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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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having held many parties in the past being open to straight and bisexual,
just wondering if a bisexual party would be a good idea. i know some people out there freak out if there are bisexuals at a party would everyone be more comfortable with it being bi only where everyone can be as open as they want to be
your thoughts on the subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go to a gay sauna in Glasgow that allows women in on Tuesday's and Thursday's
It great knowing that 99% of the guys that go are bi
It makes for a more relaxed atmosphere knowing ya are unlikely ta grab a straight cock in the heat of the moment lol
So yes I think they would go down well xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We used to hold bi parties and to be honest they was hit and miss, what you have to realise is most straight couples wont attend or just lady bi so the man wouldnt like to go, also in a close proximity to yourself how many bi couples is there?? not that many and them that are can they make the date?? so in general it would end up being more singlemens party and some bi couples dont play with singlemen and only play bi in a couple situation, but with all things in this scene you never know till you try, we wish you lots of luck with this xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"having held many parties in the past being open to straight and bisexual,
just wondering if a bisexual party would be a good idea. i know some people out there freak out if there are bisexuals at a party would everyone be more comfortable with it being bi only where everyone can be as open as they want to be
your thoughts on the subject"
we've hosted a couple, years ago... we love it, so much more fun when no-ones concerned who goes where! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We go to a gay sauna in Glasgow that allows women in on Tuesday's and Thursday's
It great knowing that 99% of the guys that go are bi
It makes for a more relaxed atmosphere knowing ya are unlikely ta grab a straight cock in the heat of the moment lol
So yes I think they would go down well xx "
Does it suffer from the straight men going too, pretending to be bi on the change of a woman playing. I think It was the Chams thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its prevalent on here too - straight guys who are suddenly 'bi' if there's a chance of an MMF.
After all they can close their eyes and pretend its a woman's mouth on their cock!
Funny how allot of them run off when you mention having a kiss!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We go to a gay sauna in Glasgow that allows women in on Tuesday's and Thursday's
It great knowing that 99% of the guys that go are bi
It makes for a more relaxed atmosphere knowing ya are unlikely ta grab a straight cock in the heat of the moment lol
So yes I think they would go down well xx
Does it suffer from the straight men going too, pretending to be bi on the change of a woman
playing. I think It was the Chams thread?"
The difference between Ambassodors and Chams is that it's a gay sauna
Any bloke that goes should expect to be approached by males
Straight males may get the wrong impression at Chams because it's a swingers club
But there should be no wrong impression at a gay sauna lol xx  |
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"Its prevalent on here too - straight guys who are suddenly 'bi' if there's a chance of an MMF.
After all they can close their eyes and pretend its a woman's mouth on their cock!
Funny how allot of them run off when you mention having a kiss!
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we get so sick of straight men who are really bi when we put up a meet request  |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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We are always amazed at parties how they say no bi-sexuals, when they really mean no bi men!
Its ok for the ladies to partake, I've seen guys salivating over watching two women, but the mere thought of two guys would bring out the screaming heeby jeebies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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RAC route planner says 5hrs 16 mins so I'm afraid that counts me out, would be nice though knowing that everyone is bi as opposed to going to a club or party and not knowing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are always amazed at parties how they say no bi-sexuals, when they really mean no bi men!
Its ok for the ladies to partake, I've seen guys salivating over watching two women, but the mere thought of two guys would bring out the screaming heeby jeebies."
Ahh- the Ladies floorshow to get the men hard so they can seal the deal (AKA the Lick N Stick).
But, put a Bi man in the room and he immediately floods the entire area with 'BI-ons' - so there is a risk of ardent Heterosexual Manly Men catching the 'Bi'
Because if you do, suddenly your dancing in time to Ibiza trance music, ironing your bed linen and sorting your wardrobe by colour co-ordination.
Oh god, I do all those things.
(This post was delivered to you with tongue firmly in cheek by an openly Bi guy who has no axe to grind. Seriously, if I was going to grind anything it would be my chopper....) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are always amazed at parties how they say no bi-sexuals, when they really mean no bi men!
Its ok for the ladies to partake, I've seen guys salivating over watching two women, but the mere thought of two guys would bring out the screaming heeby jeebies.
Ahh- the Ladies floorshow to get the men hard so they can seal the deal (AKA the Lick N Stick).
But, put a Bi man in the room and he immediately floods the entire area with 'BI-ons' - so there is a risk of ardent Heterosexual Manly Men catching the 'Bi'
Because if you do, suddenly your dancing in time to Ibiza trance music, ironing your bed linen and sorting your wardrobe by colour co-ordination.
Oh god, I do all those things.
(This post was delivered to you with tongue firmly in cheek by an openly Bi guy who has no axe to grind. Seriously, if I was going to grind anything it would be my chopper....)"
But you DO iron your bed linen. And you listen to trance music....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"having held many parties in the past being open to straight and bisexual,
just wondering if a bisexual party would be a good idea. i know some people out there freak out if there are bisexuals at a party would everyone be more comfortable with it being bi only where everyone can be as open as they want to be
your thoughts on the subject"
We would go to a Bi only party, and sure plenty other couples would too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are always amazed at parties how they say no bi-sexuals, when they really mean no bi men!
Its ok for the ladies to partake, I've seen guys salivating over watching two women, but the mere thought of two guys would bring out the screaming heeby jeebies."
thats the same anywhere tho, its like bi nights in clubs. means bi mens night really as women can play openly with each other any night of the week, i never understand that, whys it ok for two women to play at a club on a friday but not two men? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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yes thats the point everyone is happy with night and is open to having fun
its so hard to believe that bicouples and bi single ladies have not got back to me i could fill the house with 50 guys easly with all the messages but i wanted a mix of guys girls couples and tgirls
best is when you read on a profile because we both bi dont get any party invites but when they get one they run a mile |
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we've hosted a couple, years ago... we love it, so much more fun when no-ones concerned who goes where! x"
Thats ok if everyone at party is ok with anyone touching them!
Just because someone is bi doesnt mean they be happy with just anyone getting involved!
OP do you have separate play/social rooms?
IF you have play only rooms i dont see what problem is...
IF it play anywhere you like....Can understand why people put off.... |
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"its like any other house party bedroom for playing, kitchen for talking, living room if everyone is happy with very open play xx"
Well, as long as you make it clear to people going that its open play, there shouldnt be a problem..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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i like everyone to feel like they can ether join in or if a bit shy they can watch others as well or just chat and a little drink its all about having fun making new friends and not worring about anything so i always look for fun friendly people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i try but no takers other than guys not the type of party i was looking for wanted couples and selected singles that would be comfortable in a party surrounding |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we've hosted a couple, years ago... we love it, so much more fun when no-ones concerned who goes where! x
Thats ok if everyone at party is ok with anyone touching them!
Just because someone is bi doesnt mean they be happy with just anyone getting involved!
OP do you have separate play/social rooms?
IF you have play only rooms i dont see what problem is...
IF it play anywhere you like....Can understand why people put off...."
We have only hosted parties with regular couples and guys, most of the time they have met before.
"Just anyone" doesn't get an invite to our parties, everyone is carefully selected to those that would hit it off, both personally and sexually.
If I thought that someone wouldn't be happy with a comfortable all in sesh then they just wouldn't get an invite. Also I make it clear from the outset that it will be a sesh where no-one is concerened who goes where so if anyone had a problem with that, I should hope they would speak up prior to play. If anyone wouldn't play with anyone else at the party that would make things uncomfortable and not my kind of party!! I simply wouldn't play at all if someone was dodging someone else.
Obviously it's different at clubs, but at invite only parties at our own home I've never ever had an occasion where everyone wasn't involved, and down right happy about it!!! |
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