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 we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones  | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex?" i am | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex?" Of course she could and she should. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am " On real life dating sites etc? | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc?" Why are you even asking that question when she has already answered your first? | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc?" I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100%  | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones " | |||
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"Sound like your having a rant over a select few idiots i have standards as a men and will not just sleep with anything " Good for you | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% "Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though. | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones " | |||
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"Sound like your having a rant over a select few idiots i have standards as a men and will not just sleep with anything " | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though. "And why shouldn’t she?! We’re all allowed our own standards! | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though. " | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc?" all. if i dont fancy them i wont meet or fuck them. always been the same | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc?" You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once  sad times | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones "And breathe | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though.
And why shouldn’t she?! We’re all allowed our own standards!"Yeah but some get carried away a bit I think. You can't blame them though men would do the same if it was vice versa. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times "I have noticed this to. There is having a preference and then there is bullying and trying to mess with self esteem. There was one the other day that said there is nothing like bringing your size 8 date out and showing her off to make the big women jealous of their men wanting her. I just thought posting that is preying mentally on the low self esteem of of women. They are the types of guys that would body shame their wives after pregnancy and make comments about their wife's pretty friends to make them feel shit and keep them down so they won't look for a better man. You know the type I refer to. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times "No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy. | |||
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"Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy. " What delusion are you talking about here? As to be honest I have seen lots of your posts and they have led me to the same conclusion about your motives. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy. "And you see it as your job to kill these delusions and be the reality police huh? | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy. "Yes, you do. Every thread you have to jump in with your "delusion busting". What is delusional is assuming that because you say you don't find BBW attractive, no man can. That is out and out arrogance. But like I said, starting to think you have a soft spot (or a hard spot!) for the larger ladies. Why else would you feel the need to jump into all these BBW threads? It's ok. This is a safe space, you can come out of the closet | |||
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"Its ok mr blonde i will be fine looking after them Jog on now" | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy.
Yes, you do. Every thread you have to jump in with your "delusion busting". What is delusional is assuming that because you say you don't find BBW attractive, no man can. That is out and out arrogance. But like I said, starting to think you have a soft spot (or a hard spot!) for the larger ladies. Why else would you feel the need to jump into all these BBW threads? It's ok. This is a safe space, you can come out of the closet "I don't jump in on all these threads my friend made the comment that caused this thread. No you're mistaken they are not my cup of tea. I have nothing against them but you can't deny societal judgement. | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones "Yes!!! Exactly!! Then some of them turn nasty when you say no thanks. I had one saying “should count yourself lucky I even messaged you” Hahaha Oh yeah, I’m so lucky that an absolute cockwaffle with no humility messaged me. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy. "So are you delusional then? Or do you have no standards at all? Because apparently having standards equals delusional. In fact no need to answer as anyone can see that’s a delusional thought process on your behalf Sincerely signed a big girl with standards of the highest order | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy.
Yes, you do. Every thread you have to jump in with your "delusion busting". What is delusional is assuming that because you say you don't find BBW attractive, no man can. That is out and out arrogance. But like I said, starting to think you have a soft spot (or a hard spot!) for the larger ladies. Why else would you feel the need to jump into all these BBW threads? It's ok. This is a safe space, you can come out of the closet I don't jump in on all these threads my friend made the comment that caused this thread.
No you're mistaken they are not my cup of tea. I have nothing against them but you can't deny societal judgement."You are fataphobic don't worry though I am prickaphobic so my BBW ass will steer clear from you  | |||
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" Wow do men still think us fat women are easy to bed in this day and age? And they wonder why the thin women won't fuck them? Perhaps it's their obvious sexist attitudes? So why was the original thread closed?" Someone disagreed with admin over rules so it was closed. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy.
So are you delusional then? Or do you have no standards at all? Because apparently having standards equals delusional. In fact no need to answer as anyone can see that’s a delusional thought process on your behalf
Sincerely signed a big girl with standards of the highest order "I have high standards. It doesn't just apply to BBW it applies to ugly women too. This site is nothing like reality. | |||
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"Sound like your having a rant over a select few idiots i have standards as a men and will not just sleep with anything " Anything,do you mean a woman? | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy.
So are you delusional then? Or do you have no standards at all? Because apparently having standards equals delusional. In fact no need to answer as anyone can see that’s a delusional thought process on your behalf
Sincerely signed a big girl with standards of the highest order
I have high standards.
It doesn't just apply to BBW it applies to ugly women too. This site is nothing like reality."I only take it that some women sleep with you because they don't know the type person you are lol. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy.
So are you delusional then? Or do you have no standards at all? Because apparently having standards equals delusional. In fact no need to answer as anyone can see that’s a delusional thought process on your behalf
Sincerely signed a big girl with standards of the highest order
I have high standards.
It doesn't just apply to BBW it applies to ugly women too. This site is nothing like reality."Surely ugly is subjective? I'm guessing you define fat as ugly? In reality would you demonstrate such a lack of empathy? | |||
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"Mr Blonde I shall try to show more empathy for your point of view, and your vast experience of the alternate reality that is FAB. " What about the big guys on here? Don't see their love being shown. | |||
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" Wow do men still think us fat women are easy to bed in this day and age? And they wonder why the thin women won't fuck them? Perhaps it's their obvious sexist attitudes? " It makes me giggle that guys actually think the big women Are desperate I quote from am old pm "Been told to chubby chase as I might have more chance" Well after picking my fat ass up off the floor from laughing that hard I thought hold on.. do men really think big women need attention ? Well let me tell you now.. Oh no we don't far from it! There are many beautiful women on here from slim to large and larger.. and all of you are worth something. Don't let anyone else bring you down I have a lot of guys that want my attention..and very few get it. Why you ask? Because I won't jump to the 1st guy that thinks I'm worth a fuck that's why.the question is are they worth MY time. I'm no better or worse than anyone else don't get me wrong but I will not allow my time to be wasted on a guy that just needs to empty his balls. Much love to you all keep your chin up xx | |||
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" It doesn't just apply to BBW it applies to ugly women too. This site is nothing like reality." In my experience it's very much like reality. I get a lot more attention now that I'm a BBW then I ever received when I was a size 8-10. I get my modelling bookings because of my size and shape. I wonder how you can say it's nothing like reality when you're not a bbw. Did you know that BBW is also the most searched term on porn sites? Are men searching that because they have lower standards? Kiki | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? You seem pretty obsessed with big women Mr blond... You see a thread about BBW and dive in every time. Banging that same old "guys don't really find BBW attractive" drum. It's you and a select wee group of guys always on every thread, trying to bring the bigger ladies down. Seriously starting to think a big girl broke your heart once sad times No green arrow me, I don't. Just think this site encourages delusion which isn't healthy.
So are you delusional then? Or do you have no standards at all? Because apparently having standards equals delusional. In fact no need to answer as anyone can see that’s a delusional thought process on your behalf
Sincerely signed a big girl with standards of the highest order
I have high standards.
It doesn't just apply to BBW it applies to ugly women too. This site is nothing like reality."Yet believe it or not I pull the same type of Blokes while out in “the real world” as I do on here, because most of them actually are on here anyway the two worlds can be surprisingly the same | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though. "You’re running out of material, you’ve used that one before. | |||
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though.
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though.
You’re running out of material, you’ve used that one before. "Apparently his standards are pretty unoriginal | |||
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"A mental connection has to exist. It’s not necessarily on the outside but what’s inside that counts " | |||
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"Here here! I got blocked from a guy today when he saw my body pics. I thought to myself maybe i was punching above my weight by winking but then thought... Hang on... Wtf am i thinking! Hes no better than me just cos he has a six pack! " Guy for whatever reason didn't wish to continue the conversation, it's in the FAQ's no response is a polite no thanks. As for the op, folk of all genders can be abusive and have an attitude, if they don't float your boat, delete block move on. folk of all genders can and do have standards, it's not exclusive to ladies, everyone ladies couples guys can say no thanks as well.  | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones "Well said
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"Here here! I got blocked from a guy today when he saw my body pics. I thought to myself maybe i was punching above my weight by winking but then thought... Hang on... Wtf am i thinking! Hes no better than me just cos he has a six pack! Guy for whatever reason didn't wish to continue the conversation, it's in the FAQ's no response is a polite no thanks. As for the op, folk of all genders can be abusive and have an attitude, if they don't float your boat, delete block move on. folk of all genders can and do have standards, it's not exclusive to ladies, everyone ladies couples guys can say no thanks as well. " | |||
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"Sound like your having a rant over a select few idiots i have standards as a men and will not just sleep with anything Anything,do you mean a woman?" Im glad you said that,I was just about to | |||
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"question i have is. do bbw's use there left indicators? come on! be honest "What's an indicator? | |||
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"Plenty ppl will fuck on here with someone they would never be seen with in public. Body shape is not the only factor at play. " | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones "Take a deep breath....and ignore the Yankie! I think everyone saw through him. He just kept digging his grave deeper. Thinks he's some sort of philosopher. I know what I would call him if I weren't a lady! The last analogy (the one about not liking clams, but there's nothing else to eat, so either starve or eat the clams) was priceless. A real step up from his previous analogy about garbage trucks and Ferrari's but it was closed before he was slaughtered for the clams remark. | |||
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"Plenty ppl will fuck on here with someone they would never be seen with in public. Body shape is not the only factor at play. " not for me. my go to lady when i need advice ( and we have played a few times ) is a bbw and she is my rock, always getting me back on track. and must women are taller and larger than me, i take them to bars, dinner and have no problem being seen with anyone. its a good rule to have, if you cannot be seen with them then why should you fuck them. pardon the pun but you understand what im saying. | |||
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"Mr Blonde I shall try to show more empathy for your point of view, and your vast experience of the alternate reality that is FAB. What about the big guys on here? Don't see their love being shown." That's because women aren't full of shit like men are. Most of the men who come on the forum declaring love for the bbw figure are just after a shag and they think we are an easy lay. They think all they have to do is flatter our ego and put slim women down and we will be putty in their hands. I don't doubt for one minute they would not be seen dead with me if their mates were around.......and that is why I would not be seen dead with them. The argument here is the fact that men are lowing their standards by trying to shag a bbw just to get a shag but if we bbws stand up to it by pointing out we have standards just like slim women we are accused of delusions of grandeur. | |||
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"Some people of all shapes and sizes have standards. Some don't. The same is often said of older women - that they're less choosy and will meet anyone. It's more an excuse used by people struggling to meet than advice with any basis of fact or truth. Don't let it bother you - they're just words on a screen A " this! | |||
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards...." I think you make a fair point. You're not body shaming anyone. | |||
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards...." Exactly | |||
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"Mr Blonde I shall try to show more empathy for your point of view, and your vast experience of the alternate reality that is FAB. What about the big guys on here? Don't see their love being shown. That's because women aren't full of shit like men are. Most of the men who come on the forum declaring love for the bbw figure are just after a shag and they think we are an easy lay. They think all they have to do is flatter our ego and put slim women down and we will be putty in their hands. I don't doubt for one minute they would not be seen dead with me if their mates were around.......and that is why I would not be seen dead with them. The argument here is the fact that men are lowing their standards by trying to shag a bbw just to get a shag but if we bbws stand up to it by pointing out we have standards just like slim women we are accused of delusions of grandeur." No, it's because morbidly obese men aren't considered attractive in general. I know women don't lower their standards for sex it's only men. You can't blame the women I know I said that earlier in the thread. | |||
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"Mr Blonde I shall try to show more empathy for your point of view, and your vast experience of the alternate reality that is FAB. What about the big guys on here? Don't see their love being shown. That's because women aren't full of shit like men are. Most of the men who come on the forum declaring love for the bbw figure are just after a shag and they think we are an easy lay. They think all they have to do is flatter our ego and put slim women down and we will be putty in their hands. I don't doubt for one minute they would not be seen dead with me if their mates were around.......and that is why I would not be seen dead with them. The argument here is the fact that men are lowing their standards by trying to shag a bbw just to get a shag but if we bbws stand up to it by pointing out we have standards just like slim women we are accused of delusions of grandeur." Your argument fell at the first hurdle. Yes, all men are full of shit. We are a collective unit, who operate as one. All women are angels and never lie. Is what you basically said in your opening line. | |||
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards.... I think you make a fair point. You're not body shaming anyone. " But he is making rather vast assumptions by saying EVERY female, couple and man are chasing the 10% non bbw population of the site. That simply isn't true. | |||
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards...." So what you are saying is that men should alter their preferences and fuck people they don't like because, after all a fuck is a fuck and fuck knows who cares where it comes from. I think that attitude says way more about you and your attitude towards all women really. The ones you like are too much hassle to put tje effort in to and the ones you dislike are just a hole to get your dick wet. I'm grateful at least some men have integrity on here. | |||
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"Mr Blonde I shall try to show more empathy for your point of view, and your vast experience of the alternate reality that is FAB. What about the big guys on here? Don't see their love being shown. That's because women aren't full of shit like men are. Most of the men who come on the forum declaring love for the bbw figure are just after a shag and they think we are an easy lay. They think all they have to do is flatter our ego and put slim women down and we will be putty in their hands. I don't doubt for one minute they would not be seen dead with me if their mates were around.......and that is why I would not be seen dead with them. The argument here is the fact that men are lowing their standards by trying to shag a bbw just to get a shag but if we bbws stand up to it by pointing out we have standards just like slim women we are accused of delusions of grandeur. No, it's because morbidly obese men aren't considered attractive in general. I know women don't lower their standards for sex it's only men. You can't blame the women I know I said that earlier in the thread. " Attractive features of men’s bodies tend to be to do with strength. Strong arms. Powerful shoulders. Hard muscle. Etc Women’s bodies are deemed attractive by many if they have curves and those curves are accentuated as she gains weight. Hence why fat men and fat women are held in different regard. | |||
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"Mr Blonde I shall try to show more empathy for your point of view, and your vast experience of the alternate reality that is FAB. What about the big guys on here? Don't see their love being shown. That's because women aren't full of shit like men are. Most of the men who come on the forum declaring love for the bbw figure are just after a shag and they think we are an easy lay. They think all they have to do is flatter our ego and put slim women down and we will be putty in their hands. I don't doubt for one minute they would not be seen dead with me if their mates were around.......and that is why I would not be seen dead with them. The argument here is the fact that men are lowing their standards by trying to shag a bbw just to get a shag but if we bbws stand up to it by pointing out we have standards just like slim women we are accused of delusions of grandeur. No, it's because morbidly obese men aren't considered attractive in general. I know women don't lower their standards for sex it's only men. You can't blame the women I know I said that earlier in the thread. Attractive features of men’s bodies tend to be to do with strength. Strong arms. Powerful shoulders. Hard muscle. Etc Women’s bodies are deemed attractive by many if they have curves and those curves are accentuated as she gains weight. Hence why fat men and fat women are held in different regard. " Good point. As men put on weight, they become more feminine and less attractive to women. | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones "Can men not be grouped together please. Tah thanks | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones
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"Yeah but could you be so fussy without the prospect of NSA sex? i am On real life dating sites etc? I am not looking for a relationship as I am married but I have standards 100% Susan Boyle would have a demanding profile on here though.
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones " | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards...." Is the correct answer. | |||
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"Why are there never any big beautiful men threads on here? Funny, that. " Try searching. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/big%2bbeautiful%2bmen No need to thank me. | |||
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"Sound like your having a rant over a select few idiots i have standards as a men and will not just sleep with anything Anything,do you mean a woman?" The ops original post said the same.."BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything" by that does she mean men ? | |||
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"Here here! I got blocked from a guy today when he saw my body pics. I thought to myself maybe i was punching above my weight by winking but then thought... Hang on... Wtf am i thinking! Hes no better than me just cos he has a six pack! " It’s not all about the body, tho yours is cracking x. It’s all about a great fun attitude | |||
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"Why are there never any big beautiful men threads on here? Funny, that. Try searching. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/big%2bbeautiful%2bmen No need to thank me." Most over a year old, 26 weeks since the last one was replied to?! I’ve been on here a couple of months and yet to see one. There are BBW threads on a daily basis. | |||
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"Not a bbw but absolutely agree with this post in general re the attitude of some men on here(some are lovely) Keep smiling The good ones might not outweigh the bad but they do make up for it "couldn't agree more, the attitudes of some men (single and in couples) is appalling. Respect everyone,if you don't fancy them, a polite 'no' (or even no response) is all that is required, and lose the course language, it says more about them than anything. | |||
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"Not a bbw but absolutely agree with this post in general re the attitude of some men on here(some are lovely) Keep smiling The good ones might not outweigh the bad but they do make up for it couldn't agree more, the attitudes of some men (single and in couples) is appalling. Respect everyone,if you don't fancy them, a polite 'no' (or even no response) is all that is required, and lose the course language, it says more about them than anything."So is the entitled attitude of some women on here... | |||
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards...." Seems a fair synopsis. | |||
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"Are you guys being serious?? If guys are that shallow or vain. Guess people have certain things that do it for them as do women. I'm large build and get it alot.. also race plays a part.. Guess getting to know the person is a bit of a fuck up on here lol " You do realise this is a sex site rather than a dating site?! | |||
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"Are you guys being serious?? If guys are that shallow or vain. Guess people have certain things that do it for them as do women. I'm large build and get it alot.. also race plays a part.. Guess getting to know the person is a bit of a fuck up on here lol You do realise this is a sex site rather than a dating site?! " don’t think anybody is looking for a date but it doesn’t mean you don’t need a personality | |||
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"To all the larger ladies here, you’re all gorgeous x" | |||
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"Are you guys being serious?? If guys are that shallow or vain. Guess people have certain things that do it for them as do women. I'm large build and get it alot.. also race plays a part.. Guess getting to know the person is a bit of a fuck up on here lol You do realise this is a sex site rather than a dating site?! " I've always found sex is so much better when there is something of a good mental connection to start with ... nothing to do with dating. | |||
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"Are you guys being serious?? If guys are that shallow or vain. Guess people have certain things that do it for them as do women. I'm large build and get it alot.. also race plays a part.. Guess getting to know the person is a bit of a fuck up on here lol You do realise this is a sex site rather than a dating site?! don’t think anybody is looking for a date but it doesn’t mean you don’t need a personality "There are dating profiles on here just so you know. | |||
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"Are you guys being serious?? If guys are that shallow or vain. Guess people have certain things that do it for them as do women. I'm large build and get it alot.. also race plays a part.. Guess getting to know the person is a bit of a fuck up on here lol You do realise this is a sex site rather than a dating site?! don’t think anybody is looking for a date but it doesn’t mean you don’t need a personality
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"To all the larger ladies here, you’re all gorgeous x Law of averages says they’re not." Exactly , same as with all women x | |||
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"To all the larger ladies here, you’re all gorgeous x Law of averages says they’re not. Exactly , same as with all women x" Same as with all men! | |||
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"To all the larger ladies here, you’re all gorgeous x Law of averages says they’re not. Exactly , same as with all women x Same as with all men!" | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones "I disagree with many of your points but have to say it IS a women's world on fab | |||
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"Are you guys being serious?? If guys are that shallow or vain. Guess people have certain things that do it for them as do women. I'm large build and get it alot.. also race plays a part.. Guess getting to know the person is a bit of a fuck up on here lol You do realise this is a sex site rather than a dating site?! don’t think anybody is looking for a date but it doesn’t mean you don’t need a personality
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards.... So what you are saying is that men should alter their preferences and fuck people they don't like because, after all a fuck is a fuck and fuck knows who cares where it comes from. I think that attitude says way more about you and your attitude towards all women really. The ones you like are too much hassle to put tje effort in to and the ones you dislike are just a hole to get your dick wet. I'm grateful at least some men have integrity on here. " You beat me to it! So by the logic of Mr Cane......given that the majority of site members are male then single guys should all turn bi as it would be much easier for them to get their dicks wet? Seems to a few the end justifies the means............. A | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls" Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! " Because people all have different understand of what beauty is and as such people will find different types sizes looks sexy or beautiful. Just because someone is not your type it does not mean they are ugly to everyone into this world that's a very egotistical view to have | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! " I actually do admit it. To anyone who messages me! I’m at best average looking. Not going to dress it up as anything else! | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! Because people all have different understand of what beauty is and as such people will find different types sizes looks sexy or beautiful. Just because someone is not your type it does not mean they are ugly to everyone into this world that's a very egotistical view to have " x | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! " 'Ugly' is decided in the individuals own mind, not as a group activity. Your ugly will be another's beauty.. it's a perception. Simply move away from those that don't float your boat. | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! 'Ugly' is decided in the individuals own mind, not as a group activity. Your ugly will be another's beauty.. it's a perception. Simply move away from those that don't float your boat." Meanwhile, in the real world, there is an objective element to beauty. I can tell a good looking man from an ugly man, neither would be my “type” (I’m straight). But on here people like to pretend that beauty is entirely subjective, presumably to make themselves feel better... | |||
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"Some women do reduce their standards on here. Surely not all the gym buff guys are what they like from a conversational or even mental stand point. "Usually find the six pack gym bunnies have little or no verification this is usually due them having little or no personality nothing to do with them being fussy | |||
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"Some women do reduce their standards on here. Surely not all the gym buff guys are what they like from a conversational or even mental stand point.
Usually find the six pack gym bunnies have little or no verification this is usually due them having little or no personality nothing to do with them being fussy "My comment was in regards to the ladies that won't go for the bigger guys no matter how articulate they may be cause of 'standards' but will blindly defend going with the gym fit cause of 'standards' when really it's not. Its preference and before anyone puts words in my mouth or take negative connotation to my remarks. I am not defending guys who have a preference on here but then reduce them to get their dick wet. | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! 'Ugly' is decided in the individuals own mind, not as a group activity. Your ugly will be another's beauty.. it's a perception. Simply move away from those that don't float your boat. Meanwhile, in the real world, there is an objective element to beauty. I can tell a good looking man from an ugly man, neither would be my “type” (I’m straight). But on here people like to pretend that beauty is entirely subjective, presumably to make themselves feel better... " But that's a media based idea of beauty. And also I may look at a man and think he is good looking and you will not think so as we all have different ideas and preferences to what beauty is. Does not mean I class those I don't find attractive and beautiful as ugly | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes" Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat. | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! 'Ugly' is decided in the individuals own mind, not as a group activity. Your ugly will be another's beauty.. it's a perception. Simply move away from those that don't float your boat. Meanwhile, in the real world, there is an objective element to beauty. I can tell a good looking man from an ugly man, neither would be my “type” (I’m straight). But on here people like to pretend that beauty is entirely subjective, presumably to make themselves feel better... " I think so. | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat. "Well there’s someone out there for everybody so never say never | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat. "If you were those things as a woman or a man? | |||
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"Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way... but some people have ugly personalities/souls Some people have lovely personalities but fell out of the ugly tree. We all know that’s the case, why can’t people admit it on here?! That's your perception of beauty. If it were that simple then we wouldn't have such vast choice in life. We'd all think the same suits, flowers, food to be the most 'beautiful'. When you realise you can only speak for yourself and that others may see beauty where you don't you may see the world slightly differently. 'Ugly' is decided in the individuals own mind, not as a group activity. Your ugly will be another's beauty.. it's a perception. Simply move away from those that don't float your boat. Meanwhile, in the real world, there is an objective element to beauty. I can tell a good looking man from an ugly man, neither would be my “type” (I’m straight). But on here people like to pretend that beauty is entirely subjective, presumably to make themselves feel better... " | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat. "Well I don't seem to have any issues at all getting that much sex and I am not traditionally good.looking. | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat.
Well I don't seem to have any issues at all getting that much sex and I am not traditionally good.looking. "So you admit there is a concept of “traditionally good looking”? | |||
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"Why are there never any big beautiful men threads on here? Funny, that. " Because most women would not pretend to like what they do not just to get a shag. It is men who actively pursue women on fab that they would cross the road to avoid in real life. If only men who were genuinely interested in a bbw posted in the forum there would be hardly any bbw appreciation threads. .....don't blame the ladies because they pursue on fab the same men they would pursue in real life. As the title of the thread states we have standards, pity more men on here can't find themselves a bit of dignity and self respect and shag what they really find attractive...or go without. | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat.
Well I don't seem to have any issues at all getting that much sex and I am not traditionally good.looking.
So you admit there is a concept of “traditionally good looking”? "There is a false idea of traditionally good looking that has been instilled in society by the idea of media beauty. This does not mean those that don't fit into that definition are not beautiful to individuals. The same way as alot of those that are considered media beautiful I have no interest at all. Give me Tess Holliday over most of them anyday | |||
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"Why are there never any big beautiful men threads on here? Funny, that. Because most women would not pretend to like what they do not just to get a shag. It is men who actively pursue women on fab that they would cross the road to avoid in real life. If only men who were genuinely interested in a bbw posted in the forum there would be hardly any bbw appreciation threads. .....don't blame the ladies because they pursue on fab the same men they would pursue in real life. As the title of the thread states we have standards, pity more men on here can't find themselves a bit of dignity and self respect and shag what they really find attractive...or go without." I think that there are alot of men who do genuinely find bbws amazingly beautiful and don't just hit on them because they think it will be easy. | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat. "You mean you would have more than2 veris | |||
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"To all the larger ladies here, you’re all gorgeous x Law of averages says they’re not." Yep just as the law of averages says not all slim women are attractive. ....and not all men. | |||
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"Why are there never any big beautiful men threads on here? Funny, that. Because most women would not pretend to like what they do not just to get a shag. It is men who actively pursue women on fab that they would cross the road to avoid in real life. If only men who were genuinely interested in a bbw posted in the forum there would be hardly any bbw appreciation threads. .....don't blame the ladies because they pursue on fab the same men they would pursue in real life. As the title of the thread states we have standards, pity more men on here can't find themselves a bit of dignity and self respect and shag what they really find attractive...or go without." Says the arbiter of all men. I’d rather have a wank in a sock and have a lovely Pot Noodle than have sex with someone I’m not attracted to. Also, funny this if I’m not attracted to them I can’t get hard. So it’s a pointless endeavour. | |||
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"Aren't we all here for similar things Everybody has their own tastes Yes we are all exactly the same. I bet I’d get just as much sex if I was 5”5 and fat.
Well I don't seem to have any issues at all getting that much sex and I am not traditionally good.looking.
So you admit there is a concept of “traditionally good looking”?
There is a false idea of traditionally good looking that has been instilled in society by the idea of media beauty.
This does not mean those that don't fit into that definition are not beautiful to individuals.
The same way as alot of those that are considered media beautiful I have no interest at all. Give me Tess Holliday over most of them anyday "She is “media beautiful” though that’s why she’s an idol and on the cover of Cosmo | |||
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"....don't blame the ladies because they pursue on fab the same men they would pursue in real life." Fair due's but give credit were credits due. To say women pursue what they want is a lie. Majority sit at a bar or where ever hoping someone approaches or talks first. That is not pursuing who they want, on here however they become keyboard warriors and take steps to pursue wink/message first etc... Men and women negative qualities are actually shared as its a negative of human nature not gender nature. | |||
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"Well said OP ..... I’m older as well ... but yep have standards ... and no I won’t jump into bed with some 30yr old who messages saying... want a fuck??? Cos he thinks I’m desperate and that I should feel lucky that he’s messaged me..... Dream on I’m currently developing my blocked list to all those that put no effort into profiles or messages .... ".... all that you've wrote - including arrogant bastards too! | |||
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"Are you guys being serious?? If guys are that shallow or vain. Guess people have certain things that do it for them as do women. I'm large build and get it alot.. also race plays a part.. Guess getting to know the person is a bit of a fuck up on here lol You do realise this is a sex site rather than a dating site?! " Actually it is a swingers site but that has not stopped men who would never share their woman, if they had one, from using the site and shagging another man's woman. So people can use the site as they wish....just like you do. | |||
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"Girls, allow me to introduce you to white 1100, he is one of the 'put bbws down and give them a daily reality check that only size 8 is beautiful' group. Please just ignore him and try not to respond no matter how he goads. He might be a regular on the forums but that does not make him entitled to troll members of the community for how they look. We can all have our preferences but there is no need to be a dick about it. Any way this thread will be closed soon as we are near the limit. Glad I got to say my peace, I am leaving it here  "Whitey in trouble again! BOOM! (the sound of his head exploding, as I sit on it with my fat ass) What a way to go!!!.... | |||
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"....don't blame the ladies because they pursue on fab the same men they would pursue in real life. Fair due's but give credit were credits due. To say women pursue what they want is a lie. Majority sit at a bar or where ever hoping someone approaches or talks first. That is not pursuing who they want, on here however they become keyboard warriors and take steps to pursue wink/message first etc... Men and women negative qualities are actually shared as its a negative of human nature not gender nature. " Your taking the word pursue rather literal aren't you. These women you claim are sitting at the bar waiting to be approached well the point is they would say no thanks to the men they were not interested in if those men approached them. Even after 10 men had approached them, all of whom they were not interested in, I would wager the women would still be turning the men down rather than saying "oh go on then". Whereas it seems most men if it were the other way around would have given up long before 10 and just shagged a woman he was not really interested in. Hence women pursue sex with men they are attracted to whereas far to many men pursue sex with whoever they can get it from. The word pursue does not have to mean the woman is chasing after the man like tigress!! | |||
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"So I had just replied but the thread got closed! Ok so this person basically said that because there was more BBWS and less fit 25 year old girls that the OP should target BBWs. BBWs were being made a mockery of like they will sleep with anything, if that's how men on fab think of BBWs then I have something to tell you!!! Women on here have the upper hand, BBW or not. We can afford to have standards. The any holes a goal mentality does not apply to women, we receive hundreds of messages every day and can afford to choose who we sleep with based on if he seems like a nice human and if we would have fun. We don't have to jump on the first cock that is offered and we don't. So whether or not the OP was told to target the BBWS because they can't be fussy, I am telling you we can we can and we are. So you can shove your fuckboy mentality where the sun don't shine. I can spot the same types and they don't get passed me opening the message before I mark it as unread and move on to the next one keep those standards high BBWs, there are plenty of decent guys out there, you just have to fish them out from the mean spirited ones "I absolutely agree. Why can’t we all just enjoy and accept each other for who we are? I’ve had some fantastic experiences with BBW’s ranging from curvy to very large. If a guy takes the time to get to know what she likes and treats her like a person rather than a piece of meat for his pleasure you’ll both have a wonderful time. | |||
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"....don't blame the ladies because they pursue on fab the same men they would pursue in real life. Fair due's but give credit were credits due. To say women pursue what they want is a lie. Majority sit at a bar or where ever hoping someone approaches or talks first. That is not pursuing who they want, on here however they become keyboard warriors and take steps to pursue wink/message first etc... Men and women negative qualities are actually shared as its a negative of human nature not gender nature. Your taking the word pursue rather literal aren't you. These women you claim are sitting at the bar waiting to be approached well the point is they would say no thanks to the men they were not interested in if those men approached them. Even after 10 men had approached them, all of whom they were not interested in, I would wager the women would still be turning the men down rather than saying "oh go on then". Whereas it seems most men if it were the other way around would have given up long before 10 and just shagged a woman he was not really interested in. Hence women pursue sex with men they are attracted to whereas far to many men pursue sex with whoever they can get it from. The word pursue does not have to mean the woman is chasing after the man like tigress!!" No woman has ever fucked an ugly bloke, she later regretted. This has never happened in the history of mankind. | |||
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"....don't blame the ladies because they pursue on fab the same men they would pursue in real life. Fair due's but give credit were credits due. To say women pursue what they want is a lie. Majority sit at a bar or where ever hoping someone approaches or talks first. That is not pursuing who they want, on here however they become keyboard warriors and take steps to pursue wink/message first etc... Men and women negative qualities are actually shared as its a negative of human nature not gender nature. Your taking the word pursue rather literal aren't you. These women you claim are sitting at the bar waiting to be approached well the point is they would say no thanks to the men they were not interested in if those men approached them. Even after 10 men had approached them, all of whom they were not interested in, I would wager the women would still be turning the men down rather than saying "oh go on then". Whereas it seems most men if it were the other way around would have given up long before 10 and just shagged a woman he was not really interested in. Hence women pursue sex with men they are attracted to whereas far to many men pursue sex with whoever they can get it from. The word pursue does not have to mean the woman is chasing after the man like tigress!!" if a man isn't attracted to someone only god knows how he would get a hard on. Pursue has intent there is no intent until spoken too is not in any imagination 'pursue' Often here or read stories of happily ever after by women saying his not my usual type but... His charm won me over. | |||
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"Girls, allow me to introduce you to white 1100, he is one of the 'put bbws down and give them a daily reality check that only size 8 is beautiful' group. Please just ignore him and try not to respond no matter how he goads. He might be a regular on the forums but that does not make him entitled to troll members of the community for how they look. We can all have our preferences but there is no need to be a dick about it. Any way this thread will be closed soon as we are near the limit. Glad I got to say my peace, I am leaving it here "What a load of rubbish. | |||
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"I feel honored you made a thread about me..... I try to be a good communicator but alas I have digressed..... Please take your bbw Fab glasses off and let’s try to have a discussion like two rational human beings.... If you and I both lived in Kyoto , Japan and you asked me how to have a lot of sex every weekend.... would you be offended if my advice to you was... You can hangout down at this bar... there are a few Australian , European , and American girls that frequent there. But it’s usually only 1 or 3 there at any one time , and it’s lots of competition from ex pat guys from around the world... Now if you really want to score big , go to the Korean section of town ... You can go into any bar or club and score... the Korean girls love western men... Would you make a thread about me being rude to Korean girls? Or would you take it as great advice because I’ve seen it with my own eyes... I think your problem is you are not used to people that talk straight and don’t blow smoke up your ass... I will say this again to any guy that is struggling for a meet.... Target bbw’s .... go to bbw nights at clubs and message every bbw in your radius... This isn’t because bbw’s are easy or don’t have standards, it’s because 90 % of Fab females are bbw’s.... Every female, couple and , man are chasing the other 10% of Fab females... So the 90 % is his target audience...... Statistics and probability shows he will have better success getting sex from bbw’s..... Now can someone please explain how with this post ....I’m being a bully, body shaming bbw’s , or insinuating that bbw’s don’t have standards.... So what you are saying is that men should alter their preferences and fuck people they don't like because, after all a fuck is a fuck and fuck knows who cares where it comes from. I think that attitude says way more about you and your attitude towards all women really. The ones you like are too much hassle to put tje effort in to and the ones you dislike are just a hole to get your dick wet. I'm grateful at least some men have integrity on here. " I live in the Barron wastelands of Fab... NYC.. So I think I can see things from a different angle... I have a assignment for all the women in this thread..... that believe I’m being obnoxious... Go and look at all the men’s/couples profiles that posted on this thread.... Look at their verifications.... You will see the guys that have many verifications , weather they be club meets , socials , or just sex.... many of the couples/women will be average/bbw and a few will be deemed stunning.... Now the guys with a 1-5 verifications with all stunning women/couples tend to be very infrequently meeting..... So what does the numbers tell you? I’ll save you some time.... the stunning couples/women are the unicorns and are hunted mercilessly..... They are the top of the food chain..... They average/bbw couples/women are more plentiful... So as a new guy struggling to get meets you have 2 options.... 1. Message all the couples/women on hot pics Or 2. Message women/couples on the forums, go to clubs, and socials... The one caveat is some people don’t display all their verifications.... that is the wildcard... | |||
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"Girls, allow me to introduce you to white 1100, he is one of the 'put bbws down and give them a daily reality check that only size 8 is beautiful' group. Please just ignore him and try not to respond no matter how he goads. He might be a regular on the forums but that does not make him entitled to troll members of the community for how they look. We can all have our preferences but there is no need to be a dick about it. Any way this thread will be closed soon as we are near the limit. Glad I got to say my peace, I am leaving it here
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Hmmm I just don’t get why he says he has no preference body wise on his profile then bashes BBWs? Odd! "It is not just him. There are 3 white men who never acknowledge posts made by bbws unless it is a bbw thread and then they just have to put us in our place....they are all out in force today on this thread. We all know who they are. On any other subject we would not exist and they only reply to posts made by slim women. It is sad really the way they try to gain favour with slim women the same way some men try to gain favour with bbws. So let's not be too harsh on him when others do exactly the same.... | |||
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" No woman has ever fucked an ugly bloke, she later regretted. This has never happened in the history of mankind. "if you read what I wrote I never mentioned anything to do with beauty. | |||
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