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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you. |
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Haven't you realised that a woman saying she doesn't want dick pics but blocks you and fucks guys with dick pics is trying to politely say it's you she doesn't like ?
It's nothing to do with double standards. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you." Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something. ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you. Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes me laugh when in a couples profile,(and am saying some not all)the woman can meet men and play with them with or without hubby there. Hubby not allowed to have hes fun with other women because wife dont like it. ![](/icons/s/surprised.gif) |
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"Makes me laugh when in a couples profile,(and am saying some not all)the woman can meet men and play with them with or without hubby there. Hubby not allowed to have hes fun with other women because wife dont like it. "
Why? If that's the boundaries they've set or that's what their fantasy is, he gets off on watching her or hearing about, what's funny about it? Different strokes for different folks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree in a way, a lot of stuck up woman who post fanny pics but don’t reply and too quick to block without giving people a chance
But they do get hundreds of messages
just got to filter out so it’s what u looking for, there is a few nice people on here who nice to talk to just takes some finding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
Fair point, men do get a hard deal on here...
Block is over used
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you." Ha yes some of this rings true but the way to stay focused on this site is to know women rule and that they can be hypocrites and theirs absolutely nothing you can do about it,for them theirs always someone else to move onto and they will do it at a drop of a hat, until you meet youre a stranger and you mean very little you're just words on a screen, so make an effort always or disappear into cyber oblivion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you. Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something.
Oh they do... "
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
Perhaps FAB isn't the place for you then. You're obviously not Happy when women don't do exactly what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you." look all people are equal but women are more equal than men and gratitude these days is a hard commodity to acquire, you're going to have to reevaluate your experience here otherwise you will always be frustrated with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair I’ve felt like this sometimes but then people message me that I’m not attracted to and act the same way. Essentially it comes down to wether they fancy you or not. Simple really. It’s a hard lesson to learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a huge double standard on here.
The things women can get away with that a guy can't is crazy!
I'm not really complaining, it's just the way it is. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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Yes fab is tough for men.
Yes some people exhibit double standards.
Yes swinging only exists because the women want it and they control it.
and No there is absolutely nothing you can do about it except act with this knowledge or resolve to come back as a woman in the next life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
Bloody women with their own minds and agendas
I wouldn't contact them if I was you .
That'll teach them
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"There's a huge double standard on here.
The things women can get away with that a guy can't is crazy!
I'm not really complaining, it's just the way it is."
That is life. Men look after women especially when it comes to safety not saying women can't look after themselves. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you. Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something.
Oh they do...
Course we do " Just lead into a false sense of security ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start. "
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first..... |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first....."
But there are women who aren't on Fab on there too because they're not into couples or other women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....
But there are women who aren't on Fab on there too because they're not into couples or other women. "
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Oh lala. And breathe.
I don't think anyone needs to show gratitude for being contacted..apart from normal respectful message. Just because one doesn't look like a model should they be extra grateful for being messaged? ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
Look at it another way the reason why they contradict themselves with their verification and then moaning about not getting the right people contact them is because the type of guy or couple they actually want is put off by the demands and doesn't want to meet them.
Concentrate on finding those who do want to meet you and ignore those with unrealistic demands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.
Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...
Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....
Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
Lol.
The best ones mentioned in the veris, glorifying how big the cock was.
Well said mate
You are going to burst some Fab egos here now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes fab is tough for men.
Yes some people exhibit double standards.
Yes swinging only exists because the women want it and they control it.
and No there is absolutely nothing you can do about it except act with this knowledge or resolve to come back as a woman in the next life. "
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....
But there are women who aren't on Fab on there too because they're not into couples or other women.
Let’s agree to disagree "
I’m not on any of those sites. Just Fab. There’ll be others like me who like their niche. |
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Talking about double standards... What about those men who will be disrespectful to a woman because she is on this site, while being on this site themselves? Who do they think they are disrespecting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking about double standards... What about those men who will be disrespectful to a woman because she is on this site, while being on this site themselves? Who do they think they are disrespecting?"
Yeah but sex is for men
Everyone knows that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place."
What the actual fuck
Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?
You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
What the actual fuck
Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?
You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?
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Nobody's shown any interest, that's why he's complaining ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first....."
I am not on tinder, match nor pof....
I often have my face picture displayed on this site and I buy my own meals....
Any other incorrect assumptions you would care to make! |
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"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....
I am not on tinder, match nor pof....
I often have my face picture displayed on this site and I buy my own meals....
Any other incorrect assumptions you would care to make!"
Same here, I want a Funtime not a date! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cor blimey, who’s bed did you get out of the wrong side?
WOW
His own! "
With his attitude that fat women should show some gratitude for any man showing some interest in them I can't see him getting out of anyone else's bed anytime soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't you realised that a woman saying she doesn't want dick pics but blocks you and fucks guys with dick pics is trying to politely say it's you she doesn't like ?
It's nothing to do with double standards."
How do you know those guys had a dick pic at the time the woman fucked the guy. People do change their profile pics and the veri will always display the current profile pic of the person and not the pic they had at the time they left the veri or at the time of the meet.
....and most women do not necessarily complain about dick pics on profiles they complain about being contacted with dick pics attached to the message instead of a face pic. Completely different thing all together. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first....." Yeah kind of awkward messaging a woman on here who you rejected on Tinder. ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
What the actual fuck
Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?
You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?
"
Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.
It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...
I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes. |
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Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
What the actual fuck
Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?
You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?
Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.
It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...
I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes."
Please save your breath..... all these women want gym fit men and some have never been to the gym....
The secret to being successful on Fab is offering cake.... every woman in the forums loves cake... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....
I am not on tinder, match nor pof....
I often have my face picture displayed on this site and I buy my own meals....
Any other incorrect assumptions you would care to make!"
Here have a snickers.... |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first..... Yeah kind of awkward messaging a woman on here who you rejected on Tinder. "
In case the "how to clean up on Fab" instructional at the top of the thread didn't help you don't worry I've got the perfect message for your situation taken straight from the op's playbook.
Hi
It's your lucky day! I've decided to message you. We spoke on tinder but it didn't work out because you didn't look as attractive in face pics. You'll be pleased to know I've reconsidered and will allow you to hop aboard this hunk train and show your gratitude for the message.
You're welcome
insert name |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?
If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.
The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....
The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first..... Yeah kind of awkward messaging a woman on here who you rejected on Tinder.
In case the "how to clean up on Fab" instructional at the top of the thread didn't help you don't worry I've got the perfect message for your situation taken straight from the op's playbook.
Hi
It's your lucky day! I've decided to message you. We spoke on tinder but it didn't work out because you didn't look as attractive in face pics. You'll be pleased to know I've reconsidered and will allow you to hop aboard this hunk train and show your gratitude for the message.
You're welcome
insert name" Thanks, I appreciate it ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
What the actual fuck
Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?
You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?
Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.
It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...
I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes.
Please save your breath..... all these women want gym fit men and some have never been to the gym....
The secret to being successful on Fab is offering cake.... every woman in the forums loves cake..."
Cock... It's spelt, cock!! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.
What the actual fuck
Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?
You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?
Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.
It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...
I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes.
Please save your breath..... all these women want gym fit men and some have never been to the gym....
The secret to being successful on Fab is offering cake.... every woman in the forums loves cake...
Cock... It's spelt, cock!! "
No way , I heard women hate cock pics.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wait til your second week on here OP.... it gets better! "
How come then? I've been on and off here for 6 months it hasn't got better one bit .... I do have to say that fab forums have been more enjoyable in terms of conversation...Being able to talk to others on here it's gave me a little more hope. |
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