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For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit |
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Hinted at a girl from work
Worked really well, added benefit she was a friend anyway so some lovely unhurried fun.
Made me feel like a stud when the 3 of us when to Chams lol. Sadly, both fell asleep in my lap at the bar! Still, looked like I wore them out (not the truth!)
She is so nice she keeps getting boyfriends so we stand back then |
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Just came up with a great idea, will start a new thread and see what happens. Couple wife/gf swap. Only open to couples, we send Sue to you for an FFM and you send your wife/gf to us for an FFM, who would be up for it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit "
Once, earlier this year, she came to ours, had a coffee and a chat then the girls went upstairs to “warm up” then I was summoned to join them! Had a great time and she was a lovely lady, but personally I much prefer mmf.
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over a year ago
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club
visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit "
We had one before she was amazing but she's not playing anymore would love to have another |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a regular female we both play with we met her in a club a few times now she comes and stays with us for a night or two when we are all free and we still do club visits together xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples why not if agreed .....you have two couples just have one female from one couple join the other couple then have have it reversed,So everyone gets their ffm? |
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"Couples why not if agreed .....you have two couples just have one female from one couple join the other couple then have have it reversed,So everyone gets their ffm? "
I guess because nobody wants to be left out |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Because we play in a certain way, we attract ladies who like certain rooms in clubs (not always we have friends that play outside fet).
We waited for ages for a girl to join us and decided to go where they meet and not expect them to come to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I have been in couples I've found it easier to achieve in clubs. As a single bi female I don't meet couples on fab, I much prefer to meet couples in clubs or social events so I can get a feel for them and see how they interact together |
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"Couples why not if agreed .....you have two couples just have one female from one couple join the other couple then have have it reversed,So everyone gets their ffm?
I guess because nobody wants to be left out " well sharing is caring or do the full swap too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to meet couples but each time the male half then wanted to meet me behind their partners back. I even had one instance where I was messaged from the fem single profile saying she was looking forward to hearing about me and her hubbys next solo session (turns out he messaged from her profile). |
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit "
Hi op!
I think I can safely say I’m as ‘genuine ‘ as it gets - and I’ve had lots of fun with some lovely couples! However - I’ll only play with them at clubs and parties!
Here’s why:
Let’s say I develop a rapport with a couple and go to their home.
Immediately there’s an imbalance and - logically - a threat to me! Namely - there are two of them and one of me!
The guy, by dint of biology, is almost certainly going to be stronger than me - the woman may or may not be!
Who’s to guarantee that if I decide I’m not ‘feeling it’ either before or during play, they’re going to immediately accept it graciously and let me leave?
I’ve had an awkward situation in a hotel room with a couple where I felt pretty much kid*apped! When I said I wanted to leave the room to go to the bar and get a drink and some water, the fem sent the chap down to get it so I felt compelled to stay in the room! They were reluctant to let me leave later on - it was awkward! It would have been even more uncomfortable if I’d gone to their home!
Remember couples - any single fem coming to your home is making themselves very vulnerable and putting you in a position of trust! Most couples are great and would absolutely respect and value that trust - but not all!
Can you understand now why many single ladies prefer to stick to clubs and parties for couples play? Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of FFM meets for us, it’s a bit of a vicious circle if you are a couple only looking for FFM meets (we are not) as lots of singles girls avoid these couples for lots of reasons..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We seem to attract more women on other apps which is okay but it says something if a single woman is willing to meet a couple for sex without any type of vetting which is scary. I personally always communicate with a woman so she feels safe and if I ever get the sense of any awkwardness I take her to the side and sweetly say we aren't going to go further. A woman's sixth sense is so powerful and so is girl code |
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over a year ago
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I’ve (Roxannabelle) had threesomes in the past but never organised ones, just ones that have naturally happened. Now I’m with Rossi we would love to find a female to play with together. We recently found a gorgeous girl on fab and enjoyed a very hot video chat but due to other circumstances for her we had to cancel our meet. I’m sure we will get our fantasy FFM soon enough |
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit
Hi op!
I think I can safely say I’m as ‘genuine ‘ as it gets - and I’ve had lots of fun with some lovely couples! However - I’ll only play with them at clubs and parties!
Here’s why:
Let’s say I develop a rapport with a couple and go to their home.
Immediately there’s an imbalance and - logically - a threat to me! Namely - there are two of them and one of me!
The guy, by dint of biology, is almost certainly going to be stronger than me - the woman may or may not be!
Who’s to guarantee that if I decide I’m not ‘feeling it’ either before or during play, they’re going to immediately accept it graciously and let me leave?
I’ve had an awkward situation in a hotel room with a couple where I felt pretty much kid*apped! When I said I wanted to leave the room to go to the bar and get a drink and some water, the fem sent the chap down to get it so I felt compelled to stay in the room! They were reluctant to let me leave later on - it was awkward! It would have been even more uncomfortable if I’d gone to their home!
Remember couples - any single fem coming to your home is making themselves very vulnerable and putting you in a position of trust! Most couples are great and would absolutely respect and value that trust - but not all!
Can you understand now why many single ladies prefer to stick to clubs and parties for couples play? Xxx"
You have an absolute valid point. Safety and feeling comfortable is paramount in this situation for single ladies
Miss |
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We have had quite a few FFM meets, some met off here, some off other sites and some who were friends, some we met regularly and one or two were one offs, all very enjoyable. To us it’s all about what makes the other lady feel comfortable, safe and she enjoys, as others have said there is 2 of us so we try to be good hosts |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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We've had a few FFM meets but they've almost all been with females who were part of a couple but occasionally played alone. The 2 exceptions were someone who's no longer on the site and a spontaneous meet with someone we met on a night out. |
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So many couples looknig to meet a single female have the rong attitude or approach its wasy to see why many single women are put off.
You look at couples profiles and they are really angsty towards single men (all they have to do is block them) so as a woman you think wow best avoid I don't need that level of aggression.
Other couples its all female photos on their profile yet they expect you to meet them both! Thats another no thanks avoid.
More just haven't a clue how to itroduce themselves they think just because single men will jump through hoops to meet them women will too! Well most won't it puts thjem off.
Finally a lot don't realise it can be intimidating for a single women to meet a couple you need to make them feel at ease. Going on about them being timewasters, picture collectors are fake just shouts t oa woman this couple have issues best avoid.
If a couple is struggling to meet a single women then its more than likley them and how they interact with people.
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We have had this, met through socials, hit it off and had them to stay for the weekend with us, 1 of the lovely ladies has now become a good friend who comes just to stay with us without the expection of play x |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"So many couples looknig to meet a single female have the rong attitude or approach its wasy to see why many single women are put off.
You look at couples profiles and they are really angsty towards single men (all they have to do is block them) so as a woman you think wow best avoid I don't need that level of aggression.
Other couples its all female photos on their profile yet they expect you to meet them both! Thats another no thanks avoid.
More just haven't a clue how to itroduce themselves they think just because single men will jump through hoops to meet them women will too! Well most won't it puts thjem off.
Finally a lot don't realise it can be intimidating for a single women to meet a couple you need to make them feel at ease. Going on about them being timewasters, picture collectors are fake just shouts t oa woman this couple have issues best avoid.
If a couple is struggling to meet a single women then its more than likley them and how they interact with people.
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So give us a reason you wouldn’t meet us.... hummp. |
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit "
Not us gave up looking now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve been thinking on and off for sometime about trying this, but I just find couples too intimidating. Or maybe the right couple hasn’t come along yet? |
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit "
We know a few single women that we have had ffm fun with as well as couples that meet seperate if this counts lol |
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I'm a Unicorn! Have played with two couples I've met on here. one of them became besties and we are firm friends who occasionally play now
Always on the look out for more couples to play with, but it's tough enough sometimes to find a time to meet for a social, let alone meet to play I've met up with a few couple for socials and then it just fizzles after that.
Any couple in the Bristol/South West who wants to meet up with me, check out my profile, PM and we can go from there! |
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"I’ve been thinking on and off for sometime about trying this, but I just find couples too intimidating. Or maybe the right couple hasn’t come along yet? "
I can imagine it can be very daunting to meet couples.. but we aren’t all that bad!! Well... my other half is a sarcastic w**ker but funnily enough quite likeable !
We are looking for friendship / banter & fun with other females & Males to build a comfortable rapport & have regular socials / playtime.
More than happy to chat if we tickle your fancy
Miss P x |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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All of our FFM meets have come through Fab and been visits at home, either ours or theirs.
We’ve also been to clubs but not met anyone we wanted to be more than sociable with, so it’s been less successful for us in that regard - although though we’ve had a lot of fun visiting the clubs nevertheless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive met couples both at clubs and in their homes. As mentioned above being in a couples homes means potential risk to you as a single lady. I prefer clubs as i can go in my own time and theres an element of it being safer. Through fab i’ve met some lovely couples though. |
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We have been trying to find a single female for 5 years, in my different sites Both at clubs and home meets, but still had no luck. Like many others here we have had many fakes or pic collectors.
We always let the lady call the shots, as we understand there are safety concerns, and have been happy for Mrs Brum to chat or meet alone for a social if asked. But no matter what we do or say, we have no luck.
Given up now, and got to a point that we both feel it’s time to leave the scene. |
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit
Hi op!
I think I can safely say I’m as ‘genuine ‘ as it gets - and I’ve had lots of fun with some lovely couples! However - I’ll only play with them at clubs and parties!
Here’s why:
Let’s say I develop a rapport with a couple and go to their home.
Immediately there’s an imbalance and - logically - a threat to me! Namely - there are two of them and one of me!
The guy, by dint of biology, is almost certainly going to be stronger than me - the woman may or may not be!
Who’s to guarantee that if I decide I’m not ‘feeling it’ either before or during play, they’re going to immediately accept it graciously and let me leave?
I’ve had an awkward situation in a hotel room with a couple where I felt pretty much kid*apped! When I said I wanted to leave the room to go to the bar and get a drink and some water, the fem sent the chap down to get it so I felt compelled to stay in the room! They were reluctant to let me leave later on - it was awkward! It would have been even more uncomfortable if I’d gone to their home!
Remember couples - any single fem coming to your home is making themselves very vulnerable and putting you in a position of trust! Most couples are great and would absolutely respect and value that trust - but not all!
Can you understand now why many single ladies prefer to stick to clubs and parties for couples play? Xxx"
My sentiments exactly. So many couples neglect to think about how vulnerable a single lady may feel when meeting a couple of strangers and rarely put themselves in the lady’s shoes. Those who make it clear they’ve already thought about how to make me feel 100% comfortable and safe go to the top of my hotlist xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Keep looking you will find willing sexy fems. I was in a couple and we had great fun on lots of occasions but it did take a lot of graft tbf and sometimes it can be disappointing when it doesn’t turn into something. We didn’t use clubs. It’ll happen for you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a single female and I've met some great couples over the years. I do feel it's getting more difficult to find genuine couples these days.
I find socials and clubs are a good way to meet, then I can get a true idea of what the couple are like. Far too many have issues, such as jealousy, insecurity, or they just want to treat me as a fuck toy.
It's worth it when you meet the right couple though and there is mutual fun and respect for all three people. |
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit "
Not yet:/
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"Just came up with a great idea, will start a new thread and see what happens. Couple wife/gf swap. Only open to couples, we send Sue to you for an FFM and you send your wife/gf to us for an FFM, who would be up for it? "
That's the sort of fun we would be happy to have, we aren't into cuckold but are both happy to do this.
Bloody pity you are so far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have managed it about 8 times. .and one fffm! We chatted and met through here, then came to clubs to get naughty (as we can't accommodate), but one hotel and one at her house
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We had a regular liaison with a lovely lady a few years back. She was a friend and lover for us both. It was a great exclusive relationship very laid back and respectful. She met the man of her dreams and is happily exclusive with him now although we still remain friends. This was our perfect scenario. |
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We have played with a girl friend of ours on a couple of occasions and had a great time. It is finding a couple we both wanna play with, where I fancy both of them too that is proving more difficult tbh Makes me laugh that single guys think women find other women easier than they do though |
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We have - and of course, would like to have more! In contrast to others, we've never even come close to in a club - whether it's us or or radar (or lack of) we're not sure, but it does show you can achieve it through Fab x |
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"For ages we have been looking for a single female for an FFM and we are under no illusion that this is almost impossible The question is how many couples have succeeded? No club visits, just a full on sexy, hot sensual, filthy, home visit "
HaHa ... |
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"I'm a Unicorn! Have played with two couples I've met on here. one of them became besties and we are firm friends who occasionally play now
Always on the look out for more couples to play with, but it's tough enough sometimes to find a time to meet for a social, let alone meet to play I've met up with a few couple for socials and then it just fizzles after that.
Any couple in the Bristol/South West who wants to meet up with me, check out my profile, PM and we can go from there!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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So far we have only invited one F to our actual home, most have met up with us at clubs from here. But it was a wonderful evening that we are repeating on Wednesday :D |
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