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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
So. We've been doing it a while, mainly clubs and parties with a few arranged meets thrown in for good measure. But we've never played separately (as in the other one isn't in the vicinity - we do full swaps/ have sex with others at parties...).
We're thinking of giving it a go. Mainly because we don't have the time to play together as much as we used to (together with others - sex life at home is great).
Have any couples transitioned to this and loved/ hated it? Would love to hear people's experiences.
L xx |
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over a year ago
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I(H) play with women alone and (A) does now, as long as i have got to play with them first or with him before hand hehe. Always fun hearing him tell me about the gun they had, whilst he is fucking me.
H xXx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only play separately. Mrs as in me gets a lot of the fun but if a woman actually gets his attion which is very rare then he will play too but it does involve her being busy before he even goes anywhere unless he is at a club without Mrs .... Then he can do as he likes..... What happens in Vegas happens in Vegas |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
Thanks everyone.
It's positive to hear that most of you have had good experiences and that it enhances your relationship/ experiences.
As I assumed. The ladies get much more attention that the men.
I think I'm (Mrs here) a little apprehensive as we've been together for such a long time and always done stuff together, I'm not sure how to get things started if it's just me on my own (I'm probably just over thinking it!) Xx |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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We have done this a bit, mostly swapping partners with another couple who are great friends and two going away for a night on their own. Mrs has also played on her own a couple of times. We like it, our relationship is strong so this is an enhancement. |
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We actually met on here and have a couples profile too. We decided after a while to use our single profiles too. It can be hard to find 4 way attraction and with working various shifts it can be easier to arrange meets as singles. As long as we tell each other if we have a meet and then tell each other the sexy details it works for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Mrs) play solo now and have my own profile as well after nearly three years with a couples only one.
We still go to clubs and parties as a couple and have MMF and MFF meets but me seeing other guys is a turn on for hubby and I wasn't going to say No 
We have a little one so it also means we get that bit of 'kink' when otherwise we would both be home.
As long as you are stable and happy, go for it.
Ours is more a hotwife or stag/vixen setup as we are not into cuckolding or hubby being humiliated.
He likes the pics and vids and I also go straight home, no romantic overtones - dinner, overnight stays, etc..
It works for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was on here years back with ex wife, we both being Bi, would meet mainly as a couple, but we did also meet separately, with each others approval of the partner, only exception was whenever she met another man, it would either be in our house, or I would escort her to the meet - safety first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ps;
Those that know me well enough, know that I used to meet with my lovely long term fuck buddy , but we also met separately , again with each others approval
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Mrs had her first solo meet last week. She loved it but I was, and am, less sure. Although there were vids and a live vid-call, I personally felt too far removed. Watching her with someone else is totally different as we can look at each other and I can see his happy she is, which is a huge turn-on for us both. I’m sure we’ll try again and see, and I may change my mind (or not) but it’s good to try! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are into this but have barely started it. We are completely free to pull when out an Gaston has a couple of times. Miss H hasn’t yet but that’s more lack of people she wants to go solo with than anything else.
She does like it when I step out of the room during threesomes though - she can really concentrate on the other guy then.
Our ideal scenario is each having a fuck buddy who we go an see on the same night, coming back with tales to tell in the morning. Not even nearly achieved that yet!
We find it makes us hornier and our relationship stronger. Well worth a try!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is much much easier for the female of the couple to get solo meets than for the guy.
Wife can get fit good looking guys 20 years younger. I (husband) could never get a meet with single ladies from here .... way too much competition. |
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"We are into this but have barely started it. We are completely free to pull when out an Gaston has a couple of times. Miss H hasn’t yet but that’s more lack of people she wants to go solo with than anything else.
She does like it when I step out of the room during threesomes though - she can really concentrate on the other guy then.
That sounds ideal
Our ideal scenario is each having a fuck buddy who we go an see on the same night, coming back with tales to tell in the morning. Not even nearly achieved that yet!
We find it makes us hornier and our relationship stronger. Well worth a try!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is much much easier for the female of the couple to get solo meets than for the guy.
Wife can get fit good looking guys 20 years younger. I (husband) could never get a meet with single ladies from here .... way too much competition. "
I feel your pain. Never met solo from here for just the reasons you give. I think me pulling might have been beginners luck too! Good job I love a threesome. |
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"Thanks everyone.
It's positive to hear that most of you have had good experiences and that it enhances your relationship/ experiences.
As I assumed. The ladies get much more attention that the men.
I think I'm (Mrs here) a little apprehensive as we've been together for such a long time and always done stuff together, I'm not sure how to get things started if it's just me on my own (I'm probably just over thinking it!) Xx"
You could try separate room couples meets and see how that feels.
Also going to a club together but playing solo there, leaving together.
A bit of a taster that way? |
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We only really play separately at clubs, Sarah will go off to a room with a single guy and I'll stay chatting and having laughs with friends. It works very well for us.
I did play separately years ago but found it wasn't as much fun without Sarah so I don't really bother now. |
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We do it and have no problem with it. My main thing is watching my man with another woman, but i'm quite happy to let other women borrow him without me being there. Just the thought of it happening is good enough for me. And i get to hear all the juicy details when he comes home.Sometimes he will take pics and vids for me to view. We currently have another fab female member living with us and they go at it when i'm here or not. I sometimes even come home to find her bent over the sofa with him showing her what's what. lol  |
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"We do it and have no problem with it. My main thing is watching my man with another woman, but i'm quite happy to let other women borrow him without me being there. Just the thought of it happening is good enough for me. And i get to hear all the juicy details when he comes home.Sometimes he will take pics and vids for me to view. We currently have another fab female member living with us and they go at it when i'm here or not. I sometimes even come home to find her bent over the sofa with him showing her what's what. lol "
You’ve properly embraced the life style then! |
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"We do it and have no problem with it. My main thing is watching my man with another woman, but i'm quite happy to let other women borrow him without me being there. Just the thought of it happening is good enough for me. And i get to hear all the juicy details when he comes home.Sometimes he will take pics and vids for me to view. We currently have another fab female member living with us and they go at it when i'm here or not. I sometimes even come home to find her bent over the sofa with him showing her what's what. lol "
Maybe a blindfold is in order then? |
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"We do it and have no problem with it. My main thing is watching my man with another woman, but i'm quite happy to let other women borrow him without me being there. Just the thought of it happening is good enough for me. And i get to hear all the juicy details when he comes home.Sometimes he will take pics and vids for me to view. We currently have another fab female member living with us and they go at it when i'm here or not. I sometimes even come home to find her bent over the sofa with him showing her what's what. lol "
Wow! That is bloody sexy. |
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"We do it and have no problem with it. My main thing is watching my man with another woman, but i'm quite happy to let other women borrow him without me being there. Just the thought of it happening is good enough for me. And i get to hear all the juicy details when he comes home.Sometimes he will take pics and vids for me to view. We currently have another fab female member living with us and they go at it when i'm here or not. I sometimes even come home to find her bent over the sofa with him showing her what's what. lol
Wow! That is bloody sexy. "
Agreed! |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"I (Mrs) play solo now and have my own profile as well after nearly three years with a couples only one.
We still go to clubs and parties as a couple and have MMF and MFF meets but me seeing other guys is a turn on for hubby and I wasn't going to say No
Y
We have a little one so it also means we get that bit of 'kink' when otherwise we would both be home.
As long as you are stable and happy, go for it.
Ours is more a hotwife or stag/vixen setup as we are not into cuckolding or hubby being humiliated.
He likes the pics and vids and I also go straight home, no romantic overtones - dinner, overnight stays, etc..
It works for us "
This is how I envisage it. No dinner, drinks or overnight stays. Xx |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone.
It's positive to hear that most of you have had good experiences and that it enhances your relationship/ experiences.
As I assumed. The ladies get much more attention that the men.
We've done separate room swaps which has been fine. But my concern in being completely away from my other half. Xx
I think I'm (Mrs here) a little apprehensive as we've been together for such a long time and always done stuff together, I'm not sure how to get things started if it's just me on my own (I'm probably just over thinking it!) Xx
You could try separate room couples meets and see how that feels.
Also going to a club together but playing solo there, leaving together.
A bit of a taster that way?"
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Thanks everyone.
It's positive to hear that most of you have had good experiences and that it enhances your relationship/ experiences.
As I assumed. The ladies get much more attention that the men.
We've done separate room swaps which has been fine. But my concern in being completely away from my other half. Xx
I think I'm (Mrs here) a little apprehensive as we've been together for such a long time and always done stuff together, I'm not sure how to get things started if it's just me on my own (I'm probably just over thinking it!) Xx
You could try separate room couples meets and see how that feels.
Also going to a club together but playing solo there, leaving together.
A bit of a taster that way?"
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"We do it and have no problem with it. My main thing is watching my man with another woman, but i'm quite happy to let other women borrow him without me being there. Just the thought of it happening is good enough for me. And i get to hear all the juicy details when he comes home.Sometimes he will take pics and vids for me to view. We currently have another fab female member living with us and they go at it when i'm here or not. I sometimes even come home to find her bent over the sofa with him showing her what's what. lol
Wow! That is bloody sexy. "
Haha! If only you knew the half of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We do it and have no problem with it. My main thing is watching my man with another woman, but i'm quite happy to let other women borrow him without me being there. Just the thought of it happening is good enough for me. And i get to hear all the juicy details when he comes home.Sometimes he will take pics and vids for me to view. We currently have another fab female member living with us and they go at it when i'm here or not. I sometimes even come home to find her bent over the sofa with him showing her what's what. lol
Wow! That is bloody sexy. Haha! If only you knew the half of it. "
Well, quite! I’m sure the rest is equally sexy, as your profile suggests. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You guys sound similar to us! We do play separately due to time reasons, but love it when we do - Mr particularly likes it if im playing whilst he is at work he loves getting pics and videos during the session! And i love the reaction when he gets home! (Usually ends up coming home early/on lunch break!)
However im (mrs) not keen on Mr playing separately when im not there - might be hipacritical but just doesnt work for us that way round! |
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We both have our own singles profiles for meets as well as our couples one.
It's much easier for us to plan single meets due to family life etc and it's a lot of fun being away for a night without each other |
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