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over a year ago
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WIthout meaning to sound shallow we had both never liked the idea of a club as we feel we may be put off if people we don't find attractive insist on trying it on so to speak. We are however very open minded and don't want to make our mind up without giving it a go. What we would like to know is can we go and not play? Socialise and see if it's for us? Do we have to sit about in our underwear?
We're young horny and just want to experience all we can so just looking for some advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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tried to PM you, I think I might have the info you need.
I am right at the other end of the country so clearly not trying a lame arsed excuse to wangle a meet.
If you message me I might be able to genuinely help you.
I am not going to write it up on the public forum
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"WIthout meaning to sound shallow we had both never liked the idea of a club as we feel we may be put off if people we don't find attractive insist on trying it on so to speak. We are however very open minded and don't want to make our mind up without giving it a go. What we would like to know is can we go and not play? Socialise and see if it's for us? Do we have to sit about in our underwear?
We're young horny and just want to experience all we can so just looking for some advice. "
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Of course you can go and not play in fact we know quite a few couples who love the clubs but never play
A lot of couples love just watching up being watched and we have never felt pressurised into doing anything we did not want to do
A lot of people enjoy clubs for the social aspect
We absolutely love the club scene as depending on the club I suppose it's always been a great night out for us
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Check out the reviews second from the right menu above. No means No anywhere!
You never HAVE to play with anyone you don't want to... loads actually spend the whole night chatting then arrange a meet someplace else, other play with their own partners (pervs!) Some just march in and request an orderly queue.
What you wear depends on the club theme, sauna clubs obviously towels are the fashion statement, non sauna dress nice be a bit revealing or you will feel self concious as "over dressed" hen it's like a night out in a nice pub with benifits  |
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The exiting thing is that you get different motives there. No-one is ever pushy, and we tend to go and not play. In fact, if we go looking to play we tend to bottle it, but if we go to just use the hottub and be pervy we find the pressure-free environment of the Townhouse actually spurs us on. Weird psychology hehe.xx |
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"The exiting thing is that you get different motives there. No-one is ever pushy, and we tend to go and not play. In fact, if we go looking to play we tend to bottle it, but if we go to just use the hottub and be pervy we find the pressure-free environment of the Townhouse actually spurs us on. Weird psychology hehe.xx"
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"The exiting thing is that you get different motives there. No-one is ever pushy, and we tend to go and not play. In fact, if we go looking to play we tend to bottle it, but if we go to just use the hottub and be pervy we find the pressure-free environment of the Townhouse actually spurs us on. Weird psychology hehe.xx
Thinking of going to TH, do you know when it's busiest? "
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"What we would like to know is can we go and not play? Socialise and see if it's for us? Do we have to sit about in our underwear?
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Yes, yes, and your choice.
Clubs over here ( Holland ) are very user/newbie friendly, they, or one in particular, got us into swinging.
Free drinks, friendly bar environment, bubble baths etc etc
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Different clubs have different dress codes, but basically you will either wear towels, sexy evening wear, or some people go more daring.
Within the confines of the club rules its whatever you feel comfortable with really. Depending on where you go you will find some people attractive and obviously some you won't. Its pretty unlikely anyone is going to leap on you as such, and there is a massive social element to the clubs which you will probably find very enjoyable.
Even experienced couples can be very nervous about going to a club for their first time, so your questions and concerns are pretty common. |
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