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By *edLady76 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ? |
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If that's the way you want to go then he should have a singles profile perhaps ... when I wanted to meet couples i wouldn't expect to go to a couples profile to find he wants to play with me alone x |
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If it were me (Duke) I would either go down the route of someone I know in real life already. Or try pof. I have heard from friends that if your looking for casual that's the place to be. Just be upfront in what you want. |
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over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?"
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions. "
*raises hand* I'm one of the exceptions!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"finding a fuckbuddy is easy finding a fuckbuddy who is not clingy needy and wants too much emotion's is hard ..  "
Should that not be made plain at the outset... defining clear boundaries? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"If it were me (Duke) I would either go down the route of someone I know in real life already. Or try pof. I have heard from friends that if your looking for casual that's the place to be. Just be upfront in what you want."
So that's why I can't get a proper date or find a relationship on pof then lol. It's littered with fabbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"finding a fuckbuddy is easy finding a fuckbuddy who is not clingy needy and wants too much emotion's is hard ..
Should that not be made plain at the outset... defining clear boundaries?"
lol ive been swinging 20 years with my hubs and i say it to everyone but the amount of people who dont listen is unreal specially when they get me on my own ie this profile they forget its still swinging fun and all of a sudden they want what my hubby has ..erm no chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions. "
Total generalisation to say that men want NSA and women want a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"finding a fuckbuddy is easy finding a fuckbuddy who is not clingy needy and wants too much emotion's is hard ..
Should that not be made plain at the outset... defining clear boundaries?
lol ive been swinging 20 years with my hubs and i say it to everyone but the amount of people who dont listen is unreal specially when they get me on my own ie this profile they forget its still swinging fun and all of a sudden they want what my hubby has ..erm no chance"
It is a swinging site and not a dating site and people should know that .. make it plain from the outset’s |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"finding a fuckbuddy is easy finding a fuckbuddy who is not clingy needy and wants too much emotion's is hard ..
Should that not be made plain at the outset... defining clear boundaries?
lol ive been swinging 20 years with my hubs and i say it to everyone but the amount of people who dont listen is unreal specially when they get me on my own ie this profile they forget its still swinging fun and all of a sudden they want what my hubby has ..erm no chance
It is a swinging site and not a dating site and people should know that .. make it plain from the outset’s "
erm i do ?? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions.
*raises hand* I'm one of the exceptions! "
Yes you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions.
Total generalisation to say that men want NSA and women want a relationship. "
Yes a totally true generalisation. You do understand that doesn't mean everybody right? So what's your point? You've just posted to criticise not contribute in any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions.
Total generalisation to say that men want NSA and women want a relationship.
Yes a totally true generalisation. You do understand that doesn't mean everybody right? So what's your point? You've just posted to criticise not contribute in any way. "
You are giving advice to someone else based on your limited experience, and I would suggest that the female that actually wants a relationship is the exception on here, rather than the norm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions.
Total generalisation to say that men want NSA and women want a relationship.
Yes a totally true generalisation. You do understand that doesn't mean everybody right? So what's your point? You've just posted to criticise not contribute in any way.
You are giving advice to someone else based on your limited experience, and I would suggest that the female that actually wants a relationship is the exception on here, rather than the norm. "
You are making assumptions on my experience when you have never even met me, please don't.
And have you read, all the posts from people wanting relationships, Id love to know what you are making you're informed decisions based on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions.
Total generalisation to say that men want NSA and women want a relationship.
Yes a totally true generalisation. You do understand that doesn't mean everybody right? So what's your point? You've just posted to criticise not contribute in any way.
You are giving advice to someone else based on your limited experience, and I would suggest that the female that actually wants a relationship is the exception on here, rather than the norm. "
Oh, and for your information, despite it having nothing to do with you. I have a huge amount of experience so keep your net nannying to yourself thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In terms of advice, the man will be competing with all of the single men, so a good profile is needed and lots of effort in approaching women. Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. We are a solid swinging couple and have moved on now to looking for a fuck buddy each. Red has had lots of messages and some meets with a few possible buddies now. Bear has had one meet but no further progress and its a little frustrating now. Red gives full permission and has no worries about the fuck buddy idea. So my question to the group would be what, where or how can we change this and find a good regular female buddy for Bear ?
Go to clubs and concentrate on looking for and playing with single ladies. It shouldn't be very difficult.
However I would say be very careful, every female fuck buddy I have ever had, whether from a club or normal life has always wanted more. I think it's an inherent part of being female in general, men want nsa, sex, women want a relationship and use sex to get there. I'm sure there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but they are very much exceptions.
Total generalisation to say that men want NSA and women want a relationship.
Yes a totally true generalisation. You do understand that doesn't mean everybody right? So what's your point? You've just posted to criticise not contribute in any way.
You are giving advice to someone else based on your limited experience, and I would suggest that the female that actually wants a relationship is the exception on here, rather than the norm.
Oh, and for your information, despite it having nothing to do with you. I have a huge amount of experience so keep your net nannying to yourself thanks. "
Not sure how your comment about wanting relationships being an "inherent part of being a female" (your words, not mine) turned into an attack on me? You made a sweeping generalisation on a forum, which is going to invite challenge when others don't agree, and I don't agree that "men want NSA, and women want a relationship and will use sex to get it" (again, your words, not mine.)
You have made your point, and I have made mine. Discussion is the general point of a forum. Happy swinging. |
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