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By *d4jane OP Couple
over a year ago
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We are a happily married couple. We have been on this site for nearly a year (and other sites for a while) and have enjoyed every minute of it!!! 
Our question is has anyone played soft swap for a period of time and then full swapped and then regretted it????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't answer that as full swapped from the start... Have never seen the point in soft swap, far too frustrating! We have also found it's the soft swap couples that have all the rules... Full tends to be anything goes, everyone knows where they stand! Then again, each to their own |
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we used to be soft for years but done all now just make sure its what you both want,and if do go all the way and dont find its for you have no redrets move on,,,theres a cant little film called the big swap about a group of freinds who do this and how it affects all in different ways its cany  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started off having sex only with each other but in public play rooms in clubs, then soft swapped for a long while. There came a timw when my OH was turned on by the thought of sharing me fully with another guy and I wanted to try that too.
If we meet couples we don't care whether its full swap or soft swap only. We are not bothered about having full sex with others. We don't get frustrated because we have sex with each other on every meet we have.
Swinging for us has always been about the naughtiness of having others around and involved and doing things that two people just can't manage, something different to our own sex life together. We don't necessarily feel that penetrative sex is all important. |
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soft swap has never been our thing as if you are only making love to your partner then why do you need an audience (yes, we respect others do get a kick out of that)
we love each other dearly, but for us the swinging experience is about enjoying others to the full |
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we like both, sometimes if we dont click with someone in a club we just have a great time fucking each other, it is very erotic being watched...dont get the idea one is more twue than the other.
Boundaries move, just be happy with what you are both doing, 10 years ago we would never have played seperatley, now we do...because we are both happy with it. |
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