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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many stright guys like cock action with other guys
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Like what the three musketeers do when the camera pans off-screen. I dare not swordplay with other swords. |
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over a year ago
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Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve learned, through d*unk conversations and fumbles, that near enough all of my mates have messed around with a guy at some point. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing thing.
And there’s no way any of them would talk about that shit normally and they’re all married or in long term relationships.
For the “straight men wouldn’t do that” commenters. People are flexible. It’s not a big deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve learned, through d*unk conversations and fumbles, that near enough all of my mates have messed around with a guy at some point. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing thing.
And there’s no way any of them would talk about that shit normally and they’re all married or in long term relationships.
For the “straight men wouldn’t do that” commenters. People are flexible. It’s not a big deal. "
You mates aren’t straight then - unless they confused or even bi sexual.
Can’t mistake a real straight guy.
By the way Straight male here, ladies are you ready  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve learned, through d*unk conversations and fumbles, that near enough all of my mates have messed around with a guy at some point. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing thing.
And there’s no way any of them would talk about that shit normally and they’re all married or in long term relationships.
For the “straight men wouldn’t do that” commenters. People are flexible. It’s not a big deal. "
I often wonder this
Most of my female friends have at least experimented during their teens and wouldn't now as adults consider themselves bi
Are women just more likely to admit it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve learned, through d*unk conversations and fumbles, that near enough all of my mates have messed around with a guy at some point. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing thing.
And there’s no way any of them would talk about that shit normally and they’re all married or in long term relationships.
For the “straight men wouldn’t do that” commenters. People are flexible. It’s not a big deal.
I often wonder this
Most of my female friends have at least experimented during their teens and wouldn't now as adults consider themselves bi
Are women just more likely to admit it?"
I think it is more socially acceptable for women, to admit it. Most couples I see on this site, the female half is bi.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve learned, through d*unk conversations and fumbles, that near enough all of my mates have messed around with a guy at some point. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing thing.
And there’s no way any of them would talk about that shit normally and they’re all married or in long term relationships.
For the “straight men wouldn’t do that” commenters. People are flexible. It’s not a big deal.
You mates aren’t straight then - unless they confused or even bi sexual.
Can’t mistake a real straight guy.
By the way Straight male here, ladies are you ready "
I ate a nut roast once. Doesn't make me permanently vegetarian... |
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I'd say around 90% of my messages are from 'straight' guys. I always reply saying I'm not looking for straight guys and then they tell me they're really bi or bi-curious but just don't want to put it on their profile. |
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"I've met "straight" guys on this site  "
me too . most of my meets are,with "straight" guys . what they say to people differs greatly .that's life . some are in self denial ,some are frightened to come out ,some play both ways . by meeting me doesn't make them gay at all . in fact I don't appeal to gay guys. They bwhave differently Its a fact of life .. To most guys its all about dipping their wick and don't say it's not .you know it makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf. "
Same here. I would say I'm situationally bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf.
Same here. I would say I'm situationally bi "
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If anyone was to think back to the pre internet dogging and cruising scene, they would know a vast percentage of guys who claimed to be completely straight will have a play with another guy.
I remember reading years ago some psychologist stating that most men wanting to see their partners with other men are to a degree bisexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If that was the case you would be bi curious no "
Labels are needed to help with searches, but it is difficult to find one that sums me up. Class myself as straight not attracted to men, not into anal, love women, but open to playing with a guy in mmf.
Sexuality is on a spectrum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If that was the case you would be bi curious no
Who were you asking that of?"
Answering the ops question if you are straight to me you wouldn’t rub another mans rhubarb |
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I know in the simple world that many of us would like to live in, things would always be crystal clear. But humans aren't like that - sexual interest can change or become apparent many years after adolescence. And, to complicate things, there's typically not a duplicate kind of interest in each gender, when you like more than one gender. As others have said, it's a spectrum and interest can come and go and just be insignificant in the grand scheme of things.
I mostly mix with younger people and the amount of fluidity amongst them is enormous, they just jump into things, trying stuff out but largely define themselves as straight, if it's needed, for older people. A lot of straight guys just get some experience, a sexual release and it largely doesn't challenge their notion of who they are etc, in the way that some of society seems to think it should. Be sexual. And enjoy yourself.
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I know in the simple world that many of us would like to live in, things would always be crystal clear. But humans aren't like that - sexual interest can change or become apparent many years after adolescence. And, to complicate things, there's typically not a duplicate kind of interest in each gender, when you like more than one gender. As others have said, it's a spectrum and interest can come and go and just be insignificant in the grand scheme of things.
I mostly mix with younger people and the amount of fluidity amongst them is enormous, they just jump into things, trying stuff out but largely define themselves as straight, if it's needed, for older people. A lot of straight guys just get some experience, a sexual release and it largely doesn't challenge their notion of who they are etc, in the way that some of society seems to think it should. Be sexual. And enjoy yourself.
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You have a dog in this fight though. Come on. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve learned, through d*unk conversations and fumbles, that near enough all of my mates have messed around with a guy at some point. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing thing.
And there’s no way any of them would talk about that shit normally and they’re all married or in long term relationships.
For the “straight men wouldn’t do that” commenters. People are flexible. It’s not a big deal.
You mates aren’t straight then - unless they confused or even bi sexual.
Can’t mistake a real straight guy.
By the way Straight male here, ladies are you ready
I ate a nut roast once. Doesn't make me permanently vegetarian..."
I'd rather a dick in my mouth than a nut roast. That's just sick.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve learned, through d*unk conversations and fumbles, that near enough all of my mates have messed around with a guy at some point. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing thing.
And there’s no way any of them would talk about that shit normally and they’re all married or in long term relationships.
For the “straight men wouldn’t do that” commenters. People are flexible. It’s not a big deal.
You mates aren’t straight then - unless they confused or even bi sexual.
Can’t mistake a real straight guy.
By the way Straight male here, ladies are you ready
I ate a nut roast once. Doesn't make me permanently vegetarian..."
That is a ridiculous analogy. You were not a vegetarian just because you once ate a none meat dish. Whereas a vegetarian does not eat meat ever a none vegetarian does not put meat in everything they eat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf.
Same here. I would say I'm situationally bi "
Yes in situations where your engaging in sex with someone of the same sex as yourself.
Its not difficult to understand..... If in your life you have engaged in sex with men as well as women you are bisexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf. "
What are the two ends of that spectrum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If that was the case you would be bi curious no
Labels are needed to help with searches, but it is difficult to find one that sums me up. Class myself as straight not attracted to men, not into anal, love women, but open to playing with a guy in mmf.
Sexuality is on a spectrum."
No its not it has definitions but those that cannot deal with them apply their own definitions so that they can deal with their sexual choices.
If your not attracted to men at all why would you be open to playing with them in a mmf situation!!!
You don't have to have anal with a man to be bisexual. Many homosexual men do not engage in anal sex but they are still homosexual. I can assure you that oral sex is having sex. The clue is in the name. Having oral sex with someone of the same sex at the very least means your not heterosexual.
....but feel free to invent your own definitions if it helps you to define yourself but they are only your definitions I don't think everyone else has to change the definitions to accommodate you.
I am not getting at you I'm just saying..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are all these gay and bi men redefining straight? Why does the gay and bi community pretend to be straight on fab? Why do they do that? "
It is how they deal with their sexual choices.
I don't entirely blame them as even the swinging society often has issue with men who have sex with other men. You would think they would be more at ease with it. So much easier for women to be bi in the swinging world. Its practically encouraged but not for men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
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I think sucking dick must be high on the scale though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
I think sucking dick must be high on the scale though. "
Not at all.
You can be mainly straight and very occasionally suck cock and be at 1 |
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
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So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough "
No |
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough
No "
So your scale is wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely sexuality iz based on what you find sexually attractive. You can suck as many cocks as you want, it doesn't necessarily make you homosexual or bisexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough
No
So your scale is wrong? "
No bi sexual is 3
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough
No
So your scale is wrong?
No bi sexual is 3
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So what’s 4? |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
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Why analyse it?
You are what you are. You like what you like. I think the biggest issue is that men are in denial and are afraid to be seen as not masculine.
Such hypocrisy in the swinging world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree the idea that being mascaline is tied up to your sexuality is a myth.
I think the other issue is there is alot if bi erasure I society especially around bi men.
Most of the swinging world does not bat an eyelid at bi girls on here but the amount of bi women that will not meet bi men and couples that have no bi men on profile is very high
Now I'm all for people having preferences but I feel that alot if the time the issue is the idea that bi men are unsafe to play with and will not stick to boundaries.
And I will agree that there are some that do not respect boundaries but there is also alot of straight single men and couples that don't.
Also I have checked out veris from couples etc that say no bi men and they have veris from guys that have messaged us saying they are bi but don't have it on their profile as they are worried they would not get meets.
I really think it's sad that people feel the need to hide part of themselves in a community that is supposed to be so open |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough
No
So your scale is wrong? "
Pedantry alert, but that would be Kinsey's scale... :p
But don't believe it is wrong really as that would be the sexual equivalent of calling someone who stepped foot in a catholic church a few times a decade for weddings a "devout catholic" or someone who killed one person in self-defence being called a serial killer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We should not put people into categories BI, BI curious ( what ever that means)
I am a straight acting guy but in MMF situations I enjoy , if the situation is right in performing oral sex on the male too...
Just go with the flow and we should not “pigeon hole people “ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough "
Exactly All that scale does is outline the spectrum of bisexuality. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"The Kinsey scale shows that sexuality is not simply straight bi or homosexual.
It was devised by Alfred Kinsey, and is used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So “0” is straight
1-5 is bisexual
6 is gay
Seems straight forward enough "
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"Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf. "
then your BI |
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"We should not put people into categories BI, BI curious ( what ever that means)
I am a straight acting guy but in MMF situations I enjoy , if the situation is right in performing oral sex on the male too...
Just go with the flow and we should not “pigeon hole people “"
Then you are bi.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely sexuality iz based on what you find sexually attractive. You can suck as many cocks as you want, it doesn't necessarily make you homosexual or bisexual."
That's like the old quip "I'm not gay but fucked a guy who was". If you enjoy same sex experiences your bi/gay and that's it, no matter how you try to dress it up. |
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I suppose technically I’m Bi (pan?) sexual. I’m only romantically attracted to women, but in my head I can only define my sexuality as “submissive” if an alpha male wants a throat to screw, then okay, so long as he’s Dominant enough.
That doesn’t seem to fit into traditional labelling, so I just go with “bi.” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bisexual.... I enjoy sex with women and men.
Emotional attachment is a different kettle of fish. With a woman I can have a loving connection, with a guy it is purely for sex.... but happy to have a pint with too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What amazed myself while meeting M/F cpl while in a 69 with the wife me underneath how many str8 !!! Guys would get into his wife doggy become very exited knowing my face and mouth so very close to his dick would pump like mad every now and then his dick would slip out end up in my face or mouth shoot his load extremly quickly, thoughts of having his dick sucked by the guy maybe ???? |
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"Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf.
then your BI"
Yep, happily bi,a bit like a smoker who has one cigar a year at Xmas. |
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Original reply to post went wrong way, should have been in the forum.
In answer to the snotty "Who asked you anyway?" I believe the OP did by opening the discussion with "How many stright guys like cock action with other guys"
Or is this meant to be an advertising post rather than a forum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What amazed myself while meeting M/F cpl while in a 69 with the wife me underneath how many str8 !!! Guys would get into his wife doggy become very exited knowing my face and mouth so very close to his dick would pump like mad every now and then his dick would slip out end up in my face or mouth shoot his load extremly quickly, thoughts of having his dick sucked by the guy maybe ???? "
Clearly you've described bi guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexuality is on a spectrum, I would say that I am at the straighter end, I am not attracted to men or meet guys on their own. 95 per cent of my play is straight.
But I have Bi on my profile, but only suck a man in a mmf.
then your BI
Yep, happily bi,a bit like a smoker who has one cigar a year at Xmas. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find this thread both interesting and funny at the same time ,
On one hand there’s the red blooded alpha males who seem intent on putting a bi label on everyone other than the 100% straight male, then there is the males who are more fluid with there sexuality and either don’t wish to be labelled or just settle for the bi label .
So in the past I was curious about my own sexuality i had Personel questions I needed answering, I’ve never found men attractive and still don’t today ,I’ve experienced bi play both In mmf situations and 1-2-1 with men , I found I disliked the 1-2-1 situations but did find the mmf situations very enjoyable. The difference for me was the bi play in the mmf just happened it was not pre arannged no specific consent was requested things just flowed.
My point is I don’t identify as bi because I don’t find myself attracted to men and I’m not actively looking for bi play , if the alpha males wish to point a finger and call me bi then hey I’m bi , but I think the bi / straight labels that narrow minded people use Just isn’t right in today’s society, if the Kinsey scale was used here on fab I would identify myself as a 1 . In fact I think the only labels that need to be used are for 100% straight and 100% gay , for them in the middle it should be more hey if things happen then things happen . |
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"If that was the case you would be bi curious no
Labels are needed to help with searches, but it is difficult to find one that sums me up. Class myself as straight not attracted to men, not into anal, love women, but open to playing with a guy in mmf.
Sexuality is on a spectrum."
I think fab needs more sexuality options like others sites do. I think het exible would fit a lot of people on here. |
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"testosterone is great. If we cant fuck it, we'll kill it and eat it"
The late robin Williams.
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