Yeah I know we have spoken but I was just wanting some sort of tips so I can surprise her as she's not forthcoming in telling me I just want her to be shocked and happy that I've learnt what she is wanting |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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Well look into the "Traffic Light Safeword System" and agree to use it so that she can warn you if things are going too far and so that you don't overstep her limits and boundaries. |
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By *erby DomCouple
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Everyone has different pain thresholds, it isn;t about beating each other black and blue though. Try using a blindfold and some restraints as that can completely alter the perception of the submissive. Stick to fleshy areas with the crop, avoid bony areas or on the spine or over the kidneys. I tend to stick to buttocks and things. Get creative with your fingernails gently scratching her back as well as impact play. Experiment and have fun. But remember consent, trust and communication are paramount. |
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"Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them???? "
Treat us as individuals: one size doesn't fit all.
Not all women like to be spanked, so ask!
Start gently. If it's not hard enough or too gentle she'll say. |
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We always play with a safe word (red) he can do what he likes, as soon as I say red everything stops..instantly...does matter who is “close” ....communication is the key, along with trust and time ...the more she says red, the more confident she will be that you’ll stop when she really needs you to. Worked for us anyway. That way I can push my self that little bit more every time, safe in the knowledge that when I need him to stop he will |
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"Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them????
Treat us as individuals: one size doesn't fit all.
Not all women like to be spanked, so ask!
Start gently. If it's not hard enough or too gentle she'll say."
She did. He's a "woose" apparently. |
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"Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them???? "
they like to be wined and dined and treated like princesses, the odd few like their arses spanked gently and a very small selection like their arse spanked red raw, you have to find the woman first then work on the rules of engagement
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