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Why don't people understand
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Move on there are plenty more fish in the sea as they say! If we have had to cancel a meet at the last min everyone has been cool, ok it is disappointing but hey that's life!
Perhaps its a wake up call for you to what that person is really like...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...
Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.
Unbelievable  "
its difficult not 2 b disappointed when u get yourself all hyped and pumped up 4 a meet, then it don't happen, but yeah your situations a little different....the worst is when the meet actually happens and falls way short of expectations, something that makes me abit weary now, so i try not 2 expect 2 much b4 hand..really really try! |
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that is the reason why we dont tend to make arrangements to meet we usually sway more towards the last min type of meet 
it probably doesnt work for everyone but it works for us as we find the more we chat and try to arrange things the less likely it happens (in our experience anyway)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often"
I'm not sure that's entirely fair. The OP has made a valid point and all sorts of things can stop a meet from going ahead. People on here all have their own personal circumstances and to assume that he is cheating on someone is a leap. Speaks more of your experience than of the OP perhaps?
Sorry. I don't usually comment on such posts, but...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right, this is probably gonna sound mean. Warning over lol.
But some people are just too desperate to understand that swingers have a life outside of... well.. swinging
Some people can be extremely pushy, but you can get lucky with the people who are actually in the same position as you, but still talk to you even if there isn't a meet anytime soon between you. We are lucky, we have found people like that.
You'll find someone who has a life outside of fab |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...
Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.
Unbelievable "
in which case.... 2 things
1) why would you want to meet someone if that is the way they felt???
2) why are you stressing over it????
if that is life and that is who they are then why get annoyed.....
things happen... move on..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...
Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.
Unbelievable "
ok im sorry im free to play chess next friday if you can make it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely especially those who don't have kids and don't understand that those of us that have kids, put them first
Just move on, plenty more fish in the sea as they say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually I'm quite interested in getting a meet now so I can cancel at the last minute and be classed as a timewaster to go along with "no good single guy"!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...
Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.
Unbelievable
its difficult not 2 b disappointed when u get yourself all hyped and pumped up 4 a meet, then it don't happen"
Actually it does not bother me at all if people cancel a meet, i just come on here and find someone to replace them, its no big deal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive only cancelled a meet once in 11 years of doing this and that was when i was a couple as my daughter cut her leg open and we had to take her to the hospital, i have never had to cancel a meet in the 2 and a half years ive been single as i only arrange meets when my daughter is at her dads there for i dont have the babysitter letting me down problem, of course even if she was at her dads and she became ill id cancel and go to her but thats never happened as yet
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"Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often
I'm not sure that's entirely fair. The OP has made a valid point and all sorts of things can stop a meet from going ahead. People on here all have their own personal circumstances and to assume that he is cheating on someone is a leap. Speaks more of your experience than of the OP perhaps?
Sorry. I don't usually comment on such posts, but... "
I would agree with you if i had assumed but seeing as he has it on his profile, its not an assumption |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...
Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.
Unbelievable
its difficult not 2 b disappointed when u get yourself all hyped and pumped up 4 a meet, then it don't happen
Actually it does not bother me at all if people cancel a meet, i just come on here and find someone to replace them, its no big deal "
haha...ohhh, your frosty! |
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