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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
Nope definitely not alone...me too. Spent most of my twenties and thirties worrying about it. Now I've given up stressing and just enjoy the other ways of getting my money shot 
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"Really lady’s...???
Afraid so.
Guys see it as a challenge. They think they can make me cum with their big cocks.... Sadly not! "
Maybe it's the stress of not being able to that's stopping you xx |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
Don't worry, most the women I've had sex with couldn't orgasm at all |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
Rolled up pillow at the bottom of your back.. Puts you in just the right position.. Works for me.. |
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"Really lady’s...???
Afraid so.
Guys see it as a challenge. They think they can make me cum with their big cocks.... Sadly not! "
Big cocks are not always the best ... I have a 6.5inch cut cock with a nice shaped glans (bell end) this can mostly make a lady have an orgasm.Nice and slow and take your time not like a bull in a China shop.
I can't believe we have already spoken about our love making Hampshirehotwife ... lol x  |
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over a year ago
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Same here! Never orgasmed from penetration alone, i keep trying and im getting better but no matter what i cant get it! Always need clit stimulation to make it happen. Its so frustrating as i feel like the orgasm would be more intense from penetration! |
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Probably less than half the women I've slept with have been able to, a lot will tell you right away that they can't! I wonder if that's only true because they accept it as an inevitability?
Only one girl who I saw for just over a year, was able to orgasm really easily from penetration, one after the other. Ahh, great times |
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"Really lady’s...???
Afraid so.
Guys see it as a challenge. They think they can make me cum with their big cocks.... Sadly not!
Big cocks are not always the best ... I have a 6.5inch cut cock with a nice shaped glans (bell end) this can mostly make a lady have an orgasm.Nice and slow and take your time not like a bull in a China shop.
I can't believe we have already spoken about our love making Hampshirehotwife ... lol x "
This size of a cock rarely is the reason for an orgasm.
More to do with the woman’s mind, and the whole experiences itself.
Most men think they make one woman cum, they have the knack for all women. Not the case at all and every woman is different.
I rarely cum through penetration either OP! I don’t worry about it to be honest, and any man who claims they can do it for me, gets the rolled eyes! It is a lot to do with the mind, but sometimes it just won’t happen regardless! X |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
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Sit tight - I'm going to drone on for a bit but I will get to a suggestion or two at the end which I hope might be useful.
Have you been able to orgasm from (penetrative) fingering? I ask because my research (;)) suggests that's usually achieved through g-spot stimulation. The g-spot corresponds with the back end of the clitoris and, in some sense, stimulating the g-spot is stimulating the clitoris.
Now everyone is different and there's a fair variation in just how far above the g-spot that back end of the clitoris sits (when the woman is on her back). For some women it sits quite far above and can be difficult to stimulate from the inside.
If that's the cause of your difficulty, you might be able to overcome it by pressing down on the pubic bone while having sex, thus pushing the back end of the clitoris into contact with the lovely cock you'd like to cum on . Or try changing angles or positions, like the pillow under the back mentioned above.
Or maybe get fingers, a willing friendly tongue, or toys working on your clitoris from the outside while you fuck. It maybe didn't cause it but at least you get to cum with a cock in you.
Or- don't worry about it. It sounds like you have some pretty good orgasms without it.
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Sit tight - I'm going to drone on for a bit but I will get to a suggestion or two at the end which I hope might be useful.
Have you been able to orgasm from (penetrative) fingering? I ask because my research (;)) suggests that's usually achieved through g-spot stimulation. The g-spot corresponds with the back end of the clitoris and, in some sense, stimulating the g-spot is stimulating the clitoris.
Now everyone is different and there's a fair variation in just how far above the g-spot that back end of the clitoris sits (when the woman is on her back). For some women it sits quite far above and can be difficult to stimulate from the inside.
If that's the cause of your difficulty, you might be able to overcome it by pressing down on the pubic bone while having sex, thus pushing the back end of the clitoris into contact with the lovely cock you'd like to cum on . Or try changing angles or positions, like the pillow under the back mentioned above.
Or maybe get fingers, a willing friendly tongue, or toys working on your clitoris from the outside while you fuck. It maybe didn't cause it but at least you get to cum with a cock in you.
Or- don't worry about it. It sounds like you have some pretty good orgasms without it.
Hat"
Some women just don’t have it in them regardless of what they do.
I’m sure plenty have tried the things you mention as they aren’t uncommon! Some women can orgasm easily through penetration like it’s nothing, some can’t and never will, some experience it rarely like me.
The more you think about an orgasm in the moment, the harder it actually is to achieve it!
I do believe a lot is to do with the mind, rather than the physical act!  |
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"Some women just don’t have it in them regardless of what they do.
I’m sure plenty have tried the things you mention as they aren’t uncommon! Some women can orgasm easily through penetration like it’s nothing, some can’t and never will, some experience it rarely like me.
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Yes indeed. I didn't mean to imply that I would guarantee a "good cum on my cock" or anything silly like that - it was just meant to be potentially useful suggestions.
"I do believe a lot is to do with the mind, rather than the physical act! "
You're definitely not wrong there |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
A lot of women can't, and not just with me. |
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"Some women just don’t have it in them regardless of what they do.
I’m sure plenty have tried the things you mention as they aren’t uncommon! Some women can orgasm easily through penetration like it’s nothing, some can’t and never will, some experience it rarely like me.
Yes indeed. I didn't mean to imply that I would guarantee a "good cum on my cock" or anything silly like that - it was just meant to be potentially useful suggestions.
I do believe a lot is to do with the mind, rather than the physical act!
You're definitely not wrong there "
Oh no, I didn’t get that from your post at all! Haha.
I know for me, when I start trying to do new things to attempt an orgasm I focus too much on it and it ends up not happening! So I relax and just let things be! |
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Never through fab sex, always had to simultaneously play with my clit. But when I was really intimately connected to my husband I had the most amazing penetrative orgasms. Far more powerful than a clitoral one and leave me feeling emotional!! Would love to have that again. |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
If you’d like the science behind it, let me know. It’s too much detail to go into on here! As you know, I’m local to you and would be happy to explain in person (genuinely no strings!!) xx |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
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It's difficult to reply to this without sounding boastful so I appologise in advance but I've come accross a few women (including E) who said they couldn't cum from penetration but then found it easy to make them cum.
The trouble is there are plenty of liars (I could be one of them this post is exactly what I'd say liar or not) and all talk a good game so unless you stumble across someone who hits the mark you'll always assume you just can't and the other people who haven't stumbled across someone who can either will all agree it's impossible.
Not saying it's never impossible it might well be and when I was a single guy I always had that little voice in my head saying "one day this isn't going to work" but touch wood so far I've not come across anyone remotely close to impossible yet. |
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"Really lady’s...???
Afraid so.
Guys see it as a challenge. They think they can make me cum with their big cocks.... Sadly not!
Big cocks are not always the best ... I have a 6.5inch cut cock with a nice shaped glans (bell end) this can mostly make a lady have an orgasm.Nice and slow and take your time not like a bull in a China shop.
I can't believe we have already spoken about our love making Hampshirehotwife ... lol x "
It's chatting to you that made me think about it.... |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
I have the same problem, and my ex used to get stressed which would stress me and definitely not make me cum,,,,
I put it down to wanking too much. I work in a military base for months at a time hence the wanking lol not by choice  |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
Can I try, you never know |
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Hubby is the only one who has made me cum through penetration,no one has come close, but with other i don't cum very much through fingerings either only the odd meet have made me cum loads through fingering x |
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"Hubby is the only one who has made me cum through penetration,no one has come close, but with other i don't cum very much through fingerings either only the odd meet have made me cum loads through fingering x"
omg I can't say it enough let me try, you never know
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Very rarely I’ve orgasmed through just penetration;his cock pumping in and out, usually I have to have a reach down and rub my bean whilst he’s thrusting. |
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"Dont want to seem like I am bragging but I have no problem at all.Especially when we are swinging.Maybe its the decadence."
I have also always been able to cum by penetration and just assumed that was the same for all women when I was younger.
There are probably many reasons why women cannot or rarely orgasm via penetration. One if which is being comfortable enough to properly "let go", especially with someone you don't have an emotional connection with. Simple physical differences will also make each sexual experience different.
My advice... don't worry about it and just enjoy the sex.
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" Very rarely I’ve orgasmed through just penetration;his cock pumping in and out, usually I have to have a reach down and rub my bean whilst he’s thrusting. "
Rub your bean  I haven't heard that name for the clit in a long time. Made me smile hehe |
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"Really lady’s...???
Afraid so.
Guys see it as a challenge. They think they can make me cum with their big cocks.... Sadly not!
Big cocks are not always the best ... I have a 6.5inch cut cock with a nice shaped glans (bell end) this can mostly make a lady have an orgasm.Nice and slow and take your time not like a bull in a China shop.
I can't believe we have already spoken about our love making Hampshirehotwife ... lol x
This size of a cock rarely is the reason for an orgasm.
More to do with the woman’s mind, and the whole experiences itself.
Most men think they make one woman cum, they have the knack for all women. Not the case at all and every woman is different.
I rarely cum through penetration either OP! I don’t worry about it to be honest, and any man who claims they can do it for me, gets the rolled eyes! It is a lot to do with the mind, but sometimes it just won’t happen regardless! X"
If there can be a deciding factor, it’ll always be the mind. Same for men and women. |
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I can but it's a rare and magical thing. Agree it depends on mindset, mood, surroundings etc. Also different positions help....nothing to do with cock size at all in my opinion. |
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I was always able to come if on top from grinding tho and v much still clit orgasm
Only had actual vaginal orgasms in later life (age 27 onwards to be precise) |
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Its always refreshing to see (mostly) honest answers in threads like this, and paints a more realistic picture than the press generally suggests!
Everyone is different, and it boggles how on earth we can try and figure different playmates out on a single date! We've been together 20 odd years and still learning! Things change.
Some cum easily from oral - not here 
Some never cum through pen sex - can here :D
Some cum easily via manual - varies here.
Its not always the state of turn on, or technique, or the guy/girl, its just how it is!!
Though any just "banging away" may as well go and do the washing up for the thrill it gives :o And any guy who guarentees he has the best tongue ever just gets blocked in liars list lol.
We envy those who can cum easily with new partners. We don't fake or squeal at the touch of a hand, it actually makes us quite quiet and not meet too many people, especially those who cum at the drop of the hat as would feel as if we were a let down
Its all a game, we always enjoy it regardless, and the journey can be enjoyed and not just the destination!
(So we feel for any other ladies who are as challenging xxx )
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"Really lady’s...???
Afraid so.
Guys see it as a challenge. They think they can make me cum with their big cocks.... Sadly not! "
Have to tried a girthy rather than length? Works for me but not if it's not thick |
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"Its always refreshing to see (mostly) honest answers in threads like this, and paints a more realistic picture than the press generally suggests!
Everyone is different, and it boggles how on earth we can try and figure different playmates out on a single date! We've been together 20 odd years and still learning! Things change.
Some cum easily from oral - not here
Some never cum through pen sex - can here :D
Some cum easily via manual - varies here.
Its not always the state of turn on, or technique, or the guy/girl, its just how it is!!
Though any just "banging away" may as well go and do the washing up for the thrill it gives :o And any guy who guarentees he has the best tongue ever just gets blocked in liars list lol.
We envy those who can cum easily with new partners. We don't fake or squeal at the touch of a hand, it actually makes us quite quiet and not meet too many people, especially those who cum at the drop of the hat as would feel as if we were a let down
Its all a game, we always enjoy it regardless, and the journey can be enjoyed and not just the destination!
(So we feel for any other ladies who are as challenging xxx )
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“I’ve been told I have the best tongue ever”
Yeah by one woman, that doesn’t mean the other 3.7 billion approximately will feel the same! |
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"Its always refreshing to see (mostly) honest answers in threads like this, and paints a more realistic picture than the press generally suggests!
Everyone is different, and it boggles how on earth we can try and figure different playmates out on a single date! We've been together 20 odd years and still learning! Things change.
Some cum easily from oral - not here
Some never cum through pen sex - can here :D
Some cum easily via manual - varies here.
Its not always the state of turn on, or technique, or the guy/girl, its just how it is!!
Though any just "banging away" may as well go and do the washing up for the thrill it gives :o And any guy who guarentees he has the best tongue ever just gets blocked in liars list lol.
We envy those who can cum easily with new partners. We don't fake or squeal at the touch of a hand, it actually makes us quite quiet and not meet too many people, especially those who cum at the drop of the hat as would feel as if we were a let down
Its all a game, we always enjoy it regardless, and the journey can be enjoyed and not just the destination!
(So we feel for any other ladies who are as challenging xxx )
“I’ve been told I have the best tongue ever”
Yeah by one woman, that doesn’t mean the other 3.7 billion approximately will feel the same! "
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"Its always refreshing to see (mostly) honest answers in threads like this, and paints a more realistic picture than the press generally suggests!
Everyone is different, and it boggles how on earth we can try and figure different playmates out on a single date! We've been together 20 odd years and still learning! Things change.
Some cum easily from oral - not here
Some never cum through pen sex - can here :D
Some cum easily via manual - varies here.
Its not always the state of turn on, or technique, or the guy/girl, its just how it is!!
Though any just "banging away" may as well go and do the washing up for the thrill it gives :o And any guy who guarentees he has the best tongue ever just gets blocked in liars list lol.
We envy those who can cum easily with new partners. We don't fake or squeal at the touch of a hand, it actually makes us quite quiet and not meet too many people, especially those who cum at the drop of the hat as would feel as if we were a let down
Its all a game, we always enjoy it regardless, and the journey can be enjoyed and not just the destination!
(So we feel for any other ladies who are as challenging xxx )
“I’ve been told I have the best tongue ever”
Yeah by one woman, that doesn’t mean the other 3.7 billion approximately will feel the same!
Still one more than me "
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I have no problem cumming from penetrative sex, every meet we have had, we have had to apologise for the mess and the very wet bed, our meets see how responsive I am and then it becomes a challenge to how many times they can make me cum, I sometimes wish I had to make them work for it, but alas I don’t. |
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I don't see why it's so surprising to some men that some women are unable to orgasm through penile penetration alone. I see it on a par as the men, like me, that cannot orgasm by just having their cock sucked. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
I would never say I can make any woman cum from penetration because that would make it impossible to achieve but with the right approach any woman will come with penetration the same as any man will cum when a woman gives them a blow job.
The easiest way to describe what is required is to say its about both being in a sensual mood at the same time than proving you can tick a box |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
will come one day i imagine..  |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
We have been together for over 30 years and trust me it's not through lack of trying.
There's not much I haven't tried and no success.
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So there are a few ladies who don't always get to the destination on a "date" but enjoy getting there. Glad we aren't alone!
Do you feel pressured to perform/fake it, lest leave your playmates a bit disappointed? (despite having lots of fun throughout?)
We've had instances where everyone else has and then they team up to the sometimes impossible task lol. Or actually get a apology for them not making you enjoy the date, when in fact you had (till that email at least!)
Faking is the easiest get out, but not really fair!
(And its NOT always down to the playmate or technique!)
And to the guys who "know it all" here hinting its technique or try this/that - lol. Right.  |
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"So there are a few ladies who don't always get to the destination on a "date" but enjoy getting there. Glad we aren't alone!
Do you feel pressured to perform/fake it, lest leave your playmates a bit disappointed? (despite having lots of fun throughout?)
We've had instances where everyone else has and then they team up to the sometimes impossible task lol. Or actually get a apology for them not making you enjoy the date, when in fact you had (till that email at least!)
Faking is the easiest get out, but not really fair!
(And its NOT always down to the playmate or technique!)
And to the guys who "know it all" here hinting its technique or try this/that - lol. Right. "
I enjoy every meet I have without an orgasm... If I'm completely honest, I get more turned on by making a man cum than I would be if I were to orgasm myself.
I've had long cocks, short cocks, girthy cocks, not so girthy cocks, it doesn't make a difference. I've tried the pillow under the hips, I've tried reverse cowgirl, being on top, hell I've even had my legs around my ears!
I try not to get too wound up about it but I would just love the feeling of cumming with a cock deep inside of me.... |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... Can I try, you never know "
Be my guest! |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same... "
I love a challenge |
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I can’t through vaginal penetration and never have but can through anal sex. I used to bother but now I don’t care, I’m still enjoying sex and having amazing orgasms x |
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Mey who was an escort and literally had hundreds of guys while we were together told me she rarely had an orgasm through sex with someone. Although she enjoyed sex, both outside of work and in, normally she only came when masturbating on her own using a teddy bear she'd had when a child and had first used it when she started to masturbate. We had been seeing each other for 1 year and then living together for another 2 years. One night we had made love and afterwards it was something like only the 6th or 7th time she had had an orgasm during sex, I felt quite chuffed. As I say ehe did enjoy sex, even with most punters but lived without orgasms. |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same.... "
I’ve got my own theory on cumming and orgasms, they are totally separate to each other.....only my opinion but I’ve done extensive research on it over a number of years...... |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same....
I’ve got my own theory on cumming and orgasms, they are totally separate to each other.....only my opinion but I’ve done extensive research on it over a number of years......"
practical or theoretical? |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same....
I’ve got my own theory on cumming and orgasms, they are totally separate to each other.....only my opinion but I’ve done extensive research on it over a number of years......practical or theoretical? "
Practical |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Am I alone?
I really envy women who get to cum whilst having a cock deep inside of them.
I know I can use toys.. But it's not the same....
I’ve got my own theory on cumming and orgasms, they are totally separate to each other.....only my opinion but I’ve done extensive research on it over a number of years......practical or theoretical?
Practical "
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Funny you should say this my last 4 sexual partners had said the same, yet I’ve had all of them squirting and with regularity.
Yet with my ex wife after 15 years together it really happened.
My theory is, it’s not the size of the dick ...the foreplay starts from the mind and before the bedroom.
I lost my wife as I paid her no attention, but was the opposite with these women and unless they was lying about there pasts, they definitely didn’t fake the mess they all made  |
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"Funny you should say this my last 4 sexual partners had said the same, yet I’ve had all of them squirting and with regularity.
Yet with my ex wife after 15 years together it really happened.
My theory is, it’s not the size of the dick ...the foreplay starts from the mind and before the bedroom.
I lost my wife as I paid her no attention, but was the opposite with these women and unless they was lying about there pasts, they definitely didn’t fake the mess they all made "
I don't mean to put you down, but Women can squirt without a sniff of an orgasm.
It's not proof, but I do agree that foreplay and mental stimulation are vital. x |
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By *ots2loveCouple
over a year ago
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"Never through fab sex, always had to simultaneously play with my clit. But when I was really intimately connected to my husband I had the most amazing penetrative orgasms. Far more powerful than a clitoral one and leave me feeling emotional!! Would love to have that again. "
Oh I know that feeling too.....nothing like it in the world.
It’s all in the brain and the mental connections we make. Orgasms so
powerful you cry afterwards... |
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"Funny you should say this my last 4 sexual partners had said the same, yet I’ve had all of them squirting and with regularity.
Yet with my ex wife after 15 years together it really happened.
My theory is, it’s not the size of the dick ...the foreplay starts from the mind and before the bedroom.
I lost my wife as I paid her no attention, but was the opposite with these women and unless they was lying about there pasts, they definitely didn’t fake the mess they all made
I don't mean to put you down, but Women can squirt without a sniff of an orgasm.
It's not proof, but I do agree that foreplay and mental stimulation are vital. x"
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"Mey who was an escort and literally had hundreds of guys while we were together told me she rarely had an orgasm through sex with someone. Although she enjoyed sex, both outside of work and in, normally she only came when masturbating on her own using a teddy bear she'd had when a child and had first used it when she started to masturbate. We had been seeing each other for 1 year and then living together for another 2 years. One night we had made love and afterwards it was something like only the 6th or 7th time she had had an orgasm during sex, I felt quite chuffed. As I say ehe did enjoy sex, even with most punters but lived without orgasms."
The lady didn't even come with oral, just normally masturbation apart from those 5 or 6 times. |
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"I have never been able to orgasm through penetration.
Sit tight - I'm going to drone on for a bit but I will get to a suggestion or two at the end which I hope might be useful.
Have you been able to orgasm from (penetrative) fingering? I ask because my research (;)) suggests that's usually achieved through g-spot stimulation. The g-spot corresponds with the back end of the clitoris and, in some sense, stimulating the g-spot is stimulating the clitoris.
Now everyone is different and there's a fair variation in just how far above the g-spot that back end of the clitoris sits (when the woman is on her back). For some women it sits quite far above and can be difficult to stimulate from the inside.
If that's the cause of your difficulty, you might be able to overcome it by pressing down on the pubic bone while having sex, thus pushing the back end of the clitoris into contact with the lovely cock you'd like to cum on . Or try changing angles or positions, like the pillow under the back mentioned above.
Or maybe get fingers, a willing friendly tongue, or toys working on your clitoris from the outside while you fuck. It maybe didn't cause it but at least you get to cum with a cock in you.
Or- don't worry about it. It sounds like you have some pretty good orgasms without it.
Hat"
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I guess I am quite lucky as my best orgasms are always from penetrative sex. Also, an average sized cock works best too. Oral without use of fingers or my glass dildo, as great as it feels, won't make me orgasm... It's not always guaranteed then either really as I just, really love a gorgeous man with his cock inside me, too much, I think |
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"Never through fab sex, always had to simultaneously play with my clit. But when I was really intimately connected to my husband I had the most amazing penetrative orgasms. Far more powerful than a clitoral one and leave me feeling emotional!! Would love to have that again.
Oh I know that feeling too.....nothing like it in the world.
It’s all in the brain and the mental connections we make. Orgasms so
powerful you cry afterwards..."
Yes I've had this kind too, it's like a wave of emotions rippling through me and then I just cry but it's not because I'm sad and it's not a full on sobbing just a little cry x |
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