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Same Room......Same Partner
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Hi all, we are relatively new to this and know exactly what we want. Sadly....what we want doesn't appeal to the masses on here so it's quite difficult finding like minded people.
I know this has been posted before but essentially we are looking for other couples to meet up with socially with a view to having fun in the same room but only with our own partners.
We have been to xtasia a few times and love that and have met a lovely couple on here that we have now become firm friends with but are open to meeting more couples with a similar mindset.
Are there any couples out there who may be interested in this?? Distance isn't overly important as we can travel and make the journey to Birmingham for Xtasia when we get chance. |
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Hope this doesn't sound flippant but what would be the point of arranging this on fab as opposed to just going into a play room at a club. You know you're not under any obligation or expectation to play with anyone there. So you could get what you want in a play room but just doing your own thing whilst having people watch / watch other people? |
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"Hi all, we are relatively new to this and know exactly what we want. Sadly....what we want doesn't appeal to the masses on here so it's quite difficult finding like minded people.
I know this has been posted before but essentially we are looking for other couples to meet up with socially with a view to having fun in the same room but only with our own partners.
We have been to xtasia a few times and love that and have met a lovely couple on here that we have now become firm friends with but are open to meeting more couples with a similar mindset.
Are there any couples out there who may be interested in this?? Distance isn't overly important as we can travel and make the journey to Birmingham for Xtasia when we get chance."
This is how we started 17 years ago , it was really horny for our first experience |
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"Hi all, we are relatively new to this and know exactly what we want. Sadly....what we want doesn't appeal to the masses on here so it's quite difficult finding like minded people.
I know this has been posted before but essentially we are looking for other couples to meet up with socially with a view to having fun in the same room but only with our own partners.
We have been to xtasia a few times and love that and have met a lovely couple on here that we have now become firm friends with but are open to meeting more couples with a similar mindset.
Are there any couples out there who may be interested in this?? Distance isn't overly important as we can travel and make the journey to Birmingham for Xtasia when we get chance."
This was how our first meet happened with a lovely couple and we very much enjoyed it. |
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"Hope this doesn't sound flippant but what would be the point of arranging this on fab as opposed to just going into a play room at a club. You know you're not under any obligation or expectation to play with anyone there. So you could get what you want in a play room but just doing your own thing whilst having people watch / watch other people? "
I get what you're saying and that is something we do and very much enjoy. We have met a couple on here though who have the same interests and that has been great too so we are keen to meet other couples of a similar mindset. |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
The couples room at chams is great for this, I can see the appeal (probably more than soft swap from my point of view) but not sure it's something we'd go out of our way to arrange when you can do just that at a club. M |
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One advantage we found of meeting a couple from here rather than just at clubs was the different form of friendship you can forge. Knowing about each other being on here opens the conversation up and let's you discuss things you wouldn't normally talk about with 'normal' friends off this site. |
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"One advantage we found of meeting a couple from here rather than just at clubs was the different form of friendship you can forge. Knowing about each other being on here opens the conversation up and let's you discuss things you wouldn't normally talk about with 'normal' friends off this site."
We have never played in a club just meet at home with familiar faces |
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Would be fine for us. Totally get where you’re coming from with the type of “friends” you can make on this site too.
Use the site for what you want and not what others might think is the norm. You’re here to have fun as much as everybody else! |
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"Would be fine for us. Totally get where you’re coming from with the type of “friends” you can make on this site too.
Use the site for what you want and not what others might think is the norm. You’re here to have fun as much as everybody else!"
Shame you're so far away! |
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"One advantage we found of meeting a couple from here rather than just at clubs was the different form of friendship you can forge. Knowing about each other being on here opens the conversation up and let's you discuss things you wouldn't normally talk about with 'normal' friends off this site.
We have never played in a club just meet at home with familiar faces"
Is this still how you generally meet or have you progressed to other things? |
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"Would be fine for us. Totally get where you’re coming from with the type of “friends” you can make on this site too.
Use the site for what you want and not what others might think is the norm. You’re here to have fun as much as everybody else!
Shame you're so far away!"
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"One advantage we found of meeting a couple from here rather than just at clubs was the different form of friendship you can forge. Knowing about each other being on here opens the conversation up and let's you discuss things you wouldn't normally talk about with 'normal' friends off this site.
We have never played in a club just meet at home with familiar faces
Is this still how you generally meet or have you progressed to other things?"
No we have always met at home ( have been to a club twice and only played with eachother) we have met couples and single females but now we just meet single bi males. And we both enjoy that much more |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon tyne |
This is something we have done and enjoyed. And I totally understand the friendship thing. It's nice when you can get to know people and have a connection with them as well as play. It's hard to do that in a club once the play is over and everyone goes their separate ways
Gem |
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"Hi all, we are relatively new to this and know exactly what we want. Sadly....what we want doesn't appeal to the masses on here so it's quite difficult finding like minded people.
I know this has been posted before but essentially we are looking for other couples to meet up with socially with a view to having fun in the same room but only with our own partners.
We have been to xtasia a few times and love that and have met a lovely couple on here that we have now become firm friends with but are open to meeting more couples with a similar mindset.
Are there any couples out there who may be interested in this?? Distance isn't overly important as we can travel and make the journey to Birmingham for Xtasia when we get chance."
This is exactly what we like to do.
We occasionally get to Wales Maybe we could Arrange something |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish) |
We enjoy that, I suppose it appeals to both our voyeuristic and exhibitionistic sides. Clubs are great for it as we generally use them for dungeon fun as well but the couples rooms can be so much fun. No pressure to play with anyone but your partner. |
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