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By *imited 3Edition OP   Couple  over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

It's been a long time since we had our first threesome as a couple but got to wondering what it's like from the perspective of the single person. I'm currently chatting to a single male who has yet to meet with a couple. I have no idea what it's like going into one for the first time but solo.... anyone care to share their experience? I'll pointing the guy to this thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was only 17 year-old me and a mate took a girl to a campervan in the car park of the local pub i was fucking her while he was getting a bj we couldn't stop laughing she must of felt awkward especially when most of the lads in the pub came out to cheer us on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not sure from a single males perspective but...

I've had quite a few ffm's while I was in a fb relationship 15 years ago, loved the build up, the after meeting sex & reliving it talk for weeks after.

When I joined here last year I thought I'd try it as a single female, had met someone a few times & he asked if I'd be up for a ffm with his fwb. It was both of their first time, we had a social, all talked & agreed.

It was good fun, did enjoy it but the dynamics where different & I went home alone with no-one to relive it with, was a bit envious of their post meet high.

It did leave me not wanting to try again though so advice would be remember the other person after but to enjoy it for what it is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I remember being very nervous but also very excited at the thought of it Probably didn't help the nerves side that it was my first Fab meet though

I had a great time though and really enjoyed it.

C

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan  over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Always consider it a real privilege to be invited by a couple to play. I tend to enjoy the build up and love to see the lady being the centre of attention. Have never found it intimidating or scary, just an awful lot of fun.

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By *oulja 100Man  over a year ago

Yorkshire

My first threesome with a couple, I would need to rewind back 7 years. The couple were great, a stunning lady and Mr was very genuine.

We met for a drink in a public and to have a chat, I will be honest I was nervous as hell... And think I had a right to be, I was hours away from joining in this couples sex life and having my first MMF threesome. (So many things ran through my head; What if I do something she doesn't like? What if I touch his penis by mistake? and the list goes on)

The couple were great, meeting and chatting over a few drinks helped the nerves turn into excitement as the ground rules were established and of course the flirtation and chemistry built up.

The rest is history really, loved the sexual experience... Actually ended up seeing the same couple a number of times after that night as we delved deeper into more sexual fantasies together.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's been a long time since we had our first threesome as a couple but got to wondering what it's like from the perspective of the single person. I'm currently chatting to a single male who has yet to meet with a couple. I have no idea what it's like going into one for the first time but solo.... anyone care to share their experience? I'll pointing the guy to this thread "

I was very nervous but I met a lovely couple (no longer on here unfortunately) and they both put me at ease. In spite of having a lot of gay and transgender friends, I am totally straight in my sexuality - I’d never seen another erect penis in the flesh. Thankfully, he was equally straight and we avoided any male-male contact.

I was very pleased that I could still be fully aroused (that was my greatest fear) in spite of another man being present (but she was very sexy, so not really a surprise!) Solo and combined, it is fair to say we ensured she had a very pleasurable experience and we did too, as a result.

I suppose my only other fear was for my own safety - being alone, naked and thus vulnerable, with two strangers but that fear quickly evaporated.

The presence of the other man did nothing for me - although ultimately I enjoyed the voyeurism of her receiving pleasure even when I was in a resting state.

It certainly didn’t discourage me from 3sums, I love the idea of two of us giving a woman double the pleasure - although I would prefer to be with two women.

I hope that’s an honest enough account for you.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have only met one couple (twice) on my own (for a bi MMF) and honestly couldn't have asked for a better experience - they were very considerate and inclusive of me in everything that happened, from the moment we all met and spent some time socially, through playing and then spending some wind down time afterwards.

For me the key was not being made to feel like the spare part and very much included in everything we did.

Would definitely repeat under those circumstances if the opportunity arose.

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By *m3232Man  over a year ago

maidenhead

My first threesome was many years ago and had many since then. 99% have been great fun

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

My first threesome was a bit of a mixed bag.

A couple of no shows but I had a great time.

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My first threesome with a couple, I would need to rewind back 7 years. The couple were great, a stunning lady and Mr was very genuine.

We met for a drink in a public and to have a chat, I will be honest I was nervous as hell... And think I had a right to be, I was hours away from joining in this couples sex life and having my first MMF threesome. (So many things ran through my head; What if I do something she doesn't like? What if I touch his penis by mistake? and the list goes on)

The couple were great, meeting and chatting over a few drinks helped the nerves turn into excitement as the ground rules were established and of course the flirtation and chemistry built up.

The rest is history really, loved the sexual experience... Actually ended up seeing the same couple a number of times after that night as we delved deeper into more sexual fantasies together.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My first threesome was back in 2011, it was initially planned to be a threesome. I had a arranged to meet an older lady at her house, she was married and they were both swingers but he was going out for the evening.

The lady messaged be during the day and said a guy she’s met previously wanted to meet and asked if I would be happy for him to join us. He was bi and she loved bi group fun.

I agreed as it would be a first but also I found the lady incredibly sexy and couldn’t believe she wanted to meet.

It was the best sexual experience I’ve ever had and something I would love to repeat.

The whole threeway anal was just an incredible experience and then she made us cum on her feet at the end. (For my foot fetish, delicious)

I did find it awkward when her husband returned and joined in, the whole dynamics were new to me and I struggled to continue.

I’ve since met many couples and love the dynamics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's been a long time since we had our first threesome as a couple but got to wondering what it's like from the perspective of the single person. I'm currently chatting to a single male who has yet to meet with a couple. I have no idea what it's like going into one for the first time but solo.... anyone care to share their experience? I'll pointing the guy to this thread "

An ideal subject to bring up for me, like the guy your chatting to I have MMF fantasies that I would like to fulfil, to date I've not found a couple willing to chat about the etiquette of a threesome as a single guy with a couple, as another guy on here mentioned you don't want to feel like a spare part or do something that is going to overstep the mark so it's good to here that your chatting to this guy and helping him with his introduction to threesome fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is a very interesting thread to read! As a single guy interested in potentially organising my first, but very nervous about it, it’s reassuring to know that other people felt the same way!

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I think I was quite lucky that I stumbled into it.

I'd gone to a social, after which many forum people were staying in the same travelodge. I had had some encouraging chat with one woman in advance, and this continued through the evening.

What I hadn't twigged was that she was actually part of a couple - the fella spent most of the evening getting a BJ from someone else. The first I knew about it was when we were all back at the hotel, and quiet arrangements were being made as to who was sleeping where. I thought I was ending up with this woman and another (separate) couple, which would be pretty exciting for my first swinging experience. But then this other guy's tagging along, and the other couple end up in a different room.

Next thing I know I'm kneeling on a bed as she sucks off her man, reaching behind to pull her underwear to one side to give me access... I just got on with it, not even noticing that he wasn't getting hard - turned out this was always the case in company, whereas I was more focused on the increasingly naked woman writhing around between us.

We all got to sleep around 5am, she then woke me up at 9 for round two, which was wonderfully slow and grinding.

Not sure how this helps, OP, but I'm grateful for being reminded!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a single I was obviously nervous. I was meeting with a couple who knew each other like nobody else did. They were a team and I was the "new girl" or at least that's how it felt.

We went for a few drinks and hung out for a good few hours just chatting and getting to know one another before we "went upstairs"

It felt comfortable and I was at ease. They were cool, friendly and honest. We were into the same music and had similar interests. Stories got told back and forth and we got on great.

My main concern was doing or saying anything that may offend or upset either of them. Last thing I wanted was to cause any issues, and I've had hated it if there was any angst between them over me.

I was made to feel at home, and really welcome, to the point where I met with them regularly. I'd make the brews if anyone wanted one (not all the time) but I was comfortable enough to just crack on with it. I'd even met a few of their family members.

It got to the point it became too much though, I was seeing them regularly and the chap wanted to meet alone. I could have very easily come between them if I was that way inclined, but their relationship was paramount to me, so even though I loved spending time with them, I had to call it a day for the sakes of all involved.

I couldn't have it on my conscience if their relationship broke down over my involvement with them.

I still speak to them on occasion, and all is well. They respected me for walking away, because it meant I respected their relationship.

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a bad experience of being the single! I was naive and boundaries weren't discussed and it ended badly! This has put me off so if I were to have another I would be part of the couple rather than the single again

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By *ifferentClassMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

My first threesome was interesting. I had an MMF planned with a couple I had been chatting to for ages. She looked gorgeous and he seemed like a really good guy. We talked through all the scenarios they had envisioned and we were all on the same page. I was very excited.

Anyway, they never showed on the night in question so I had to proceed by myself. It was a really good night but not quite what I was expecting. It’s important to go with the flow, though!

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By *ohnygodMan  over a year ago

TOKYO Japan

Ive never have... Trying to do as much I can get to try but people saying Im too yoing here..

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple  over a year ago

Bloxham

We love our threesomes (when we get chance to play ) we always have social with view to play as the build up erotic . Hopefully we make the 3rd person feel relaxed and comfortable

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By *eanne n AliCouple  over a year ago

glasgow

On my first threesome with a couple I was really very nervous. I was on here with my old profile (I was a single TV at the time) I had been chatting with a couple on here in the chat rooms for a while, had a lot in common with the lady as we shared much the same taste in music. After a while she asked me if I would like to meet up with them. I was quite astounded she asked as they were only looking to meet with and had only ever met couples. We agreed a date and time and on the day I travelled over to their place. I parked the car and I was shaking so bad due to nerves that I nearly called it off. I calmed down a little, got out the car and went to their house and rang the doorbell. I was greeted by the lady who looked absolutely gorgeous and welcomed in. I had arrived in male made as agreed. We went through to the lounge and was introduced to her husband who was an absolute gentleman. We had a drink and a chat and was asked if I wanted to get changed. I was shown to the bedroom and the lady stayed with me while I got changed as she wanted to witness the transformation. I was still so nervous and my hands were shaking which made doing my makeup difficult so the lady assisted me which she later admitted she really enjoyed doing. We went back downstairs and her husband was introduced to Leanne. We had another glass of wine and a chat, worked out the do's and dont's. Mr is not bi so no playing with him was the big don't for the evening. All this time the lady was sitting next to me stroking my stocking clad legs. She then leaned over and kissed me very passionately which I of course returned. We had a lovely long snog and her hand kept getting higher and higher up my leg until she found what she was looking for and gently massaged it until it was hard. All this time I was aware that her husband was just a few feet away watching us. It was a very strange feeling, here I was with someone's wife while he was present. I was nervous, excited nd a whole mixture of other feelings as well. The lady pulled away from me, took my hand and led me back up to the bedroom with her husband following.

It was a great evening and probably the best introduction I could have had into the world of swinging. I probably would have enjoyed it more had I not been so nervous but still had a most enjoyable time and made two fantastic friends as well.

Leanne xx

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

My first ever meet was with a couple from here, after chatting for a while we agreed to meet in my local swingers club (also my first ever visit to a club) nervous doesn't even cover how I felt!

They were late turning up but that in many ways was good as I got my bearings and calmed down a little. They were really nice, introduced me to a few of their friends and after chatting for most of the night we found a private room.

I stayed in contact with them and met them again after that night although we've lost contact now.

Thinking back though I learned a huge amount from meeting them, do's, don'ts and what I need and want from meeting people.

It was the first of many threesomes for me and really a formative experience.

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By *ug247Man  over a year ago

Near You

My first one was very nerve wracking. I was meeting at their house and kept over thinking what I was going to see when I got there. Was it a fake and was I going to get beating up.

I couldn’t of been more wrong. They were both so welcoming and made me feel at ease immediately.

We chatted for a fair while before anything else happened which also helped us relax.

The problem with such a great first meet you keep searching for the same every time.

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan  over a year ago

Northern England

Here's the story of my first threesome and my perspective. I posted this before some time ago; but seeing as it's Christmas! I hope you all enjoy reading through it.

Well, you're certainly going to laugh at this bit; but my interest in threesomes goes back a LONG way. I was probably only 10 or 11 at the time! Many of you won't remember it, but there was a TV sitcom back in the day called "Man About the House".

Well, in it, Mildred (played by the actress Yootha Joyce) the married, but sexually frustrated landlady, frequently made overt sexual advances to Robin (played by Richard O'Sullivan) - the bloke from the upstairs flat - whilst bemoaning her husband's sexual inadequacies.

Well, whilst watching it, something "clicked" with me. I think it was her manifest, yet unfulfilled sexuality (or was it her negligee and fluffy slippers ha ha), coupled with the ineptitude of her husband, that put the thought of satisfying another man's wife into my head.

Anyway these fantasies about fucking married / partnered women in front of their other halves remained just that for decades (my marriage was pretty vanilla); until 2001. I was going through my divorce at the time, not in a particularly good place, and alone at my Chairman's retirement party.

At my table was John; one of our suppliers, and his lovely wife Louise. They were from the same town as me, so we at least had something to talk about, besides my matrimonial woes!

As we talked, drank and the evening progressed; I found that my mood had lifted, and I was really enjoying their company. Louise and I danced, and flirted, and as the three of us sat round the table at the end of the evening, she asked me if I'd like to go back to their room "for a nightcap" - accompanied by a broad smile and a theatrical wink of approval from John.

She gave me their room number, and asked me to give them 10 minutes to "freshen up".

After the allotted time, I made my way up to their room; unsure if it was to be a wind up, a mug of cocoa or a night of debauchery - fortunately their room was on the same floor as mine, so no suspicions were aroused in as I got out of the lift.

I walked down the corridor to their room, and knocked on their door. John almost immediately opened it, quickly ushering me inside, where Louise was waiting, draped across the bed in her lingerie. He closed the door behind me, held his arm out towards Louise, and said "help yourself".

I didn't need any encouragement; and within seconds, I was on the bed beside her, our arms around each other and kissing passionately. As she released my cock, she told me that she'd wanted this ever since she felt my "bulge" as we danced. I was completely aware of (and actually turned on by) John's presence; and our hands were all over each other, as we knelt together on the bed; undressing, caressing, licking and sucking each other. I pinned her to the bed and entered her. As we fucked, she orgasmed, and commented breathlessly; "John, this is how a real man fucks" - which sent me over the edge, and I came deep inside her as we kissed.

Presently, I glanced across at John in the chair, he was still watching us intently - and frantically wanking away. Louise looked across at him, and said; "wimp; stop wanking, come over here, and clean up this mess". He didn't need any encouragement; in an instant he had his face buried between Louise's thighs, and was eagerly lapping away, and devouring my spunk and her juices.

Presently, John got up, made us all a cuppa, and we sat, talked, and laughed about the experience; they had done it before - with a waiter on holiday a few years previously, but they told me that they wanted something regular at home.

I laughed, and commented that I'd been set up for this; they agreed, and told me that they had discussed it whilst I was away at the bar earlier in the evening. I certainly wasn't going to complain. John then joined us on the bed, and the three of us fucked the rest of the night away - including John and I giving Louise a DP.

In the morning Louise and I exchanged numbers, I went back to my room and then home. I sent her a text, telling her how much I had enjoyed our time together; and during the week, we exchanged several fruity messages, and arranged to meet again at their house on the following Saturday night.

Her text messages revealed that Louise loved to be dominated and fucked, John got off on the humiliation, and well, I just loved the dynamics of it all, and being the third side to a very kinky triangle That was the start of a regular 4 year "thing".

As time went by, any inhibitions we may have had, disappeared. Louise especially loved to be DP'd, and the close proximity of the other man's cock is inevitable. Almost to my surprise, and as a "100% straight bloke", I was totally cool with it - especially when I saw how much it turned her on.

She loved to have me fuck her anally from behind and spank her, whilst John laid underneath and licked her.

One night; it must've been our third or fourth meeting, I felt his tongue lick my balls and cock whilst I fucked her. It was pleasurable. After my orgasm, he licked and sucked my cock clean too, and this planted a seed in my mind about exploring my bisexuality.

For the next time we met, I had done some research into cuckoldry, and instructed Louise to buy John a cock cage, and keep him in chastity for the week prior to our meetings. Louise and I would each hold a key.

Prior to my arrival, John was to help her bathe, then shave her, lay out her clothes, and then put on her underwear - knickers, stockings and a little camisole top.

On my arrival, he greeted me at the door - dressed accordingly. I gave his cock cage a little wiggle, slapped his arse and laughed, as he led me into the lounge, where Louise was waiting. He flounced around serving us drinks and nibbles, whilst Louise and I chatted and got reacquainted. She suggested it would be deliciously humiliating for "the wimp" - and pleasurable for me, to have John suck her lover's cock and lick his arse. I found myself agreeing, and I told her that she should assist.

He was surprisingly proficient, and I complimented him on his cocksucking skills. "I trained him well with my dildo" Louise replied. For a while, the two of them selflessly shared, sucked, and licked my cock, balls and arse - and most gratifying it was too.

Presently, as Louise looked lustfully into my eyes, I gestured upwards - meaning that we should carry on in the bedroom. She got up, and I followed her shapely bottom upstairs to their bedroom and marital bed, whilst John meekly tagged along behind.

That night, the sex was particularly intense; Louise enjoyed being fucked hard; and John encouraged this from his chair by the door - imploring me to "give her a good seeing to". As I took her, Louise breathlessly replied to her husband; "he should give YOU a good seeing to". In the heat of the moment, and to my surprise; I found the idea appealing; and told him to get his sissy arse up on the bed, and kneel beside her.

She reached over to the bedside drawer, and produced a bottle of lube, and told John to remove his knickers and get on all fours. Louise joined me kneeling on their bed, squirted the lube over my hard cock and expertly and liberally smeared it around, and in his anus - unbeknownst to me, Louise had a strap on - and she'd been "pegging" him with it for quite some time!

She kissed me, taking hold of my erection, and then guided it into her husband. I began to fuck him, whilst kissing her and fingering her. This was, without doubt, the horniest experience of my life thus far - but there was MUCH more to come.

They both enjoyed being spanked enormously; and I obtained a range of implements to supplement my hands: a paddle, a flogger (her favourite), my daughters old riding crop, and a wooden spoon from their kitchen. As time progressed, we acquired more paraphernalia; ropes, gags, clamps, and an under the mattress restraint system, with cuffs for the wrists and ankles.

As the months went by, and the better we knew each other, the more uninhibited the sex became, the more uninhibited and kinky the sex was; the more we all enjoyed it.

On many occasions indulged in kinky watersports fun; which we all enjoyed enormously - so much so, that we invested in a kids paddling pool!

We carried on our monthly assignations till I met my ex girlfriend in 2005, but we still remained friends - and to this day, I still wank on the memories.

I'd be very interested to read about your thoughts on this - feel free to PM me.

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By *onnoisseur100Man  over a year ago

Woking-ish

The mixture of fear and anxiety of being in front of the door and ringing the bell for the first time is something I haven't been able to get used to. I love it! The first one, I was in two minds to run away lol, glad I didn't had a great time and so did the couple (well they invited me back again a couple of times.....)

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By *riendly and hornyMan  over a year ago

Crewe

An asian couple. I was surprisingly relaxed but was not going to instigate anything. They drove to my house and we had a few drinks and a chat. She was British born but he couldn't speak much English which was a little awkward. After about an hour he went to the bathroom and she started kissing me and got my cock out. She then whipped off her Sari and got naked revealing amazing boobs and body.

He came very quickly but we carried on fucking. He joined in again until it was all over.

Looking back it was a very horny experience.

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By *entileschiWoman  over a year ago

Norwich

Had my first threesome when I was 18. Took me 25 years to get round to another one!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am still waiting for my first MFM but am hopeful for 2019 .... A girl can dream

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By *ost SockMan  over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"I am still waiting for my first MFM but am hopeful for 2019 .... A girl can dream "

I’m singing that rubbish Gabrielle song from yore now .

I’ve been lucky enough to meet a few couples. It’s amazing.

I look forward to the time when the voice in my head that keeps going “****ing hell Sock, you’re having a threesome” decides to bugger off.

I doubt he/she ever will tbh

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