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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After a few exchanged emails arranged a meet with someoff FAB. When I arrived the husband opened the door , showed me into the lounge where the lady was sitting on the couch dressed only in dressing gown. The husband left the room leaving us alone . She was much much older than her pictures and just opened her gown and said “fuck me “no hello or any introductions . I really did not want to be their at all and did not
fancy her in the least.. I said thanks but no thanks and left...
Any one else with similar experiences where people are really not what they appeared to be ... should have
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Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving "
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement! "
Could not agree more ... social first and foremost |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement! "
Very true. Years ago I met a lady from here. She must have been standing in front of a fairground mirror in her photos. Met for a social. She was a lot larger. But a lovely lady and Had a couple of play meets with her  |
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement! "
I really don't understand heavy editing on a site like this. If you do meet, it'll be obvious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement!
I really don't understand heavy editing on a site like this. If you do meet, it'll be obvious. "
The amount of filters people use is crazy. Pics are very deceiving that is why I don't give them priority. When I happen to bump into people at organised socials it is like meeting a totally different person compared to their pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement!
I really don't understand heavy editing on a site like this. If you do meet, it'll be obvious. "
I guess some people don't think that far ahead, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really don't understand heavy editing on a site like this. If you do meet, it'll be obvious. "
I think a lot of people take advantage of the culture of being polite.
I’ve met people before that don’t look like their photos - and I’ve sometimes struggled with how to tell them or turn them down. Initially (in my early 20’s) I didn’t even have the heart to say anything, and it would result in an awkward horrible meet. There’s so much pressure not to hurt other people or be rude....
However, as I’ve gotten older I’ve realised a lot people who do airbrushed photos know that other people are polite and kind, and so they’ll take advantage of that - and if you dare say they dont look like their photos then they’ll switch to emotional games and call you shallow etc.
So - Snapchat/Instagram filters and pictures taken from above at “the angle” are an instant red flag for me |
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I really don't understand heavy editing on a site like this. If you do meet, it'll be obvious.
I think a lot of people take advantage of the culture of being polite.
I’ve met people before that don’t look like their photos - and I’ve sometimes struggled with how to tell them or turn them down. Initially (in my early 20’s) I didn’t even have the heart to say anything, and it would result in an awkward horrible meet. There’s so much pressure not to hurt other people or be rude....
However, as I’ve gotten older I’ve realised a lot people who do airbrushed photos know that other people are polite and kind, and so they’ll take advantage of that - and if you dare say they dont look like their photos then they’ll switch to emotional games and call you shallow etc.
So - Snapchat/Instagram filters and pictures taken from above at “the angle” are an instant red flag for me "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Worryingly, I've been told I do in fact look like my pics lol. As for filters etc, I only ever crop or maybe add frames or effects like b/w. I can't see the point of lying about what you look like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement! "
Also lots of profiles have photos that are 5 - 12 years old. They have the same photos from when they first signed up for Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very frustrating and completely pointless if you're actually meeting. I'll only ever meet for socials first for this exact reason. It's got to be a two way attraction so it's as much about showing myself as seeing the other person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement!
Also lots of profiles have photos that are 5 - 12 years old. They have the same photos from when they first signed up for Fab. "
I used to edit the fuck out of our photos as otherwise we'd never get meets. Perfected the 'make you cock look huge' angle and everything.
And yes - ours are the same we had up when we last used the site 4/5 years ago.
I guess everyone was just too polite to tell us to fuck off when we met them. Thanks god for small mercies....
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My experiences have been entirely different and I find the majority of people I meet look far better in the flesh than in their photos.
I often see people at clubs who I have completely discounted on fab because their photos (and/or entire profile) are terrible but in real life they are lovely people and rather sexy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My experiences have been entirely different and I find the majority of people I meet look far better in the flesh than in their photos.
I often see people at clubs who I have completely discounted on fab because their photos (and/or entire profile) are terrible but in real life they are lovely people and rather sexy!"
This  |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving "
Totally this. Photos from years ago ... always, always have a social first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now "
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet "
He sounded and acted a little bit like the main guy in ‘the office’ series.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My experiences have been entirely different and I find the majority of people I meet look far better in the flesh than in their photos.
I often see people at clubs who I have completely discounted on fab because their photos (and/or entire profile) are terrible but in real life they are lovely people and rather sexy!
This "
Oh yes that is a great post to show the other side! Good balance
I confirm that! Very true because that also happens often at socials I have attended. Another reason why I don't give pics online priority because you just don't know till you actually meet in person. |
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It is an unfortunate turn if events for the op .
But he says that they exchanged emails beforehand , so I’m wondering if the scenario wasn’t mentioned ?
If it was then surely he must have had some idea what to expect . There are couples who go for this , she will be in the bedroom waiting , you walk in fuck her and go . No talking etc....
it’s not our idea of a good meet but normally it’s discussed beforehand . The fact that she wasn’t like her pics is why so many people need a social first , but with this scenario it’s not logical . They clearly like the ‘stranger’ coming in and fuck and go with no pleasantries . Maybe a cam or Skype first would work ? |
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"Whoa I just read back my reply. I need to chill. Must be feeling grumpy this morning  "
No need to apologise.
You were spot on.
People do take advantage of the polite folks.
Just watch a salesperson at work!
It's not just in meets that it is tried on.
We very specifically put in our profile "discretion needed so no cams, phone etc. Social first only then when when we're up for play".
We get tons of "would bes" who after a couple of messages switch to "go on, just for me, I'm discrete too, just a quick video or phone call" and they turn offended when you say no.
Just how illiterate can some people be about basic net security if you don't want your life plastered all over the net? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is an unfortunate turn if events for the op .
But he says that they exchanged emails beforehand , so I’m wondering if the scenario wasn’t mentioned ?
If it was then surely he must have had some idea what to expect . There are couples who go for this , she will be in the bedroom waiting , you walk in fuck her and go . No talking etc....
it’s not our idea of a good meet but normally it’s discussed beforehand . The fact that she wasn’t like her pics is why so many people need a social first , but with this scenario it’s not logical . They clearly like the ‘stranger’ coming in and fuck and go with no pleasantries . Maybe a cam or Skype first would work ? "
It was never mentioned, I just expected a pleasant meeting with conversation and a glass of wine ... the whole experience was “strange” to me |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving
I just wanna add the amount of people who filter up and edit/photo shop their pics here is ridiculous. Fair enough if your not meeting but its frustrating.... Talk about false advertisement! "
I know I bet you’re not even a Witch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have some sympathy with the op.
I think we all have had meets were someone turned up not looking like their pictures.
I know I have and your always left feeling not so good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet
He sounded and acted a little bit like the main guy in ‘the office’ series. "
Haha I suppose that could be irritating more then anything. I thought you was going to say you had a preference for a type of voice... because I think some people do... there used to be voice threads on here years ago!
What if the ex footballer David Beckham called you? He has a high pitch voice... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet
He sounded and acted a little bit like the main guy in ‘the office’ series.
Haha I suppose that could be irritating more then anything. I thought you was going to say you had a preference for a type of voice... because I think some people do... there used to be voice threads on here years ago!
What if the ex footballer David Beckham called you? He has a high pitch voice..."
Haha I actually said that to someone recently before our phone call that I hoped he wouldn’t sound like him! I do like deep and well spoken if given the choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet
He sounded and acted a little bit like the main guy in ‘the office’ series.
Haha I suppose that could be irritating more then anything. I thought you was going to say you had a preference for a type of voice... because I think some people do... there used to be voice threads on here years ago!
What if the ex footballer David Beckham called you? He has a high pitch voice...
Haha I actually said that to someone recently before our phone call that I hoped he wouldn’t sound like him! I do like deep and well spoken if given the choice. "
That would have been an interesting or awkward conversation if he did. I think my voice is decent enough not to put anyone off. I have never been put off by a voice so that does put a new spin on things! So to sum up for the guys out there... you need a deep well spoken voice, over 6'2" and loves kissing to rip clothes off! You will have a queue forming now
Some would say you're "fussy" haha *joke* but it is good to have preferences to find ones potential match. Only way can identify which people to meet amongst 1000s.
Back to the topic...
For all the newbies and lurkers:
Don't be drawn in by pictures alone otherwise you could be in for disappointment. Have a little conversation to get a feel for the person and as many have said socials are perfect to not have a major let down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My experiences have been entirely different and I find the majority of people I meet look far better in the flesh than in their photos.
I often see people at clubs who I have completely discounted on fab because their photos (and/or entire profile) are terrible but in real life they are lovely people and rather sexy!"
I’d echo this, with a few exceptions of guys who used pics at least ten years old, but they are the minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really don't understand heavy editing on a site like this. If you do meet, it'll be obvious.
I think a lot of people take advantage of the culture of being polite.
I’ve met people before that don’t look like their photos - and I’ve sometimes struggled with how to tell them or turn them down. Initially (in my early 20’s) I didn’t even have the heart to say anything, and it would result in an awkward horrible meet. There’s so much pressure not to hurt other people or be rude....
However, as I’ve gotten older I’ve realised a lot people who do airbrushed photos know that other people are polite and kind, and so they’ll take advantage of that - and if you dare say they dont look like their photos then they’ll switch to emotional games and call you shallow etc.
So - Snapchat/Instagram filters and pictures taken from above at “the angle” are an instant red flag for me "
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now "
I've had this! I love a good deep voice...he sounded like a squeaky toy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
I've had this! I love a good deep voice...he sounded like a squeaky toy "
Oh no! Did you not go any further? Or just gag him? |
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet
He sounded and acted a little bit like the main guy in ‘the office’ series.
Haha I suppose that could be irritating more then anything. I thought you was going to say you had a preference for a type of voice... because I think some people do... there used to be voice threads on here years ago!
What if the ex footballer David Beckham called you? He has a high pitch voice...
Haha I actually said that to someone recently before our phone call that I hoped he wouldn’t sound like him! I do like deep and well spoken if given the choice.
That would have been an interesting or awkward conversation if he did. I think my voice is decent enough not to put anyone off. I have never been put off by a voice so that does put a new spin on things! So to sum up for the guys out there... you need a deep well spoken voice, over 6'2" and loves kissing to rip clothes off! You will have a queue forming now
Some would say you're "fussy" haha *joke* but it is good to have preferences to find ones potential match. Only way can identify which people to meet amongst 1000s.
Back to the topic...
For all the newbies and lurkers:
Don't be drawn in by pictures alone otherwise you could be in for disappointment. Have a little conversation to get a feel for the person and as many have said socials are perfect to not have a major let down."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unless I video cam chat I would always insist on a social first. I've meet up with 8 people, out of those only had fun with two. Why? The others did not live up to their pics so was no attraction even tho they were all nice enough.
Photo's can be deceiving "
I have been told I actually look better than my pictures. Unfortunately you need to see me to find that out so I rarely get beyond pic exchange... |
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"It is an unfortunate turn if events for the op .
But he says that they exchanged emails beforehand , so I’m wondering if the scenario wasn’t mentioned ?
If it was then surely he must have had some idea what to expect . There are couples who go for this , she will be in the bedroom waiting , you walk in fuck her and go . No talking etc....
it’s not our idea of a good meet but normally it’s discussed beforehand . The fact that she wasn’t like her pics is why so many people need a social first , but with this scenario it’s not logical . They clearly like the ‘stranger’ coming in and fuck and go with no pleasantries . Maybe a cam or Skype first would work ?
It was never mentioned, I just expected a pleasant meeting with conversation and a glass of wine ... the whole experience was “strange” to me "
Ah well in that case you definitely did the right thing . What a shame for you .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
I've had this! I love a good deep voice...he sounded like a squeaky toy
Oh no! Did you not go any further? Or just gag him?"
Oh god no, I couldn't lol he was instantly unattractive, so the gag wouldn't have worked lol
I get put off really easily |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is only natural that any excitement is tempting... My opinion for what it is worth is always insist on a social at a neutral location prior to any intimacy...
It is common sense and sensible... Get you brain from between your legs and put it back into your skull.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's the reason we are very open and honest not only with our profile but also our pics.
We can not see the point of hiding g who we are and it saves alot of time xxx |
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet
He sounded and acted a little bit like the main guy in ‘the office’ series.
Haha I suppose that could be irritating more then anything. I thought you was going to say you had a preference for a type of voice... because I think some people do... there used to be voice threads on here years ago!
What if the ex footballer David Beckham called you? He has a high pitch voice...
Haha I actually said that to someone recently before our phone call that I hoped he wouldn’t sound like him! I do like deep and well spoken if given the choice.
That would have been an interesting or awkward conversation if he did. I think my voice is decent enough not to put anyone off. I have never been put off by a voice so that does put a new spin on things! So to sum up for the guys out there... you need a deep well spoken voice, over 6'2" and loves kissing to rip clothes off! You will have a queue forming now
Some would say you're "fussy" haha *joke* but it is good to have preferences to find ones potential match. Only way can identify which people to meet amongst 1000s.
Back to the topic...
For all the newbies and lurkers:
Don't be drawn in by pictures alone otherwise you could be in for disappointment. Have a little conversation to get a feel for the person and as many have said socials are perfect to not have a major let down.
You’re making me sound fussy "
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Was not my intention. Was just trying to joke because I read the "fussy" thread.
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"We all only post the good pics though eh? Not showing stretch marks or the wobbly bits!"
Goodness I know what you mean, seriously worry about meeting up to expectations |
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I really don't understand heavy editing on a site like this. If you do meet, it'll be obvious.
I think a lot of people take advantage of the culture of being polite.
I’ve met people before that don’t look like their photos - and I’ve sometimes struggled with how to tell them or turn them down. Initially (in my early 20’s) I didn’t even have the heart to say anything, and it would result in an awkward horrible meet. There’s so much pressure not to hurt other people or be rude....
However, as I’ve gotten older I’ve realised a lot people who do airbrushed photos know that other people are polite and kind, and so they’ll take advantage of that - and if you dare say they dont look like their photos then they’ll switch to emotional games and call you shallow etc.
So - Snapchat/Instagram filters and pictures taken from above at “the angle” are an instant red flag for me
Spot on"
The most hilarious ones are the guys who photo shop their cocks to look bigger.
I've seen ones where they literally come down to their knees. I mean, come on, be slightly realistic... |
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
I've had this! I love a good deep voice...he sounded like a squeaky toy
Oh no! Did you not go any further? Or just gag him?
Oh god no, I couldn't lol he was instantly unattractive, so the gag wouldn't have worked lol
I get put off really easily "
Ah did not need to be sexual.
Should have just used the gag to experiment the kink side. Get some toys out on him. He probably would have been up for that because still counts as a meet |
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
Oh really...
That is new! Turned off by a voice. What in particular put you off?
I always have a phone conversation/confirmation before meeting on one to one basis especially if distance is involved. Trying to limit the risks of let downs or time wasters. I have been fortunate enough to not have a let down yet
He sounded and acted a little bit like the main guy in ‘the office’ series.
Haha I suppose that could be irritating more then anything. I thought you was going to say you had a preference for a type of voice... because I think some people do... there used to be voice threads on here years ago!
What if the ex footballer David Beckham called you? He has a high pitch voice...
Haha I actually said that to someone recently before our phone call that I hoped he wouldn’t sound like him! I do like deep and well spoken if given the choice.
That would have been an interesting or awkward conversation if he did. I think my voice is decent enough not to put anyone off. I have never been put off by a voice so that does put a new spin on things! So to sum up for the guys out there... you need a deep well spoken voice, over 6'2" and loves kissing to rip clothes off! You will have a queue forming now
Some would say you're "fussy" haha *joke* but it is good to have preferences to find ones potential match. Only way can identify which people to meet amongst 1000s.
Back to the topic...
For all the newbies and lurkers:
Don't be drawn in by pictures alone otherwise you could be in for disappointment. Have a little conversation to get a feel for the person and as many have said socials are perfect to not have a major let down.
You’re making me sound fussy
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Was not my intention. Was just trying to joke because I read the "fussy" thread.
You're cool "
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"Been fortunate enough to have never been let down by someone physically but I was really turned off by a voice once. Always ask for a brief phone or video call now
I've had this! I love a good deep voice...he sounded like a squeaky toy
Oh no! Did you not go any further? Or just gag him?
Oh god no, I couldn't lol he was instantly unattractive, so the gag wouldn't have worked lol
I get put off really easily
Ah did not need to be sexual.
Should have just used the gag to experiment the kink side. Get some toys out on him. He probably would have been up for that because still counts as a meet "
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