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Is it ok to swing when you are in a relationship
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am married but swing . We did swing as a couple some time ago but she decided it was not for her but I enjoyed it and still do . Morally it’s wrong but .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So........
You did swing together but then she decided it’s not for her. So now you swing alone?
If she knows then it’s fine. If she doesn’t then you’re cheating and we’d say it isn’t.
Just our two penneth and you did ask  |
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By *rMrs998Couple
over a year ago
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We have decided not to swing with one half of a couple, because even though they may have permission, we firstly can't always trust that if we dont speak to the other half and we also feel that we would still be cheating in some way or that it may just cause complications so would just prefer to not even be involved.
That's just what We think though... x |
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A lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple. Swingers tend to refrain from romantic attachments with their outside partners, thus differentiating themselves from PolyAmorists. There is some overlap between the two communities, though the closeness of the comparisons are generally not acknowledged.
Swingers often engage in the activity as a couple. "Swing Parties" are venues where the activity may occur.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the profile your in a relationship & you can deal with it hahaha
Clearly you should be single, your partner has decided it’s not for her & more than likely thinks your being faithful |
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"It's only wrong if it's hurting someone you claim to love.
Isn't that like, it's only wrong if you get caught? "
Not really in my opinion because it's possible that it hurts them even if they know. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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If it's truly ok with your wife, then I don't see a problem. I would be disappointed if my husband still wanted to swing and I didn't and we've always said when one wants to stop, we would both stop. It's a lifestyle we enjoy as a couple and it wouldn't work for either of as singles |
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I was swinging before I got with my other half 6 months ago and yes he knew before we got together (we have been friends with him for 3 yrs). Clubs aren't his thing but he drops me off and picks me up, he kept saying not to change who I am and not to stop going... Just bring home a lovely lady to join us!!
What I'm saying is if it's in the open theres no issue in my opinion xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was swinging before I got with my other half 6 months ago and yes he knew before we got together (we have been friends with him for 3 yrs). Clubs aren't his thing but he drops me off and picks me up, he kept saying not to change who I am and not to stop going... Just bring home a lovely lady to join us!!
What I'm saying is if it's in the open theres no issue in my opinion xx"
ahhhh but he's not saying she knows he's continuing and to be fair in my experience this happens a lot, one or other of the couple enjoys the life more than the other. |
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"It's only wrong if it's hurting someone you claim to love.
Isn't that like, it's only wrong if you get caught?
Not really in my opinion because it's possible that it hurts them even if they know. "
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am married but swing . We did swing as a couple some time ago but she decided it was not for her but I enjoyed it and still do . Morally it’s wrong but ...."
Its going to end in tears!
Merry Christmas x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All the replies so far thank you.. deep down and being truly honest and yes she knows it is is still being “untrue” to the spirit of marriage and yes maybe I should be single but I do enjoy exploring other people and of course the variety |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"All the replies so far thank you.. deep down and being truly honest and yes she knows it is is still being “untrue” to the spirit of marriage and yes maybe I should be single but I do enjoy exploring other people and of course the variety "
It's only something you can discuss together, good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am married but swing . We did swing as a couple some time ago but she decided it was not for her but I enjoyed it and still do . Morally it’s wrong but ...."
If you haven't sat down and discussed it with her and she's OK with it, you aren't swinging, you're cheating. If you have then enjoy. |
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