Well it doesn't seem to have done Notnot any harm asking, we're very different people but I have the advantage of being more central than Southampton being close to Manchester. I think I may have already got some interest from one very attractive lady member so who knows? I would like a relationship with someone into the swinging scene, it's something I enjoy so ideal for a 'partner' who's into the same or whatever someone wants describing as, (old fashioned I know but I still think of a partner as someone you're in business with). Let me know if interested and we can take it from there! |
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Not to be completely facetious here, but I, or one, am wondering.
Are you looking to date? as noted in your headline? Which to me implies a monogamous relationship? (at least to start)
Are you looking to meet a 2nd partner? As in polyamory?
Are you looking for a swinging partner? (which isn't a date....).
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"Not to be completely facetious here, but I, or one, am wondering.
Are you looking to date? as noted in your headline? Which to me implies a monogamous relationship? (at least to start)
Are you looking to meet a 2nd partner? As in polyamory?
Are you looking for a swinging partner? (which isn't a date....).
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The date would be an initial meet to see how we got on. After that to see each other on a regular basis, (surely that's dating?) However we would both be up for swinging fun, I suppose mainly together, but who knows some separate. Some friends of mine have developed a relationship like this over the last few months, it seems to be working for them.
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"The date would be an initial meet to see how we got on. After that to see each other on a regular basis, (surely that's dating?) However we would both be up for swinging fun, I suppose mainly together, but who knows some separate. Some friends of mine have developed a relationship like this over the last few months, it seems to be working for them.
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an initial meet is...a meet. Not necessarily a date?
Regular swinging fun--a fuck buddy??
Love is definitely possible here, but doesn't sound like that's what you're advertising for.
Why not just say you're looking for a swinging buddy? |
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"The date would be an initial meet to see how we got on. After that to see each other on a regular basis, (surely that's dating?) However we would both be up for swinging fun, I suppose mainly together, but who knows some separate. Some friends of mine have developed a relationship like this over the last few months, it seems to be working for them.
an initial meet is...a a meet. Not necessarily a date?
Regular swinging fun--a fuck buddy??
Love is definitely possible here, but doesn't sound like that's what you're advertising for.
Why not just say you're looking for a swinging buddy?"
"an initial meet is...a meet." Just meeting up somewhere, probably public and take it from there. It could be just a swinging partner but who knows what comes from any encounter in life?
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