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It can be quite a turn on to be vulnerable for a start, in my opinion in some respects it makes me feel more girly as in a forced sex fantasy I would be the inferior one. It is also a massive turn on to see the guy that you have consented to do this so powerful and dominating. Its a fucked up fantasy but I get it  |
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You need to ask her how she pictures it.
Does she want to feel vulnerable? Afraid? Overwhelmed? Does she want the illusion to be achieved through words? Does she want the sex to be rough?
Has she been assaulted in the past (some victims try to regain control of a terrifying memory by recreating aspects of it in consensual sex)?
What safe words and signals will you use? Safe signals (like a double tap) are needed if she can’t speak due to her position.
Are all the men involved (1) happy with roleplay and (2) completely trustworthy?
What are her limits? Slapping? Hands on her throat? Etc etc.
Will each man have a way of establishing her ongoing consent? For example, if her fantasy is that she pretends to resist, how does each man know that she’s actually consenting? Will they each know the safewords/signals?
Talk a lot with each other before you go further. |
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"You need to ask her how she pictures it.
Does she want to feel vulnerable? Afraid? Overwhelmed? Does she want the illusion to be achieved through words? Does she want the sex to be rough?
Has she been assaulted in the past (some victims try to regain control of a terrifying memory by recreating aspects of it in consensual sex)?
What safe words and signals will you use? Safe signals (like a double tap) are needed if she can’t speak due to her position.
Are all the men involved (1) happy with roleplay and (2) completely trustworthy?
What are her limits? Slapping? Hands on her throat? Etc etc.
Will each man have a way of establishing her ongoing consent? For example, if her fantasy is that she pretends to resist, how does each man know that she’s actually consenting? Will they each know the safewords/signals?
Talk a lot with each other before you go further. "
This sounds more like a day of work than a hot sexy fantasy... |
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"You need to ask her how she pictures it.
Does she want to feel vulnerable? Afraid? Overwhelmed? Does she want the illusion to be achieved through words? Does she want the sex to be rough?
Has she been assaulted in the past (some victims try to regain control of a terrifying memory by recreating aspects of it in consensual sex)?
What safe words and signals will you use? Safe signals (like a double tap) are needed if she can’t speak due to her position.
Are all the men involved (1) happy with roleplay and (2) completely trustworthy?
What are her limits? Slapping? Hands on her throat? Etc etc.
Will each man have a way of establishing her ongoing consent? For example, if her fantasy is that she pretends to resist, how does each man know that she’s actually consenting? Will they each know the safewords/signals?
Talk a lot with each other before you go further.
This sounds more like a day of work than a hot sexy fantasy..."
Really? A conversation about safe words and limits in a forced-sex fantasy? You’d go ahead without that? |
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"You need to ask her how she pictures it.
Does she want to feel vulnerable? Afraid? Overwhelmed? Does she want the illusion to be achieved through words? Does she want the sex to be rough?
Has she been assaulted in the past (some victims try to regain control of a terrifying memory by recreating aspects of it in consensual sex)?
What safe words and signals will you use? Safe signals (like a double tap) are needed if she can’t speak due to her position.
Are all the men involved (1) happy with roleplay and (2) completely trustworthy?
What are her limits? Slapping? Hands on her throat? Etc etc.
Will each man have a way of establishing her ongoing consent? For example, if her fantasy is that she pretends to resist, how does each man know that she’s actually consenting? Will they each know the safewords/signals?
Talk a lot with each other before you go further.
This sounds more like a day of work than a hot sexy fantasy...
Really? A conversation about safe words and limits in a forced-sex fantasy? You’d go ahead without that? "
No not at all........ it’s just when you think about this particular fantasy... you never stop and think about all the work it entails first... |
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