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Has anyone ever meet and had a relationship
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi am wondering if anyone has ever meet on fabswingers and gone on to have a relationship?
Am single at present but love the sex but also wouldn't mind a relationship
Can you have both?
Rob x |
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mmmmmmmmm i must be a matchmaker !! introduced one female to a guy she left her hubby for him !!! another friend i know as stopped swinging since she met a guy on here so hey ho xx ps im looking also lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i got a mate of mine on here and her 3rd meet was so good they moved in after seeing each other for 6 months... he asked her to marry him on christmas day and got engaged on that day,, think the date will be set for sugust 2013 awww ,.. both never went looking for love, but never say never x |
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"mmmmmmmmm i must be a matchmaker !! introduced one female to a guy she left her hubby for him !!! another friend i know as stopped swinging since she met a guy on here so hey ho xx ps im looking also lol"
haha that happens to me to, was gonna change my name to cilla black |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As they say never say never...... Yes it is possible to have a relationship. And even fall in love on here. We are after all only human. But what I've found trusting someone from here can be pretty hard. Best to be completely honest and open. Then it stands a chance. |
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Yes....me and The Rainman met at a swingers party in July 2010(although we had been saying hello in the chat room for about a year before that). We had a good time at the party ....agreed to meet a fortnight or so later and been together ever since. Mind you,it took several months before we actually admitted that we had developed into a relationship....and even then it took Soapy to point out the fact...me and Bernie were just happily "going with the flow". Have to say though...we're very, very happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no but have had several marriage proposals lol"
i met one guy who was a single dad and after only two meets he wanted to move him and his daughter into my house |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it does happen.....you never know when its gonna hit you..but then again you never know when it gets smashed..id say tread VERY CAREFUl....one two many users but thats in life generally but a damn lot on here also...just enjoy the fun.....easier |
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"Yes it does happen.....you never know when its gonna hit you..but then again you never know when it gets smashed..id say tread VERY CAREFUl....one two many users but thats in life generally but a damn lot on here also...just enjoy the fun.....easier"
Have to agree there are people that take your kindness for weakness and chat a load of shit!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does happen.....you never know when its gonna hit you..but then again you never know when it gets smashed..id say tread VERY CAREFUl....one two many users but thats in life generally but a damn lot on here also...just enjoy the fun.....easier
Have to agree there are people that take your kindness for weakness andtr chat a load of shit!! "
Ohhhh indeedy there is ...think a long look in mirror is needed for some...hey ho i say....goes around comes around.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no but have had several marriage proposals lol"
Gemini sweetheart will you!!!!!!
erm tell me what the best proposal is you have had hahahaha besides I have a sore knee at min xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it does happen.....you never know when its gonna hit you..but then again you never know when it gets smashed..id say tread VERY CAREFUl....one two many users but thats in life generally but a damn lot on here also...just enjoy the fun.....easier
Have to agree there are people that take your kindness for weakness andtr chat a load of shit!!
Ohhhh indeedy there is ...think a long look in mirror is needed for some...hey ho i say....goes around comes around.... "
Karma has a funny way of biting back. I met someone I really liked, thought things were going well, when I discovered things weren't as they seemed. Several months later, he had an accident and broke a leg and an arm. Wouldn't wish pain on anyone, but that was karma in spades! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi am wondering if anyone has ever meet on fabswingers and gone on to have a relationship?
Am single at present but love the sex but also wouldn't mind a relationship
Can you have both?
Rob x"
I certainly hope so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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YES ! I HAVE TWICE! never again , was brill when we was swinging , but both girlies insisted we stop swinging , and the last girlie actually moved in with me and the sex totally dried up , that is why i am back on here . BACK x to having fun , and lots of it i hope , I actually want a regular lady for fun ,and guess a FUCK BUDDY to meet regular for fun without all the HASSLE . frankie xx |
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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago
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Swinging and a relationship can work. I'm happily married and I am a swinger, even though my hubby isn't anymore. It sounds odd to most people, but it can work, it does for us.
A x |
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I hope so, I like being with someone and being in love, I did it for over 12 years but dont want to have sex with the same person forever, and i said this to my ex at 17! What a weird thing to think of at such a young age and all loved up. He wasn't prepared to share me, and i wasn't prepared to cheat....obviously something had to give. So now im a single girl on a swingers site, having fun and if anything was to creep up...cool if not still making friends, getting out the house and getting laid. Can't complain :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging and a relationship can work. I'm happily married and I am a swinger, even though my hubby isn't anymore. It sounds odd to most people, but it can work, it does for us.
A x "
Nope don't sound odd ta me
I'm pulling away from the physical side as well
And when I move to Scotland I'll be doing very little if any swinging other than going to socials
Entirely my choice after 30 years on the scene
But my other half will be carrying on no problem xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bin there done the relationship thing on here, got burnt never again"
bin there done that also, got the tshirt and fookin hate the thing now as it doesnt go with my boots
single for 7 months and intend on staying that way for a lot longer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bin there done the relationship thing on here, got burnt never again
Never say never you don't know who is going to smack ya in the gob when it comes to romance... "
no you dont but you can choose how you respond to your feelings, i would never get into a relationship again and i know that even if i had genuine feeling for someone i still wouldnt get intio a relationship, i know because i have been there, i guy i used to meet about 2 years ago, met him semi regular and i could feel i was falling for him, but i also knew it wasnt right so i sent him a message saying i didnt want to meet him again, it was hard and i missed him for a while but over all i knew it was the right thing to do
You cant help having felings for someone, we are all human but we do have conrtol on if we follow them feeling thro
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"Bin there done the relationship thing on here, got burnt never again
Never say never you don't know who is going to smack ya in the gob when it comes to romance...
no you dont but you can choose how you respond to your feelings, i would never get into a relationship again and i know that even if i had genuine feeling for someone i still wouldnt get intio a relationship, i know because i have been there, i guy i used to meet about 2 years ago, met him semi regular and i could feel i was falling for him, but i also knew it wasnt right so i sent him a message saying i didnt want to meet him again, it was hard and i missed him for a while but over all i knew it was the right thing to do
You cant help having felings for someone, we are all human but we do have conrtol on if we follow them feeling thro
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Very true naughty can't agree with you more. I have had feelings for someone that I knew that if I told him it would just make things harder on me as he did not feel the same as me. I just put the feelings aside and did not see him again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to meet a nice girl swinger on here and have a relationship with her, just think its impossible! "
nothings impossible
The biggest problem i have found from singles who meet on here and become a couple is soon as they have a partner they dont feel so comfy doing this after all, i know no end of people who have met on here and stopped swinging, or became a couple and all of a sudden the womans only allowed to play with other fems etc
Ive done this as a couple and as a single and its very very different when you have someone else to consider in your swinging life and not everyone can handle that, maybe because its because they have been used to doing it alone and not having to worry about anyone else, maybe its because they have never experienced the greed eyed monster before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm well u could be totally right there with the whole jealousy thing, but i just see swinging as an extra bit of fun and it doesnt mean anything. long as i go home or have my partner with me at the end of the night im happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thats cause you had had one already hunni. i havent but would like to try it xx"
haha sorry wasnt pushing my views on you i was just talking generally
There are some things i miss about being in a relationship but i dont miss them enough to want another |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah i know u were only talking generally babe. and i miss the relationship its been a while, thats cause im a toucjy feely sort of person lol"
I have met some really nice guys on here that I care about lots, but as for a relationship? Was 19 years married, then with someone for 8, that was enough. But who knows. I like touchy feel guys btw!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes we meet on here ,we both want looking .but wouldnt be with out each other now .we got engaged on xams day "
Same as us,i met him on here when we are both on here as singles,i wasnt looking for a relationship just looking for fun.. We have been together 5 years now xx
P.s Congrats on your engagement x |
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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago
north wales / chester |
"Hi am wondering if anyone has ever meet on fabswingers and gone on to have a relationship?
Am single at present but love the sex but also wouldn't mind a relationship
Can you have both?
Rob x"
id love both lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually, the first time I was on here, and the first meet I ever had; we got into a relationship.
She was the most amazing, beautiful, charismatic and amazing female I have ever met, and ever will meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually, the first time I was on here, and the first meet I ever had; we got into a relationship.
She was the most amazing, beautiful, charismatic and amazing female I have ever met, and ever will meet. |
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