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Are big guys a turn off (not cock)
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over a year ago
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"Are big guys a turn off? Not big cock I mean rounder guys.a lot of women on here are only after one type"
Personal experience is a no from me - I was approached for a spontaneous meet and I am large or curvy depending on how you want to call it. I have public body picture so people can see what they are getting. |
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Not for me no. I don’t have a particular type I go for with body shape. It just all depends if I click with The person and if there is an attraction there. But there are some big guys I have fancied a lot and also some slim guys I have liked so all depends on the person really xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say at least 75% profiles contain the words either "tall" "athletic" or "in shape". A lot of women outright state no large men.
So yes i'd say for most women short and round is a turn off. Oh well. |
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Big guys like myself aren’t everyone’s thing, just as big women aren’t everybody’s. I’ve always been a big guy but never had a problem meeting women. If you’re a decent guy with a good personality and most importantly make them laugh then it shouldn’t stop you. The downside of Fab is that a lot of it is based on looks to start with and that there are so many men compared to women on here that there is a huge choice. You just need to ask some women how many messages they get from guys.
Threesomes can be even harder as one side may not want a bigger guy joining in.
Always be polite (not saying you’re not) and take any rejection in good humour.
Winter is where we come into our own as we’re great to snuggle up with after a great session.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would also say height (or lack of) is more of a hinderance than being chunky is
When you're chunky AND short, your chances of a meet here are lowered considerably
And, if that isn't enough, you'll be shit at Twister too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".a lot of women on here are only after one type
Yes Very true , and these same women are usually not that type themselves..."
It's called personal preference.... If a big guy likes a bbw that is their choice but it does not mean the bbw has to like him back in the name of equality.
You make it sound like the bbw should be grateful for any attention she receives!
I have not asked for men with an average, slim or athletic body to like me, that is up to them, so I am not hypocritical.
I would only be hypocritical if I expected these men to find me attractive while simultaneously not finding bigger men attractive myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get that we have our preferences I just think it’s a shame how some people on here have to be as rough as they are. Just be polite.
I personally appreciate all body types but in my eyes it’s more of a connection thing for me. You may have the perfect bum or perfect boobs etc but if there isn’t a connection then what’s the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".a lot of women on here are only after one type
Yes Very true , and these same women are usually not that type themselves...
It's called personal preference.... If a big guy likes a bbw that is their choice but it does not mean the bbw has to like him back in the name of equality.
You make it sound like the bbw should be grateful for any attention she receives!
I have not asked for men with an average, slim or athletic body to like me, that is up to them, so I am not hypocritical.
I would only be hypocritical if I expected these men to find me attractive while simultaneously not finding bigger men attractive myself. "
Exactly! I'm blonde & short but I don't fancy short blonde men, doesn't make me a hypocrite! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends. I like chunky guys but there is a difference between chunky and overweight!!"
I like chunky chips but don't like chunky birds especially if they have bingo wings and are bubbly ...Nooooooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are big guys a turn off? Not big cock I mean rounder guys.a lot of women on here are only after one type"
i would say yes to a point because u got to be very intelligent which i am not..which why i kidding around
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are big guys a turn off? Not big cock I mean rounder guys.a lot of women on here are only after one type"
I only fancy very large built men.
I can appreciate a great body or handsome face, but to be aroused by a guy he would have to a great deal of chunk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some yes for others no.
My is a big teddy bear and has alot of women who like playing with him
But slot of folks don't like it. I. The end everyone has their preferences |
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