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Can’t take compliments
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune  I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. "
me too |
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. me too "
Me too. Would rather have sarcasm.  |
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. me too
Me too. Would rather have sarcasm. "
Now that I CAN do lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. "
great pics ,probably sexiest ive seen ...stunning  |
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. me too
Me too. Would rather have sarcasm. "
Aaaaaallllll about sarcasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. "
I've absolutely no idea. Can't remember the last compliment I received... |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
It's amazing how many people hold a great deal of store in shallow compliments from strangers and glance over the words used by the people who know them best.
I always feel awkward receiving compliments, just because I didn't get many, but something changed am not sure what, I still have doubts about them and it makes me think alot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. "
Maybe you hear it too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard to accept them too but that's what having a knobhead ex husband did for me. I'm learning to accept them and genuinely believe them when given. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see it as just words to get you into bed.
Hmmm..... It's a site for people to get each other into bed, is it not?  "
No , this is a site to find true love , make great friends, and to log on not with the intention of meeting people for sex but to just socialize....
Having great sex is not the most important thing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. "
just looked at your pics and if you're the female you are certainly worthy of compliments |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. "
I can handle them alright in fairness , I get what you're saying alright |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see it as just words to get you into bed.
But you're on a sex site... Like dur! Did I say just on here? Dur "
So what would you like to hear to get you into bed?
You don't make any sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it as just words to get you into bed.
But you're on a sex site... Like dur! Did I say just on here? Dur
So what would you like to hear to get you into bed?
You don't make any sense. "
I certainly don't want to hear shit from people who tell you you're stunning when they haven't even seen a face lol. I'd rather strike up a decent conversation and let it go from there. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
There does seem to be a lot of people who don't like complements, its bit a mine field . The chance of getting someone into bed that lives hundreds of miles away is quite slim. I dont pay someone a complement unless I mean it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There does seem to be a lot of people who don't like complements, its bit a mine field . The chance of getting someone into bed that lives hundreds of miles away is quite slim. I dont pay someone a complement unless I mean it.
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There's a big difference between not liking them and not trusting them. |
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It's fairly easy to distinguish between false flattery and genuinely meant compliments. If someone tells me I look 30 (and it has been said) I know its false flattery because I know I don't.
Paying me compliments genuine or otherwise isn't going to get me in to bed if I'm not interested because I'm not daft. |
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward.
Maybe you hear it too much "
I definitely don’t |
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"I don’t know why but I can’t deal with people saying nice things to me. I just feel like an absolute prune I cant be the only one who is just a bit awkward. "
If someone gives you a compliment, just say thank you and smile.
You don't need to get into a dialogue about it if you don't want to.
Thank you , smile, walk away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same it took me a while to accept them I was like ye ye bu'll shit you say that to all the ladies ?? that when a total stranger said that they actually meant it as they see the real you without your flaws or mistakes . But it was harder for me to believe close ones as it usually had a hidden agenda.but as I got older I knew which one to take with a pinch of salt and they all just want to get fucked in the end ?? |
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I was in Paris in a shopping centre with a friend and a sales assistant approached us and asked if we needed any help/ where are we from etc. We said no we are fine, we are from London. Then out of the blue he said to me ‘You’re absolutely beautiful’
This caught me completely off guard. I’m straight but I was flattered and confused at the same time haha and my friend said my face expression said the same thing.
I just said um thank you  .
I’m the worst with face compliments like the above or someone saying handsome. My initial reaction is get out of here. |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
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As a straight guy it's always disappointing that all of my compliments come from men, normally about my beard in public which I never know weather it's sarcasm or not or about my dick on here, both get an "erm thanks" response and in the beard case I'll spend the rest of the day wondering weather they were genuine or sarcastic and if so weather they thought I realized it was sarcasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to combat compliments with a jokey comment about me!! I don't know why but it makes me really uncomfortable when someone says something nice about me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There does seem to be a lot of people who don't like complements, its bit a mine field . The chance of getting someone into bed that lives hundreds of miles away is quite slim. I dont pay someone a complement unless I mean it.
You don’t have to pay someone a compliment just to get them into bed.
It’s nice to be nice - no matter how far away a person lives. Telling them they have a nice ass isn’t necessarily code for “can we fuck?”, it’s just telling them they have a great ass
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"I tend to combat compliments with a jokey comment about me!! I don't know why but it makes me really uncomfortable when someone says something nice about me "
Sometimes I will tell a woman friend they look great in an outfit. 9/10 of them say something like "oh this old thing it really makes my bum look big"
How much better and easier to just smile and say "thank you" |
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