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By *oley999 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Land of Rainbows and Happiness

If you have nothing on your profile and you message someone....that person has replied and asks for more information....then they say "what do you want to know about me?"

Eurgh. Seriously? Anything. I am not doing a list to make it easy for you cause you can't be bothered.

CRABBIT this morning.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS  over a year ago

Cornwall

I can relate to that

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple  over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I can relate to that"

It's usally accompanied with a friends request... Then they ask where are the private photos when they aren't there to being with... Love messing with these sort, there comes a certain satisfaction from then blocking 'em.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

People who want you to do all the work. You send brief but chatty messages, include open ended questions and give them every opportunity to enter into meaningful dialogue. Then its like pulling teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hear it from men that a lot of women are just as bad.

Must be a way of pointing them ing the direction of each other so they know how it feels!!!

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By *ANDA2Couple  over a year ago

Henley Arden


"If you have nothing on your profile and you message someone....that person has replied and asks for more information....then they say "what do you want to know about me?"

Eurgh. Seriously? Anything. I am not doing a list to make it easy for you cause you can't be bothered.

CRABBIT this morning."

Look at it as a sort of filter.

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By *mber DextrousWoman  over a year ago

Devon


"People who want you to do all the work. You send brief but chatty messages, include open ended questions and give them every opportunity to enter into meaningful dialogue. Then its like pulling teeth."

It's especially galling when they ask questions you have the answer to on your profile!

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By *agermeisterMan  over a year ago

Leeds

At least it's an pen question that invites a response rather than a process of asking questions about themy and getting one line or one word answers.

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By *imply_SensualMan  over a year ago

Widnes


"People who want you to do all the work. You send brief but chatty messages, include open ended questions and give them every opportunity to enter into meaningful dialogue. Then its like pulling teeth."

Far too often this happens - even if they look stunning, it usually ends up as a 'see ya later' - not interested.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I sent a guy a nice message the reply was 'So what are you mainly into?'

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"People who want you to do all the work. You send brief but chatty messages, include open ended questions and give them every opportunity to enter into meaningful dialogue. Then its like pulling teeth.

It's especially galling when they ask questions you have the answer to on your profile!"

. Yes

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"People who want you to do all the work. You send brief but chatty messages, include open ended questions and give them every opportunity to enter into meaningful dialogue. Then its like pulling teeth.

Far too often this happens - even if they look stunning, it usually ends up as a 'see ya later' - not interested. "

We don't want to know their life stories. Just a little oil on the social wheels.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a brain yawn when people ask me what I want to know about them.

It's usually after me saying I don't meet someone at the drop of a hat and have to get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People who want you to do all the work. You send brief but chatty messages, include open ended questions and give them every opportunity to enter into meaningful dialogue. Then its like pulling teeth."

This is why I don't like to get into conversations when I'm tired.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"If you have nothing on your profile and you message someone....that person has replied and asks for more information....then they say "what do you want to know about me?"

Eurgh. Seriously? Anything. I am not doing a list to make it easy for you cause you can't be bothered.

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I usually bin them after telling them the reason!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you have nothing on your profile and you message someone....that person has replied and asks for more information....then they say "what do you want to know about me?"

Eurgh. Seriously? Anything. I am not doing a list to make it easy for you cause you can't be bothered.

CRABBIT this morning."

Why would you bother asking for more info?

Men mail me and ask for more info. I just say it's all on my profile.

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