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How did you become swingers? (COUPLES)
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Right I’m on here attached yeah I know it’s not good but explored my sexual side etc... I’m wanting to get the missus into swinging.
We watched that dogging programme a while back and she kept making remarks how she couldn’t do it etc even though I had dirty thoughts of her doing  .
Cut a long story short we was on a job together and travelling there somehow we got on about swinging bi sexual etc etc me knowing what I thought of it but couldn’t bring my self to say it I just listened and in the end we both agreed you wouldn’t know until it happened ie mates come round get pissed or one makes a move, she did say well you’d probably go with the flow and if you didn’t enjoy it stop or not do it again...
Is this the start to her opening up to it and possibly wanting to try it ?
Just corious how other couples wether MM, FFor MF got into it... how did it come about ? |
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My girlfriend had watched a documentary on swinging and wanted to get us into it. All her idea so i let her sign up. We're both very open minded and adventeorus up for trying all kinds of stuff so here we are.  |
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"My girlfriend had watched a documentary on swinging and wanted to get us into it. All her idea so i let her sign up. We're both very open minded and adventeorus up for trying all kinds of stuff so here we are. "
Might be worth finding one to dig for more from her to see she’s interested  |
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We met on here as singles. Werent looking for more but fell for each other. Came off for a couple of months then decided to come back as a couple. That was 3 years ago. Still happilly together. Have the couples profile still and decided to have our single ones again too. |
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over a year ago
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"Right I’m on here attached yeah I know it’s not good but explored my sexual side etc... "
If you're here without her knowledge you're not a swinger, just a cheater.
To answer your question though... we've been talking about it a lot (got a couples profile on here, we're swinging 4 years or so). First we were just talking but we're to stressed to make any step and kinda left it for a year or two, then we've been talking again and left it for a year or two. The we just thought... fuck it, let's do it :D
Met a couple first for soft swing and wanted more, so visited a club. Then there was first full swap etc :D
We were really stressed - our greatest concern was if we can see each other with other partners, but that happened to be one of the biggest turn on when we actually tried it. |
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Met Hinge and got together about 11 years ago and she was turned on by the thought of me with another guy. I tried it and turned us on so much and one thing led to another. Now love seeing her with another guy |
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"Right I’m on here attached yeah I know it’s not good but explored my sexual side etc... I’m wanting to get the missus into swinging.
We watched that dogging programme a while back and she kept making remarks how she couldn’t do it etc even though I had dirty thoughts of her doing .
Cut a long story short we was on a job together and travelling there somehow we got on about swinging bi sexual etc etc me knowing what I thought of it but couldn’t bring my self to say it I just listened and in the end we both agreed you wouldn’t know until it happened ie mates come round get pissed or one makes a move, she did say well you’d probably go with the flow and if you didn’t enjoy it stop or not do it again...
Is this the start to her opening up to it and possibly wanting to try it ?
Just corious how other couples wether MM, FFor MF got into it... how did it come about ? "
The missus and i started going to fetish clubs where some sex happened then moved on to swinger clubs and haven't looked back since |
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By *akie32Man
over a year ago
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Me and my ex used to swing, need to add that we stopped swinging a few years ago and that swinging had nothing to do with us breaking up. We were both very experimental, the subject came up, and we thought we would give it a go, we meet some lovely people, but the bad ones put us off, hence us stopping. The main thing is that both in the couple have to be able to separate love from sex, we both could, but most couples we meet , it seemed that it was driven by just one of the couple, hence we only met singles after a few bad experiences. If you don't both want it it won't work, is it worth your relationship?
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over a year ago
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narurist bathing beach lead to naturist camping, which lead to naturist / swing club, which lead to swing clubs, which lead to fetish nights and lots and lots of naughty fun in between.
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We had discussions about our fantasies very early in our relationship. So we always knew we were filthy.
Did you share your dirty thoughts with her?
If you're looking for some introductory tv you should look up Playboy TV's Swing, newbie couples stay in a house full of swingers to see if they like it. |
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Thanks guys some things to think about... hopefully we get in to swinging as a couple.
In the past we’ve talked about shagging in lay-bys etc and she thought it would be good to be watched... maybe that could be a start.
It would be hard at the minute to go outdoors with young kids |
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"We had discussions about our fantasies very early in our relationship. So we always knew we were filthy.
Did you share your dirty thoughts with her?
If you're looking for some introductory tv you should look up Playboy TV's Swing, newbie couples stay in a house full of swingers to see if they like it. "
No she doesn’t know how filthy I am I don’t know if I’d scare her lol.. I’ve joked about strap ons and talked about bi and we agreed the same you wouldn’t know until the heat of the moment... I joined fab and found my bi side  but she doesn’t know |
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