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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondered what people’s boundaries are on cuddles and affection in a no strings attached/ friends with benefits arrangement.
Do you think it leads to blurred lines, as cuddles = dopamine & serotonin = emotional attachment?
Do you think women find it harder to cuddle after sex and not feel some attachment or is it the same for guys.
Or can some people enjoy a cuddle after a meet and not feel anything? |
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"Just wondered what people’s boundaries are on cuddles and affection in a no strings attached/ friends with benefits arrangement.
Do you think it leads to blurred lines, as cuddles = dopamine & serotonin = emotional attachment?
Do you think women find it harder to cuddle after sex and not feel some attachment or is it the same for guys.
Or can some people enjoy a cuddle after a meet and not feel anything? "
I can enjoy a cuddle after sex and not feel attachment, it's just nice. Best is when it leads to round 2 then more cuddles and so on 
Hadn't really thought about it tho so I'm interested in seeing people's opinions on this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can enjoy a cuddle after sex and not feel attachment, it's just nice. Best is when it leads to round 2 then more cuddles and so on
Hadn't really thought about it tho so I'm interested in seeing people's opinions on this"
I’m interested in the subject too as had different experiences from guys, some who cuddle a lot and some quite cold after sex. But I guess it means you have to be quite honest with yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not interested in cuddles after. It would get in the way of me instantly falling asleep."
That is so funny
I was in Glasgow two weekends ago !! Went to Cj’s |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can enjoy a cuddle after sex and not feel attachment, it's just nice. Best is when it leads to round 2 then more cuddles and so on
Hadn't really thought about it tho so I'm interested in seeing people's opinions on this"
Agreed! I think people really overestimate how many women get attached and how easily too. I’ve had a lot of men become too attached too quickly (some before I’ve even slept with them, just been discussing a fwb type situation). |
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I like to be big spoon and slowly run my fingertips up and down your side. I think I've got a knack for this as it usually leads to more sex and I've had good feedback
Its not normally me that needs the recovery time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all depends on the situation - it can feel a bit awkward when another man's wife wants to cuddle up after with me when he's watching!  "
Big turn for me |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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I love a good cuddle before during and after sex it just much nicer that a fuck me and get off get out. Don't think it makes things complicated if your both happy with that situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cuddles and chat after. Got to have time to recover for round 2... And 3... And 4...
Couldn't agree with you more. "
Agreed
I would say it would be weird not to have some emotion after. I personally do enjoy banter, cuddles, giggles inbetween. |
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I like to spoon and cuddle after nooky in an MMF,
It’s just natural instinct... doesn’t mean I’m confused that the man next to me is my hubby and the one on the other side of the spoon is a “friend”
We are only human after all, do what comes natural to you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It all depends on the dynamic between me and the guy.... Some guys I just wanna have a bit of banter with, fuck the living daylights out of and send him on his way so I can chill with a cuppa... Others I wanna chat with, fuck the living daylights out of then cuddle up with n have a cuppa together, possibly before another round... My fwb I cuddle up to every night we watch crap tv, eat dinner, fuck, play video games, watch you tube, fuck, snuggle, chat, sleep.... Different things for different people... But I am built for cuddles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It all depends on the dynamic between me and the guy.... Some guys I just wanna have a bit of banter with, fuck the living daylights out of and send him on his way so I can chill with a cuppa... Others I wanna chat with, fuck the living daylights out of then cuddle up with n have a cuppa together, possibly before another round... My fwb I cuddle up to every night we watch crap tv, eat dinner, fuck, play video games, watch you tube, fuck, snuggle, chat, sleep.... Different things for different people... But I am built for cuddles "
A cuppa that's a game changer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cuddles and chat after. Got to have time to recover for round 2... And 3... And 4...
Couldn't agree with you more.
Agreed
I would say it would be weird not to have some emotion after. I personally do enjoy banter, cuddles, giggles inbetween."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It all depends on the dynamic between me and the guy.... Some guys I just wanna have a bit of banter with, fuck the living daylights out of and send him on his way so I can chill with a cuppa... Others I wanna chat with, fuck the living daylights out of then cuddle up with n have a cuppa together, possibly before another round... My fwb I cuddle up to every night we watch crap tv, eat dinner, fuck, play video games, watch you tube, fuck, snuggle, chat, sleep.... Different things for different people... But I am built for cuddles
A cuppa that's a game changer"
I am a tea addict, so ya know  |
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I am a bit weird about cuddling, spooning etc but tbh I’m not a very affectionate person in general unless I’ve already got the feelings there and even then that’s been extremely rare in my life. I agree that people think it’s the women that fall easily when I’ve seen guys fall hard and quick, I personally think the difference being women are
Possibly more open of it happens where guys shut off (not saying this is accurate just my perception) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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it depends if there was a connection. sometimes a spark is there and youre comfortable but then other times the foreplay and sex is almost boring and you turn off. i think its due to an connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It all depends on the dynamic between me and the guy.... Some guys I just wanna have a bit of banter with, fuck the living daylights out of and send him on his way so I can chill with a cuppa... Others I wanna chat with, fuck the living daylights out of then cuddle up with n have a cuppa together, possibly before another round... My fwb I cuddle up to every night we watch crap tv, eat dinner, fuck, play video games, watch you tube, fuck, snuggle, chat, sleep.... Different things for different people... But I am built for cuddles
A cuppa that's a game changer
I am a tea addict, so ya know "
My kinda lady, who is putting the kettle on? How do you take yours? X |
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I love a cuddle and a cuppa also - some laughs and chats...
In my opinion - a regular FWB is not NSA - it’s not like a hole in the wall - you are both humans with feelings and there’s obviously some sort of connection there.
I like to monitor my feelings and if I’m still happy when he does leave then I know I’m cool with the situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a cuddle and a cuppa also - some laughs and chats...
In my opinion - a regular FWB is not NSA - it’s not like a hole in the wall - you are both humans with feelings and there’s obviously some sort of connection there.
I like to monitor my feelings and if I’m still happy when he does leave then I know I’m cool with the situation.
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Well said xxx |
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