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Regular or One Off?
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Variety is good but I do enjoy getting to know each other over a period of time. Really enjoy the build up and anticipation of meeting. Then the pleasure of talking, flirting, drink, bite to eat. All while you know that you both want to tear each other’s clothes off and fuck each other’s brains out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It tends to be one offs for me. Regular would be nice but I unfortunately can't commit to seeing someone regularly, and I don't want to let anyone down.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Regular for me too - someone that you can not only get to know a little but who you can build trust and respect sexually with and feel comfortable and confident enough to explore with in areas you might not with a one off, or someone you'd just met in a club. |
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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago
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Interesting. We see groups of couples in Clubs who appear to be together every time we go so the general comments of people preferring regular meets is valid.
And also why you rarely see these couples in the public open rooms.
Maybe swinging has changed? Xx |
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I love the thrill of a one off. Going into the unknown.
But then I do have regulars too, and to be honest these are generally less faff, I know them, they know me. Know which buttons to press.
But I do still like the thrill of the new too.
Just greedy I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m after regular but believe it or not it’s hard to find on here... too many people log on with unresolved issues and take the fun out of it.
I’m pretty much easy-going but I’m old school... yes it’s casual sex, but yes respect goes a long way.
Too many want the benefits but not the friends part.
No regrets, no digs at anyone who may find this and think it’s aimed at them.
Just an observation I’ve seen time and time again.
Stay sexy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m after regular but believe it or not it’s hard to find on here... too many people log on with unresolved issues and take the fun out of it.
I’m pretty much easy-going but I’m old school... yes it’s casual sex, but yes respect goes a long way.
Too many want the benefits but not the friends part.
No regrets, no digs at anyone who may find this and think it’s aimed at them.
Just an observation I’ve seen time and time again.
Stay sexy x "
Spot on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’d love to meet someone for regular get togethers long term. Also the same guy for a lover for my wife without me being involved.
In an unreal world and purely fantasy cos it’s not going to happen. But if it could be possible. Someone clean and sti free for bareback fun. Obviously being greedy totaly for ourselves. Someone we could trust to only be for the wife and no one else. Alas we can only fantasise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you click then regular -if not then that was fun an all wasn't it -simples."
This is why I have socials. If we don't click on the social, then there's no point arranging anything more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you click then regular -if not then that was fun an all wasn't it -simples.
This is why I have socials. If we don't click on the social, then there's no point arranging anything more."
Sometimes you click too well but circumstance gets in the way. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"If you click then regular -if not then that was fun an all wasn't it -simples.
This is why I have socials. If we don't click on the social, then there's no point arranging anything more.
Sometimes you click too well but circumstance gets in the way. "
Is that the name of your wife? Circumstance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you click then regular -if not then that was fun an all wasn't it -simples.
This is why I have socials. If we don't click on the social, then there's no point arranging anything more.
Sometimes you click too well but circumstance gets in the way. "
I've had that happen, not like you though 
More that we click, the tension is thick but we can't get schedules to align. Holidays, sickness (mine) & work got in the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a regular meet provides variety. You can explore more with each other and push boundaries as trust is built up. Not only that you can involve others and see what dynamics, scenarios or role plays work for you.
Ultimately intimacy is experienced at a much higher level the more you get to know someone. Please note this is not only limited to singles having regular meets. This applies to couples with couples and I know an amazing couple enjoying time with another couple.
Therefore:
Regular is what I want and need. |
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By *orro_sMan
over a year ago
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If there's a connection it's definitely regular for me.
In my opinion, the problem with one offs is that you don't get the chance to find how the other person works or what they like, and sex is much much better if you get to know the other person.  |
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I think that both regulars and one offs have advantages and disadvantages. Their is something quite thrilling about a new one-off meet, but knowing the person/couple beforehand does ease any nerves and the extra trust can open up new avenues. I think we would always assume a meet is a one off and then if everybody enjoys it and is happy to we wouldn’t be against meeting again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you click then regular -if not then that was fun an all wasn't it -simples.
This is why I have socials. If we don't click on the social, then there's no point arranging anything more.
Sometimes you click too well but circumstance gets in the way.
Is that the name of your wife? Circumstance?"
no. Incontinentia. Incontinentia Buttocks... |
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"Do people prefer regular meets or one offs?
We prefer the latter although we do play with a regular gent at Chams as he is soooooo good.
It’s nice to have variety though  xxxx"
Definitely one offs for us.We are here for fun, nothing to heavy, perfectly happy with each other and don't feel the need to get close to anyone else. |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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"Definately regular for me, im not into one-offs but I do play wiv the odd single guy in clubs l..depends if catches my eye xx
We need to catch up at Cupids when you're back in full swing .. lol xx   "
Soundz good xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular is the one for me and that's just the one regular.
Yep me also "
Yeah I’d love to find just one person. You wouldn’t think it would be that difficult! I live in the wrong part of the country. I’m gonna get my map and my backpack and head ooop norf methinks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular is the one for me and that's just the one regular.
Yep me also
Yeah I’d love to find just one person. You wouldn’t think it would be that difficult! I live in the wrong part of the country. I’m gonna get my map and my backpack and head ooop norf methinks "
The northern reputation for friendliness is grossly overstated, I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular is the one for me and that's just the one regular.
Yep me also
Yeah I’d love to find just one person. You wouldn’t think it would be that difficult! I live in the wrong part of the country. I’m gonna get my map and my backpack and head ooop norf methinks
The northern reputation for friendliness is grossly overstated, I'm afraid."
Hey I am a northerner! We’re very friendly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular is the one for me and that's just the one regular.
Yep me also
Yeah I’d love to find just one person. You wouldn’t think it would be that difficult! I live in the wrong part of the country. I’m gonna get my map and my backpack and head ooop norf methinks
The northern reputation for friendliness is grossly overstated, I'm afraid.
Hey I am a northerner! We’re very friendly "
I remain unconvinced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definately regular for me, im not into one-offs but I do play wiv the odd single guy in clubs l..depends if catches my eye xx
We need to catch up at Cupids when you're back in full swing .. lol xx
Soundz good xx"
If only people would read your profile eh? .. xx  |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
Your wildest Dreams |
"Definately regular for me, im not into one-offs but I do play wiv the odd single guy in clubs l..depends if catches my eye xx
We need to catch up at Cupids when you're back in full swing .. lol xx
Soundz good xx
If only people would read your profile eh? .. xx "
And status   xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both and then those we click with we see again.
Works really well. We've also found after the first meet if you click it just gets better and better."
We do both as well..very rarely find anyone who I just want to play with in a club but when I do it's great to have repeat meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have done both. Regular, one couple 8 years, others between one and three years, usually weekly.
Single females tend to be not one offs, but not so regular. My last single female, was for nearly a year, weekly. I have to say I think I am more relaxed with regular, for example I rarely cum from oral, but the last single female, after a few months had me giving her a mouthful regularly. Not something that has happened before, even with the couple I saw for eight years. |
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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Do people prefer regular meets or one offs?
We prefer the latter although we do play with a regular gent at Chams as he is soooooo good.
It’s nice to have variety though xxxx
Definitely one offs for us.We are here for fun, nothing to heavy, perfectly happy with each other and don't feel the need to get close to anyone else."
This xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Regular for me as long as you are both on the same wavelength. Been burnt a couple of times by women getting too emotionally attached when it was agreed it was only fun we were having....not a good situation :-/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’d love to meet someone for regular get togethers long term. Also the same guy for a lover for my wife without me being involved.
In an unreal world and purely fantasy cos it’s not going to happen. But if it could be possible. Someone clean and sti free for bareback fun. Obviously being greedy totaly for ourselves. Someone we could trust to only be for the wife and no one else. Alas we can only fantasise. "
Why is it only fantasy?? Surely a male from a couple where female is not able to play for medical/physical reasons? |
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"Regular, more chance to get to know and explore each others desires"
And get attached too and most are not looking for commitments.
A couple of meets with the same person is often better than one offs but personally not here looknig for commitments to people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t mind! Depends on the person I think x"
Yeah it’s about the chemistry. Also some people have weird dynamics.
I had an MMF where the other guy was bigger than me but got stage fright. His lady really enjoyed me and how hard I was.
She asked to see me again and he texted me saying it was good. But I could tell he was pissed off by how he’d been during the sex. So I left it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love a regular guy for L (mrs) to spend time getting to know each other both socially and very intimately with or without me there."
Form and orderly queue... |
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"Do people prefer regular meets or one offs?
We prefer the latter although we do play with a regular gent at Chams as he is soooooo good.
It’s nice to have variety though xxxx"
Ever in London and fancy a one off?  |
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