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"block single guys from messaging you and conduct your own search "If we did that then we would have missed out on some of great guys we have met. Guess your one of the straight bi profile changers? | |||
"Its a tough one as bi is a wide ranging thing, some love meeting both sexes 1 on 1 and some will be in mmf scenario, but to avoid loads of guy messages put str8 on profile." I got more messages from guys when I was straight than I ever do now Think we all know gay guys in particular like to fetishize the straight male As many also know, there are plenty of gay guys here pertaining to be bi or curious | |||
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"It’s a weird one. Some folk don’t want to meet guys that are bi (for whatever reason) and some guys don’t like the idea of being that far ‘out’ I guess. With others it could be that they’re more flexible and it depends on the situation, although there are some that’ll claim to be bi just to get to the female half of a couple. It’s a complete mixed bag, so best of luck with that one!" | |||
"block single guys from messaging you and conduct your own search
If we did that then we would have missed out on some of great guys we have met.
Guess your one of the straight bi profile changers? "i’m a what?  | |||
"It's not just the guys either. Some couples are just as guilty and we'll get a meet request from a both straight couple (even says won't meet bi guys but happy to watch the girls?) and when we decline, they'll say they are bi but don't like to advertise it. Delete...... "Hello | |||
"block single guys from messaging you and conduct your own search
If we did that then we would have missed out on some of great guys we have met.
Guess your one of the straight bi profile changers?
i’m a what? "No idea and we won't jump to conclusions. But it's about guys how say bi no bi | |||
"block single guys from messaging you and conduct your own search
If we did that then we would have missed out on some of great guys we have met.
Guess your one of the straight bi profile changers?
i’m a what?
No idea and we won't jump to conclusions.
But it's about guys how say bi no bi"i think i know what ya mean now, sorry you’re having such an issue finding bi guys, maybe if one of you joint fabguys you can find what you’re looking for there? | |||
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"block single guys from messaging you and conduct your own search
If we did that then we would have missed out on some of great guys we have met.
Guess your one of the straight bi profile changers?
i’m a what?
No idea and we won't jump to conclusions.
But it's about guys how say bi no bi
i think i know what ya mean now, sorry you’re having such an issue finding bi guys, maybe if one of you joint fabguys you can find what you’re looking for there?"Why should we join fab guys? We are a couple. We don't have a problem finding good guys as our verifications prove. Its more a sorting the wheat from the chaff issue X | |||
"block single guys from messaging you and conduct your own search
If we did that then we would have missed out on some of great guys we have met.
Guess your one of the straight bi profile changers?
i’m a what?
No idea and we won't jump to conclusions.
But it's about guys how say bi no bi
i think i know what ya mean now, sorry you’re having such an issue finding bi guys, maybe if one of you joint fabguys you can find what you’re looking for there?
Why should we join fab guys?
We are a couple.
We don't have a problem finding good guys as our verifications prove.
Its more a sorting the wheat from the chaff issue
X"the road is long but the journey is worth it | |||
"Hello indeed
Added you to our hot list for future reference "where are you guys? Or should we take it to Pm X | |||
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"We’re all here for the same thing, and it’s 2018 so who cares. That excuse of “I know someone on here” is a cop out IMHO. Don’t bother with fabguys. It’s a complete waste of time (ask me how I know). Here is far better! " Thank you. All our time is important. We don't believe in messing around. If we message we want to meet. Its not that difficult X | |||
"We’re all here for the same thing, and it’s 2018 so who cares. That excuse of “I know someone on here” is a cop out IMHO. Don’t bother with fabguys. It’s a complete waste of time (ask me how I know). Here is far better! Thank you. All our time is important. We don't believe in messing around. If we message we want to meet. Its not that difficult X" You’re welcome! There’s nothing more precious than time and no one likes having theirs wasted. Exactly that. This is why my profile’s accurate. If someone doesn’t want to meet me because I’m a bit queer, that’s a them problem. x | |||
"We’re all here for the same thing, and it’s 2018 so who cares. That excuse of “I know someone on here” is a cop out IMHO. Don’t bother with fabguys. It’s a complete waste of time (ask me how I know). Here is far better! " Completely agree (Dave); I can't think of a better place to willingly lose a few hours of your day | |||
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"We’re all here for the same thing, and it’s 2018 so who cares. That excuse of “I know someone on here” is a cop out IMHO. Don’t bother with fabguys. It’s a complete waste of time (ask me how I know). Here is far better! Completely agree (Dave); I can't think of a better place to willingly lose a few hours of your day" Ha! Accurate. *sifts through 150 ‘wanna fuck now?’ messages from unverified faceless men* Bored of this now. Must be similar to what some of the single females on here get. | |||
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" why do straight guys say they are bi? Why do bi guys say they are straight ? Why do gay guys say they are bi ? Why do guys with 10 veris from other guys say they are curious ? Why will guys shag a bloke in a frock and insist that they are straight ? Why do couples say they are both straight when they aren't ? We could go on ... There are some very common answers There are answers that are little more obscure and left of field The thing is, unless people start being honest and unless others accept that sexuality is fluid and ever evolving, we don't have a hope in hell of changing anything All anyone can do is to approach the site and other users with an abundance of caution Set your filters accordingly, know what you are looking for, know what questions to ask, know what answers are spot on and which are potentially bull, have a face to face meet before a sex meet, suss people out It isn't up to admin to le out the chancers and the fakes, it is up to users to use the tools available to assist themselves in narrowing the pack to their own tastes and preferences. You can't ever control how others present & conduct their profile The only chance you have is with your own" Good reply buddy and you are correct. We are all adults and use the site as we want. Unfortunately most don't read the forums so it falls on deaf ears X | |||
" why do straight guys say they are bi? Why do bi guys say they are straight ? Why do gay guys say they are bi ? Why do guys with 10 veris from other guys say they are curious ? Why will guys shag a bloke in a frock and insist that they are straight ? Why do couples say they are both straight when they aren't ? We could go on ... There are some very common answers There are answers that are little more obscure and left of field The thing is, unless people start being honest and unless others accept that sexuality is fluid and ever evolving, we don't have a hope in hell of changing anything All anyone can do is to approach the site and other users with an abundance of caution Set your filters accordingly, know what you are looking for, know what questions to ask, know what answers are spot on and which are potentially bull, have a face to face meet before a sex meet, suss people out It isn't up to admin to le out the chancers and the fakes, it is up to users to use the tools available to assist themselves in narrowing the pack to their own tastes and preferences. You can't ever control how others present & conduct their profile The only chance you have is with your own Good reply buddy and you are correct. We are all adults and use the site as we want. Unfortunately most don't read the forums so it falls on deaf ears X" Thanks I went to try and alter a spelling error there and deleted the lot Second coffee required before further posting methinks | |||
" why do straight guys say they are bi? Why do bi guys say they are straight ? Why do gay guys say they are bi ? Why do guys with 10 veris from other guys say they are curious ? Why will guys shag a bloke in a frock and insist that they are straight ? Why do couples say they are both straight when they aren't ? We could go on ... There are some very common answers There are answers that are little more obscure and left of field The thing is, unless people start being honest and unless others accept that sexuality is fluid and ever evolving, we don't have a hope in hell of changing anything All anyone can do is to approach the site and other users with an abundance of caution Set your filters accordingly, know what you are looking for, know what questions to ask, know what answers are spot on and which are potentially bull, have a face to face meet before a sex meet, suss people out It isn't up to admin to le out the chancers and the fakes, it is up to users to use the tools available to assist themselves in narrowing the pack to their own tastes and preferences. You can't ever control how others present & conduct their profile The only chance you have is with your own Good reply buddy and you are correct. We are all adults and use the site as we want. Unfortunately most don't read the forums so it falls on deaf ears X" | |||
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"The main reason they do it OP is to get round those that say they won't meet bi guys, without realising that they're actually closing the door on just as many, if not more, people, like yourselves, that will meet them. I'm openly bisexual, and open to meeting other bisexual guys or couples but won't meet the "fab straight" crowd, figuring that if they're lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about " | |||
"The main reason they do it OP is to get round those that say they won't meet bi guys, without realising that they're actually closing the door on just as many, if not more, people, like yourselves, that will meet them. I'm openly bisexual, and open to meeting other bisexual guys or couples but won't meet the "fab straight" crowd, figuring that if they're lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about " | |||
"The main reason they do it OP is to get round those that say they won't meet bi guys, without realising that they're actually closing the door on just as many, if not more, people, like yourselves, that will meet them. I'm openly bisexual, and open to meeting other bisexual guys or couples but won't meet the "fab straight" crowd, figuring that if they're lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about "Interested we are probably the same. But please tell more about fabs fabs secret club | |||
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"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X" We have the exact same issue, we only want bi men but almost all messages are from straight profiles, this immediately makes us suspicious i.e just messaging to get at the female, out of options so claiming bi and think they will deal with it once there there ( not a situation we want to find ourselves in!) We understand the excuse they don’t want messages from men but they don’t have to answer those messages or can give a polite no thanks if they get them, to us it makes us definitely think twice if message claims bi and profile claims straight, no need to hide it here of all places | |||
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"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X" Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar. | |||
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"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar." Bernard Manning rang. He wants his tolerance levels back. | |||
"Well that’s not very inclusive of you is it? What about bi and gay women? Or is that ok?" Bi-curious women are OK by the looks of things | |||
"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar." Did someone put the world in a time machine and take us back to the 1950s?! Putting aside the fact that the female half of the couple identifies as bi/bi curious and would therefore be one of the "Far too many..." you seem to object to - since when did swinging have to be something for straight people only? I'll happily carry on playing with both genders whenever it takes my fancy thank you very much | |||
"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar. Bernard Manning rang. He wants his tolerance levels back." This... | |||
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"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X" ask them the reason for it then decide if there for you. simple | |||
"We are on here to meet a bi guy and we have the same troubles OP. A lot of profiles say they are straight, but message us and say they play bi in that setting, or are willing to try. Fewer actually sound completely into it. Sometimes folk are straight in every day life, or at least identify as straight, but would only consider a man in a sexual setting. So in reality that's not completely bisexual... in a sense lol. It's really annoying sometimes but also fun to find out what they would do. I guess we understand it to a certain degree, but it's a wee bit misleading." Like this X | |||
"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar. Did someone put the world in a time machine and take us back to the 1950s?! Putting aside the fact that the female half of the couple identifies as bi/bi curious and would therefore be one of the "Far too many..." you seem to object to - since when did swinging have to be something for straight people only? I'll happily carry on playing with both genders whenever it takes my fancy thank you very much "We are Both fully bi. Guessyou got confused whilst on your high horss X | |||
"We are on here to meet a bi guy and we have the same troubles OP. A lot of profiles say they are straight, but message us and say they play bi in that setting, or are willing to try. Fewer actually sound completely into it. Sometimes folk are straight in every day life, or at least identify as straight, but would only consider a man in a sexual setting. So in reality that's not completely bisexual... in a sense lol. It's really annoying sometimes but also fun to find out what they would do. I guess we understand it to a certain degree, but it's a wee bit misleading." Like this X | |||
"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar. Did someone put the world in a time machine and take us back to the 1950s?! Putting aside the fact that the female half of the couple identifies as bi/bi curious and would therefore be one of the "Far too many..." you seem to object to - since when did swinging have to be something for straight people only? I'll happily carry on playing with both genders whenever it takes my fancy thank you very much
We are Both fully bi. Guessyou got confused whilst on your high horss
X"I know you are, and if you check back you'll see my comment wasn't aimed at you but the couple who decided to take us on a trip back to the 50s with their comment about there being far too many bi and gay on here
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"block single guys from messaging you and conduct your own search " | |||
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"Why do bi guys say they’re straight then? That’s a weird one isn’t it "Because it's not acceptable to he male and bi in society still and as such people stay in the closet. | |||
"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar. Did someone put the world in a time machine and take us back to the 1950s?! Putting aside the fact that the female half of the couple identifies as bi/bi curious and would therefore be one of the "Far too many..." you seem to object to - since when did swinging have to be something for straight people only? I'll happily carry on playing with both genders whenever it takes my fancy thank you very much
We are Both fully bi. Guessyou got confused whilst on your high horss
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I know you are, and if you check back you'll see my comment wasn't aimed at you but the couple who decided to take us on a trip back to the 50s with their comment about there being far too many bi and gay on here
No high horses were harmed in the making of my posts "Apologies. Must read things properly before replying  | |||
"I'm sure this has been posted before. But why do straight guys say they are bi? We only meet guys who are bi. But it's the ones who message saying my profile says straight but I'm bi. We block as we think it's underhand. We have friends who won't meet bi sexual males, it's there choice. How are we supposed to go through this minefield X Far to many bi and gay on here it's meant to be a swinging site not a gay bar. Did someone put the world in a time machine and take us back to the 1950s?! Putting aside the fact that the female half of the couple identifies as bi/bi curious and would therefore be one of the "Far too many..." you seem to object to - since when did swinging have to be something for straight people only? I'll happily carry on playing with both genders whenever it takes my fancy thank you very much
We are Both fully bi. Guessyou got confused whilst on your high horss
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I know you are, and if you check back you'll see my comment wasn't aimed at you but the couple who decided to take us on a trip back to the 50s with their comment about there being far too many bi and gay on here
No high horses were harmed in the making of my posts
Apologies.
Must read things properly before replying "None needed - no harm, no foul | |||
