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over a year ago
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We all love a sweeping generalisation.
There is a thread from a chap who is of average endowment and is sick of people assuming that his length and melatonin levels are related.
Fetishising people is wrong. Some chaps trade on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From experience absolutely not, lol. Personally we'd avoid anyone with that in there in their profile. A bit crass."
What has been your experience with guys with BBC in their names?
I’m not looking to argue with you.. I’ve just read your statement a lot on profiles.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with fetishising. Those who don't have a BBC and are black are the ones complaining and I think you should just own who you are rather than speak for every black man. I personally am here to be fetishised and couldn't give a toss if that's all you're interested in. I've met folk who care about who you are and I've met folk who only care about what you're packing. If I felt I couldn't measure up then I would just say so. No need to start a campaign to shame women who have a BBC fetish. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I ain’t shaming no one I just got a bit confused when you look on a woman’s profile and it says no bbc is that no black guys or no big dick that’s what I was getting at I’m good with what I’m packing |
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"No, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with fetishising. Those who don't have a BBC and are black are the ones complaining and I think you should just own who you are rather than speak for every black man. I personally am here to be fetishised and couldn't give a toss if that's all you're interested in. I've met folk who care about who you are and I've met folk who only care about what you're packing. If I felt I couldn't measure up then I would just say so. No need to start a campaign to shame women who have a BBC fetish. "
Well good for you that you enjoy being fetishised over because you have a BBC. Some of black men do prefer to be seen as individuals. It's all good having the fantasy but if a man is judged by the size of his appendage, more so because he is black, is it such a bad thing not be seen in that way?
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"No, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with fetishising. Those who don't have a BBC and are black are the ones complaining and I think you should just own who you are rather than speak for every black man. I personally am here to be fetishised and couldn't give a toss if that's all you're interested in. I've met folk who care about who you are and I've met folk who only care about what you're packing. If I felt I couldn't measure up then I would just say so. No need to start a campaign to shame women who have a BBC fetish.
Well good for you that you enjoy being fetishised over because you have a BBC. Some of black men do prefer to be seen as individuals. It's all good having the fantasy but if a man is judged by the size of his appendage, more so because he is black, is it such a bad thing not be seen in that way?
A cock does not maketh the man!" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"No, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with fetishising. Those who don't have a BBC and are black are the ones complaining and I think you should just own who you are rather than speak for every black man. I personally am here to be fetishised and couldn't give a toss if that's all you're interested in. I've met folk who care about who you are and I've met folk who only care about what you're packing. If I felt I couldn't measure up then I would just say so. No need to start a campaign to shame women who have a BBC fetish.
Well good for you that you enjoy being fetishised over because you have a BBC. Some of black men do prefer to be seen as individuals. It's all good having the fantasy but if a man is judged by the size of his appendage, more so because he is black, is it such a bad thing not be seen in that way?
A cock does not maketh the man!"
It does if that's what the fetish is! Again, there are no absolutes here. If all a woman is interested in is the size of your cock then just excuse yourself if that's not what you're interested in or can't deliver. I also never claimed to have a BBC (though I'm not saying I don't). Also never said that I personally don't want to be seen as an individual. I said people are free and entitled to their fetishes and if you don't measure up just excuse yourself. I just don't see the point in making any fetish "taboo". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This bbc nonsense is getting silly. Its about the individual and not the penis. real silly no doubt." You know what I think it’s started by white guys wanting to see their mrs with a black guy that’s made it a lot worse and some guys have said yeah I’m bbc etc some haven’t then some white girls and couples state bbc only so it’s all sorts that are saying it.
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"No I ain’t shaming no one I just got a bit confused when you look on a woman’s profile and it says no bbc is that no black guys or no big dick that’s what I was getting at I’m good with what I’m packing "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I ain’t shaming no one I just got a bit confused when you look on a woman’s profile and it says no bbc is that no black guys or no big dick that’s what I was getting at I’m good with what I’m packing
No bbc means no black men full stop "
This made me spit my drink out.....
I can see this guy messaging couples that say no bbc and getting told to read the profile...
Then him messaging them back... I’m not a bbc , just a average black guy.... |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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Contrary to a lot of people on here I'm ok with labels, if you want to be treated as just a cock then use the label, if you want to be treated as a man that happens to be black don't use the label. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a bbc isn’t the end all to being a successful swinger.....
You still have to be charming and polite....
In my experience it’s the husbands of the couples that go crazy over cock size.... the wives just want you to not be rough and to make them laugh.....
Now for anyone offended by bbc in a screen name.... I have personally used bbc in my screen name Because of search filters....if a couple/female is searching for well endowed black men... I believe searching the term BBC will yield better results than.... charming well dress black man... |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"From experience absolutely not, lol. Personally we'd avoid anyone with that in there in their profile. A bit crass.
What has been your experience with guys with BBC in their names?
I’m not looking to argue with you.. I’ve just read your statement a lot on profiles...."
Sorry, just for clarity, did you say you've read verifications given by us in profiles that have bbc in their profile? Just looked who we've given veries and there wasn't a single one. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From experience absolutely not, lol. Personally we'd avoid anyone with that in there in their profile. A bit crass.
What has been your experience with guys with BBC in their names?
I’m not looking to argue with you.. I’ve just read your statement a lot on profiles....
Sorry, just for clarity, did you say you've read verifications given by us in profiles that have bbc in their profile? Just looked who we've given veries and there wasn't a single one. "
No I meant..... I’ve read many profiles on Fab stating if you have BBC in your username... we are not interested.... |
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