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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet ."
Mixed.
Some will like it, some will not.
As you'll find out in 100 posts time.
Or if you do a forum search and read any of the 35 threads from the last 3 months on the subject. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet ."
I'm just surprised this subject hasn't been brought up before |
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Condoms are non negotiable for me. But my suggestion would be that if you wanted to go bare, you developed trust first. Definitely not the first meet. Maybe not even the first month. When would you be fairly confident that the person you're with looks after themselves, looks after you, and gives you enough information about that to make an informed decision? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet ."
I find in this day and age of knowledge and understanding of std and HIV why anyone. In their right mind would risk bareback and f they do then that is their progative .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No chance just not worth the risk especially with people on here.
Says the guy who’s not had a meet but slating everyone on here that he hasn’t met?"
He's having the safest sex ever. Him and his right hand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No chance just not worth the risk especially with people on here.
Says the guy who’s not had a meet but slating everyone on here that he hasn’t met?"
Had plenty of meets over the last 10 years or so but thanks for your concern.And I'm not slating anybody,if that's the way they want to play then that is up to them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No chance just not worth the risk especially with people on here.
Says the guy who’s not had a meet but slating everyone on here that he hasn’t met?
He's having the safest sex ever. Him and his right hand "
Haha he’s had plenty of meets, think your right he means his hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh here we go again! OK I'll just word my opinion alittle differently. I encourage those to continue to actively express their love for bareback. Shout it from the rooftops so I can stay welllll awayyyy. |
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Think about this op and anybody who does bare back.
Apart from the obvious health risks, how are you going to feel in a good few months when you start getting called daddy?
Accidents do happen and one day it might just be you!!
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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet ."
It was world AIDS day on 1st Dec. 30 years since the first one. There are treatments but people still die from HIV. Why risk it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Safe sex is the best sex when it all comes down to it . Unless its your long term partner or a person who you have built solid trust with. You've only got one life , don't be so risky with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone one here is clean... they get tested every 3 months and always use condoms...
 Loads of guys who had no bareback on their profile went BB with me when i was single."
Ohh I know.... the people who condemn the swingers who do bareback are usually the biggest barebackers on the scene.... |
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"Safe sex is the best sex when it all comes down to it . Unless its your long term partner or a person who you have built solid trust with. You've only got one life , don't be so risky with it "
Listen to this man here and don't come crying to us for sympathy when you catch something!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Safe sex is the best sex when it all comes down to it . Unless its your long term partner or a person who you have built solid trust with. You've only got one life , don't be so risky with it
Listen to this man here and don't come crying to us for sympathy when you catch something!!!!"
This man sounds like a AIDS poster from the 80’s... |
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I must admit to not liking condoms, its like putting a condom on your tongue, to give oral and in a perfect world and relationship. I would prefer BB. Unfortunately, we dont live in a perfect world and they are a necessary evil. But how do all the cucks, cleanup, if everyones using condoms?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone one here is clean... they get tested every 3 months and always use condoms...
Loads of guys who had no bareback on their profile went BB with me when i was single.
Ohh I know.... the people who condemn the swingers who do bareback are usually the biggest barebackers on the scene...."
Virtue posting... That's why they do it, to impress the laydees |
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"Everyone one here is clean... they get tested every 3 months and always use condoms...
Loads of guys who had no bareback on their profile went BB with me when i was single.
Ohh I know.... the people who condemn the swingers who do bareback are usually the biggest barebackers on the scene....
Virtue posting... That's why they do it, to impress the laydees"
Hypocrites never impress me personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People make there own choices OP as the almost daily bareback threads on here prove if you go and read the entire back catalogue....
Others choices are theirs. Yours are yours. If you don't like others choices the solution is simple.
Just like real life....
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet .
I'm just surprised this subject hasn't been brought up before"
It has at least 50 times! |
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"I must admit to not liking condoms, its like putting a condom on your tongue, to give oral and in a perfect world and relationship. I would prefer BB. Unfortunately, we dont live in a perfect world and they are a necessary evil. But how do all the cucks, cleanup, if everyones using condoms?."
Interesting point? |
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"Oh here we go again! OK I'll just word my opinion alittle differently. I encourage those to continue to actively express their love for bareback. Shout it from the rooftops so I can stay welllll awayyyy. "
Absobloodylutely ,,,, all you barebackers show yourself wouldn’t touch with a barge pole |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet .
I'm just surprised this subject hasn't been brought up before
It has at least 50 times! "
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Always safe sex for us - not gonna play russian roulette with our lives. When you have seen how AIDS eats away at someone beyond recognition and then sadly they pass away it's really not worth the quick bit of fun and pleasure. Understand wearing a condom doesn't feel the same but rather be safe than sorry.
We have always and will always use condoms. But it's each individual's choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for someone I had randomly pulled from a club or just met no. But if the right conversations and trust is there before a first meet then yes I have. Amazingly I have remained in the picture of excellent sexual health too. Who'd have thought it.
(Block away people I didnt wanna meet you anyway ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have said it many times... And people habe said it here...
If we allow the bareback pack to crack on without judgement, others can choose to ignore them.
The more we make a song and dance out of it, the less likely people are going to be honest. |
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"Safe sex is the best sex when it all comes down to it . Unless its your long term partner or a person who you have built solid trust with. You've only got one life , don't be so risky with it
Listen to this man here and don't come crying to us for sympathy when you catch something!!!!"
Why would anyone go to you for sympathy after getting a letter from the gum clinic ??? |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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We’re going to clubsx tomorrow for the weekend, we’re armed with a fuck bag containing everything, condoms, lube and assorted little bullet toys and baby wipes (for the toys and spills) we never travel without it, common sense dictates a right course of action? However this is to the rotten toerags who nicked our bag at the last party we went to, without it safe happened alright we were fucked without it, lol |
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I used to mess around with a hiv specialist nurse
Around that time I got invited to a bareback gangbang in her area - noooo thanks
6 months later there was a spike in hiv across all sexes in her clinic and alot of them had attended a bareback gangbang...
So no ta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet ."
Its your/their/my body our choice! |
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"I have said it many times... And people habe said it here...
If we allow the bareback pack to crack on without judgement, others can choose to ignore them.
The more we make a song and dance out of it, the less likely people are going to be honest."
The bareback pack ? 
How do you know people you have met on here are not bareback fucking half of tinder ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t you think it’s a bit risky on the first meet ?"
Have you ever had sex for the first time away from this site, before you knew it existed?
Say years ago - maybe from losing virginity onwards!
I can't see many who haven't had unprotected sex with at least one sexual experience in their life so far!
I'm sure there will be some who have though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have said it many times... And people habe said it here...
If we allow the bareback pack to crack on without judgement, others can choose to ignore them.
The more we make a song and dance out of it, the less likely people are going to be honest.
The bareback pack ?
How do you know people you have met on here are not bareback fucking half of tinder ?
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Correct.
You can catch anything from anyone from anywhere!
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"Can't believe anyone would even consider it"
I can’t believe anyone would get off on somebody pissing on them ........but each to their own 
Why don’t people stick to their own rules and let others worry about themselves .
Do you think all the single people on here are playing safe all the time outside of fab ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have said it many times... And people habe said it here...
If we allow the bareback pack to crack on without judgement, others can choose to ignore them.
The more we make a song and dance out of it, the less likely people are going to be honest.
The bareback pack ?
How do you know people you have met on here are not bareback fucking half of tinder ?
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Well done for completely missing my point.
If we destigmatise bareback, people will be more honest about it, people will be more likely to say they do bareback and then everyone can make an informed choice.
The more we throw about "Russian Roulette" the more likely people WILL lie to get a fuck.
Virtue posting that you always bag up means nothing. Everyone who posts that they always wear a condom could be lying. Everyone who is open about barebacking is less likely to be lying about it.
I'd rather someone said yes I bareback and meant it, rather than say I always bag up when they don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't believe anyone would even consider it
I can’t believe anyone would get off on somebody pissing on them ........but each to their own
Why don’t people stick to their own rules and let others worry about themselves .
Do you think all the single people on here are playing safe all the time outside of fab ?
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Lol *zips MY mouth*
Let me tell you, some 'single' (married men) aren't either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have said it many times... And people habe said it here...
If we allow the bareback pack to crack on without judgement, others can choose to ignore them.
The more we make a song and dance out of it, the less likely people are going to be honest.
The bareback pack ?
How do you know people you have met on here are not bareback fucking half of tinder ?
Well done for completely missing my point.
If we destigmatise bareback, people will be more honest about it, people will be more likely to say they do bareback and then everyone can make an informed choice.
The more we throw about "Russian Roulette" the more likely people WILL lie to get a fuck.
Virtue posting that you always bag up means nothing. Everyone who posts that they always wear a condom could be lying. Everyone who is open about barebacking is less likely to be lying about it.
I'd rather someone said yes I bareback and meant it, rather than say I always bag up when they don't.
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Nail on the head....I only bareback and have met many people who always profess to "Safe sex" only to confess to enjoying and having bareback sex.... a bit like the straight guys who message me for sex |
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"Nail on the head....I only bareback and have met many people who always profess to "Safe sex" only to confess to enjoying and having bareback sex.... a bit like the straight guys who message me for sex "
Same here - when I point out to people who've contacted me and have 'safe sex' on their profile that I only play bareback, 9 times out of 10 they've seen it on my profile and that's what they actually want...
....but anyone reading their profile would think that they only play safe... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet .
I'm just surprised this subject hasn't been brought up before"
PMSL! |
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we love bareback but only with other couples.
((talk aboput double standards)), there is one couple who weve met on this forum who says NO to barback on here. yet you barebacked with us! why don,t people just tell the truth??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we love bareback but only with other couples.
((talk aboput double standards)), there is one couple who weve met on this forum who says NO to barback on here. yet you barebacked with us! why don,t people just tell the truth?? "
Cos this is FAB! |
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Same old posts
How many claim they are safe sex only but will play oral without condoms or dental dams ???
Can’t ever remember seeing a fem suck a cock at a party or club whilst he has a condom on
I’m sure some do but it’ must be very rare |
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"Same old posts
How many claim they are safe sex only but will play oral without condoms or dental dams ???
Can’t ever remember seeing a fem suck a cock at a party or club whilst he has a condom on
I’m sure some do but it’ must be very rare "
I do its not nice but I dont want any nasty surprises. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know condoms prevent that truly intimate feeling , but are safe.
What are people’s opnions regarding bareback sex on the 1st meet ."
Tough one that, don't think it's been discussed before. |
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By *andDeeCouple
over a year ago
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Wonder how many ‘safe sexers’ have had unprotected sex with their now partners when they’ve never been tested? Yeah, protection within this circle, but did they insist and still insist on wearing protection years on in to their relationship if they have never been tested? |
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There are definitely plenty of us out there looking for this, and it is a pity many are unwilling to put it on their profile, or to have the option of it being an interest so that we can all see what potential playmates are/aren't looking for.
Would be great to indulge in sticky fun with some regular playmates  |
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