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"Yes. We were in a cafe when a woman sat opposite us with her husband. She opened her legs to show Mr N that she had no knickers on. He shifted to avoid seeing but so did she. When she realised he wasn't going to react her and her husband went and sat somewhere else. " Was that just a normal cafe? Amazing! | |||
"Yes. We were in a cafe when a woman sat opposite us with her husband. She opened her legs to show Mr N that she had no knickers on. He shifted to avoid seeing but so did she. When she realised he wasn't going to react her and her husband went and sat somewhere else. Was that just a normal cafe? Amazing! " Yeah. Mr N didn't want to see it and as he said at the time, a guy would have been arrested | |||
"Yes. We were in a cafe when a woman sat opposite us with her husband. She opened her legs to show Mr N that she had no knickers on. He shifted to avoid seeing but so did she. When she realised he wasn't going to react her and her husband went and sat somewhere else. Was that just a normal cafe? Amazing! Yeah. Mr N didn't want to see it and as he said at the time, a guy would have been arrested" Totally inappropriate behaviour. There could have been kids around. It's a shame she wasn't arrested. | |||
"Hello everyone Mr here,I d love to see women flashing in public place. My mrs has never done it and is to shy lol Have you ever experienced it (in shop, street etc?) " 
If I’m not allowed to go around flashing strangers in public (not that I want to), neither is your mrs. | |||
"Hello everyone Mr here,I d love to see women flashing in public place. My mrs has never done it and is to shy lol Have you ever experienced it (in shop, street etc?)
If I’m not allowed to go around flashing strangers in public (not that I want to), neither is your mrs. "Quite right   | |||
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"Hello everyone Mr here,I d love to see women flashing in public place. My mrs has never done it and is to shy lol Have you ever experienced it (in shop, street etc?)
If I’m not allowed to go around flashing strangers in public (not that I want to), neither is your mrs.
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"Is it just me who thinks there’s something a bit wrong about this whole thread? "Nope | |||
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"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . " It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. | |||
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"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . " The OP was about someone exposing themselves in a cafe. If I went down to my local cafe and flopped it out onto the counter when I was paying for a latte, what would happen (other than me confirming that my schlong is bigger than the average sausage roll)? That sounds like a one way ticket to the sex offenders’ register to me | |||
"Flashing is inappropriate and against the law actually and for a very good reason. While some people may think it's fun, flirty and harmless others may think it's vulgar or frightening. I also agree with others that have posted that if it was a man that was flashing there would be outrage. " Absolutely. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong." I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . | |||
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"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here ." I agree. Context is all. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . " In a club or other adult environment with consenting adults, fine. Anywhere else it's not. I do hope she gets arrested it's not fun for the recipient if it's non consensual as stated earlier in the thread. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . The OP was about someone exposing themselves in a cafe. If I went down to my local cafe and flopped it out onto the counter when I was paying for a latte, what would happen (other than me confirming that my schlong is bigger than the average sausage roll)? That sounds like a one way ticket to the sex offenders’ register to me "I don’t dispute that , but the op wasn’t about a cafe . And my idea of flashing is something way more subtle and sexy than that . Certainly not offending anyone . See my reply to nice couple . | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all. " | |||
"Someone kindly stopped in a tight country lane and flashed me so I could get past first" I think flashing your lights is illegal . As is blowing your horn As is using your hazards for the wrong reason that seem logical and right but there wrong  | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here ." What’s wrong with leaving it at the subtlety of a suggestive cleavage/stocking top...why the need to FTG or pull out an unwanted nip? | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . The OP was about someone exposing themselves in a cafe. If I went down to my local cafe and flopped it out onto the counter when I was paying for a latte, what would happen (other than me confirming that my schlong is bigger than the average sausage roll)? That sounds like a one way ticket to the sex offenders’ register to me
I don’t dispute that , but the op wasn’t about a cafe .
And my idea of flashing is something way more subtle and sexy than that . Certainly not offending anyone . See my reply to nice couple ."Ok, but the OP asked for examples of public flashing in a shop or street. The second post highlighted an example from a cafe and the op replied: “Amazing”. So it’s a relevant example. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . What’s wrong with leaving it at the subtlety of a suggestive cleavage/stocking top...why the need to FTG or pull out an unwanted nip? " Nothing wrong with that at al, | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . The OP was about someone exposing themselves in a cafe. If I went down to my local cafe and flopped it out onto the counter when I was paying for a latte, what would happen (other than me confirming that my schlong is bigger than the average sausage roll)? That sounds like a one way ticket to the sex offenders’ register to me
I don’t dispute that , but the op wasn’t about a cafe .
And my idea of flashing is something way more subtle and sexy than that . Certainly not offending anyone . See my reply to nice couple ."The op was about flashing in the street or in a shop. | |||
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"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police" Difference in being politically correct and a law abiding citizen | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . The OP was about someone exposing themselves in a cafe. If I went down to my local cafe and flopped it out onto the counter when I was paying for a latte, what would happen (other than me confirming that my schlong is bigger than the average sausage roll)? That sounds like a one way ticket to the sex offenders’ register to me
I don’t dispute that , but the op wasn’t about a cafe .
And my idea of flashing is something way more subtle and sexy than that . Certainly not offending anyone . See my reply to nice couple .
Ok, but the OP asked for examples of public flashing in a shop or street.
The second post highlighted an example from a cafe and the op replied:
“Amazing”.
So it’s a relevant example. "That’s true , I missed that . It’s far from amazing when someone is clearly not interested and there are kids and general folk about . | |||
"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police" A fun thread? I guess it is if you think flashing in shops or on the street is fun. I prefer to keep that stuff behind closed doors where peoples’ children won’t see it. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all. "So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement? | |||
"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police" No, it's illegal. Why encourage people to talk about their experiences of breaking the law? | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . The OP was about someone exposing themselves in a cafe. If I went down to my local cafe and flopped it out onto the counter when I was paying for a latte, what would happen (other than me confirming that my schlong is bigger than the average sausage roll)? That sounds like a one way ticket to the sex offenders’ register to me
I don’t dispute that , but the op wasn’t about a cafe .
And my idea of flashing is something way more subtle and sexy than that . Certainly not offending anyone . See my reply to nice couple .
The op was about flashing in the street or in a shop. "I can see that being wrong to be fair , as you said it’s about context and that’s not right | |||
"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police" The thread hasn't been killed, I think there's a lively debate going on. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?"I said context is all. So in the context of mutual agreement and a discreet, appropriate setting I can't see anything wrong with flashing. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . The OP was about someone exposing themselves in a cafe. If I went down to my local cafe and flopped it out onto the counter when I was paying for a latte, what would happen (other than me confirming that my schlong is bigger than the average sausage roll)? That sounds like a one way ticket to the sex offenders’ register to me
I don’t dispute that , but the op wasn’t about a cafe .
And my idea of flashing is something way more subtle and sexy than that . Certainly not offending anyone . See my reply to nice couple .
Ok, but the OP asked for examples of public flashing in a shop or street.
The second post highlighted an example from a cafe and the op replied:
“Amazing”.
So it’s a relevant example.
That’s true , I missed that .
It’s far from amazing when someone is clearly not interested and there are kids and general folk about . " | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?"If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ? | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?"If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first? | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first? " | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first? "A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same. "The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok. Older, not so good looking woman = not ok. | |||
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"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok."We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”. There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place. The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first? "I haven’t said the woman is flashing her minge , so if the guy flashes his midriff , or a bicep because the woman is clearly into it , I can’t see the issue . If he flashes his cock and gets it wrong he’s in trouble , and rightly so . If a woman gets it wrong flashing a guy , it’s less likely he will be so upset . He’s far more likely to laugh it off and highly unlikely to be traumatized . Is that right ? I don’t know to be honest , but in my time men were men and women were women . Yes there’s a difference and I guess in my mind there still is a difference . I still open a door for a lady , give up my seat for a lady , and hold some pretty old fashioned values . I also grew up watching Benny Hill and the like , and strippers in pubs of an evening weren’t uncommon . I guess I’m a different generation , and I wouldn’t be of a mind to call the police if a lady flashes her stocking top or cleavage at me . | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
I haven’t said the woman is flashing her minge , so if the guy flashes his midriff , or a bicep because the woman is clearly into it , I can’t see the issue . If he flashes his cock and gets it wrong he’s in trouble , and rightly so . If a woman gets it wrong flashing a guy , it’s less likely he will be so upset . He’s far more likely to laugh it off and highly unlikely to be traumatized .
Is that right ?
I don’t know to be honest , but in my time men were men and women were women . Yes there’s a difference and I guess in my mind there still is a difference . I still open a door for a lady , give up my seat for a lady , and hold some pretty old fashioned values . I also grew up watching Benny Hill and the like , and strippers in pubs of an evening weren’t uncommon .
I guess I’m a different generation , and I wouldn’t be of a mind to call the police if a lady flashes her stocking top or cleavage at me . "See my last x | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok.
We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”.
There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place.
The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second. "I agree with that , fully | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok.
We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”.
There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place.
The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second.
I agree with that , fully "Good stuff. On a lighter note, I wouldn’t call the police if a lady flashed her stocking top at me, either  . | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok.
We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”.
There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place.
The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second.
I agree with that , fully
Good stuff.
On a lighter note, I wouldn’t call the police if a lady flashed her stocking top at me, either . "Don’t remember hearing any complaints | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok.
We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”.
There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place.
The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second.
I agree with that , fully
Good stuff.
On a lighter note, I wouldn’t call the police if a lady flashed her stocking top at me, either .
Don’t remember hearing any complaints "Well, no, but we were safely ensconced behind closed doors when you did your Sharon Stone act, to my Michael Douglas.... | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok.
We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”.
There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place.
The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second.
I agree with that , fully
Good stuff.
On a lighter note, I wouldn’t call the police if a lady flashed her stocking top at me, either .
Don’t remember hearing any complaints
Well, no, but we were safely ensconced behind closed doors when you did your Sharon Stone act, to my Michael Douglas.... "Haha Love it! | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok.
We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”.
There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place.
The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second.
I agree with that , fully
Good stuff.
On a lighter note, I wouldn’t call the police if a lady flashed her stocking top at me, either .
Don’t remember hearing any complaints
Well, no, but we were safely ensconced behind closed doors when you did your Sharon Stone act, to my Michael Douglas.... ". I did hide the ice pick when I realised there was a way to get you to stop talking... | |||
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"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . It's just differing opinions though. I always wonder how people judge if others are going to appreciate it. The woman who flashed Mr N in a cafe with all ages present certainly got it wrong. I agree that was wrong , all ages present etc.... But out at night , many men love the sight of a stocking top or a bit of cleavage . My wife says she can tell who would and who wouldn’t appreciate it , and we’ve never seen anyone be anything other than appreciative of a nice flash . It’s all about right time , right place , right recipient . And done properly it’s not the disgusting act that some portray it as , particularly on here . I agree. Context is all.
So it's okay not to seek consent first? "It's okay i flashed someone, i knew in advance they would enjoy it" is an okay statement?
If a guy is sat at the pub of an evening , looking at a woman , and she flashes her stocking top , or leans down to show a bit of boobage , do you seriously think she needs to ask him first ?
If a woman is sat in the pub, or on the tube, of an evening looking at a guy, and the guy decides to flash a bit of his cock, does he need to ask her first?
A lot of double standards apply with flashing. OK when women do it not men. Both should be treated the same.
The double standards apply to perceived attractiveness too. Good looking young woman = ok.
Older, not so good looking woman = not ok.
We should be careful to define what we mean by “flashing”.
There’s a clear distinction between someone wearing a revealing outfit (a guy wearing a tight tee shirt, a woman with her boobs on display in a boob tube, short skirts etc.) versus someone actively exposing their genitalia to a stranger on the street, in a cafe (as per your experience), or in any other public place.
The first is acceptable, the second is clearly unacceptable (and illegal). Some of the early posts of this thread seemed to be celebrating the second.
I agree with that , fully
Good stuff.
On a lighter note, I wouldn’t call the police if a lady flashed her stocking top at me, either .
Don’t remember hearing any complaints
Well, no, but we were safely ensconced behind closed doors when you did your Sharon Stone act, to my Michael Douglas.... .
I did hide the ice pick when I realised there was a way to get you to stop talking... "It must have worked. I’m rarely speechless . | |||
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"ok so would you put your photos up in a cafe dot thinks so why cos your flashing" No I wouldn't because it's not appropriate I really don't understand the point you're trying to make. | |||
"ok so would you put your photos up in a cafe dot thinks so why cos your flashing" No because a cafe is a PUBLIC place, this site is for consenting adults. Your comparing apples with pears. | |||
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"The point i try to make is there is a right time or place but at the end of the day it is still flashing there are a few pubs in mancherster that have mix sex toilets lots of public flashing "Yes that would very probably happen with guys using urinals in a mixed toilet. | |||
"Someone kindly stopped in a tight country lane and flashed me so I could get past first"
I do this a lot | |||
"Someone kindly stopped in a tight country lane and flashed me so I could get past first
I do this a lot "Living in Cornwall, so do I. Being able to reverse quickly is also an advantage. | |||
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"Mrs like to do it all the time, flashing me in bars and ships and we have been caught a few times " Were you arrested? | |||
"The point i try to make is there is a right time or place but at the end of the day it is still flashing there are a few pubs in mancherster that have mix sex toilets lots of public flashing "It would be perfectly possible to be guilty of indecent exposure in a public toilet if you “did a George Michael”, it’s all about the intention. | |||
"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police A fun thread? I guess it is if you think flashing in shops or on the street is fun. I prefer to keep that stuff behind closed doors where peoples’ children won’t see it. " I really can't believe your hypocrisy White1100, you have Dogging in your interests then you babble rubbish about flashing being so wrong on so many levels. Will you agree with anyone in forums just to look like a nice guy? | |||
"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police A fun thread? I guess it is if you think flashing in shops or on the street is fun. I prefer to keep that stuff behind closed doors where peoples’ children won’t see it. I really can't believe your hypocrisy White1100, you have Dogging in your interests then you babble rubbish about flashing being so wrong on so many levels. Will you agree with anyone in forums just to look like a nice guy? "Dogging is generally done when it's dark in agreed places between consenting adults, a massive difference from flashing in a very public place in broad daylight to people who may not have consented, don't you think?  | |||
"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police A fun thread? I guess it is if you think flashing in shops or on the street is fun. I prefer to keep that stuff behind closed doors where peoples’ children won’t see it. I really can't believe your hypocrisy White1100, you have Dogging in your interests then you babble rubbish about flashing being so wrong on so many levels. Will you agree with anyone in forums just to look like a nice guy? "
I can’t believe I’m arguing with people who can’t distinguish between using a toilet/dogging in the middle of the night with indecent exposure of genitalia in a street or cafe.
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"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police A fun thread? I guess it is if you think flashing in shops or on the street is fun. I prefer to keep that stuff behind closed doors where peoples’ children won’t see it. I really can't believe your hypocrisy White1100, you have Dogging in your interests then you babble rubbish about flashing being so wrong on so many levels. Will you agree with anyone in forums just to look like a nice guy?
I can’t believe I’m arguing with people who can’t distinguish between using a toilet/dogging in the middle of the night with indecent exposure of genitalia in a street or cafe.
Why exactly are you so keen to defend flashing?! "I'm not keen to defend flashing, we don't don't do it. I'm keen to show hypocrites. You said in an earlier post you like to keep everything behind closed doors? Well dogging is NOT behind closed doors, and if you are not exposing your genitalia in public while doing it then you are going to have a problem fulfilling one of your interests. | |||
"And another fun thread killed by the fab pc police A fun thread? I guess it is if you think flashing in shops or on the street is fun. I prefer to keep that stuff behind closed doors where peoples’ children won’t see it. I really can't believe your hypocrisy White1100, you have Dogging in your interests then you babble rubbish about flashing being so wrong on so many levels. Will you agree with anyone in forums just to look like a nice guy?
I can’t believe I’m arguing with people who can’t distinguish between using a toilet/dogging in the middle of the night with indecent exposure of genitalia in a street or cafe.
Why exactly are you so keen to defend flashing?!
I'm not keen to defend flashing, we don't don't do it. I'm keen to show hypocrites. You said in an earlier post you like to keep everything behind closed doors? Well dogging is NOT behind closed doors, and if you are not exposing your genitalia in public while doing it then you are going to have a problem fulfilling one of your interests. "You’ve exposed an error in my profile interests, now corrected, rather than any hypocrisy. Dogging doesn’t appeal to me in the slightest. Google the offence of indecent exposure and then you’ll understand where there’s more to it than just exposing your genitalia in public. | |||
"No I don't think and I'm not sure where you got your information from, Dogging is done at anytime of the day, in very public places (hence the name) There's no point dogging in the dark if you can't see who is there and it's unsafe, that's why it's mostly a daytime activity. If you wish to correct me then please have a valid point. " Then even more stupid to do it in broad daylight. | |||
"No I don't think and I'm not sure where you got your information from, Dogging is done at anytime of the day, in very public places (hence the name) There's no point dogging in the dark if you can't see who is there and it's unsafe, that's why it's mostly a daytime activity. If you wish to correct me then please have a valid point. Then even more stupid to do it in broad daylight. " Totally agree. | |||
"No I don't think and I'm not sure where you got your information from, Dogging is done at anytime of the day, in very public places (hence the name) There's no point dogging in the dark if you can't see who is there and it's unsafe, that's why it's mostly a daytime activity. If you wish to correct me then please have a valid point. Then even more stupid to do it in broad daylight. Totally agree. " We were keen doggers , and but for a couple of random times in very quiet woodland areas , we always went at night when there was no likelihood of interruption from innocent members of the public . Although there is a bit of dogging going on during the day , it’s primarily a night time activity . At least from experience anyway . | |||
"No I don't think and I'm not sure where you got your information from, Dogging is done at anytime of the day, in very public places (hence the name) There's no point dogging in the dark if you can't see who is there and it's unsafe, that's why it's mostly a daytime activity. If you wish to correct me then please have a valid point. Then even more stupid to do it in broad daylight. Totally agree. We were keen doggers , and but for a couple of random times in very quiet woodland areas , we always went at night when there was no likelihood of interruption from innocent members of the public . Although there is a bit of dogging going on during the day , it’s primarily a night time activity . At least from experience anyway . " Thankyou. It's certainly after dark in most cases here too. And yes, I've had previous experience as well. | |||
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"No I don't think and I'm not sure where you got your information from, Dogging is done at anytime of the day, in very public places (hence the name) There's no point dogging in the dark if you can't see who is there and it's unsafe, that's why it's mostly a daytime activity. If you wish to correct me then please have a valid point. Then even more stupid to do it in broad daylight. Totally agree. We were keen doggers , and but for a couple of random times in very quiet woodland areas , we always went at night when there was no likelihood of interruption from innocent members of the public . Although there is a bit of dogging going on during the day , it’s primarily a night time activity . At least from experience anyway . Thankyou. It's certainly after dark in most cases here too. And yes, I've had previous experience as well. "So pretty much of no relevance to the subject of this thread, then? That’s what I suspected . | |||
"No I don't think and I'm not sure where you got your information from, Dogging is done at anytime of the day, in very public places (hence the name) There's no point dogging in the dark if you can't see who is there and it's unsafe, that's why it's mostly a daytime activity. If you wish to correct me then please have a valid point. Then even more stupid to do it in broad daylight. Totally agree. We were keen doggers , and but for a couple of random times in very quiet woodland areas , we always went at night when there was no likelihood of interruption from innocent members of the public . Although there is a bit of dogging going on during the day , it’s primarily a night time activity . At least from experience anyway . Thankyou. It's certainly after dark in most cases here too. And yes, I've had previous experience as well.
So pretty much of no relevance to the subject of this thread, then?
That’s what I suspected . "Not really, no lol. | |||
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"Hmmm I think a few of the people taking the moral high ground should probably go out more often,pop along to your local high street on a Saturday night even better if there is a nightclub close. Most of the females go out wearing next to nothing and it seems the norm ( not that it's right before your head explodes with Outrage) for guy's to whip out their knobs at any opportunity. Whilst indecent exposure in a public place is wrong I think people getting their knickers in a twist ( pun intended) over mild directed knickers flash, perhaps are on the wrong site if they are so worked up about people telling stories about stuff that probably didn't happen anyway. Look at the most fabbed pictures on a weekly basis and there's always pictures taken in a supermarket of someone flashing their arse or boobs. Also I think that there is intent to consider. A woman flashing a stocking top of an accidental down blouse is a totally different beast to a guy flashing his hard penis, the comparison would be a woman sitting with legs akimbo knickers to one side showing herself. Yes I agree it's all about context and the place and time. But hey please don't let me stop any of you guys calling the police because a woman just flashed her stocking top at you in a pub I'm sure the police would be very helpful and happy to help you with your Outrage. Oh and I would be very interested in people's take on film stars and celebrities on say the red carpet of an event like the Oscars with see thru dresses or ladies wearing very tight short hotpants,or women topless on a beach when the majority are in full swimwear. " Spot on , and exactly what I was trying to say earlier in the thread | |||
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"Is it just me who thinks there’s something a bit wrong about this whole thread? "No, this topic comes up a lot and there are 2 camps, those who think it is somehow hot to enforce this on an unsuspecting public. and the rest of us who know it is illegal and totally inappropriate
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"Why on earth would you want to subject innocent bystanders to that? "Because people who do this clearly don't know how to behave in public and feel an absolute sense of entitlement to do as they please, regardless of anyone else. | |||
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"Hmmm I think a few of the people taking the moral high ground should probably go out more often,pop along to your local high street on a Saturday night even better if there is a nightclub close. Most of the females go out wearing next to nothing and it seems the norm ( not that it's right before your head explodes with Outrage) for guy's to whip out their knobs at any opportunity. Whilst indecent exposure in a public place is wrong I think people getting their knickers in a twist ( pun intended) over mild directed knickers flash, perhaps are on the wrong site if they are so worked up about people telling stories about stuff that probably didn't happen anyway. Look at the most fabbed pictures on a weekly basis and there's always pictures taken in a supermarket of someone flashing their arse or boobs. Also I think that there is intent to consider. A woman flashing a stocking top of an accidental down blouse is a totally different beast to a guy flashing his hard penis, the comparison would be a woman sitting with legs akimbo knickers to one side showing herself. Yes I agree it's all about context and the place and time. But hey please don't let me stop any of you guys calling the police because a woman just flashed her stocking top at you in a pub I'm sure the police would be very helpful and happy to help you with your Outrage. Oh and I would be very interested in people's take on film stars and celebrities on say the red carpet of an event like the Oscars with see thru dresses or ladies wearing very tight short hotpants,or women topless on a beach when the majority are in full swimwear. " No one has said they will call the police about a stocking top being flashed. And we weren’t talking about dogging (so long as it’s done discretely and after dark, obviously). We were talking about flashing in the street, and someone exposing their genitals in a cafe. Some on here apparently think that’s acceptable. I’m not one of them. | |||
"Is it just me who thinks there’s something a bit wrong about this whole thread?
No, this topic comes up a lot and there are 2 camps, those who think it is somehow hot to enforce this on an unsuspecting public. and the rest of us who know it is illegal and totally inappropriate
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"It's not just flashing a bit of cleavage or stocking top that people are talking about on here is it? " We regularly go out in the city centre on a Friday night , and I can assure you it’s way more than a stocking top or a bit of cleavage on show . Whatever the weather , there’s so much bare flesh on show it’s behind my understanding how they don’t catch they’re death ! And while I think we all agree on context and what s acceptable and what’s not , there is a culture amongst the 18 - 30 crowd to be very risqué in what they wear ( or don’t as the case in point ) . And since we are on a swinging site where people would be expected to be a bit more liberal than the outrage expressed , on a realistic level there are women out showing way more than some in here would believe . Only a couple of weeks ago we were in a fun pub when a woman turned to her mate and said she couldn’t wear underwear with her outfit . Since it was a figure clinging small dress , I guess she was right , but as she sat down , the full view of her fanny could have been construed as inappropriate flashing if what’s been said earlier was applied . Her friend alerted her to this fact , and she said she wasn’t bothered , as she was on the pull anyway . “Well if you’re gonna do that , so am I “ , she said , and without a care she removed her knickers and put them in her handbag . They spent the rest of the night dancing , laughing , flashing and having a great time . No one was offended at all . Except us a bit , as my wife would normally not have as much overt competition in pulling fit guys on a Friday night ! | |||
"It's not just flashing a bit of cleavage or stocking top that people are talking about on here is it? " Please define flashing. I don't think the OP mentioned anything about showing genitalia. It's everyone else who bastardised the the thread to suit themselves and the self righteous personalities. | |||
"It's not just flashing a bit of cleavage or stocking top that people are talking about on here is it? Please define flashing. I don't think the OP mentioned anything about showing genitalia. It's everyone else who bastardised the the thread to suit themselves and the self righteous personalities." Exactly. There's no mention of lifting dresses around heads or targeting children or vulnerable children or adults. I'm sure that common sense is used in most instances. It's ashame some fune threads get jumped on so quickly. | |||
"It's not just flashing a bit of cleavage or stocking top that people are talking about on here is it? Please define flashing. I don't think the OP mentioned anything about showing genitalia. It's everyone else who bastardised the the thread to suit themselves and the self righteous personalities. Exactly. There's no mention of lifting dresses around heads or targeting children or vulnerable children or adults. I'm sure that common sense is used in most instances. It's ashame some fune threads get jumped on so quickly. " Fair enough that wasn’t what was said. But the alternative wasn’t said either. When someone says ‘flashing’ it’s safe to assume arse/tits/pussy/balls etc are being shown. | |||
"It's not just flashing a bit of cleavage or stocking top that people are talking about on here is it? Please define flashing. I don't think the OP mentioned anything about showing genitalia. It's everyone else who bastardised the the thread to suit themselves and the self righteous personalities." Flashing is understood by most people to be indecent exposure - showing a bit of cleavage or stocking top is not indecent exposure. But the op wasn’t posting about low cut tops. The op specifically referred to “flashing” in the street, shops etc. The next post described someone exposing their genitals in a cafe and the OP commented favourably on this. I’m not sure what is so confusing about that - it’s quite obvious what the subject of the thread is. | |||
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"If flashing and indecent exposure were same thing they wouldn't have different titles. It's how the Law works, you cannot have your penis/vagina in public view and be arrested for flashing, it's indecent exposure full stop. You cannot be arrested for showing your stocking tops, showing your knickers or having a full blown cleavage, that's called flashing. " You can’t be arrested for flashing full stop. You can, however, be arrested for indecent exposure. Flashing (I just googled it in a dictionary) is an informal term for the exposure of one’s genitals in public, synonymous with indecent exposure. Indecent exposure in a cafe was then described and commented favourably on by the OP. That’s what the thread is about. Not stocking tops, not dogging. Not using public toilets. Flashing. | |||
"I love the way the moralistic card gets played on these threads every time . In an adult environment ( a fun pub at night , a club ) most of the women are wearing next to nothing anyway ! And as plenty if men say on similar threads that they enjoy a flash of stocking or whatever , so why the outrage ? From the beginning of time women have attracted the attention of men with alluring looks , flirting and a bit of a flash . Remember Marilyn Monroe in the white dress ? I doubt the op was talking about flashing innocent kids or those who wouldn’t appreciate it , so let’s hope she flashes those who do like it , and everyone has fun . " | |||
"If flashing and indecent exposure were same thing they wouldn't have different titles. It's how the Law works, you cannot have your penis/vagina in public view and be arrested for flashing, it's indecent exposure full stop. You cannot be arrested for showing your stocking tops, showing your knickers or having a full blown cleavage, that's called flashing. You can’t be arrested for flashing full stop. You can, however, be arrested for indecent exposure. Flashing (I just googled it in a dictionary) is an informal term for the exposure of one’s genitals in public, synonymous with indecent exposure. Indecent exposure in a cafe was then described and commented favourably on by the OP. That’s what the thread is about. Not stocking tops, not dogging. Not using public toilets. Flashing. " Of course you Googled it. | |||
"If flashing and indecent exposure were same thing they wouldn't have different titles. It's how the Law works, you cannot have your penis/vagina in public view and be arrested for flashing, it's indecent exposure full stop. You cannot be arrested for showing your stocking tops, showing your knickers or having a full blown cleavage, that's called flashing. You can’t be arrested for flashing full stop. You can, however, be arrested for indecent exposure. Flashing (I just googled it in a dictionary) is an informal term for the exposure of one’s genitals in public, synonymous with indecent exposure. Indecent exposure in a cafe was then described and commented favourably on by the OP. That’s what the thread is about. Not stocking tops, not dogging. Not using public toilets. Flashing. Of course you Googled it. " I only did that for your benefit. I already knew what it meant.  | |||
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"If flashing and indecent exposure were same thing they wouldn't have different titles. It's how the Law works, you cannot have your penis/vagina in public view and be arrested for flashing, it's indecent exposure full stop. You cannot be arrested for showing your stocking tops, showing your knickers or having a full blown cleavage, that's called flashing. You can’t be arrested for flashing full stop. You can, however, be arrested for indecent exposure. Flashing (I just googled it in a dictionary) is an informal term for the exposure of one’s genitals in public, synonymous with indecent exposure. Indecent exposure in a cafe was then described and commented favourably on by the OP. That’s what the thread is about. Not stocking tops, not dogging. Not using public toilets. Flashing. Of course you Googled it. I only did that for your benefit. I already knew what it meant. "QED.. | |||
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