise.
Ain't gonna lie..will have both but looks first and then personality to back up the looks. But have to say personality is the deal breaker for me. I could never enjoy sex with someone who has no personality. Will feel cheated after..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do we mean though by personality?
Do we mean they must be super friendly, extra funny, mega thoughtful, ultra polite.... or just not be a dickhead?"
can be any or all of the above
Personality are like looks, everyone likes different, If i meet someone for a drink i can usually tell before ive finished my first drink if i like them or not, some because they just seem nice, some because they are funny, some beacuse they have a irresistible cheekiness, theres all kinds of traits i go for in a personality |
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