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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx"
the same as red indians wore the hair pieces of the cowboys round their midriffs.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they like the pictures so much, they want to show them off. Maybe they think they are giving some of us a thrill. It can be a bit off putting when someone send you a message and he has pictures of himself with very fit looking woman though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx
the same as red indians wore the hair pieces of the cowboys round their midriffs...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe they like the pictures so much, they want to show them off. Maybe they think they are giving some of us a thrill. It can be a bit off putting when someone send you a message and he has pictures of himself with very fit looking woman though. "
I personaly cant or dont want to put a face pic on public _iew due to the job I do. If you dont have a photo on and just appear as a blank screen some folk on here dont even open your mail to see a poss pic attached or even click on your profile. The only other pic I have to put public is the one I have on now taken from a club last year. However theres nothing too revealing in it and all peeps in it were happy for me to show it.
I cant speak for any other single blokes on here but thats the reason I have this photo on public and its not in any way shape or form to show off lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe they like the pictures so much, they want to show them off. Maybe they think they are giving some of us a thrill. It can be a bit off putting when someone send you a message and he has pictures of himself with very fit looking woman though.
I personaly cant or dont want to put a face pic on public _iew due to the job I do. If you dont have a photo on and just appear as a blank screen some folk on here dont even open your mail to see a poss pic attached or even click on your profile. The only other pic I have to put public is the one I have on now taken from a club last year. However theres nothing too revealing in it and all peeps in it were happy for me to show it.
I cant speak for any other single blokes on here but thats the reason I have this photo on public and its not in any way shape or form to show off lol xx "
PS Thats me lay down with the tattoo by the way lol but its a popular tattoo well it was at the time it was put on some many years ago now haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx
the same as red indians wore the hair pieces of the cowboys round their midriffs...."
I suspect you may be right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they like the pictures so much, they want to show them off. Maybe they think they are giving some of us a thrill. It can be a bit off putting when someone send you a message and he has pictures of himself with very fit looking woman though. "
It doesn't need to be. Different things attract me to different women. I've had the pleasure of having daliances with short women, tall women, curvy women, gym bunnies, 19 year olds, 50 year olds. And they all had something about them that made me think Phwoarrr!
Granted, there's women I'm attracted to and women that I'm not. But I wouldn't say I had a particular type, so just because one woman has an attribute that you think you can't compare with doesn't mean that you don't have a particular quality that the man you are looking at likes which the women in the pictures might lack.
Sexual chemistry comes in all shapes and sizes, and I'm bloody glad it does!
PS, the only person in my pics is me, which I consider for the best as thats all any potential _iewer is interested in seeing. Common sense really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx"
its bugs the life out of me, i know i have one 'action pic' but most of my pics are of me and even the one with others on you can see more of me than anyone else, i find it off putting when men on here are happy to show full body and face pics of the women they have shagged but only show their knob
I was talking to a guy once and i asked him for a pic and i swear to god he sent me a pic of a womans tits with his cum on them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" so just because one woman has an attribute that you think you can't compare with doesn't mean that you don't have a particular quality that the man you are looking at likes which the women in the pictures might lack.
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i do that all the time, when guys message me i look at them and decide for them if they will like me or not, if guys are very good looking i wont reply because i feel its a waste of time, i also always look thro men veries and look at the women they have met previous so i know what kind of women they go for and if all the women who have verified them are young and slim i wont reply lol
it does everyones head in i know, i do it in clubs too, my mates always having a go at me for it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx
its bugs the life out of me, i know i have one 'action pic' but most of my pics are of me and even the one with others on you can see more of me than anyone else, i find it off putting when men on here are happy to show full body and face pics of the women they have shagged but only show their knob
I was talking to a guy once and i asked him for a pic and i swear to god he sent me a pic of a womans tits with his cum on them "
Just for research purpose how big were they?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx
its bugs the life out of me, i know i have one 'action pic' but most of my pics are of me and even the one with others on you can see more of me than anyone else, i find it off putting when men on here are happy to show full body and face pics of the women they have shagged but only show their knob
I was talking to a guy once and i asked him for a pic and i swear to god he sent me a pic of a womans tits with his cum on them
Just for research purpose how big were they? "
about that ( @ Y @ ) big  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I can understand some men not wanting to put their face on public profile but some seem quite happy to show a woman's face (and bits)
As said above if I wanted to look at women I'd search for them.
If its a single mans profile then pics should show mainly the man himself surely ?
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Most single guys on here are gen, ok decent blokes, There a small minority that youd do well to steer well clear off (they actually dont do the decent single guys any favour which is unfair)If a guy starts privatley sending you lots of pics of women and none of him. Hit the delete button and block the number, dont go there ! Take that good advice based on real experience, STAY SAFE, If you have 1% doubt trust your instincts, There are plentyofgrear guys out there who will be only too plesed to shwthemselves and chat !
There you go guys, a positive post for single guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx
its bugs the life out of me, i know i have one 'action pic' but most of my pics are of me and even the one with others on you can see more of me than anyone else, i find it off putting when men on here are happy to show full body and face pics of the women they have shagged but only show their knob
I was talking to a guy once and i asked him for a pic and i swear to god he sent me a pic of a womans tits with his cum on them
Just for research purpose how big were they?
about that ( @ Y @ ) big "
Ooooow really hmmmmm thats interesting so he was indeed only a slight bit of a tosser then perhaps haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" so just because one woman has an attribute that you think you can't compare with doesn't mean that you don't have a particular quality that the man you are looking at likes which the women in the pictures might lack.
i do that all the time, when guys message me i look at them and decide for them if they will like me or not, if guys are very good looking i wont reply because i feel its a waste of time, i also always look thro men veries and look at the women they have met previous so i know what kind of women they go for and if all the women who have verified them are young and slim i wont reply lol
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Note to self; Make sure I display veris on my profile from as wide a variety of lady as poss!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" so just because one woman has an attribute that you think you can't compare with doesn't mean that you don't have a particular quality that the man you are looking at likes which the women in the pictures might lack.
i do that all the time, when guys message me i look at them and decide for them if they will like me or not, if guys are very good looking i wont reply because i feel its a waste of time, i also always look thro men veries and look at the women they have met previous so i know what kind of women they go for and if all the women who have verified them are young and slim i wont reply lol
Note to self; Make sure I display veris on my profile from as wide a variety of lady as poss! "
how modest are you lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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View and Naughty...you two have me in stitches here!
I do find it strange that some single men have more of their playmates on show than themselves...and they wonder why their messages are ignored.
I'm straight, why send me a pic of your cock in a pussy?!!  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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I was talking to a guy once and i asked him for a pic and i swear to god he sent me a pic of a womans tits with his cum on them "
And you didnt run out to meet him with your knickers round your ankles???
WTF is wrong with you woman!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" so just because one woman has an attribute that you think you can't compare with doesn't mean that you don't have a particular quality that the man you are looking at likes which the women in the pictures might lack.
i do that all the time, when guys message me i look at them and decide for them if they will like me or not, if guys are very good looking i wont reply because i feel its a waste of time, i also always look thro men veries and look at the women they have met previous so i know what kind of women they go for and if all the women who have verified them are young and slim i wont reply lol
Note to self; Make sure I display veris on my profile from as wide a variety of lady as poss!
how modest are you lol "
Modesty my arse. I haven't met a swinger yet who was in the habit of covering up, out of "modesty"...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hahahaha what a load of nonsense just have a moan why dont ya peeps lol "
+1 to that. Your on a sex site but you discount someone as a potential meet because he's got a pic of himself with another women on his profile Each to their own I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most single guys on here are gen, ok decent blokes, There a small minority that youd do well to steer well clear off (they actually dont do the decent single guys any favour which is unfair)If a guy starts privatley sending you lots of pics of women and none of him. Hit the delete button and block the number, dont go there ! Take that good advice based on real experience, STAY SAFE, If you have 1% doubt trust your instincts, There are plentyofgrear guys out there who will be only too plesed to shwthemselves and chat !
There you go guys, a positive post for single guys "
Wey hey nice one cheers lol anyhow I always attach face pics with my msgs anyhow and am more than happy to send one to any msgs I recieve before hand lol unless its the mental ward again asking for a recent photo to come get me hahaha da daa da daaa da daa da daa ( hows that theme to phyco go again?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx"
Unlike your profile which is ........ hidden.
Only joking, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can understand some men not wanting to put their face on public profile but some seem quite happy to show a woman's face (and bits)
As said above if I wanted to look at women I'd search for them.
If its a single mans profile then pics should show mainly the man himself surely ?
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If it's a singles profile then it shouldn't show anyone else in the pic ie facial or anything else that could id them (tattoos etc). It shouldn't have been passed by admin. I think people are just talking about body shots etc of women, not facial.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It puts me off and we say No thanks. I am assuming men can have sex without having to show me it with a woman who may not have given permission."
OK then seing as its you I will say sorry on behalf of all single men on here who are doing this and I will set an example by showing a pic of safe sex with a blow up doll/ Whos up for takin me photo anyone????????????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It puts me off and we say No thanks. I am assuming men can have sex without having to show me it with a woman who may not have given permission.
OK then seing as its you I will say sorry on behalf of all single men on here who are doing this and I will set an example by showing a pic of safe sex with a blow up doll/ Whos up for takin me photo anyone???????????? "
I've got a blow up doll if you need to borrow it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It puts me off and we say No thanks. I am assuming men can have sex without having to show me it with a woman who may not have given permission.
OK then seing as its you I will say sorry on behalf of all single men on here who are doing this and I will set an example by showing a pic of safe sex with a blow up doll/ Whos up for takin me photo anyone????????????
I've got a blow up doll if you need to borrow it "
Yeah man that may come in handy as the last one I had didnt really like me as she farted and fucked off. At least thats the impression I got anyhow lol dont smoke in bed folks it can be dangerous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyhow been great takin the piss on this thread today folks but got to log off now as im just about to get the canooe out the garage to pop to the shop
lol anyone got any tips on DIY ark building as it aint quite put enough down for me these last few days round here I want more please so I can put to good use mi Bears Grils n Ray Mears collection I got for crimbo  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"hahahaha what a load of nonsense just have a moan why dont ya peeps lol
+1 to that. Your on a sex site but you discount someone as a potential meet because he's got a pic of himself with another women on his profile Each to their own I suppose "
Its the one that have tits an arses of women on profile but not their own "tits" an arses!!! Or her face with his cock in her mouth!
And I will discount him simply because he thinks it is ok to do this...  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"It puts me off and we say No thanks. I am assuming men can have sex without having to show me it with a woman who may not have given permission.
OK then seing as its you I will say sorry on behalf of all single men on here who are doing this and I will set an example by showing a pic of safe sex with a blow up doll/ Whos up for takin me photo anyone???????????? "
You don't have to apologise for you or the rest of the single men doing it or change your pics.
What you do on your profile is your choice, I was just answering the OP posts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to have the opinion like many others that why do I want to see pics of the guys cock in a pussy or his head between her thighs.
But men tend to be very visual. Lots of guys like pics of sex and they have the right to put whatever pics they want on their profile. Maybe the pics are solely a celebration of their swinging lifestyle. I honestly think as long as guys send a clear face shot in private if arranging a meet, then what's the harm in them having action pics showing what good times they e had during meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree that it seems a bit silly to send women or couples a pic of another womans vagina in private message though. Maybe keep action pics on the public page and send clear face and body pics of themselves in private message to a prospective meet  |
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By *d4janeCouple
over a year ago
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"... Looking at a single mans profile and getting lots of pictures of women's bits to look at !
Are men just trying to prove they have actually had sex before or that they can get it up !
Why do they have to show women on their profiles ? xxx
the same as red indians wore the hair pieces of the cowboys round their midriffs...."
Ha! Ha! Ha! V funny!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have the opinion like many others that why do I want to see pics of the guys cock in a pussy or his head between her thighs.
But men tend to be very visual. Lots of guys like pics of sex and they have the right to put whatever pics they want on their profile. Maybe the pics are solely a celebration of their swinging lifestyle. I honestly think as long as guys send a clear face shot in private if arranging a meet, then what's the harm in them having action pics showing what good times they e had during meets "
There's no harm in it at all lass, I certainly wouldn't begrudge them doing so, if its what they want to do. The only thing is your profile is like your window display really, its like a gardening store having a window display with a giant mound of earth in it, with the end of a trowel handle poking out and a wet patch where some liquid feed has been poured on it. Wouldn't exactly have customers camping outside would it? So long as said profile owners don't come in the forums, constantly ranting and including the words "women" and "manners cost nothing" then that's fine and dandy.
However even then shots can be more appealing. I want to have a shot on mine where I am lying naked on the floor, oiled up, with a ladies high-heeled foot planted upon my bare chest, where I'm looking up at the camera and her like I want to eat her alive...
I think it shows more of my attributes than simply the base half of my cock disappearing into some lady's coochie...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have the opinion like many others that why do I want to see pics of the guys cock in a pussy or his head between her thighs.
But men tend to be very visual. Lots of guys like pics of sex and they have the right to put whatever pics they want on their profile. Maybe the pics are solely a celebration of their swinging lifestyle. I honestly think as long as guys send a clear face shot in private if arranging a meet, then what's the harm in them having action pics showing what good times they e had during meets
There's no harm in it at all lass, I certainly wouldn't begrudge them doing so, if its what they want to do. The only thing is your profile is like your window display really, its like a gardening store having a window display with a giant mound of earth in it, with the end of a trowel handle poking out and a wet patch where some liquid feed has been poured on it. Wouldn't exactly have customers camping outside would it? So long as said profile owners don't come in the forums, constantly ranting and including the words "women" and "manners cost nothing" then that's fine and dandy.
However even then shots can be more appealing. I want to have a shot on mine where I am lying naked on the floor, oiled up, with a ladies high-heeled foot planted upon my bare chest, where I'm looking up at the camera and her like I want to eat her alive...
I think it shows more of my attributes than simply the base half of my cock disappearing into some lady's coochie... "
Beautifully and succinctly put. You've got it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with the above and certainly yes a profile is a shop window, an advertisement, an enticement to pleasures on offer.
But pictures are also representative of the personality behind the photo. I like creativity and visual stimulus but not necessarily sexual visual stimulus which is why I don't have any action pics of me.
My vampire, zombie, mermaid, pipe, mask type pics are not sexy and nothing to do with swinging really, but I think they say something about the type of person I am. I also have lots of outfits contained in my pics. I like girly things, I love femininity and a love glamour, I also like rock and heavy metal music and I love the rock chic look too. I feel its important in swinging to evidence a little of your personality.
Take for example a certain regular user who has lots of action pics and likes talking dirty on the forums. His pics are a true representation of his swinging persona. It wouldn't seem right if he was just standing there in tight boxers with his hand stroking his cock. His persona is bigger than that, his pics give you a sense that he loves swinging, he loves sex, he loves womens bodies and most of all he's having a bloody good time.
Another poster has silly whimsical dressing up pics, that says he's a fun, friendly guy, laid back, doesn't take swinging too seriously and likes to show he enjoys the social side as well as the sexual side.
I like pics that show you a representation of what that person is like. |
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