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Am i wrong?

By *earhugs1 OP Couple over a year ago

Glasgow

Am I wrong to be annoyed when single guys message us and the message is just addresses "hi, Karen" or "hi sexy"? We're a couple and I hate when mike isn't acknowledged. If we were in a club and someone ignored him and only chatted to me they would be given a wide berth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No i think your right to feel that way as you are a couple and anyone out there should treat you as such....i always say hi to both when i send mail...anyway good evening to you both xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

it is respectful to address you both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It sounds rude to me. Whenever I have messaged a couple, I adress it to both parties.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple over a year ago

somewhere out there

not in the least, as my profile states its me that does the messaging, and it is really only single guys were lookin straight guys so the only time i get annoyed is when i get talked about like i have no say, as in third party, hate the, hi i think stacey is sexy or ur a lucky guy! that pisses me off

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By *nvyCouple over a year ago

Waltham Cross

I've been turned right off a guy even if I thought they were fit for that exact reason. The 'lucky man' one used to give me a giggle as well but it's just how it goes on here, some idiot chancers and then some nice gen guys but it will always be the clued up ones who address you as a couple. Just delete and block all the others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am I wrong to be annoyed when single guys message us and the message is just addresses "hi, Karen" or "hi sexy"? We're a couple and I hate when mike isn't acknowledged. If we were in a club and someone ignored him and only chatted to me they would be given a wide berth.

Sorry,this is not meant to be a thread slagging single guys again. We play with single guys regularly, the more the merrier! Lol. I just feel mike, as my partner, deserves some respect. Rant over. K x"
Nope ur right which is y i tend 2 b 'inclusive' whenever i message a couple, unless i know which 1 i'm talking 2

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By *un_JuiceCouple over a year ago

Nr Chester

".....i think stacey is sexy or ur a lucky guy! that pisses me off

Agreed. As the male i wonder how people come to that conclusion. Mostly it's meant as a compliment but come on give us credit and some respect. We consider ourselves grateful finding one another.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if messaging a couple it's only polite to address both people

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By *ot - CoupleCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

We get it too, all the single guy sees is a female lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

"not in the least, as my profile states its me that does the messaging, and it is really only single guys were lookin straight guys so the only time i get annoyed is when i get talked about like i have no say, as in third party, hate the, hi i think stacey is sexy or ur a lucky guy! that pisses me off

same here, despite the profile clearly saying i am the one online we still get messages saying i want to fuck your wife...

i think for some people the idea of women who are sexual and independently minded is just too much to handle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeh this annoys me. In our profile it's me that does the talking because i'm always the one that messages and arranges the meets. Then you get guys assuming that they are talking to the bloke still which seems to me that they either haven't read our profile or have decided that it's really written by a man, both of which pisses me off.

I do prefer it when we get addressed as a couple and don't mind if they ask which one of us they are talking to.

I don't really mind being addressed as just me as our profile is written that way and I'll always bring Charlie swiftly into the conversation if they haven't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah its annoying. we get it a lot. we've generally made our minds up by the time we've finished reading the mail, unless the words hun or babes appear in the first line. we don't even read those ones. we had one this weekend called Tra 'ma'am' which she found equally charming and unnerving

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By *obletonMan over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

look at it this way - they have given you enough information in the first 2 words of their message for you to make a decision about whether or not you should reply, chat, or meet them - so they've made the decision very easy for you.

With so many single guys to choose from, that can only be a good thing from your perspective surely?

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By *adja_lazloCouple over a year ago

Solihull

nope it annoys us too

xxx

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