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By *ilicious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

We're musing on the idea of wife picking up a guy in a hotel bar and taking him back to our room. No involvement from me.

Can any couples share their experiences, with any tips on how to go about it, safety etc. Would appreciate it.

She would like me to watch. Obviously I'm not going to be in the wardrobe and he would have to know, so thinking of broadcasting laptop to my phone as I sit in the bar with nice G&T. Anyone done this and, if so, advice on the tech would be good!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are very new to the scene so inexperienced but I would advise you set the whole thing up with a guy that you have vetted and pre met, that way it avoids most of the issues you would have with just 'picking ' a random stranger in a bar.

Your wife doesn't have to no any details other than what he looks like, so she can make her move.

Jo.Xx

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd be very careful about broadcasting to a laptop in a public area like a hotel bar - no matter how discreet and sat in a corner you might think you're being, there's still a possibility someone might see, which I am sure neither you nor they would want.

Why not visit a club where you can watch from a distance? Or alternatively hire two rooms so you can watch privately and use something like Facetime to do it.

Any reason you can't be in the room, even if not involved? If you arranged it with someone from here am sure that could be agreed in advance.

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By *hyevernotMan  over a year ago

Here and there

Check their verifications and also chat first. Also ask if you can contact people on their verification lists. And enjoy the evening! I've done this before and it worked out well. I was the guy meeting the wife.

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By *m3232Man  over a year ago

maidenhead

I would be happy for you to watch.

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By *ananas57Couple  over a year ago

lake ariel

I (mrs) travel on business often and have no trouble meeting business men in a hotel bar during the week. As most are married they are a safe meet to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're musing on the idea of wife picking up a guy in a hotel bar and taking him back to our room. No involvement from me.

Can any couples share their experiences, with any tips on how to go about it, safety etc. Would appreciate it.

She would like me to watch. Obviously I'm not going to be in the wardrobe and he would have to know, so thinking of broadcasting laptop to my phone as I sit in the bar with nice G&T. Anyone done this and, if so, advice on the tech would be good!"

I think you are treading on dangerous ground there, anything could happen to your wife in the time it would take you to get back to her room and worse finding the door locked..

(My mind going into overdrive I know)

Meet the person first socially tell them the scenario you want to act out...She must be safe at all times.

I agree you might be watching on your phone but so could other people without you realising.

Stay safe

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I can't imagine many men agreeing to be broadcast.

As others have said think about pre arranging it.

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By *ara JTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol East


"I can't imagine many men agreeing to be broadcast."

There are some.

The only thing I wondered about is how secure the broadcast is.

Are you expecting to you use the hotel wifi, or something more secure?

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By *ilicious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Thanks for all replies.

Odd, as I have seen many many threads on here where this has been discussed with very different responses from couples who have had lots of experience of this. Was hoping to hear from some of those really.

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By *edtothecore74Woman  over a year ago

Spalding


"We are very new to the scene so inexperienced but I would advise you set the whole thing up with a guy that you have vetted and pre met, that way it avoids most of the issues you would have with just 'picking ' a random stranger in a bar.

Your wife doesn't have to no any details other than what he looks like, so she can make her move.

Jo.Xx"

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By *ilicious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"We're musing on the idea of wife picking up a guy in a hotel bar and taking him back to our room. No involvement from me.

Can any couples share their experiences, with any tips on how to go about it, safety etc. Would appreciate it.

She would like me to watch. Obviously I'm not going to be in the wardrobe and he would have to know, so thinking of broadcasting laptop to my phone as I sit in the bar with nice G&T. Anyone done this and, if so, advice on the tech would be good!

I think you are treading on dangerous ground there, anything could happen to your wife in the time it would take you to get back to her room and worse finding the door locked..

(My mind going into overdrive I know)

Meet the person first socially tell them the scenario you want to act out...She must be safe at all times.

I agree you might be watching on your phone but so could other people without you realising.

Stay safe

"

Appreciate your concern but with respect we have been swinging on and off for the best part of twenty years so we know our way around a bit.

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By *ilicious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"I (mrs) travel on business often and have no trouble meeting business men in a hotel bar during the week. As most are married they are a safe meet to me "

Thanks. Precisely our thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I met a couple after messaging on another site some years ago..they arranged the hotel and the date and time....Husband sat and watched while his wife and I played....

A few weeks later they contacted me and asked me to meet his wife alone as they were happy with how she was treated in and out of the hotel bedroom.

We met up and she asked if she could film it to show her husband when she got home.

It was a great experiance for all of us. And although it doesn't really answer the question from OP my advice from the single guys point of view is that the couple's decisions on time and place and how the evening should play out are the most important...as the single guy you can always politely decline and leave the couple to it.

Build up a trust first, don't just jump straight in when allowing your wife to be alone with the other guy. Unless that's what you all want to experiance

.good luck and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Blimey that sounds sexy, though I'd definitely take the advice about vetting there guy first - both of you.

Skype will do it if the wifi is good enough. Perhaps have adjoining rooms so you can get in quickly if your wife needs you.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have very much done that. The hornirst was after chatting the lady up in the bar the hubby joined us chatting

He took her to the room and tied her to the bed

He came back to the bar giving us the key. It was facetimed back to him ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're musing on the idea of wife picking up a guy in a hotel bar and taking him back to our room. No involvement from me.

Can any couples share their experiences, with any tips on how to go about it, safety etc. Would appreciate it.

She would like me to watch. Obviously I'm not going to be in the wardrobe and he would have to know, so thinking of broadcasting laptop to my phone as I sit in the bar with nice G&T. Anyone done this and, if so, advice on the tech would be good!"

My first Bull experience in April 2000

I'd just graduated and found myself in a dreary London hotel just off the Mall. I was there for a job interview for some edgy ad I'd seen in the Guardian.

Forty five ministers later I realised that I'm not very good at buzzwords.

I sat in the hotel bar suited & booted. I ordered a mediocre scotch and mused upon why I hated interviews.

"May I join you?"

At first my assumption was the beautiful young woman with the cut glass accent in the fitted dress was an upmarket prostitute. As she sat down next to me her dress seemed to magically rise up to reveal tan stockings and a champagne garter.

I'd watched Mona Lisa on late night channel 4 enough times to assume her game was sex for money. I quickly explained that I was a recent graduate, skint, up to my eyelids in debt & drowning my sorrows.

She then told me she was waiting for her husband to join her and would she mind if I kept her company.

We drank and chatted, and flirted. It was barely past lunchtime so I felt a little bit confident stroking her thighs. She seemed very into me.

Then her husband turned up. He was about 55. Small, tanned and had the whiff of money about him. I felt really awkward, but curious.

I asked him if he'd like a drink to which he replied.

"We've some champagne chilling in our room,

Why don't you join us?"

Going up in the lift she kissed me. I heard his nostrils flare with excitement as my hand started to stroke her through her French knickers. My cock was ready to burst out of my trousers.

In that room I remember sitting in a chair with his young wife on my lap. He poured the champagne and explained that he just wanted to watch me fuck his wife.

I started to undress her. She was petite and skinny with 34B cup breasts. Her nipples were pink and her skin a soft ivory colour. Her hair was auburn. I've no idea how they were together. She was no older than 28 with a girlish body.

Naked on the bed we were kissing and biting . As I worked my way down her body I noticed

He was naked. His cock was straight and roughly half the length of mine with a tight foreskin. I could see precum on the end.

He suggested I give her a champagne blowjob and I took a mouthful before opening her young unshaven cunt and slowly holding her clit in my

mouth as the bubbles stimulated her.

We spent some time doing this before. She tried it on me.

I think it was the mix of champagne and nerves, but I was rock hard and my prick was lacking in sensitivity. He reached out and flicked it, like a schoolboy playing with an insect. It wasn't homoerotic, just a curious man wondering about another mans cock.

I lay back as she climbed on top of me and started to ride me. She was very wet and tight. Her breasts were perfect, he got closer and they kissed.

Then he told me to fuck her properly.

I pulled her onto the bed and wrapped her thigh above my shoulder as I pounded deep inside her. Holding her tightly I gripped her neck and buttocks as I ploughed her posh young cunt. Forcing her into the best shape for maximum grip.

I started to grunt and growl. I'd forgotten that he was in the room and he faded away as I just

Concentrated on how hot and tight she was. She felt heavenly.

I could hear her gasping now and the bed smashing into the wall as I increased the pace.

I gripped her tighter and started to stir my cock into her. Using her cunt wall as an extra stimulus to my fleshy head. Then there was that wave of energy rushing up my shaft into my cock head.

All of a sudden I spasmed as I emptied myself inside her. I let out another guttural growl as I slowed out and pulled away, my meat still pulsing in its semi erect state. I'd not noticed the red marks on her neck, my hand marks. She had a bite mark on her shoulder:

As I lay on the bed she started to lick my cock head. While he proceeded to drink my sperm from her, enjoying the taste of both of us. The room stank of sex. With the quiet hum of London traffic in the background.

Then he asked if he could have a moment with his wife.

I got off the bed and helped myself to a scotch from the minibar. As she eased him inside her. He made 2 or 3 strokes before he came. I guess the issue was ejaculation problems.

They lay there holding each other and I went and had a shower.

I got dressed and as I was about to leave he very kindly shook my hand and put a wad of notes in my hand. He told me we'd never meet again and smiled.

I thanked him and left. As I got into the lift I realised I'd got about £250 in tens and twenties.

Not a bad afternoons work.

Afterwards I realised that couple had done me an enormous favour. I'd really had a bad time at university and wasn't in a great place at the time. But after that afternoon I had a little swagger in my step that has never left me.

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By *ast_jjMan  over a year ago

Dublin and London

How about you chat to the guy on cam before hand and do as much vetting as you can. Agree a hotel to meet in, he books a room and you two book a room. You can watch them on cam in his room while he and your wife enjoy each other...

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